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SimpleS14 · 02-28-2010, 01:34 PM

I would go for it. Ive seen this match-up before and there were no issues. I will admit the girl was 20, but her character reflected as a much older (and mature) woman.

The only drawback you will have is if you're trying to getting into a place that is 21 and older.

TurboSE · 02-28-2010, 02:57 PM

I'm 29, I'll "do" anything 18-45 depending on looks and skanklieness....but dating is different...25-33 is my limit, unless they're extremely hot, but then all I'm thinking about is hitting it anyway...

TurboSE · 02-28-2010, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by SimpleS14

The only drawback you will have is if you're trying to getting into a place that is 21 and older.

This could also be viewed as a benefit, no need to worry about her crashing a guy's night to check up on you for a year (give or take)...by then you should be able to judge whether or not she's the type to spy on you...

Matej · 02-28-2010, 03:06 PM

Recently found out that the legal age of consent in Kansas is 16.

theicecreamdan · 02-28-2010, 03:13 PM

I'm 24, she's 20. Its fine, but it helps a lot that we're in the exact same place in school.

So really I'm "younger" than a lot of 24 year olds. If I already had my degree things might be different, but I don't know.

I think if you're in similar life situations its easier to make it work.

murda-c · 02-28-2010, 03:20 PM

age of consent here is 16 i think...

All these milk products are making girls develop early.

wh0aitznic0 · 02-28-2010, 03:27 PM

If she's old enough to breathe, she's old enough to breed. *high five*

In all seriousness, though I COMPLETELY agree with this guy:

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Originally Posted by Brian

Just think... as you get older, the age gap matters less.

When you are 50, you might have a wife that is 40. No problem.

However if you are 25 and your girlfriend is 15..... problem city.

lol

NismoDriverS13 · 02-28-2010, 03:32 PM

hahaha..... old enough to pee, old enough for me! my friend used to say that on the way to a club.

I dated a 26 year old korean chick for a year and i was 19. it was the shit! she was fucking hot!!!

TurboSE · 02-28-2010, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by wh0aitznic0

If she's old enough to breathe, she's old enough to breed. *high five*

In all seriousness, though I COMPLETELY agree with this guy:

I agree also, really, that's why I'm waiting until I'm 40-45 to get married...that way I can snag a chick in her mid-late 20's. My next wife is in grade school...gives me 10-15 years to finish my 240 before I have to think about a ring...

worangejuice · 02-28-2010, 03:46 PM

it's fine/thread

drift freaq · 02-28-2010, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Touge Noob S13

Now where is Driftfreaq?

Hey hey hey. Aya is 34. She may look like she is 19 though hahahhahhahahha.

Seriously though to Busteds13 man your 25 and she is 20. At this point in time she is easily as mature as you or possibly more. LOL

Guys,Women mature before men do. The average 25 year old man has the emotional maturity of a 18-19 year old women and the average 19 year old Women has the maturity of a 25 year old man. Women achieve full maturity around 24 men do it around 28. Its actually a studied fact.

Now as far as older men dating younger women goes? For myself I draw lines at the maturity factor. While a women who is 19-23 will be fun she will usually wind up being a headache for a man in his 30-40's..

If I was to date someone now the preferred age cutoff would be about 27-28. Just because I like women who have their lives figured out.

Fact is once someone is mature, age should not really be that big of factor. Unless you are trying to do the I want children gig.

Older women are at a disadvantage here vs older men. Hence why you do see men in their 40's and even 50's with Women in their late twenties early 30's.

The age thing creeps some of you out because you're young enough for it bother you. When I was in my early twenties I did not even bother thinking about the older younger thing. If they were in 3- 5 years of my age I went for it. Legal is and was the key.

As you get a little older, if you are single and still game enough to pull down the younger ones you will probably look at it differently. LOL

Oh and stop worrying about others and worry about yourself. If it is an issue with you then you need to look at yourself.

worangejuice · 02-28-2010, 03:46 PM

hahaha nice

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Originally Posted by TurboSE

I agree also, really, that's why I'm waiting until I'm 40-45 to get married...that way I can snag a chick in her mid-late 20's. My next wife is in grade school...gives me 10-15 years to finish my 240 before I have to think about a ring...

***Future240*** · 02-28-2010, 04:06 PM

I think it's lets about age and more about where you are in life and your maturity level. At 20 she might be in college still or she might be less mature than you are. If those things check out then break off her some vitamin D.

Mister.E · 02-28-2010, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ronmcdon

My current GF is 8 yrs older than me (me in my early 30's, she in her late 30's).
It's actually worked out so much better than my prior relationships.
No drama, easy to predict what she means when she says something, very reasonable.

so fucking true!

