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axiomatik · 01-31-2011, 10:08 AM

It's also a much more serious surgery for the woman than the man......

theicecreamdan · 01-31-2011, 10:57 AM

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If making a mess is a priority, then you're still good to go.

trigjones · 01-31-2011, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by TheWolf

I don't understand the lure of vasectomy. The procedure was invented to allow couples, who are married and have had all the kids they wanted, an alternative form of birth control. To allow the wife to be off "the pill" before she drops dead of a blood clot. Since it doesn't protect against HIV or any STD's, in the dating scene it's less than ideal.

As the old wise sage sam kinison said "If you don't trust the p**sy, why are you f**king the p**sy?"

It would be meant, in my case, to make sure that I end up with a girl that also isn't interested in raising a family. In the dating scene, its useful only if the condom breaks or I make a stupid judgment call, which has already happened, and I've had the week of waiting while the girl decided whether to take the RU 486 pill or not.

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Originally Posted by lewisfk

no, it doesnt matter how u feel! If u find the right woman and she has the desire to have a kid, now what! Plus i use to assist with the procedure at my clinic and its very easy to due but hard as fuck to undo regardless of the results! this comment is for anyone who is thinking of doing this!

What now? I am assuming this means that Person A (me) is a total p*ssy that can't stand up for himself, and as soon as I meet a girl that wants a kid, I am going to allow her to tell me what to do and what path to take in life.

Any guy out here who feels they need to do what their girlfriend wants beyond reasonable requests needs to man up. Watch Fight Club and pay attention to the dialogue when they are talking about being raised by single mothers. Don't be that dude standing outside the dressing room holding the girls purse. They do that ish so they can put you on display, so every other girl there will know that you can be manipulated.

Stop doing sh*t just because its a girl saying to do it, sex isn't that special that you need to give up your balls to get laid.

sidewaysil80 · 01-31-2011, 12:38 PM

i'm scheduled for one in march...but i also have 3 little ones. imo, just use rubbers or put bitches on the pill if your dating. but like you said, you make sure they are down with morning after pill/abortion. i don't see why you would want to do something permanent when there are plenty of other options out there.

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Originally Posted by trigjones

What now? I am assuming this means that Person A (me) is a total p*ssy that can't stand up for himself, and as soon as I meet a girl that wants a kid, I am going to allow her to tell me what to do and what path to take in life.

Any guy out here who feels they need to do what their girlfriend wants beyond reasonable requests needs to man up. Watch Fight Club and pay attention to the dialogue when they are talking about being raised by single mothers. Don't be that dude standing outside the dressing room holding the girls purse. They do that ish so they can put you on display, so every other girl there will know that you can be manipulated.

Stop doing sh*t just because its a girl saying to do it, sex isn't that special that you need to give up your balls to get laid.

you really really need to re-evaluate your manhood if holding a purse for your girl makes you feel like less of a man. not too mention i believe you have some serious issues if you feel that girls do shit like that to put you on display...i feel like no matter what decision you make you'll be unhappy because you seem wayyyyyyy to selfish to maintain a successful relationship. on second thought, get snipped...it's better for everyone.

nikkisixx69 · 01-31-2011, 04:39 PM

found it! epic vasectomy story (not that you are going to be doing this or anything)

copied and pasted from another site.................

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I'll try to sum up a funny story that happened a few years ago:

I got a vasectomy.

I met a girl soon afterwards. She was nice and attractive but with a selfish streak that raised a big red flag. She was 32 at the time and I could practically HEAR her biological clock ticking. Regardless, she was a good lay, easy on the eyes, and reasonably good company.

I did NOT tell her about my vasectomy and I always used a condom with her to protect against STDs. She assumed, obviously, that the condom was only used for birth control. Silly girl.

We date for a few months. I never made any move towards commitment but she brought it up ocassionally. For me, this was a casual but pleasant relationship. For her - as I was to find out - it was part of life-changing series of events that she was planning very carefully.

Four months into dating, I get the "I'm pregnant" talk. She's going on and on about how the condom must have broke and now we really need to think about getting married "for the baby". She's positively giddy. She has a baby in her and she thinks she's gonna have a good meal ticket (me) to go along with her new 7lb annuity.

At this point, I'm just as giddy. I get to pull the reverse "oops" on her. I figured that she slept with some bad boy and got knocked up. Good thing I was using condoms! Better still that I have a serious mistrust of women who can't think beyond their own uteri.

