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Tywin · 02-14-2013, 10:57 AM

But I'm Asian too... Lol

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by KiLLeR2001

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woww..that sh*t was complicated. loll

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Originally Posted by Tywin

But I'm Asian too... Lol

crap...that's not it then...
i retract the first statement and just stick to the second one..lolll

1 88 U · 02-14-2013, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by itsjustdaphne

Why the hell would this be posted on Zilvia. This is basically a personal rant and story about something we all don't log on to read. Everyone bothering to voice their opinion must be real bored.

Oh shut up, this thread made my day.

1 88 U · 02-14-2013, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by JVD

I boned my cousins best friend. My cousin was also my roommate. I also boned her in the next room.

My cousin didn't give a shit.

THANK.

Your cousin or cousins friend?

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by 1 88 U

Oh shut up, this thread made my day.

LOL

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Originally Posted by 1 88 U

Your cousin or cousins friend?

..this had me confused at first too..made me stop and go wtf???
i think he's saying he boned his cousin's friend in the next room. loll

Daniel. · 02-14-2013, 12:08 PM

http://www.reddit.com/r/incest/

dreaMervaj · 02-14-2013, 01:05 PM

This thread is quite interesting.......

I say bang his crazy cousin or hook a brotha up. Lmao!

**Phlip** · 02-14-2013, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by dkim1985

yeah...even now, i don't think i can do that. call me old fashioned but a part of me still holds on to values like respect, honor, trust..even if the other person doesn't follow them. ..maybe it's because i'm asian.

I will repeat: you VERY apparently either don’t understand respect or do not respect this dude as much as you say you do. Furthermore, you do not respect or trust her if you cannot let her make her own decisions without you holding her hand.

bc. · 02-14-2013, 02:31 PM

well, they are gonna date and the break-up will not be good and then someone will need to move out, boom, done.

Also, *ADMIN EDIT* I can't read so I will repeat this lame-ass question.

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Phlip

I will repeat: you VERY apparently either don’t understand respect or do not respect this dude as much as you say you do. Furthermore, you do not respect or trust her if you cannot let her make her own decisions without you holding her hand.

personally, i think its just because you don't completely understand the current situation, and i'm not obligated to tell you. i never asked for your input, guidance, feedback, criticism ..or whatever else you want to call it. but i'll oblige..

i do respect him and i do respect her and trust her to make her own decisions.
i did say, given the current situation, if they would of had the respect and courtesy toward me to talk to me about it first, i wouldn't be so bothered by it and probably would let them do whatever they wanted. You're taking it out of perspective by assuming i can say who she can and can't date, that's not what i'm saying. Obviously, the person she's trying to hook up with is MY friend and MY roommate whom I live with. Out of respect towards ME..it would of been the proper thing to do. i don't care who she dates. her last bf was an asshole and she even asked what i thought about him before she got with him. i was honest and said i didn't like him but if that's who she wants to be with then there's nothing i can do about it, as long as she's happy. In that situation, she didn't have to say anything to me or asking anything of me, i wouldn't have cared..but she did anyways even though i don't know the guy.

As for my friend, as a person, I still do respect him, never said i didn't. And if we were in opposite positions, I would talk to him first before trying ANYTHING when it came to family..even when it's not family and just some girl that has any associate with him. THAT'S RESPECT.

I said it before and I'll say it again. I have enough respect for him to say if there's anyone in this world that I would approve of for my cousin to be in a relationship with, it would be him. But given the current situation(that you don't understand)..he should of atleast said something.
I have no plans to f*ck with him or to start sh*t or anything. In fact, I was probably just going to keep my mouth shut and try to move on from it. But I found out that he actually wants me to talk to him about it. so out of respect for him, I will.

AGAIN, I don't assume you to understand my situation and I'm not asking for your input. I accented the word 'respect' for you just incase you felt the need to point that out again.

PeaceOnesxWai · 02-14-2013, 02:53 PM

Dam asians... Your over thinking this too much

*!Zar!* · 02-14-2013, 02:55 PM

Scenario 1: OP's cousin asks op if she can fuck his friend.

Scenario 2: OP's friend asks if he can fuck his cousin.