Touge Noob S13 · 02-28-2010, 04:53 PM

I think I need to stop eyeing the 15 year olds

drift freaq · 02-28-2010, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Touge Noob S13

I think I need to stop eyeing the 15 year olds

ya if you don't want to run the risk of getting tossed in Jail. LOL

TurboSE · 02-28-2010, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by future240

I think it's lets about age and more about where you are in life and your maturity level. At 20 she might be in college still or she might be less mature than you are. If those things check out then break off her some vitamin D.

very true...I just finished dating a 25 year old who had way more going for her than I did...she was smart, successful, goal-oriented and beautiful...didn't fit at all in my life...

you gotta be on the same level....regardless of age

PS-that's not saying I only hump ugly, dumb chicks from McDonald's...

Enna · 02-28-2010, 05:54 PM

I had this tossed around in my head for a lil while. My friend is trying to hook me up with his gf's friend who is 16 (I believe), and I'm 24. I'm not really game for it because of the age gap. 8 years is kind of a big deal at this age lol. Besides I'd rather a chick that doesn't have to worry about being underage or needing parents permission for something.

TurboSE · 02-28-2010, 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Touge Noob S13

I think I need to stop eyeing the 15 year olds

I call it "scouting" just keep your cell phone in one hand and the other on the steering wheel. And don't touch...there are a lot of girls in my "minor leagues"...think I'm sick? Act like you didn't wait for the Olsen twins to turn 18...hypocrites...

TurboSE · 02-28-2010, 05:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Enna

I had this tossed around in my head for a lil while. My friend is trying to hook me up with his gf's friend who is 16 (I believe), and I'm 24. I'm not really game for it because of the age gap. 8 years is kind of a big deal at this age lol. Besides I'd rather a chick that doesn't have to worry about being underage or needing parents permission for something.

16...regardless of local laws is still touchy territory. 18 is 18 is 18 everywhere, everyday...I'd rather not have to hire a lawyer to defend a handjob.

az_240 · 02-28-2010, 06:49 PM

It makes me sick thinking of a 30+ year old dude with a younger girl for some reason. One of my ex's told me she got with a 30 year old when she was 18 and it always kind of bugged me.

I'm sure when I'm 30 I won't giveafuck though

drift freaq · 02-28-2010, 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by az_240

It makes me sick thinking of a 30+ year old dude with a younger girl for some reason. One of my ex's told me she got with a 30 year old when she was 18 and it always kind of bugged me.

I'm sure when I'm 30 I won't giveafuck though

Just like I posted earlier. It gets you now because your young and you feel like you own the world. The shear thought of a older guy getting someone your age bothers you. They should not have the right its your territory, right? Though when you get older you realize hey I know things now that I did not even know then. You realize you have better game.

Seriously guys what you learn and realize in your 30's will just make you go damn what was I thinking and doing.

soreballz · 02-28-2010, 07:49 PM

General rule: Divide your age by two, and add seven, and that's the youngest you should go.

I tried to live by that, but I failed by plowing a 17 year old last night. 17 is legal here, but still, I feel kinda like a dirty old man. lol

tricky_ab · 02-28-2010, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by soreballz

General rule: Divide your age by two, and add seven, and that's the youngest you should go.

I tried to live by that, but I failed by plowing a 17 year old last night. 17 is legal here, but still, I feel kinda like a dirty old man. lol

You should feel like a dirty old man...you're 24 and she's still in high school...

And to the OP, you should just go for it!

AE_Racer · 02-28-2010, 08:13 PM

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The age of consent in Florida is 18, but close in age exemptions exist. By law, the exception permits a person 23 years of age or younger to engage in legal sexual activity with a minor aged 16 or 17.

*holemilk00* · 02-28-2010, 08:38 PM

I agree with Drift freaq, its all about the maturity, I'm 33, my gf is 23, shes a mature girl for her age, we get along great, she's got her life figured out and our relationship is doing well because we share the same outlook on life and where are priorities should lay. In sharp contrast my best friend is 26 and his gf just flipped 22, and she is a complete immature drama filled brat, and his life is hell because of it, I still haven't figured out why he deals with it.

BlackZenkiS14 · 02-28-2010, 09:00 PM

Im 24 now, and just broke up with my 19 year old girlfriend. Never again. lol

I will only date chicks over 20 now. No questions asked.

xquizitditz · 02-28-2010, 09:08 PM

i never understood how "age is just a number" until i got into my current relationship. my boyfriend and i have an age gap but i feel like our maturity levels are about equal. i actually wouldn't realize the age gap if i didn't get reminded by others. it's different from when you're outside the relationship, spectating than when you're actually in one.