So I wait a couple of days to "think about all this." I meet her again. I say I don't want kids and that she should have an abortion. I know where this is going and sure enough it goes there. She goes completely bat**** insane on me. There were the usual insults about my manhood. There were threats of legal action. It was all very ugly and I was loving every minute of it.

Well, I let her stew for a few days. She leaves me nasty messages on my phone. She sends awful emails. I'm laughing hysterically.

It was time to drop the hammer. While she was stewing I was busy. First I get a notarized copy from the urologist who performed the vasectomy. Next I get a notarized copy of the TWO test results indicating a "negative test result for sperm" to show I'm sterile and shooting blanks. Finally, I get a letter from a shark attorney stating he has seen the other documents and is prepared to litigate against this woman if she continues to communicate with me in such an unpleasant manner. Also, the letter states that we will insist on DNA testing to show that the baby is not mine. I'm ready.

I meet with this woman at her place. I bring flowers and a small bit of jewelry to show I am willing to reconcile and assume my responsibilities as a new father. I also have stuck in my pocket the documents I have prepared.

She's all giddy again. Her plan is going perfectly - or so she thinks. We talk about our future. We have some pretty good sex. Then, as I am about to walk out the door, I ask her the $64,000 question. "Are you sure that this baby is mine?"

Well, she goes bat**** insane again. Hell, she ought to. Her plan could completely unravel if there is ANY question about my paternity. Oh, she's really screaming now. How dare I question her morals. Do I think she's a slut. I'm just trying to weasel out of my responsibilities... blah, blah, blah, yadda, yadda, yadda.

I'm not really mad. I'm kind of embarrassed for her. But since she won't shut up and the neighbors can hear all of this, I ask her to step back inside and sit down. She sits on the sofa and calms down a bit. She is glaring at me with all the moral self-righteousness that only a woman can muster up. She thinks she has me trapped. She is 100% convinced her plan has worked. Oh, the tangled web of lies and deceit she has wrought around herself and I am about to hack through them with a few pieces of paper.

I reach into my pocket slowly. I extract the three pieces of paper and unfold them slowly and deliberately.

I tell her simply, "You're screwed".

Her look doesn't change. There is no way she can fathom what I have prepared.

I continue. "I am sterile"

Her look changes just a bit. Something is beginning to sink in. Naturally, she reverts to women's logic. "You're full of ****. You're trapped and you know it."

I hold up the letter and the test results. "Three months before we met, I had a vasectomy. Here is a notarized letter from him stating what I had done. Here are two test results showing that I tested negative for the presence of sperm. Blanks. I am shooting blanks. That baby inside you is simply not mine."

This woman is not to be swayed by logic and clear documentation. "Bull****, those are fakes."

I was ready for that. "No, they are real. This last piece of paper is from my attorney. It's a simple letter to you that states if you pursue any kind of legal action against me for child support that I will insist on a DNA test to prove paternity, that is, to prove that your baby is not mine."

I give the woman all the documents. She reads them slowly, deliberately. With each passing second she can feel in her soul that she has made a very bad mistake. With denial swept away, she started to cry. It's a small cry at first. Then it becomes deeper and more painful. By the time she gets to the letter from the lawyer she is sobbing.

I had no sympathy for her. I turned and walked out the door. Even after I closed the door I could still hear her sobbing.

Epilogue -

I never heard directly from this woman again. I did hear through my friends that she did indeed have the baby. I also heard that the real father was some guy in a band she had met. I assumed that after 30, women stopped going after musicians, bikers, criminals, and thugs. Silly me for thinking the best of American women.

The Moral of the Story -

Get a vasectomy but keep it a secret.

sidewaysil80 · 01-31-2011, 05:34 PM

^^^^lol^^^^

thrax · 01-31-2011, 06:03 PM

Any time you have an operation, even a minor one, there is a risk for something to go wrong. So why risk it.
You're reasoning isn't entirely true. For example
Location: Seattle, WA
you live in the US which has a negative growth rate. So the whole argument of unwanted kids doesn't fly. Without the massive flux of immigrants the US would be shrinking. On top of that you are European raced judging by your description which means you are in a shrinking racial population group as well.

drift freaq · 01-31-2011, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by trigjones

What now? I am assuming this means that Person A (me) is a total p*ssy that can't stand up for himself, and as soon as I meet a girl that wants a kid, I am going to allow her to tell me what to do and what path to take in life.

