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azanprophet · 02-13-2006, 10:13 AM

I know most of you don't care but I need advice.

My girlfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago and through a set of extraordinary circumstances remain living together. I was okay with her still living with me being broken up, not normal but tolerable and I still got some on a regular basis. But now she is starting to date some jackass who works at A&F and I can't stand it. She still totally depends on me for everything (food, clothes, etc) and says she wants to move out but has made no moves to do so. I am also now beginning to date someone else and I can't bring her to my place b/c she's always here.

What should I do? Should I kick her ass out and forget about her? Should I let her stay and continue to try and hit that or what? I need help deciding what to do.

citizen · 02-13-2006, 10:22 AM

you fail, that is all~

aznpoopy · 02-13-2006, 10:22 AM

kick her ass out dude.

clean break = healthier for both you and her.

**ThatGuy** · 02-13-2006, 10:25 AM

Check the paper for an opening for a "Human Door Mat", then you can get paid for this. If not, kick her ass out.

Xren17 · 02-13-2006, 10:47 AM

I think you need to ditch her ass. Your commitment to her ended the moment you broke up. Fuck, I don't even know how you've been able to handle it unless you have this retarded idea that you might get back with each other. The best way to get a girl is to show her that you're happy without her!

P4rD0nM3 · 02-13-2006, 11:07 AM

Get one more then ditch.

gbond15 · 02-13-2006, 11:09 AM

you should just own her and put all her shit on the front lawn... then change the locks. fin

Edgar · 02-13-2006, 11:17 AM

Go to a bar get fucked up find a hot ass girl take her home bang bang bang I dont want to know your name I just want bang bang bang

fuck bitches
dont stress
live life dude

fuck em leave em

and if they are good keep them around until they fuck up or they catch you cheating

trsilvias13 · 02-13-2006, 11:18 AM

You are renting ? Change the lease under her name.. or if it already under her.. pack your sh*t and leave.

Or

I so agress with gbond15, own her. Pack her stuff and put it outside. Tell that new girls of your about your situation. Get her to sit in the apt and when your ex comes home to open the door, she will ring the bell since the locks has been changed. Your new gf be like.. wtf? I live here.

P4rD0nM3 · 02-13-2006, 11:18 AM

Kick her out unless......she................................... ..................

that180guy · 02-13-2006, 11:46 AM

thas why u hit it one last time n cut them off lika ganggreen limb. no point in contact with an ex, imho.

***FaLKoN240*** · 02-13-2006, 11:47 AM

Psh, she should've been gone when you guys broke up. If YOU'RE the man, and paying the bills, it's up to YOU to kick her out.

It's not YOUR fault she can't keep up her own life.

If it comes down to it, tell her to move in with her A&F guy.

Also, stop trying to hit it, and if you want to keep trying to hit it, show her you're a man and throw her ass out. Give her like a week or two to get her shit together, after that, you're going to Gbond her.

infinitexsound · 02-13-2006, 11:48 AM

give her the talk, explain the situation.. and that she has to go.... saves u the guilt and emotional stress if u just... honestly tell the fucken TRUTH...

rockinpandas · 02-13-2006, 11:52 AM

pics first of all would help out greatly

Bryants95240sx · 02-13-2006, 11:52 AM

kick her out, you pay the rent, its your place. dont be a doormat.

Tenchuu · 02-13-2006, 12:00 PM

Unless you are her pimp and collecting money for services from the other guy, she has no right to be there mooching off you and not even being an easy call when you need one.

Nan Desu Ka?! · 02-13-2006, 12:04 PM

+15 for kick her out. I know its tough, but man up and do it. Your place, your $$, your fucking rules. done deal.

OMGWTFBBQ · 02-13-2006, 12:06 PM

have her come home to find all her shit in a box on the porch

TougeRacing · 02-13-2006, 12:15 PM

invite chuck norris. all ur problems will be solved.

SimpleSexy180 · 02-13-2006, 12:23 PM

^

but seriously....stop hittin it...bring the new girl over...and WHEN she says something...say she needs to leave.

