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View Poll Results: Should i choose the bar or the girl? | |||
Keep enjoying the bar and random sloars | 79 | 33.91% | |
explore the girlfriend thing there are always more bars | 154 | 66.09% | |
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01-09-2009, 12:24 PM | #1 |
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Beer or Boobs???
I have been thinking of dating a waitress from my favorite bar. I ended up taking her around with me to a bunch of bars for her 21st birthday, it was fun. I got along with her pretty well, she was a ttracteive and fit my style. Possibly good girlfriend material rather than just random i need as tonight skeeze. But i am torn... its my favorite bar and i see bars as a place to go to escape the ball and chain and see/interact with other lady friends (no cheating). I fear if things go well my bar wont be the same. If i date this girl all my lady friends at the bar may report to her or i'd have to watch what i say and how i act when im there. It would also mean free rides home from the bar the nights she works which up here when its -8* out would be sweeter than walking 2 blocks. If things go sour it will be awkward to be in my favorite bar, my female friends at said favorite bar may dislike me out of loyalty to said girl.
this is a great dilemna... I am leaning toward keeping my bar, but its slow at work today so I figured a poll would be fun picture for reference. Girl on the right is the one i am interested in |
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01-12-2009, 01:00 PM | #3 | |
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IME bar waitresses rarely date regular patrons... Not saying it can't happen, but it seems to be definitely not the norm.
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01-09-2009, 12:39 PM | #6 |
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I am not a fan of loud or crazy bars or clubs.
This is a sports bar. The entire staff is girls, 80% of which i am friends with, all are very attractive. A good number i would say are even out of my league, and i pull some pretty high quality trim without even trying. I am good enough friends with the girls bartending there that i can go with my best friend and we can drink beer and do shots with the girls for a solid 12 hours and have a $18 bar tab. This is mainly cause we'll both drop $30 on the tab, but we easily drink over that in drinks each sitting there and have dinner. Theres not many bars two block down the street in town from my house. Thats why I'm weighing said situation |
01-09-2009, 12:42 PM | #7 |
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This is very interesting actually. My advice is not needed sadly as I am not legal drinking age in the states. I don't know if I would do it though, it's like dating one of your best friends girlfriends best friends...that sounds so confusing but I hope you get what I'm going for...it may end up awkward no matter how it works out.
I would suggest getting to know her better apart from work though if that is an option. |
01-09-2009, 12:44 PM | #8 |
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Keep the bar! Finding a close bar that's good is hard. On top of that even though the chick has seen how you are, shes seen the SINGLE you how you are. If you were with her I doubt she'd be down to have you hanging out with chicks drinking as per usual.
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01-09-2009, 01:05 PM | #11 |
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Are you sure she isn't jus ttrying to get bigger tips from you?
Maybe she does this with many guys that go to her bar.
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01-09-2009, 01:12 PM | #12 | |
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It's like a stripper she may act interested but at the end of the night it's all bout the Washingtons in her thong .. ya feel me??>>!! |
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01-09-2009, 01:15 PM | #13 | |
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Shes a waitress. I always sit at the bar. there has never been a situation where she has waited on me, yet she still stops and talks to me while she is waiting tables or standing around. Trust me I know when a chick is fishing for tips. NO awkward i want money leg touch. When we went out for her birthday she laughed at my joke and did like the shoulder lean in and bump then lean away thing (if anyone knows what im talking about). She sat next to me the entire night rather than my friend i was with and made sure to hug me before i left. It was all good body language. Never awkward....but 21st birthday drunkeness can do that |
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01-09-2009, 01:09 PM | #16 |
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Does she laugh at your jokes and lightly touch your leg or arm when you're there?
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01-09-2009, 01:16 PM | #19 |
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Oh alright.
That sounds better.
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01-09-2009, 01:25 PM | #21 | |
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lol to me Bar>girl. but thats cause i interact with sloars on a daily basis, and NY sloars love casual sex. I thought maybe people expiriencing good relationships might shed light on something i am missing cause i have become quite jaded about commitment in recent years |
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01-09-2009, 01:28 PM | #22 |
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01-09-2009, 01:34 PM | #23 | |
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Just boring hum-drum pelvis pounding. Girls who just lay there and moan/scream get boring. its hard to find a sloar who knows what she wants and makes you do it |
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01-09-2009, 01:39 PM | #24 | |
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WE gotta hit up New Rochelle Iona area all them Sloars are freaky as shit.. haha or New Paltz which might be closer for you... |
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01-09-2009, 01:48 PM | #27 |
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"dont mix business with pleasure"
...even if you just fucked around with her, wouldnt it still be awkward either way considering you'd have to still go back to the bar and see her?
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01-09-2009, 01:55 PM | #28 | |
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I mean my birthday is next week and i told on of the girls i was going to the bar for my birthday and now like 6 of them are going to be there for that lol |
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01-09-2009, 01:55 PM | #29 | |||
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Wouldn't surprise me last time i was there was in 01 and all them broads love dick... Quote:
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01-09-2009, 01:53 PM | #30 |
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haha....tecate is a mexican beer. you would know if you lived in cali. lol
try the gf thing. i mean if you dig the girl enough, you should try it. just dont be the one that fucks up the relationship. and just try, if things were to go sour, to keep it freindly. hopefully that wont mess up things at the bar. because it is tough to find a bar like that.
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