Any guy out here who feels they need to do what their girlfriend wants beyond reasonable requests needs to man up. Watch Fight Club and pay attention to the dialogue when they are talking about being raised by single mothers. Don't be that dude standing outside the dressing room holding the girls purse. They do that ish so they can put you on display, so every other girl there will know that you can be manipulated.

Stop doing sh*t just because its a girl saying to do it, sex isn't that special that you need to give up your balls to get laid.

Wow lack of maturity owns you. LOL
First off all relationships are about compromise. Something that seems to be lost on you by the way you go on in this thread.
Second off, if you think everything you feel right now at the age of 27 is how you are going to feel at the age of 38? Well you are so clueless its not even funny.

Dude you have barely grown into a man at the age of 27 maturity wise.

Sorry guys but is a fact. Women usually mature emotionally fully around 24-25 guys usually 27-28.

Men do mature a lot later than women and we grow a lot wiser in our 30's.

Just because a guy is willing to go shopping with his girl or hold her purse outside a dressing room does not mean he is less of a man. It usually means he is a Gentleman and has realized relationships are about compromise.

He knows if he is willing to do that at least once in awhile he can do the things the girl may not be the least bit interested in doing.

If you think that makes him less of man? Then your lack of understanding of what makes a relationship work is phenomenal.

Oh and following Fight Club a fictional movie as grounds for how a man should conduct himself is ludicrous.

I live in Hollywood I know what film writers are like and moral compasses they are not! LOL

Oh and yes you should get a vasectomy because you would make an absolutely horrible father. Based off your own words in this thread.

marcencar · 01-31-2011, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by trigjones

Honestly, I don't know, most of the 240 drivers I see are around 18-22, and ya, still live with their parents. But their balls and brains function, and some of us are starting to plan out our future.

Thanks for proving my point.

daftphunk · 02-01-2011, 05:23 AM

This is the off-topic section so I definitely don't see what's wrong with posting this here. It's a community nonetheless and forums are typically a decent place to get lots of advice from many different people. I frequent a sneaker forum and the front page is full of advice seeking threads, i.e. stock advice, relationships, etc. Some people post some good shit in there.

Yeah you get your troll responses but the people who are serious about answering the question usually give great answers.

As per the topic. I'm biased and want many kids so I would say no cause you'll change your mind in the future... but I like the argument that since you hate kids so much you'll be a terrible father and you should definitely do it.

Bbsalexaz · 02-01-2011, 05:42 AM

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Originally Posted by nathanong87

this only applies if u are married.

what about the "i'm 30 and single, and dont wanna make lots of mini-me's from all the womenz i be sleeping wifz" scenario

Not always, my gf is getting her tubes tied soon... She and i are relatively young. Luckily she had her mother to seek for advice.

lewisfk · 02-01-2011, 09:01 AM

^^ hey bro, ice cold! ice cold! your not the first guy i meet who said he is doing this for himself, i give my medical spill, my doc who is doing the procedure gives his spill and snip snip! but the harshness of your tone says alot!

trigjones · 02-01-2011, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by sidewaysil80

you really really need to re-evaluate your manhood if holding a purse for your girl makes you feel like less of a man. not too mention i believe you have some serious issues if you feel that girls do shit like that to put you on display...i feel like no matter what decision you make you'll be unhappy because you seem wayyyyyyy to selfish to maintain a successful relationship. on second thought, get snipped...it's better for everyone.

Then please explain the purpose of a girl with both hands free having the dude standing there holding her purse. If its not about the girl seeing what she can get away with, what other purpose could it possibly serve?
Am I missing something, usually I see these girls talking down to their boyfriends, the guys always have this dejected and beaten look in their eyes.

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

First off all relationships are about compromise. Something that seems to be lost on you by the way you go on in this thread.

Just because a guy is willing to go shopping with his girl or hold her purse outside a dressing room does not mean he is less of a man. It usually means he is a Gentleman and has realized relationships are about compromise.

He knows if he is willing to do that at least once in awhile he can do the things the girl may not be the least bit interested in doing.

If you think that makes him less of man? Then your lack of understanding of what makes a relationship work is phenomenal.

Oh and following Fight Club a fictional movie as grounds for how a man should conduct himself is ludicrous.