**mrmephistopheles** · 02-13-2006, 12:39 PM

If you're not hitting it and aren't comfortable seeing her with someone else (or comfortable with her seeing you with someone else), end it.
There might be good financial reason for you guys to share a place, but the emotional and psychological toll is much more than it's worth.

theicecreamdan · 02-13-2006, 01:04 PM

this thread is worthless without pics.

Put it IDB

skatanic28 · 02-13-2006, 01:08 PM

invite her mother over for dinner, get her drunk, and then proceed to have loud and obnoxious sex all nite. things will take care of themselves from then on.

on a more serious note, toss her....soon. she is of no use to you anymore.

carnal_c30 · 02-13-2006, 01:15 PM

dude... go from the ex girl to the next girl... hanging around ex's not letting them go just makes them feel better... when you toss them and just get rid of them its alot better for you and chances are she'll come running back again later... and then you do the only thing possible... bitch slap her and tell her to get the hell away from you

TheWolf · 02-13-2006, 01:23 PM

To get her to leave is to give her enough pain to where she doesn't want to quit... I guarentee that her boyfriend doesn't want her living there either... so you've got to pry that leech off... quit buying groceries... turn off the phone.. get the cable turned off.. so sitting around there gets boring.. tell her your car needed some part and you couldn't pay the water bill but that's ok because you can pee in the tub and it still goes down the drain.. complain that your broke 24-7 then invite 10 guys over for a big party... get everyone plastered... then start messin with her.. like have one guy get lost on the way to the bathroom and pee on her... with everyone drunk she'll have to clean her sheets up and shower on her own.. start shouting other girls names during sex... invite your new GF over for valentines day so when she gets home and there's candles and flowers and shit... be like... hell no thats not for you... thats for *insert new GF* then keep talking about how sweet she is and how dreamy her eyes are.. and blah and blah.. let every conversation some how the subject changed to new GF.. pee on the toilet seat... wipe your ass with her shower towels... complain there's no toilet paper... remove all toilet paper from the place leave old food out and invite roaches in... prune your private area around her sink.. don't take the trash out... for 2 weeks... if your name is on the lease then you can have real fun... take the plate off her car and report it as abandoned to the office... get it towed.. she'll eventually take the hint... when it becomes uncool to stay at your place then she'll find someplace better... untill then she's comfortable then she won't move... leeches are like that.if her name is on the lease then tell her you payed them.. then don't pay... steal all the notices they put on the door... get her two months behind and evicted.. she'll never be able to rent again for a while... but you will... any combination of the above will work... the more the faster she leaves

Andrew Bohan · 02-13-2006, 01:27 PM

bring the new girl home. if the ex starts shit tell her bringing girls home is what single guys do and she can leave if she doesn't like it.

after the new girl is gone, if the ex is still all emo, buy her some flowers on the way home from wherever you go. when you get home, give them to her. she'll be happy. then say "here, now leave me alone you dumb bitch"

if she doesn't get the point after that, then just throw her ass out.

nissantuner22 · 02-13-2006, 01:32 PM

Simple. Bring the girl home, and start wearing the pants in the house.
If she objects to what you do, make sure to point out the door. Girls like guys with confidence. You sound like you have none. Simply tell her she has a week to get out. Oh, and poke fun of her new BF. That aids in the removal process.

drift freaq · 02-13-2006, 01:39 PM

ok several mistakes here.
1. Not seperating completely when you broke up.
2. Hitting it after you broke up and letting her still live with you.
3. letting her still live with you.
4. Not having enough self esteem as to take the initiative to kick her out regardless of consequnces for her.
5. Balls your seriously lacking.
In the end it all comes down to one thing. YOu broke up , you leave or she leaves. To still live together after breaking up and not reconciling is just shear idiocy at its peak. You either get back together or you kick her out. You can't have your cake and eat it to in this situation.

theicecreamdan · 02-13-2006, 01:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nissantuner22

Oh, and poke fun of her new BF. That aids in the removal process.

that sounds like a lack of confidence thing

Quote:

Originally Posted by nissantuner22

Simply tell her she has a week to get out. That aids in the removal process.

there we go.

pics or ban!

infinitexsound · 02-13-2006, 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheWolf

To get her to leave is to give her enough pain to where she doesn't want to quit... I guarentee that her boyfriend doesn't want her living there either... so you've got to pry that leech off... quit buying groceries... turn off the phone.. get the cable turned off.. so sitting around there gets boring.. tell her your car needed some part and you couldn't pay the water bill but that's ok because you can pee in the tub and it still goes down the drain.. complain that your broke 24-7 then invite 10 guys over for a big party... get everyone plastered... then start messin with her.. like have one guy get lost on the way to the bathroom and pee on her... with everyone drunk she'll have to clean her sheets up and shower on her own.. start shouting other girls names during sex... invite your new GF over for valentines day so when she gets home and there's candles and flowers and shit... be like... hell no thats not for you... thats for *insert new GF* then keep talking about how sweet she is and how dreamy her eyes are.. and blah and blah.. let every conversation some how the subject changed to new GF.. pee on the toilet seat... wipe your ass with her shower towels... complain there's no toilet paper... remove all toilet paper from the place leave old food out and invite roaches in... prune your private area around her sink.. don't take the trash out... for 2 weeks... if your name is on the lease then you can have real fun... take the plate off her car and report it as abandoned to the office... get it towed.. she'll eventually take the hint... when it becomes uncool to stay at your place then she'll find someplace better... untill then she's comfortable then she won't move... leeches are like that.if her name is on the lease then tell her you payed them.. then don't pay... steal all the notices they put on the door... get her two months behind and evicted.. she'll never be able to rent again for a while... but you will... any combination of the above will work... the more the faster she leaves

thats kinda excessive....

02-13-2006, 10:13 AM	#1
azanprophet Leaky Injector Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Houston, TX Age: 40 Posts: 49 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Ex-Girlfriend what do I do? I know most of you don't care but I need advice. My girlfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago and through a set of extraordinary circumstances remain living together. I was okay with her still living with me being broken up, not normal but tolerable and I still got some on a regular basis. But now she is starting to date some jackass who works at A&F and I can't stand it. She still totally depends on me for everything (food, clothes, etc) and says she wants to move out but has made no moves to do so. I am also now beginning to date someone else and I can't bring her to my place b/c she's always here. What should I do? Should I kick her ass out and forget about her? Should I let her stay and continue to try and hit that or what? I need help deciding what to do.

02-13-2006, 10:25 AM	#4
ThatGuy Admin Asshole Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Retired Age: 41 Posts: 20,394 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: ThatGuy Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Check the paper for an opening for a "Human Door Mat", then you can get paid for this. If not, kick her ass out. __________________ "Speak softly,..." -Pres. Teddy Roosevelt "Be polite, be professional, ..." -Gen. James Mattis

02-13-2006, 11:17 AM	#8
Edgar Post Whore! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Indianapolis,IN Posts: 4,979 Trader Rating: (13) Feedback Score: 13 reviews	Go to a bar get fucked up find a hot ass girl take her home bang bang bang I dont want to know your name I just want bang bang bang fuck bitches dont stress live life dude fuck em leave em and if they are good keep them around until they fuck up or they catch you cheating __________________ Drift Indy

02-13-2006, 11:46 AM	#11
that180guy Zilvia Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: EaStO BaYo Age: 35 Posts: 968 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	thas why u hit it one last time n cut them off lika ganggreen limb. no point in contact with an ex, imho. __________________ LP stylez!! bishes Lazy Penguin since teh 04' Part of the Elite Shasta Speed Stars RIP......05-09-03....sniff sniff the beast nears completion..... YOU LOOK AND U BUY STUFF !!!!!*

02-13-2006, 11:47 AM	#12
*FaLKoN240* Super Moderator Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 16,761 Trader Rating: (73) Feedback Score: 73 reviews	Psh, she should've been gone when you guys broke up. If YOU'RE the man, and paying the bills, it's up to YOU to kick her out. It's not YOUR fault she can't keep up her own life. If it comes down to it, tell her to move in with her A&F guy. Also, stop trying to hit it, and if you want to keep trying to hit it, show her you're a man and throw her ass out. Give her like a week or two to get her shit together, after that, you're going to Gbond her. __________________ Best way to do business with me? Make your best offer FIRST.