Scenario 3: Neither OP's friend nor cousin ask if they can fuck each other, and just go ahead and fuck.

Any time someone is about to fuck, I doubt the first thing going on in their mind is. 'gee, I should tell my cousin and see if he's okay with me doing this'.

Chances are the only person making things awkward in your household is you.

PeaceOnesxWai · 02-14-2013, 02:57 PM

Stop overthinking the situation in your mind and go out to talk about it with them. If your just here to vent about it noone will give you the solution you want. Play it out your way and with people that affected you.

You dont have to come out and just put them on point either. Just sit down with your buddy and joke around with him, tell him that wasnt cool.. its awkward now to see her. Same goes for your cousin.. "Your going out with my roomate?! wth!"

Theres alot of immature people in here with no relationship experience, your really gonna ask them how you will situate this?

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by !Zar!

Scenario 1: OP's cousin asks op if she can fuck his friend.

Scenario 2: OP's friend asks if he can fuck his cousin.

Scenario 3: Neither OP's friend nor cousin ask if they can fuck each other, and just go ahead and fuck.

Any time someone is about to fuck, I doubt the first thing going on in their mind is. 'gee, I should tell my cousin and see if he's okay with me doing this'.

Chances are the only person making things awkward in your household is you.

actually..probably not true since i haven't said anything to anyone in the house. and if someone we know asks me about it i just say, "i have nothing to say. it is what it is."
i haven't seen or heard from her(she lives somewhere else.)
i haven't seen my roommate because for whatever reason, we're not home at the same time. today was actually the first time he's said anything to me.

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by PeaceOnesxWai

Stop overthinking the situation in your mind and go out to talk about it with them. If your just here to vent about it noone will give you the solution you want. Play it out your way and with people that affected you.

You dont have to come out and just put them on point either. Just sit down with your buddy and joke around with him, tell him that wasnt cool.. its awkward now to see her. Same goes for your cousin.. "Your going out with my roomate?! wth!"

Theres alot of immature people in here with no relationship experience, your really gonna ask them how you will situate this?

..do you see anywhere me asking for help or other peoples input? no.
personally..i think everyone here is making a bigger deal about it than i am.

like i said...again...i do plan on talking to them about it when the time is right.

ghost_silvia · 02-14-2013, 03:24 PM

So it's safe to say you vented, got different opinions and had some laughs?
Next time you know better than to vent to complete strangers.
Case closed!

Daniel. · 02-14-2013, 03:35 PM

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Brian · 02-14-2013, 03:52 PM

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drift freaq · 02-14-2013, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by No 240.. No id

The one that need to be blamed is your cousin. Because most "Men's" are like dogs. When it comes to sex, they do w.e to get it.
.

Blame his cousin? WTF she is a legal adult. She is not direct family like a sister and even if she was its her decision.

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Originally Posted by PeaceOnesxWai

Theres alot of immature people in here with no relationship experience, your really gonna ask them how you will situate this?

Nothing personal man but even at 21 you are far from being fully mature or understanding interpersonal relationships completely . Men do not reach real emotional maturity till around the age of 27. Sorry guys its a psychological fact. Women hit it around 21-24 but men do not get there till around 25 at the earliest. Any guy under the age of 25 has still got a lot to learn in and out of relationships. Any women under the age of 23 usually still has a lot to learn as well in and out of relationships.
Just accept that you have a lot to learn and move on.

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Originally Posted by dkim1985

..do you see anywhere me asking for help or other peoples input? no.
personally..i think everyone here is making a bigger deal about it than i am.

like i said...again...i do plan on talking to them about it when the time is right.

Hmmm you posted here ranting about it. Tried to put a disclaimer on it as well.
If you did not want other peoples inputs you would have not post in the first place.

Seriously you are making more out of this and in doing so getting reactions from people and reacting to those reactions.
If you really didn't want to discuss it more than you would have stopped posting already.
Yet you feel a need a to defend your position even though you say you don't care.

Do you enjoy contradicting yourself throughout this thread? Do you have a I am a father figure issue going on with your cousin?