I live in Hollywood I know what film writers are like and moral compasses they are not! LOL

Ok, first off, I recommnded watching a SINGLE scene out of Fight Club that I thought had some note-worthy comments. I didn't say the entire movie. A single scene.

Secondly, relationships are totally about compromise. Rational compromise. I go to a certain line-dancing bar every Monday with my gf, I don't line-dance, I don't really like drinking on a Monday, but I do it cause it will make her happy. I do a lot of things that aren't my favorite activity for her benefit.

If my girl had convinced herself she would be happier if I held her purse, I still wouldn't do it. I take my girl to Nordstrom, hang out with her for an hour, help her pick out clothes, and patiently hang outside of the dressing room when she tries stuff on. I actually enjoy doing it. I will even suggest taking her there. But there are coat hooks inside the dressing room if she really needs somewhere to put her purse. Its called emasculation.

Doubtful you can provide a legitimate reason a guy should be holding a girls purse (that doesn't involve her putting on a coat, etc) that doesn't start with "because he loves me...."

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Originally Posted by thrax

Any time you have an operation, even a minor one, there is a risk for something to go wrong. So why risk it.
You're reasoning isn't entirely true. For example
Location: Seattle, WA
you live in the US which has a negative growth rate. So the whole argument of unwanted kids doesn't fly. Without the massive flux of immigrants the US would be shrinking. On top of that you are European raced judging by your description which means you are in a shrinking racial population group as well.

Good point, but I think it is gonna take me reproducing about 10,000 times before I make a dent in the population trend back towards Anglo-Saxons.

TurboSE · 02-01-2011, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by trigjones

Then please explain the purpose of a girl with both hands free having the dude standing there holding her purse. If its not about the girl seeing what she can get away with, what other purpose could it possibly serve?
Am I missing something, usually I see these girls talking down to their boyfriends, the guys always have this dejected and beaten look in their eyes.

Your girlfriend, is your friend right? She just happens to have a vagina that she let's you use (whether she really enjoys it or not). You have guy friends I'd assume. What if you were in a busy mall with one of them and he said "dude, hold my bag while I go talk to this chick." You'd hold it without a thought...does that make you his bitch? Is he trying to make you his bitch? does he let you screw his mom or his sister? So why does he get special treatment when the girl you "care about" doesn't?

PS - do you wear pink shirts? I bet you do, but it's not feminine because it says "Volcom" or "DC" on it right?

Get snipped for a few reasons:

A. The world doesn't need anymore of you.
B. You probably wouldn't do your part anyway.
C. You'll deserve that empty feeling you get in 10 or 15 years.

Banana_Cute · 02-01-2011, 06:21 PM

I can still get you cats to accompany you for the years to come alone.

Devius · 02-01-2011, 06:36 PM

Im 22, got one a year ago and NEVER regretted it. best thing about it was my insurance covered it completely. Kids cost way too much to have to bother with them.

sw20>>s14 · 02-02-2011, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Banana_Cute

I can still get you cats to accompany for the years to come alone.

ive been repeating this sentence in my head about 7 times and its starting to hurt my head......

OP, i think you got what you were looking for from a car forum...do with it what you will...

axiomatik · 02-02-2011, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Devius

Im 22, got one a year ago and NEVER regretted it. best thing about it was my insurance covered it completely. Kids cost way too much to have to bother with them.

wow, you got the operation when you were 21, and now that you are the ripe old age of 22, you look back on the vast expanse of your life and can comfortably say that you never regretted it.

*slow clap*

SlideWell · 02-02-2011, 11:41 AM

it might be good for you, but just remember, it will limit the women you want to grow old with, as most want to birth at least 1 child in their lifetime.

trigjones · 02-02-2011, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by TurboSE

Your girlfriend, is your friend right? She just happens to have a vagina that she let's you use (whether she really enjoys it or not). You have guy friends I'd assume. What if you were in a busy mall with one of them and he said "dude, hold my bag while I go talk to this chick." You'd hold it without a thought...does that make you his bitch? Is he trying to make you his bitch? does he let you screw his mom or his sister? So why does he get special treatment when the girl you "care about" doesn't?

PS - do you wear pink shirts? I bet you do, but it's not feminine because it says "Volcom" or "DC" on it right?

Get snipped for a few reasons:

A. The world doesn't need anymore of you.
B. You probably wouldn't do your part anyway.
C. You'll deserve that empty feeling you get in 10 or 15 years.