02-13-2006, 10:22 AM	#2
citizen Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Bay Area Posts: 1,240 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: citizen Feedback Score: 0 reviews	you fail, that is all~

02-13-2006, 10:22 AM	#3
aznpoopy Post Whore! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: New Jersey Age: 40 Posts: 5,013 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	kick her ass out dude. clean break = healthier for both you and her.

02-13-2006, 10:47 AM	#5
Xren17 Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: San Diego / Cerritos Posts: 341 Trader Rating: (4) Feedback Score: 4 reviews	I think you need to ditch her ass. Your commitment to her ended the moment you broke up. Fuck, I don't even know how you've been able to handle it unless you have this retarded idea that you might get back with each other. The best way to get a girl is to show her that you're happy without her!

02-13-2006, 11:07 AM	#6
P4rD0nM3 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Not Applicable Posts: 1,183 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Get one more then ditch.

02-13-2006, 11:09 AM	#7
gbond15 Leaky Injector Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Bay Area Posts: 132 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	you should just own her and put all her shit on the front lawn... then change the locks. fin

02-13-2006, 11:18 AM	#9
trsilvias13 Nissanaholic! Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 1,984 Trader Rating: (5) Feedback Score: 5 reviews	You are renting ? Change the lease under her name.. or if it already under her.. pack your sh*t and leave. Or I so agress with gbond15, own her. Pack her stuff and put it outside. Tell that new girls of your about your situation. Get her to sit in the apt and when your ex comes home to open the door, she will ring the bell since the locks has been changed. Your new gf be like.. wtf? I live here.

02-13-2006, 11:48 AM	#13
infinitexsound Post Whore! Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: INtraweb Age: 39 Posts: 3,522 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	give her the talk, explain the situation.. and that she has to go.... saves u the guilt and emotional stress if u just... honestly tell the fucken TRUTH... __________________ S14 TrackSlut coming to a raceway near you... 510 TimeAttack on its way...

02-13-2006, 11:52 AM	#14
rockinpandas Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: so. cali Posts: 459 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	pics first of all would help out greatly __________________ http://www.zilvia.net/f/showthread.php?t=21036

02-13-2006, 11:52 AM	#15
Bryants95240sx Zilvia Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: alabama Age: 33 Posts: 668 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	kick her out, you pay the rent, its your place. dont be a doormat. __________________

02-13-2006, 12:00 PM	#16
Tenchuu Post Whore! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Oregon Age: 39 Posts: 2,474 Trader Rating: (8) Rides Gallery: Tenchuu Feedback Score: 8 reviews	Unless you are her pimp and collecting money for services from the other guy, she has no right to be there mooching off you and not even being an easy call when you need one.

02-13-2006, 12:04 PM	#17
Nan Desu Ka?! Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: San Jose, CA Age: 35 Posts: 1,124 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	+15 for kick her out. I know its tough, but man up and do it. Your place, your $$, your fucking rules. done deal. __________________ Norcal-240sx.net

02-13-2006, 12:06 PM	#18
OMGWTFBBQ Zilvia Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: East Bay CA Posts: 741 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	have her come home to find all her shit in a box on the porch

02-13-2006, 12:15 PM	#19
TougeRacing Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: CA Posts: 375 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	invite chuck norris. all ur problems will be solved.

02-13-2006, 12:23 PM	#20
SimpleSexy180 Post Whore! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Cal Posts: 4,750 Trader Rating: (8) Rides Gallery: SimpleSexy180 Feedback Score: 8 reviews	^ but seriously....stop hittin it...bring the new girl over...and WHEN she says something...say she needs to leave.

02-13-2006, 01:08 PM	#23
skatanic28 Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: ny Age: 37 Posts: 443 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	invite her mother over for dinner, get her drunk, and then proceed to have loud and obnoxious sex all nite. things will take care of themselves from then on. on a more serious note, toss her....soon. she is of no use to you anymore.

