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08-29-2008, 10:56 PM | #1 |
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The Relationships Thread
In this thread, you can ask questions regarding anything to do with
relationships, whether it be your own, or whatever. How to end one, how to start one, how to salvage one, etc. Anything on your mind, any questions you may have, ask. Love, sex, romance, anything. You will get opinions from both a man's point of view, as well as a woman's. Be patient with your questions, as I get busy at times. I'll answer everyone's questions in a timely manner. I don't claim myself as an expert in this, but I have had my share of experience, whether good or bad. Same with the people mentioned above. [COLOR="purple"][B]Please don't post useless information, or get off-topic, if you do, that's all on you. IF YOU'RE LOOKING MORE INTO GETTING LAID, OR STRAIGHT UP HOW TO PICK UP WOMEN, THIS ISN'T THE THREAD. HERE'S A LINK TO THAT http://zilvia. net/f/off-topic-chat/210490-how-spit-game-101-please-read-rules. html" target="_blank">THREAD. Now, onto the questions! Last edited by ALTRNTV; 08-30-2008 at 03:18 PM.. |
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08-29-2008, 11:32 PM | #5 |
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Aight i'll start, me and my gf have had some issues. Now when we try to spend time with each other, we worry too much about what each other thinks. She says she feels weak, scared to say something wrong. Blah blah
Now how do I get it back to normal?
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08-29-2008, 11:49 PM | #6 |
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i take it we should keep this serious. you guys should talk it through. seeing that you're 16.."if that is your actual age" it's a maturity issue. young guns
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08-29-2008, 11:51 PM | #7 |
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this is like love line. lol dr drew, adam corolla kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyy
roooooooooooooooooooooooocckkkkkk!
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08-30-2008, 12:13 AM | #8 |
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We've been on and off since I was a freshman, Now a senior. So its pretty serious, I surely wouldn't want to break it off anytime soon.
btw I turn 17 in September, im just one of the younger ones. lol
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08-30-2008, 12:14 AM | #9 |
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what kind of issues?
this what dr drew would say... Teen relationships typically don't last long because as a teen, we're undecisive, not fully mature yet, and not really sure about things. Usually, the teen might feel he or she is in love when really, it's puppy love. Teen relationships are like pre-relationships, relationships that get you ready for true, fully committed relationships that he or she might have as they get older. Most if not all are childish since neither party really seems to know what they want. It is usually a fun type of relationship based on sexual attraction and then either party may want others and will not be able to sit and commit. |
08-30-2008, 12:17 AM | #10 | |
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both your ages will play a huge role in it. |
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08-30-2008, 03:17 PM | #11 | |
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for it. High-school relationships are a joke. 9 out of 10 times, they break it off. That "high-school sweet-heart" is a bunch of BS. Yes, some of them actually do get married, but most don't last too long. Like that quote up there, young people are too indecisive, not fully matured, and still don't know what they want out of a relationship. It's more of a status thing to have a bf/gf in high-school, in my opinion. Don't think too much on it. You're only 16. You will have PLENTY more girlfriends in the future. Trust me. I know it seems pretty fucked up what I'm saying, but I see it all too much. These high-school lovers put too much effort and "love" into their relationships, only to get heartbroken later. Well, I guess that's how people learn and mature, through things like this. I know I did. But, to answer your question, have a serious talk with her and just straight out ask her why she feels that way. You're her bf, so she can feel safe in telling you what she's feeling. Maybe she's going through some hard times? |
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help you out with that, buddy. This forum is for you. Oh ya, judging by your PM to me the other day which said... Quote:
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08-30-2008, 03:56 PM | #14 | |
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Don't spend your high school years in a relationship, I spent a year and a half of mine in one and I DEFINITELY regret it. Akademik is right high school relationships are bull shit. They will get you nowhere. It's like jerking off with no intention of finishing. Find a new girl especially if she has issues. Don't make your life any harder than it has to be.
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08-30-2008, 05:31 PM | #16 |
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I listen to Leykis all the time, but he gets kind of
boring. His topics are usually about the same thing, day in and day out. Leykis 101 -never get married -never have children -fuck as many girls as you can |
08-30-2008, 06:33 PM | #17 |
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^thats how i live my life!!!!
fuck bitches get money. honestly in high school/college you shouldnt be spending your time having a gf. spend that time with studies and whatnot. college...the biggest poon supply shop, get them while they run wild. im selfish and i think its ok. dont need to waste time/money on them. and this goes for chicks also. ride em and leave em. |
08-30-2008, 06:41 PM | #18 |
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ok so here's my question...i was like dating/talking to this girl. i fucked her and now she is just annoying and i dont like her at all anymore. how do i let her down easy? and thats the second girl thats happened to me with. she is still a cool chick but i'm just not into her AT ALL anymore.
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08-30-2008, 06:50 PM | #19 | |
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Easiest way to let her down is to just be straight up with her. It may suck, she may cry, man up do what you gotta do.
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08-30-2008, 08:42 PM | #22 | |
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did she turn les? or did she end up throwing it in your face in the end? females can be lame like that tho. everythings okay when your in the moment, but when things get rough in the relationship; they like to use it against the guy. idk, girls are complicated. if she doesn't come back, fuck it.. its her loss right? jus continue to live life for your own satisfaction. "YOU" comes first before anyone elses happiness. that goes for both male and female but if you really love her, try to make it work. try to forget, learn, and move forward... good luck man! |
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08-30-2008, 10:42 PM | #23 | |
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i thought this was a given? if youre going to have a 3 some its gotta be with 2 random girls. it NEVER ends well if you have a 3 way with someone u are in a relationship with. jealousy, mistrust, and a whole shit ton of drama is the only thing that can come of it. |
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08-31-2008, 08:37 AM | #24 | |
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In reality it's not even about meeting the right guy, it has more to do with timing and when she is tired of screwing around. High School relationships are disposable, you should be perfecting your technique with numerous partners (protected of course), that way when you get to college you'll know what your doing and have a great time.
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she kept thinking i was going around with other girls and part of me thought she was going around with other guys whole thing collapsed on itself 2 years down the drain dosnt matter now im over it live and learn |
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08-31-2008, 10:11 AM | #26 | |
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I am going to have to agree with you. If I could go back in time (in a delorean, of course) I would have never bothered with girls in high school. I got married right after high school (no kids, thank God), lived like I was in a prison because she was a year or two older so she called shot. Man, I envied all the kids that were my age doing their thing and I was playing the adult roll being married and working..... I got divorced about 6 years ago... lol. true story. Focus in school, there will be many many many girls later down the line.
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09-01-2008, 02:09 AM | #29 |
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date the person that has the same religion you do. Me and my girl have completely different ideas, she's Mormon and I'm Agnostic. it causes arguments... we still work it out and end up going to bed happy(ish) but it would be easier if she thought the same way. I personally dont care what she believes. but she's doesn't |
09-01-2008, 04:14 AM | #30 |
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Then I just fucked up then lol.
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