For one, I don't go to the mall. There's lots to do in Seattle otherwise. I don't go out to Olive Garden or Cheesecake Factory. I hardly ever eat at chains to begin with. And I don't wear fu*king skate clothes, I wear Rock and Republic's/Sevens/True Religion, one-off T-shirts and boutique clothes you won't ever see come out of a mall

I do plenty for both my girlfriend and my dude friends. And I asked both my current and ex, one said "Why would I ever need you to hold my purse"? She said maybe if she was tying her shoe, but thats about it. Otherwise, if we were shopping, she would put it on the coat hook inside the room. She says she knows those girls, and said they are all highly insecure, and the girls do that cause they are worried their boyfriend might get picked up by a hoochie during the 5 minutes they leave them alone.

I date confident educated women, you are more than welcome to help yourself to all the dumb girls that see purse holding as a sign of love. I'll stick with my fitness trainer girlfriend and show her love by showing up with home made cookies or spending an hour making her dinner.

drift freaq · 02-02-2011, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by trigjones

For one, I don't go to the mall. There's lots to do in Seattle otherwise. I don't go out to Olive Garden or Cheesecake Factory. I hardly ever eat at chains to begin with. And I don't wear fu*king skate clothes, I wear Rock and Republic's/Sevens/True Religion, one-off T-shirts and boutique clothes you won't ever see come out of a mall

I do plenty for both my girlfriend and my dude friends. And I asked both my current and ex, one said "Why would I ever need you to hold my purse"? She said maybe if she was tying her shoe, but thats about it. Otherwise, if we were shopping, she would put it on the coat hook inside the room. She says she knows those girls, and said they are all highly insecure, and the girls do that cause they are worried their boyfriend might get picked up by a hoochie during the 5 minutes they leave them alone.

I date confident educated women, you are more than welcome to help yourself to all the dumb girls that see purse holding as a sign of love. I'll stick with my fitness trainer girlfriend and show her love by showing up with home made cookies or spending an hour making her dinner.

You know what? You base this purse holding assumption off of one girls assessment of other women. LOL One Woman's opinion.

For her to say a girl who asks you to hold her purse and sees it as them assuming its a sign of love? Is pure and utter ignorance, on her part.

I fucking love it when girls tell guys what they assume all girls do. Sometimes its right sometimes its wrong.
Like my friend who had a girl tell him that if a girl did not sleep with a guy by the third date the girl would never sleep with him. What a bunch of female assumption crap.

People, Men and Women love to assume things about they're own sex or the opposite to make themselves look superior or brighter. Its an ego game.

Fact is for every assumption of standard behavior there is for men or woman there are deviations from the norm.

While some stuff may be considered common unless there is scientific proof i.e. a controlled study proving it.
Its all just someones un scientific opinion and not based on actual facts.

You yourself have made an assumption of this as well. Just because a woman who has her hands full of clothes, asks her guy to hold her purse, while she tries stuff on? Does not mean she is making him do it because he loves her.

You even got your girl to admit to a time when she would ask you do such a thing. Which completely skews your assumption as well.
LOL

I bet you have never gone out with a Japanese girl. LOL They are shopping fanatics they quite often wind up with more than they can hold, to try on.

Does this make them dumb? Does this automatically mean that if they ask they guy to hold their purse while they try shit on, mean its some kind of ulterior motive to show people the guy loves her? No and no.

Ah no, more like it makes it easier for them.

Now you came on here asking if you should get snipped. LOL A car forum of all places.
You got answers you do not like. So you started making bold assuming statements about Women and Men.

I suggest you take a step back. Think about life, realize you have a lot to learn and come back to this question in a few years.

You will most likely laugh at yourself.

Oh but don't take any of the advice, revel in your possible ignorance, spouting assumed idea's and get snipped.

Don't let the door hit you on your ass as you leave.

Banana_Cute · 02-02-2011, 01:59 PM

Just get snipped. Fuck ive seen this thread bump one too many, And it has nothing to do with the forum.

Who really gives a shit if you get snipped, you posting this publicly in a car forum just wanting attention. Go stay with your fitness girlfriend, not all women let go of their weight soon as 1 kid pops out or being married.

blah blah blah. get snipped, not have kids. its good for you, good for the whole community.

who really gives a shit now?

The narrow minded that you are. I doubt you'd do your part if, god forbid, accident happen and you get your girlfriend pregnant.