Don't answer these as they really are rhetorical. You do need to sit down and look at how you really feel about your position in this. Regardless of what you say your actions are showing otherwise.

In fact the way you state you will be talking to them completely comes off like a parent talking to their children.

Mr. Camshaft · 02-14-2013, 03:58 PM

FFS you're not her dad. Get over it.

KiLLeR2001 · 02-14-2013, 04:06 PM

Yep, it is time to lock this one up.

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

Blame his cousin? WTF she is a legal adult. She is not direct family like a sister and even if she was its her decision.

Nothing personal man but even at 21 you are far from being fully mature or understanding interpersonal relationships completely . Men do not reach real emotional maturity till around the age of 27. Sorry guys its a psychological fact. Women hit it around 21-24 but men do not get there till around 25 at the earliest. Any guy under the age of 25 has still got a lot to learn in and out of relationships. Any women under the age of 23 usually still has a lot to learn as well in and out of relationships.
Just accept that you have a lot to learn and move on.

Hmmm you posted here ranting about it. Tried to put a disclaimer on it as well.
If you did not want other peoples inputs you would have not post in the first place.

Seriously you are making more out of this and in doing so getting reactions from people and reacting to those reactions.
If you really don't want to discuss it more than you would have stopped posting already.
Yet you feel a need a to defend your position even though you say you don't care.

Do you enjoy contradicting yourself throughout this thread? Do you have a I am a father figure issue going on with your cousin?

Don't answer these as they really are rhetorical. You do need to sit down and look at how you really feel about your position in this. Regardless of what you say your actions are showing otherwise.

In fact the way you state you will be talking to them completely comes off like a parent talking to their children.

i can post and reply to whatever i want. i dont care what you say.
my point was stated in the OP..if you don't like it, go read something else.

TougeLove · 02-14-2013, 04:17 PM

i dont want to be a dick, and this is more for your self reflection but,

could you get over yourself and/or lose the sense of entitlement.

again, this is not for me to be an ass or make fun of you, but for you to consider one or both of those options. best of luck.

if you take this the wrong way you can go fuck yourself

drift freaq · 02-14-2013, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by dkim1985

i can post and reply to whatever i want. i dont care what you say.
my point was stated in the OP..if you don't like it, go read something else.

LOL I have neither a like or dislike towards your post. LOL You seem to be missing the most obvious about yourself here. I am just pointing that out.

I posted the point that you have repeatedly contradicted your own words about not caring in this thread by reacting showing that you do care. If you can not se that then I suggest you not post at all.

Oh and P.S. if you did not care what I had to say you would not have responded to my post in the first place.

Oh and if you don't want others to post in a thread like this don't start it in the first place.
You have brought this upon yourself and now you can't seem to deal with it. Much like you can't seem to deal with the issue you posted in the first place.

See the pattern here? This is more about you than them.

Oh and again the last question was again rhetorical.

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by TougeLove

i dont want to be a dick, and this is more for your self reflection but,

could you get over yourself and/or lose the sense of entitlement.

again, this is not for me to be an ass or make fun of you, but for you to consider one or both of those options. best of luck.

if you take this the wrong way you can go fuck yourself

LOL no. go fuck yourself~

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

LOL I have neither a like or dislike towards your post. LOL You seem to be missing the most obvious about yourself here. I am just pointing that out.

I posted the point that you have repeatedly contradicted your own words about not caring in this thread by reacting showing that you do care. If you can not se that then I suggest you not post at all.

Oh and P.S. if you did not care what I had to say you would not have responded to my post in the first place.

Oh and if you don't want others to post in a thread like this don't start it in the first place.
You have brought this upon yourself and now you can't seem to deal with it. Much like you can't seem to deal with the issue you posted in the first place.

See the pattern here? This is more about you than them.

ACTUALLYYY...i really don't care. i'm just bored and at work. this gives me something to do. sooo in a way i should be thanking you~ thanks!

