Matej

Blonde people and blue eyed people are the only two races that are dying out, instead of multiplying rapidly like everyone else.
Do your part.

sw20>>s14

youd be surprised how things just flip like switches in our heads (e.g. think immature adolescent mentality entering adulthood, etc.)

i understand that mentalities towards children are purely preference and definitely respect that in your situation, up until this post...no disrespect in anyway, but in my opinion from this post, it just sounds like you have some growing up to do and may need to be more receptive to greater things in life...

i do understand where you are coming from though...maybe on some level you arent adverse to having kids, but just overly paranoid (almost over compulsive) about having them unexpectedly/irresponsibly...so thats why you resent the idea so much?

all your posts have the context of you having a kid right now and "robbing" you of your experiences...hell, i dont want a kid now either, but later on in life (maybe in 6+ years), its not even a question that i will...so i dont understand the "now or never" urgency...why cant you responsibly have a kid 5-10 years from now...goals, priorities, and attitudes towards things like this are ever changing...i wouldnt be too hasty...

especially since you mentioned that your dream girl would be a woman that also does not want a kid...talking out of my ass (no disrespect if i offend anyone or anyones significant other), but id hate to meet the girl along with her baggage or "issues" that actually doesnt want a kid...not being sexist, its innate with women on a biological level and if they dont have the inclination or affinity towards motherhood/nurturing, id hate to see what other wires have been crossed...again, no disrespect, i know plenty of women and family members that fall under this category, but they either seem very unfulfilled with life or just not all there...

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KiLLeR2001

^ hit 'em wit da truf!!!

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Brian

I would like to say that the original post really made me chuckle.

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Tantwoforty

i want one and im only 21

BOROSUN

no more jizz in your pants for you.

axiomatik

Your priorities and desires do change over the years. I have a coworker who is 45, almost all his life he had no interest in kids or even getting married. Didn't plan on ever getting married. Then he met the person that was right for him, got married, and at about age 40, had a kid. Now he talks about his kid all the time, is den leader for his son's Cub Scouts, etc.

I was never to interested in having kids. My brother and sister are 13 and 15 years younger than me, I grew up with babies in the house and had no interest in repeating that. But now I have a 4 year old and a 6 month old, and your attitude really changes when they are *your* kids. Can the be annoying? Definitely. Do I sometimes want to punch a wall? Sure. But when they smile at you, you forget all that bs.

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Banana_Cute

So fucking true man.

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raz0rbladez909

There has been some misinformation throughout this thread but heres the good news, you can still give em the goop, and jizz in your pants; It just won't have any little swimmers in it.

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BoostSlideWayz

Dude most women will not even consider marriage unless theres a chance of a baby.. Idk why but women love babies.... Literally .... if i ever had that done my girl would leave me because she always talks about us having a family . and ive messed with her saying what if i dont want kids ? and she literally says * i guess ill have to get fertalized then ... some girls are just determined to have em. But if you really look you will find some girl whos down to have a marriage with out any children.

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trigjones

This definitely made me take a step back and reconsider. Ya, I am selfish and irresponsible, but as a kid I had to grow up really quick and do most stuff kids shouldn't have to deal with, such as taking care of my brothers and sisters (buying groceries with my own money) when I was 12 and my mom was battling breast cancer, helping her with morphine injections (for pain, not to get high) when I was 16 and it showed up again, then losing her when I was a senior in high school.

Beyond a long laundry list of other traumatic events, I felt like I got robbed of those care-free years when I was younger, and am highly resistant to the idea of giving those up. 99% of the girls I met wouldn't qualify as long term girlfriends, spouses if out of the question, and as mothers, I wouldn't want to be within a mile of the cluster-F that would be...

The current one however, is that really special chick... and maybe kids are one of those life experiences that you should have, and avoiding it might be robbing yourself of something truly unique.


We both want halfie's if we have kids, one twinkie, one oreo. I don't know how we are going to arrange this...

exitspeed

lol. This is so fucked up, but funny to me too. I always wanted kids, but was never a "kid" kinda person. Like other people's kids I'm like eh. I still am actually. My kid is different though.

I have no advice for you and I really wouldn't seek this kind of advice on a car forum like Zilvia. Maybe a gay ass VW forum yeah, but not Zilvia.

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WanganRunner

trollololol

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ka24debt

+1 this is why you shouldnt do it. if your having some sort of doubt about doing it then you shouldnt. as long as you and your partner are happy with your choice and you have no regrets thats all that matters

TurboSE

I'm 30, got one last year. I'm a pretty normal guy...I do tend to be serial dater though. That said, I still use protection 99% of the time. I did it because I feel the same about kids as you do. Also, I'm fickle and I can't see myself liking, loving or tolerating anyone for 18 years. I'm also selfish, I like my life and I'm not gonna roll the dice because it's what I'm "supposed to do." I'm 30, I don't want to be 50 when I have my life back. Adoption - I can always adopt if my mood changes, there are plenty of great kids in bad situations, i can help them if I ever feel the need. Last, at my age, most girls I meet already have 1 or 2 kids and they're not in the market for more...the ones that are, I don't trust enough to believe them when they say "I'll stay on the pill until you're ready."