All i can say is. Someone wasnt loved enough at their young age to pass that love to their offsprings.

done rant.

/threadclosed..GL

trigjones · 02-02-2011, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

You know what? You base this purse holding assumption off of one girls assessment of other women.

For her to say a girl who asks you to hold her purse and sees it as them assuming its a sign of love?

You yourself have made an assumption of this as well. Just because a woman who has her hands full of clothes, asks her guy to hold her purse, while she tries stuff on? Does not mean she is making him do it because he loves her.

You even got your girl to admit to a time when she would ask you do such a thing. Which completely skews your assumption as well.
LOL

I bet you have never gone out with a Japanese girl. LOL They are shopping fanatics they quite often wind up with more than they can hold, to try on.

I've had numerous conversations about this over the years, I've dated a Korean girl for 4 years, I've had plenty of Asian friends. I know enough about the culture. My Korean gf never asked me to do that, among her friends, it was a sign to others about who controlled the relationship.

I dont know why girls do it, its doubtful its about love, but if you're so damn greedy at the mall you lose your shoulder space, then sure hand the guy the purse. But 95% of the bags I see are shoulder worn, so since the girl is never holding it with her hands, the guy shouldn't either.

I'm strictly referring (try and stay on point) to the guys standing outside the dressing rooms while the girl is changing clothes. If I hold my girls purse when she's tying a shoe, legit reason. No reason to hold it outside the dressing room. Unless you can provide a clear reason for why she couldnt just take it into the dressing room with her.

Please explain. And stay on topic, it shouldn't be difficult.

drift freaq · 02-02-2011, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by trigjones

I've had numerous conversations about this over the years, I've dated a Korean girl for 4 years, I've had plenty of Asian friends. I know enough about the culture. My Korean gf never asked me to do that, among her friends, it was a sign to others about who controlled the relationship.

I dont know why girls do it, its doubtful its about love, but if you're so damn greedy at the mall you lose your shoulder space, then sure hand the guy the purse. But 95% of the bags I see are shoulder worn, so since the girl is never holding it with her hands, the guy shouldn't either.

I'm strictly referring (try and stay on point) to the guys standing outside the dressing rooms while the girl is changing clothes. If I hold my girls purse when she's tying a shoe, legit reason. No reason to hold it outside the dressing room. Unless you can provide a clear reason for why she couldnt just take it into the dressing room with her.

Please explain. And stay on topic, it shouldn't be difficult.

Why stay on topic? You yourself took it off topic. LOL Plus again you make another assumption based on someones generalization about their own culture. Which like I previously pointed out was an assumption not based on pure scientific data to back it up.

Hell you could say my statement about Japanese girls loving to shop is an assumption based on only casual observation. It actually means it might not be correct as well.

Oh and why does a girl taking a large selection of clothing to try out make it greedy? There again you make a broad generalized assumption, not based in any kind of fact.

Oh and you say its doubtful its about Love which completely contradicts your earlier statement about its their way of showing they are loved.
Do I need to quote this for you to remind you, in the off chance you will deny saying it and edit your previous post where you said it? LOL

Oh and lets step to your rationalization statement, for legitimate purse holding vs Illegitimate purse holding. LOL

Perhaps, because the guy is already holding the purse because she already asked him to hold it when she was trying on a pull over top or sweater?
Her hands are then now full as she proceeds to the dressing room and said guy has purse in his hand.

You know perfectly intelligent people can be absentminded from time to time and forget for a minute. Only to think of it a few minutes later. Perhaps, when they are already in the dressing room. LOL

Seriously you should give this up right now. Not only have we answered your question backwards and forwards but we have also proved you're making your decision based on a lot of generalizations and assumptions about people and life.
Wow you seem to know so much about people life for a 20 something. NOT!

I said it before I will say it again go get yourself snipped. Stop coming to car forum looking for answers to something like this and stop making assumptions about people.

Unless your a Psychologist and have studied behavioral patterns you do not really have the knowledge to speak of these things.
Oh and if you were you would know better to come here in the first place with this kind of question. LOL

trigjones · 02-02-2011, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

Why stay on topic? You yourself took it off topic. LOL Plus again you make another assumption based on someones generalization about their own culture. Which like I previously pointed out was an assumption not based on pure scientific data to back it up.

Hell you could say my statement about Japanese girls loving to shop is an assumption based on only casual observation. It actually means it might not be correct as well.