***enkei2k*** · 02-28-2010, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Enna

I had this tossed around in my head for a lil while. My friend is trying to hook me up with his gf's friend who is 16 (I believe), and I'm 24. I'm not really game for it because of the age gap. 8 years is kind of a big deal at this age lol. Besides I'd rather a chick that doesn't have to worry about being underage or needing parents permission for something.

go for it. see what happens. maybe the girl's parents are awesome and will approve. 8 years isn't that bad...like said earlier, the gap seems big, but it really isn't that big a deal as time goes on. hey, she might be mature for her age and you won't even notice the age difference after you get to know her. and you 'believe' she's 16. she could be older, or younger.

PS - you won't go to jail if nobody knows.

wh0aitznic0 · 02-28-2010, 09:32 PM

"She's very mature for her age."

02-28-2010, 01:34 PM	#31
SimpleS14 Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Philly Age: 38 Posts: 9,185 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: SimpleS14 Feedback Score: 0 reviews	I would go for it. Ive seen this match-up before and there were no issues. I will admit the girl was 20, but her character reflected as a much older (and mature) woman. The only drawback you will have is if you're trying to getting into a place that is 21 and older. __________________ *Goals are dreams with a deadline.* L.H.O.O.Q.

02-28-2010, 02:57 PM	#32
TurboSE Zilvia Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Hanover Pa Posts: 740 Trader Rating: (15) Feedback Score: 15 reviews	I'm 29, I'll "do" anything 18-45 depending on looks and skanklieness....but dating is different...25-33 is my limit, unless they're extremely hot, but then all I'm thinking about is hitting it anyway... __________________ WTB: PAIR 18x10 0 to -25, less than $1500 shipped please.

02-28-2010, 03:20 PM	#36
murda-c Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Montgomery County, MD Age: 33 Posts: 3,197 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	age of consent here is 16 i think... All these milk products are making girls develop early. __________________

02-28-2010, 03:46 PM	#40
worangejuice Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: WeeeHoooo,CA Age: 41 Posts: 1,519 Trader Rating: (10) Rides Gallery: worangejuice Feedback Score: 10 reviews	it's fine/thread __________________

02-28-2010, 08:38 PM	#56
holemilk00 Premium Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Cape Coral, FL Posts: 2,485 Trader Rating: (33) Feedback Score: 33 reviews	I agree with Drift freaq, its all about the maturity, I'm 33, my gf is 23, shes a mature girl for her age, we get along great, she's got her life figured out and our relationship is doing well because we share the same outlook on life and where are priorities should lay. In sharp contrast my best friend is 26 and his gf just flipped 22, and she is a complete immature drama filled brat, and his life is hell because of it, I still haven't figured out why he deals with it. __________________ I had a cool signature

02-28-2010, 03:06 PM	#34
Matej Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: N/A Posts: 9,423 Trader Rating: (39) Feedback Score: 39 reviews	Recently found out that the legal age of consent in Kansas is 16.

02-28-2010, 03:32 PM	#38
NismoDriverS13 Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: So-Cal Age: 35 Posts: 506 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	hahaha..... old enough to pee, old enough for me! my friend used to say that on the way to a club. I dated a 26 year old korean chick for a year and i was 19. it was the shit! she was fucking hot!!!

02-28-2010, 06:49 PM	#51
az_240 Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Phx Posts: 3,097 Trader Rating: (41) Feedback Score: 41 reviews	It makes me sick thinking of a 30+ year old dude with a younger girl for some reason. One of my ex's told me she got with a 30 year old when she was 18 and it always kind of bugged me. I'm sure when I'm 30 I won't giveafuck though

02-28-2010, 09:00 PM	#57
BlackZenkiS14 Nissanaholic! Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: "St. Chuck", MO Age: 35 Posts: 2,091 Trader Rating: (15) Feedback Score: 15 reviews	Im 24 now, and just broke up with my 19 year old girlfriend. Never again. lol I will only date chicks over 20 now. No questions asked. __________________ -Kyle

02-28-2010, 09:08 PM	#58
xquizitditz Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Brooklyn, NY Posts: 9 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	i never understood how "age is just a number" until i got into my current relationship. my boyfriend and i have an age gap but i feel like our maturity levels are about equal. i actually wouldn't realize the age gap if i didn't get reminded by others. it's different from when you're outside the relationship, spectating than when you're actually in one.

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