02-13-2006, 01:15 PM	#24
carnal_c30 Zilvia Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: the sd bay to the sf yay area Posts: 629 Trader Rating: (3) Feedback Score: 3 reviews	dude... go from the ex girl to the next girl... hanging around ex's not letting them go just makes them feel better... when you toss them and just get rid of them its alot better for you and chances are she'll come running back again later... and then you do the only thing possible... bitch slap her and tell her to get the hell away from you

02-13-2006, 01:23 PM	#25
TheWolf Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Orange Park, FL (Jax) Posts: 1,468 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	To get her to leave is to give her enough pain to where she doesn't want to quit... I guarentee that her boyfriend doesn't want her living there either... so you've got to pry that leech off... quit buying groceries... turn off the phone.. get the cable turned off.. so sitting around there gets boring.. tell her your car needed some part and you couldn't pay the water bill but that's ok because you can pee in the tub and it still goes down the drain.. complain that your broke 24-7 then invite 10 guys over for a big party... get everyone plastered... then start messin with her.. like have one guy get lost on the way to the bathroom and pee on her... with everyone drunk she'll have to clean her sheets up and shower on her own.. start shouting other girls names during sex... invite your new GF over for valentines day so when she gets home and there's candles and flowers and shit... be like... hell no thats not for you... thats for insert new GF then keep talking about how sweet she is and how dreamy her eyes are.. and blah and blah.. let every conversation some how the subject changed to new GF.. pee on the toilet seat... wipe your ass with her shower towels... complain there's no toilet paper... remove all toilet paper from the place leave old food out and invite roaches in... prune your private area around her sink.. don't take the trash out... for 2 weeks... if your name is on the lease then you can have real fun... take the plate off her car and report it as abandoned to the office... get it towed.. she'll eventually take the hint... when it becomes uncool to stay at your place then she'll find someplace better... untill then she's comfortable then she won't move... leeches are like that.if her name is on the lease then tell her you payed them.. then don't pay... steal all the notices they put on the door... get her two months behind and evicted.. she'll never be able to rent again for a while... but you will... any combination of the above will work... the more the faster she leaves

02-13-2006, 01:27 PM	#26
Andrew Bohan Post Whore! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Location: Location Posts: 8,330 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	bring the new girl home. if the ex starts shit tell her bringing girls home is what single guys do and she can leave if she doesn't like it. after the new girl is gone, if the ex is still all emo, buy her some flowers on the way home from wherever you go. when you get home, give them to her. she'll be happy. then say "here, now leave me alone you dumb bitch" if she doesn't get the point after that, then just throw her ass out.

02-13-2006, 01:32 PM	#27
nissantuner22 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Gainesville, Fl Age: 36 Posts: 1,056 Trader Rating: (-1) Feedback Score: -1 reviews	Simple. Bring the girl home, and start wearing the pants in the house. If she objects to what you do, make sure to point out the door. Girls like guys with confidence. You sound like you have none. Simply tell her she has a week to get out. Oh, and poke fun of her new BF. That aids in the removal process. __________________ Current Project: Operation: N/A SR: 93 Silvia Q SR20DE Engine with go fast goodies. , "Common problems 240sx's suffer from are curbs, trees, ditches, and other immovable objects."thx247 "on the tounge... there is no guardrails."- citizen

02-13-2006, 01:39 PM	#28
drift freaq R.I.P. Aya, always love Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Los Feliz/Hollywood Posts: 18,558 Trader Rating: (215) Rides Gallery: drift freaq Feedback Score: 215 reviews	ok several mistakes here. 1. Not seperating completely when you broke up. 2. Hitting it after you broke up and letting her still live with you. 3. letting her still live with you. 4. Not having enough self esteem as to take the initiative to kick her out regardless of consequnces for her. 5. Balls your seriously lacking. In the end it all comes down to one thing. YOu broke up , you leave or she leaves. To still live together after breaking up and not reconciling is just shear idiocy at its peak. You either get back together or you kick her out. You can't have your cake and eat it to in this situation. __________________ "Having a lot of tracks on a song is like putting stickers on a car to get more horsepower" New Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uebV1OnbRsw Buy my mounts! http://zilvia.net/f/sale-items/51531...ns-mounts.html http://zilvia.net/f/tech-talk/317539...e-mouts-6.html

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