Oh and why does a girl taking a large selection of clothing to try out make it greedy? There again you make a broad generalized assumption, not based in any kind of fact.

Oh and you say its doubtful its about Love which completely contradicts your earlier statement about its their way of showing they are loved.
Do I need to quote this for you to remind you, in the off chance you will deny saying it and edit your previous post where you said it? LOL

Oh and lets step to your rationalization statement, for legitimate purse holding vs Illegitimate purse holding. LOL

Perhaps, because the guy is already holding the purse because she already asked him to hold it when she was trying on a pull over top or sweater?
Her hands are then now full as she proceeds to the dressing room and said guy has purse in his hand.

You know perfectly intelligent people can be absentminded from time to time and forget for a minute. Only to think of it a few minutes later. Perhaps, when they are already in the dressing room. LOL

Seriously you should give this up right now. Not only have we answered your question backwards and forwards but we have also proved you're making your decision based on a lot of generalizations and assumptions about people and life.
Wow you seem to know so much about people life for a 20 something. NOT!

I said it before I will say it again go get yourself snipped. Stop coming to car forum looking for answers to something like this and stop making assumptions about people.

Unless your a Psychologist and have studied behavioral patterns you do not really have the knowledge to speak of these things.
Oh and if you were you would know better to come here in the first place with this kind of question. LOL

Fail at making an intelligent statement. Way to go. Both of us are aware that no one is gonna try on a sweater in the lobby, then wander into the dressing room and forget their purse. Everyone knows that it doesn't work like that. At all.

Have fun dating mousey dudes who you respect so little you will embarrass them in public. And you are seriously kidding yourself if you think its something different. I'm perfectly content not putting up with that sh*t.

slamburger · 02-02-2011, 04:10 PM

You think Drift freaq is a woman? LOL

You should get snipped, all he did was rerer to japanese women. The whole holding a purse thing is so stupid. The way you're looking at it is just pathetic, obviously you have some problems where you cant even hold your girls purse in public cuz you are so scared of being judged by dip shits like your self.

sw20>>s14 · 02-02-2011, 04:15 PM

maybe your prospective will change and be less defensive if you knew that drift freaq was actually a guy...

TheWolf · 02-02-2011, 05:47 PM

When it comes to the dressing room. Either I get to come in there as well. Or I go to the tool section.

trigjones · 02-02-2011, 06:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sw20>>s14

maybe your prospective will change and be less defensive if you knew that drift freaq was actually a guy...

It's more of a disappointment realizing that Drift Freaq is a guy. I don't get what everyone's deal is. If you wanna hold your gf's purse, whatever. I don't see the point.

I will restate: if there is a good reason to hold a girls purse, I don't mind. If I'm waiting for her outside the dressing room, ain't gonna happen. There isn't a reason for it. Or any good reason anyone has provided.

Maybe you guys have more trouble getting laid, and think that pandering to that kind of stuff will get you in their under-roos. I don't have trouble, therefore the hoops I have to jump through aren't the same.

Apply the same reasoning to the guys driving a mini-van because their wife wouldn't let them get a sedan they like driving. Nobody on here would let their gf say "Get rid of your S13, and buy a Cavalier cause i dont feel safe being in a car without airbags"

Banana_Cute · 02-02-2011, 07:39 PM

Sooo are you getting your shit snipped or what?

I got rid 2 of my 240sx because my wife requested it. Does that make me a bitch? No, because i have better reasoning behind it. I need a car to get around with my 12 month old.
Even though we already have an Xterra. We needed 2 baby friendly vehic.

Btw i dont think no GF will every tell a dude to get rid of his 240 because it isnt safe. I for one would tell her to take her car instead and follow me. or jst take her car to begin with.

01-31-2011, 10:08 AM	#61
axiomatik Post Whore! Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: ATL Posts: 4,697 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	It's also a much more serious surgery for the woman than the man...... __________________

02-01-2011, 06:21 PM	#75
Banana_Cute Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Irvine, So. Cal. Posts: 1,338 Trader Rating: (16) Feedback Score: 16 reviews	I can still get you cats to accompany you for the years to come alone. __________________ Simplicity is the key to brilliance Last edited by Banana_Cute; 02-02-2011 at 02:18 AM..

