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Try some DOPE.

EDacIouSX

don't try dope that's fucking retarded.

Make her go running/exercise with you. Exercising 3 times a week offers the same results as taking anti-depressant pills. It has something to do with the extra oxygen the brain receives when exercising, I could go into details blah blah but just search it online.

When I'm depressed I work out, emotionally I feel a lot better and am able to think clearer after a good work out.

jamg

lol @ all you idiots saying it's contagious. no, it isn't.

i'm 21, have had major depressive disorder for over 11 years. (the fucked up part is that i kept on asking myself why i was feeling this way when i was 10-13 years old )

whatever you do, dont stop your support to her. as much as she doesn't feel like she needs it, you NEED to be there to help her out.

you should try and get her to workout with you. exercise does work, for the time being. i'm a product of getting jacked and buff, because my depression motivated me in the gym, but it's not enough to fully recover. come back to the real world, and things are the same.

in the end, she's the one that needs to get better. you can only do so much to be there to help her out, but just be there to do it when you can, and when she needs you. if you fail her now, it just might push her over the edge and she might end up offing herself.

Chaluska

Just tell her to look at this picture for like an hour

Chaluska

+1

a little KB, and some funny movies. some pizza, cheetoes, ice cream bars, and some GOOD sound system..

doubleclutchinlikeishould

A little bud never hurt anyone, unless you mention it on Zilvia. Then you get pinked. So hopefully, since this is a legitimate medical concern, that will be taken into consideration...

I do think pot can be helpful, but as far as a legitimate cure.. probably not. Its more like putting a band aid on a gunshot wound.

Weed can be very helpful for those who aren't depressed, but are just feeling down. When you're legitimately depressed, youre just masking the symptoms with the weed- its not actually helping the problem. Temporary relief is all youre getting from it. When you come down, youre just as depressed as you were before smoking.

And PS, dope is Heroin. Dont do that shit.

exitspeed

How would you know you get pinked on Zilvia for talking about dope. You "just joined"....

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Walperstyle

Totally is contagious. According to Robert Kiyosaki, he says if you want to be successful in life, hang around successful people. If you are in a place that has no jobs, and everyone is angry or sad or depressed.... get out of town.

If you have 1 friend thats depressed, get them to read a few good books, and hang around different people.

I use to be depressed working at the bank years ago, never going to make enough to buy my own house. Moved to Alberta, hung around with my cousins who are real-estate agents and investors, now I have my own house, people paying my mortgage. Makes suffering a lot easier to cope with!

Death is a part of life. Realize some day you are going to die people, then start living, start taking chances.

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jamg

so if i hang out with gay people all the time, i'm going to turn gay?

LMAO, child please.

Corbic

But what if you started having gay sex all the time, does that mean your gay?

LimeLite Racing

Hitting rough patches is a part of life. She's not the only person in the world, we've all lost someone close to us. Life goes on. She needs to get over it.

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mgs_snake01

give her a 40 she would understand

LimeLite Racing

Alcohol is probably the last thing she needs.

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gusisboosted

As far as using drugs to control depression, the only one that truly works is pot.
I have a friend who is legitimately prescribed pot for his depression problems.


Also some doctors out there recommend heavy doses of Shrooms and LSD, having a moment of EGO death can be all the kick some one needs to snap out of depression.

But of course there is also those who have the severe "chemical imbalances".
Sadly those people where just dealt a shitty hand in life.

Just remind her we all go through rough patches in life, pfff i sure as hell did not too long ago, and the feeling of sadness sucks. Just tell her to keep her chin up bro. And what ever you do, don't abandon her. If you get sick of dealing with her pass her on to some one else who will care about her. But what ever you do dont abandon her, people going through depression feel like no one cares and no one matters, therefore they feel no need to stick around. As long as they feel even one sliver of support they wont off themselves... If all else fails then thats why we have forced hospitalization.

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BoostSlideWayz

I went through a depression period before, really hard on people. I didnt even leave my room for about a year just because i felt like there was no point to get out or to leave and you constantly do think about death.After not being able to get a job from countless places ive applied and friends fading away and not wanting to hang out is what really got me there. I kinda still am going through it, but honestly giving up on her or anyone during depression can really be deadly. Someone that will leave her or make her feel like there is another person out of her life will just worsen it. It may be annoying for you but if you care about someone you shouldn't give up.

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LimeLite Racing

Any of you guys ever thought about starting up an emo band? Might make the charts.

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theicecreamdan

l...o...l .

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20 til 3

I've been in a very similar place man... i had a best friend kill him self and his gf/ brother were complete wrecks.... honestly having pot around made it 10x easier... sounds retarded but it makes your mind see things differently.

Another big thing is just talking about it with her, figuring out why he did it and finding a way to get over that fact. Suicide is a rising thing in the world... it sucks, i think its 6 men to every 1 women... the worlds fucked up

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frftw

this person is a fucking idiot. Whatever she does is NOT UR FAULT just remember whatever happnes to KEeP UR HEAD UP u come first always

tell her this about her bf, it wasnt her fault and she has to move on

lots of good advice on here, antidepressents can work wonders when perscribed properly and matched to the right person, as well as professional medical help. but at the end of they day she is the only one who can help herself.

stay strong and keep on loving her, she needs it more than ever. love is the most powerfull medicine

i hope this works out

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frftw

also alcohol. beg nono
weed is not much better. It distracts you but wont make u feel better. I find that all drugs, especially weed, enhance how u r feeling so if ur feeling depressed and u smoke, ur gonna feel more depressed. at least thats how it works with me...

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DS562

its all just a crutch. drugs will never solve anything

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BustedS13

1.) booze and weed are terrible suggestions

2.)
while i can't do this because she lives in Japan and is way more athletic than me anyway (i'd definitely just slow her down), i've been out riding my bike, losing weight, all that good shit, and it's definitely made me feel a lot better. being sedentary is easily the worst thing you can do to yourself, it fucks you up in every aspect.

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FRpilot

there are a lot more people suffering from depression than i realized. nice to see that i am not the only one

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doubleclutchinlikeishould

I feel like depression is a lot more widespread than people think. Before I started on Prozac, I never considered myself depressed. It took a lot of convincing from friends and family to get me to finally start getting help for it. Now, looking back, its so clear to me that I was depressed, but at the time, it just felt normal.

Life shouldn't be a constant struggle to keep a decent mood. Thats what I was experiencing- just an overall struggle to keep myself in a positive mindset. You are definitely not alone- and recognizing that you are dealing with depression is, often times, half the battle. Keep working at it- through whatever means you find most effective. Whether it be through reading, meditation, medication, or any other means you find to be effective- just knowing and recognizing your problem puts you in a better position to help yourself than most.

mgs_snake01

i wasnt talking about 40 as a beer solution lol i was talking about the 240sx lol give her a car and let her enjoy her life

Walperstyle

Sexual peference and attitude are two different things. I would say for the most part, homosexuals are more outgoing positive people.

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eldine30

sigh. hard to understand