PeaceOnesxWai · 02-14-2013, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

Nothing personal man but even at 21 you are far from being fully mature or understanding interpersonal relationships completely . Men do not reach real emotional maturity till around the age of 27. Sorry guys its a psychological fact. Women hit it around 21-24 but men do not get there till around 25 at the earliest. Any guy under the age of 25 has still got a lot to learn in and out of relationships. Any women under the age of 23 usually still has a lot to learn as well in and out of relationships.
Just accept that you have a lot to learn and move on.

I have alot to learn but judging from OP's response hes really in denial and problems with confrontation. I was suggesting to him to just confront his issue instead of asking the board.. 90% of the replies were incoherent to his matter (incest, not getting some frustration, bundle of sticks, in for the pics).

But i agree, OPs just ranting and contradicting himself

PeaceOnesxWai · 02-14-2013, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by dkim1985

ACTUALLYYY...i really don't care. i'm just bored and at work. this gives me something to do. sooo in a way i should be thanking you~ thanks!

Once again, denial at its fullest.

KiLLeR2001 · 02-14-2013, 04:36 PM

This would not be a concern or even a thread if the OP had a steady flow of vagina at his disposal. What I see is a case of his buddy getting some ass, while hes on the forefront of an epic drought.

dkim1985 · 02-14-2013, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by PeaceOnesxWai

I have alot to learn but judging from OP's response hes really in denial and problems with confrontation. I was suggesting to him to just confront his issue instead of asking the board.. 90% of the replies were incoherent to his matter (incest, not getting some frustration, bundle of sticks, in for the pics).

But i agree, OPs just ranting and contradicting himself

you guys seem to have a habit of taking in only the information you choose to.

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Originally Posted by KiLLeR2001

This would not be a concern or even a thread if the OP had a steady flow of vagina at his disposal. This is clearly a case of his buddy getting some ass while hes on an epic drought.

LOL sure. that MUST be it.

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02-14-2013, 01:05 PM	#67
dreaMervaj Zilvia Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: SC Posts: 866 Trader Rating: (18) Feedback Score: 18 reviews	This thread is quite interesting....... I say bang his crazy cousin or hook a brotha up. Lmao!

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PeaceOnesxWai Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: SoCal Age: 30 Posts: 1,220 Trader Rating: (34) Feedback Score: 34 reviews	Dam asians... Your over thinking this too much

02-14-2013, 02:55 PM	#72
!Zar! Premium Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: North Korea Posts: 14,576 Trader Rating: (27) Feedback Score: 27 reviews	Scenario 1: OP's cousin asks op if she can fuck his friend. Scenario 2: OP's friend asks if he can fuck his cousin. Scenario 3: Neither OP's friend nor cousin ask if they can fuck each other, and just go ahead and fuck. Any time someone is about to fuck, I doubt the first thing going on in their mind is. 'gee, I should tell my cousin and see if he's okay with me doing this'. Chances are the only person making things awkward in your household is you.

02-14-2013, 02:57 PM	#73
PeaceOnesxWai Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: SoCal Age: 30 Posts: 1,220 Trader Rating: (34) Feedback Score: 34 reviews	Stop overthinking the situation in your mind and go out to talk about it with them. If your just here to vent about it noone will give you the solution you want. Play it out your way and with people that affected you. You dont have to come out and just put them on point either. Just sit down with your buddy and joke around with him, tell him that wasnt cool.. its awkward now to see her. Same goes for your cousin.. "Your going out with my roomate?! wth!" Theres alot of immature people in here with no relationship experience, your really gonna ask them how you will situate this?

02-14-2013, 03:24 PM	#76
ghost_silvia Zilvia Junkie Join Date: May 2009 Location: tx Posts: 455 Trader Rating: (8) Feedback Score: 8 reviews	So it's safe to say you vented, got different opinions and had some laughs? Next time you know better than to vent to complete strangers. Case closed!

02-14-2013, 03:58 PM	#80
Mr. Camshaft Zilvia Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Glendale/SD Posts: 243 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	FFS you're not her dad. Get over it.

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KiLLeR2001 Post Whore! Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: オーランドフロリダ Posts: 7,955 Trader Rating: (46) Feedback Score: 46 reviews	This would not be a concern or even a thread if the OP had a steady flow of vagina at his disposal. What I see is a case of his buddy getting some ass, while hes on the forefront of an epic drought. __________________

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