02-02-2011, 01:59 PM	#82
Banana_Cute Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Irvine, So. Cal. Posts: 1,338 Trader Rating: (16) Feedback Score: 16 reviews	Just get snipped. Fuck ive seen this thread bump one too many, And it has nothing to do with the forum. Who really gives a shit if you get snipped, you posting this publicly in a car forum just wanting attention. Go stay with your fitness girlfriend, not all women let go of their weight soon as 1 kid pops out or being married. blah blah blah. get snipped, not have kids. its good for you, good for the whole community. who really gives a shit now? The narrow minded that you are. I doubt you'd do your part if, god forbid, accident happen and you get your girlfriend pregnant. All i can say is. Someone wasnt loved enough at their young age to pass that love to their offsprings. done rant. /threadclosed..GL __________________ Simplicity is the key to brilliance

02-02-2011, 04:15 PM	#87
sw20>>s14 Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: bay area Posts: 5,656 Trader Rating: (19) Feedback Score: 19 reviews	maybe your prospective will change and be less defensive if you knew that drift freaq was actually a guy... __________________ s14\| y34\| 911 gts\| exige s\| 600rr\| r3\| 250r\| 85 girlfriend

02-02-2011, 05:47 PM	#88
TheWolf Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Orange Park, FL (Jax) Posts: 1,468 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	When it comes to the dressing room. Either I get to come in there as well. Or I go to the tool section. __________________ Eye on the Prize

01-31-2011, 05:34 PM	#66
sidewaysil80 Nissanaholic! Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: NoVA Age: 35 Posts: 1,710 Trader Rating: (23) Feedback Score: 23 reviews	^^^^lol^^^^

01-31-2011, 06:03 PM	#67
thrax Leaky Injector Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 139 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Any time you have an operation, even a minor one, there is a risk for something to go wrong. So why risk it. You're reasoning isn't entirely true. For example Location: Seattle, WA you live in the US which has a negative growth rate. So the whole argument of unwanted kids doesn't fly. Without the massive flux of immigrants the US would be shrinking. On top of that you are European raced judging by your description which means you are in a shrinking racial population group as well.

02-01-2011, 05:23 AM	#70
daftphunk Zilvia Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 767 Trader Rating: (8) Feedback Score: 8 reviews	This is the off-topic section so I definitely don't see what's wrong with posting this here. It's a community nonetheless and forums are typically a decent place to get lots of advice from many different people. I frequent a sneaker forum and the front page is full of advice seeking threads, i.e. stock advice, relationships, etc. Some people post some good shit in there. Yeah you get your troll responses but the people who are serious about answering the question usually give great answers. As per the topic. I'm biased and want many kids so I would say no cause you'll change your mind in the future... but I like the argument that since you hate kids so much you'll be a terrible father and you should definitely do it.

02-01-2011, 09:01 AM	#72
lewisfk Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: May 2009 Location: North Austin, Texas Age: 40 Posts: 1,162 Trader Rating: (13) Feedback Score: 13 reviews	^^ hey bro, ice cold! ice cold! your not the first guy i meet who said he is doing this for himself, i give my medical spill, my doc who is doing the procedure gives his spill and snip snip! but the harshness of your tone says alot!

02-01-2011, 06:36 PM	#76
Devius Zilvia Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Pineville Louisiana Age: 33 Posts: 174 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Im 22, got one a year ago and NEVER regretted it. best thing about it was my insurance covered it completely. Kids cost way too much to have to bother with them.

02-02-2011, 04:10 PM	#86
slamburger Zilvia Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: 310 Posts: 900 Trader Rating: (24) Feedback Score: 24 reviews	You think Drift freaq is a woman? LOL You should get snipped, all he did was rerer to japanese women. The whole holding a purse thing is so stupid. The way you're looking at it is just pathetic, obviously you have some problems where you cant even hold your girls purse in public cuz you are so scared of being judged by dip shits like your self.

02-02-2011, 07:39 PM	#90
Banana_Cute Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Irvine, So. Cal. Posts: 1,338 Trader Rating: (16) Feedback Score: 16 reviews	Sooo are you getting your shit snipped or what? I got rid 2 of my 240sx because my wife requested it. Does that make me a bitch? No, because i have better reasoning behind it. I need a car to get around with my 12 month old. Even though we already have an Xterra. We needed 2 baby friendly vehic. Btw i dont think no GF will every tell a dude to get rid of his 240 because it isnt safe. I for one would tell her to take her car instead and follow me. or jst take her car to begin with. __________________ Simplicity is the key to brilliance

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