First, the procedure. It's the easiest surgery ever, literally 15 mins. The pain is minimal, take Friday off work, chill for the weekend, back to work Monday (Maybe Tues if you're soft or have a very active job.) Get a few bags of frozen corn from Wal-Mart ($0.88) and a case/bottle of your favorite beer/liquor respectively.

The after effects. I still think about what my kids would be named sometimes...it passes quickly. Sometimes i'm sorry I didn't give my parents a grandchild, but that's minor...I don't really know my mom and my dad has his own life. That's really about it.

The girls. if they ask, I tell em I can't have any. If they ask why, I say "It's personal." if they leave, they leave....I'm not willing to be with a girl that is only interested in me for my baby batter anyway.

That's just my 2/100th's of a dollar....follow your gut man.

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SimpleS14

I agree.

lol wut?

Uh....this is a joke right? lol Just stick with your option to adopt....probably when they are 3.

Anyways, I know where you're coming from as I don't plan to get married nor do I want kids either. However I wouldn't go as far as having a vasectomy cause I never know what the future holds.

It's possible to find someone with the same feelings towards kids. I have a friend that's married to a woman that doesn't want kids and he couldn't be anymore happier. A rare find IMO, in fact he found her overseas lol

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marcencar

Your judgment in posting this on a car site is questionable and shows the lack of common sense, if this was a serious dilemma.

A quick Google search brought up multiple health forums that are more knowledgeable and experienced about this topic. Posting this on a car site where more than half probably still live with their parents and/or still consider dropping their bare balls sack on others for fun.

So too make your decision easier as well as doing the world a favor, please do the procedure. You definitely shouldn't procreate.

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BoostSlideWayz

I think he just wants insite from others that have the same interests as him...

bottom line, i believe its reversible so get it done. Then if you sometime down the line actually change your mind for some reason just have it reversed.

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marcencar

Are you honestly telling me there are many others on this site that are interested in getting a vasectomy....... seriously!? lol

I bet half the kids on this site just barely had their balls drop, much less be interested in getting the cut.

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TurboSE

My urologist told me "this is to be considered a permanent procedure, while it can be reversed, the chances of conception after the reversal hover around 50%."

Not saying it's impossible, just passing on his opinion. Also, if you don't have kids they probably won't do the operation...unless you lie, they don't check.

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BoostSlideWayz

No i was saying car wise, hes a car guy asking other car people what they would do. He probably would consider other peoples opinions that share the same interests than someone who doesnt.

ahh ok, well then thats just something you need to think about like a lot. I always tell my family i wont have kids but they always tell me it will most likely happen either way. but i guess if you genuinely do not want kids then just do it.

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TurboSE

It definitely requires a lot thought, and I understand why you asked for other peoples opinions...I did the same, I asked co-workers, but everyone's situation is different. What does your girl think (might be in the thread somewhere, I don't remember)? Bottom line, it's one of the most permanent things you can do to your body and your life, so make sure you do it for the right reasons.

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axe3112

I am getting one but I have 3 kids.

nathanong87

oh man. i'd be scared

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trigjones

Ya, my girl said "Why the hell did you post it in a car forum. Honestly, I don't know, most of the 240 drivers I see are around 18-22, and ya, still live with their parents. But their balls and brains function, and some of us are starting to plan out our future.

Some of the responses have been down-right ignorant or retarded (no offense to our special needs people), but there have been some f*cking gems of wisdom on here, and its all appreciated.

Ya, my girl said "Why the hell did you post it in a car forum. Honestly, I don't know, most of the 240 drivers I see are around 18-22, and ya, still live with their parents. But their balls and brains function, and some of us are starting to plan out our future.

Some of the responses have been down-right ignorant or retarded (no offense to our special needs people), but there have been some f*cking gems of wisdom on here, and its all appreciated.

TheWolf

I don't understand the lure of vasectomy. The procedure was invented to allow couples, who are married and have had all the kids they wanted, an alternative form of birth control. To allow the wife to be off "the pill" before she drops dead of a blood clot. Since it doesn't protect against HIV or any STD's, in the dating scene it's less than ideal.

As the old wise sage sam kinison said "If you don't trust the p**sy, why are you f**king the p**sy?"

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lewisfk

no, it doesnt matter how u feel! If u find the right woman and she has the desire to have a kid, now what! Plus i use to assist with the procedure at my clinic and its very easy to due but hard as fuck to undo regardless of the results! this comment is for anyone who is thinking of doing this!

Bbsalexaz

Get HER tubes tied. Women can't really feel it.... That surgery is reverseable, but at least you can make a mess and not worry about a chance of her pregnancy.

nathanong87

this only applies if u are married.

what about the "i'm 30 and single, and dont wanna make lots of mini-me's from all the womenz i be sleeping wifz" scenario

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