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View Poll Results: Should i choose the bar or the girl? | |||
Keep enjoying the bar and random sloars | 79 | 33.91% | |
explore the girlfriend thing there are always more bars | 154 | 66.09% | |
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01-09-2009, 02:00 PM | #33 |
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if she swallows and lets you check her oil, then its worth the risk of losing your bar
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01-09-2009, 02:03 PM | #35 |
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says a lot about your "game"....
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01-09-2009, 02:19 PM | #36 |
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I think my problem is i am growing bored of the personality-less sloars that I smash on a weekly basis.
I want someone to cook me food and do thoughtful things for me 16/16 this is a tight race |
01-09-2009, 02:37 PM | #38 |
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If you guys can't tell the difference between "I want your nuts" and "I want your moneyz", then it's time to leave that whole mess behind completely.
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01-09-2009, 02:44 PM | #39 | |
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you should go talk to her....LOLZ |
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01-09-2009, 02:53 PM | #40 |
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I gave her a $20 cause that's all I had, and she was only asking for like $5, of course she's onto me
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01-10-2009, 07:00 PM | #44 |
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You could also try taking her out and talking to her about it. Tell her that you enjoy coming to the bar and it's your local spot. Tell her if things go sour between you two, you don't want to lose that spot as your bar of choice. Then let her make the decision. Much easier on your part.
I lost my favorite bar because of a girl too. For a while. Then I said fuck her, I like this bar.
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01-10-2009, 11:33 PM | #47 |
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What???
Really??? If you like her... do work. A bar.. big deal... a little drama at your local pub only makes the bar that much more interesting... hell if she drops off you could get drama booty. I have been a server at several places... all servers, Male and Female are whores... I say this in a good way... and the same netwoking applies to you and your local pub. The turn over rate in the service industry is higher then any other occupation. (in context and out... its the truth) -Drew |
01-11-2009, 08:43 AM | #48 |
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there's a saying; don't shit where you eat...
this girl is probably not all that into you anyways, theres a fucking bunch of guys hitting on her and she flirts back for more tips.. there's other girls out there and your better off not fucking up your spot.
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01-11-2009, 10:19 AM | #49 |
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this thread got some pretty good debate going.
my friend and i went home with another bartender and watiress from their last night. Man, I had a lot of fun. Im keeping the bar. Screw being tied down |
01-12-2009, 01:00 PM | #52 | |
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IME bar waitresses rarely date regular patrons... Not saying it can't happen, but it seems to be definitely not the norm.
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01-12-2009, 04:03 PM | #54 |
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If you date her and break-up, oh well. If she acts like a child about it, the women at the bar do the same, etc... They can all go grow the hell up and you will just have to find a more grown-up bar to hang at or let them know how it is one at a time. Group addresses don't work well in this situation. If they cannot live with the facts of life then tell them to go to hell and move on.
If you couldn't tell... I don't get attached or hung up easy. I DO NOT care what anyone thinks of me unless they are my mother or control my annual income, then it is only a slight concern. My way may not be the best way, but I damn sure don't have to deal with women pulling this drama garbage after a situation falls thru. I keep EVERYTHING pretty direct. I don't have the time to entertain a useless arguement. If it looks like it may fall thru, sit her down and discuss it with her. /\ /\ /\ /\ /\ /\ That one action alone has allowed me to keep half of my ex's as friends. Some of them seem "friendlier" now than when we dated. GOOD LUCK!!
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01-12-2009, 04:15 PM | #55 |
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ohh its not the women who bother me. They can all go jump off a bridge. Theres a biliion girls out there. Its the loss of good food and free YES FREE!!!! beer. That not only affects my stomach but my wallet as well.
I was just playing with the idea of getting to know this chick better cause she seemed pretty cool. Not the normal spzzed out sloars i have been dealing with lately. Laid back, chill a girl you could smoke a j with and just relax and still have a good time, if i smoked anymore that is this thread was more of a social expirement. Cause i myself kinda want to just keep the bar and maybe have a few random hook ups but i wanted to see if i have become a womanizing asshole or not |
01-14-2009, 05:30 AM | #57 |
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As a girl, here's my .02, in a way that most guys hear it anyways...
:b lah::bla h: :b lah: Free beer and good food and lots of friends > But on the serious... I have found that the best relationships I have been in were ones where we just kinda "hung out" first, with a no pressure kind of situation.. If you enjoy her company, do just that.. enjoy it. Don't act differently than you always do to "impress" her or anything. Girls hate that b/c we see right through it lol. If she likes you, then let her like YOU, not a polished up version of you.
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01-14-2009, 02:34 PM | #59 |
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actually if she saw this post it'd me she posts on here.
that'd be kinda hot and just more we'd have in common. I think that would sway my decision towards dating her |
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