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TurboSE
02-13-2011, 04:08 PM
fellow Zilvians,

My fiancee was recently diagnosed with Sepsis after a recent surgery. She has been in the hospital since Monday and hasn't showed many signs of improvement. She has been on various antibiotics and hasn't made much if any progress. The dr's, are running low on options. We're trying to stay positive, we have plans to marry in April. I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with this. I should be her protector, and right now I am helpless...I am not even allowed to see her.

She is my best friend and one of my only friends.

I don't want to step on toes or be inappropriate by asking for prayers, but if you have any good vibes to spare, she could use all the help she can get.

Masa
02-13-2011, 04:13 PM
i wish you and her the best. keep being positive, don't lose hope!

Sneaky Sims
02-13-2011, 04:16 PM
i wish you and her the best. keep being positive, don't lose hope!

Same here. Think positive, my motto has always been you think it, you live it.

Hope the best for you.

hOngsterr
02-13-2011, 04:25 PM
hope everything comes out well for you man,

prayer goes out to her.

drift freaq
02-13-2011, 04:53 PM
No problem man, you got a prayer going out for her here.

gearhead55
02-13-2011, 04:56 PM
I'm sorry to hear that. The best of luck to both her and you.

Gnnr
02-13-2011, 05:10 PM
No problem man, you got a prayer going out for her here.

+1

same here.

Pure_JDM
02-13-2011, 05:10 PM
Bummer to read, man.... praying the best for you both! Good luck, and don't lose faith.

TurboSE
02-13-2011, 05:17 PM
thank you all so much, all she and I really have is each other and a few family members. The prayers and good wishes mean a lot to us both.

Banana_Cute
02-13-2011, 06:59 PM
Going to church sunday and will def keep her in our prayer. Hope all gets well for you and the fam man.

no slide
02-13-2011, 07:05 PM
Stay strong and be positive. Prayers goin out for you guys for sure

zspeedrft
02-13-2011, 07:06 PM
hang in there man...stay positive....keep faith..shell get through this..my prayers go out to u

implayaz9
02-13-2011, 07:11 PM
stay strong man. everything will be good. My prayers go to u and ur fam

drpatel77
02-13-2011, 07:13 PM
sorry to hear it man.... good luck, wish u both the best and hope she comes out of it and back in ur arms...

thrax
02-13-2011, 07:23 PM
Consider it done mate. A prayer and best wishes.

Slammed Assassin
02-13-2011, 07:35 PM
hang in there bro!! best wishes and hope everything goes well!!

TurboSE
02-13-2011, 08:13 PM
thank you all, it's very touching to know that so many people I've never met can make us feel so much better about this.

NismoDriverS13
02-13-2011, 08:21 PM
best wishes for u both. hopefully the illness will be cured and only be a thing of the past.

josephin510
02-13-2011, 09:51 PM
Prayers go out to your fiancee and her well being.

MisawaJason
02-13-2011, 10:35 PM
Stay strong brother!! Prayer on the way

pacotaco345
02-13-2011, 11:31 PM
You and your girl will be in my prayers, hope things get better

meteorite_flo
02-13-2011, 11:37 PM
Will pray for her, stay strong bro, hope all goes well.

treken2t87
02-13-2011, 11:38 PM
Hope your girl heals and you can be with her soon. Valentines vibes your way.

Okinawandrifter87
02-13-2011, 11:40 PM
You have my prayers and I called the prayer center at my church and they are all keeping you in prayer. They have groups that pray weekly on specifics and in general and I called in as a specific for you my friend.

don_bagz
02-13-2011, 11:42 PM
try to look up "fruits and vegetable juices" book. tells you which vegetable has the biggest on boosting up immune system. found the recipe in there that helped get rid of my brothers brain cancer with out any type of surgery. all natural. im not sayin its 100 percent, but, it might be better than no options at all.. good luck man.. must be really scary for both of you to be isolated from each other.

conrad_s13.5
02-13-2011, 11:42 PM
im not much of a praying man,....but i'll pray for ya!

Weedm
02-14-2011, 12:47 AM
I can't imagine how it feels to be in your shoes.. Hang in there and be strong. She will be alright.

On another note, I think it would be a good idea to include her name in the description.

Jonnie Fraz
02-14-2011, 01:17 AM
Hang on buddy! Sending some good vibes your way.

rodneyfromtrini
02-14-2011, 02:34 AM
just keep your head up and expect for the best....dont leave room for any negative thoughts or feelings....my blessings goes out to u and her..hang in there...

luvsr20
02-14-2011, 03:13 AM
just keep your head up and expect for the best....dont leave room for any negative thoughts or feelings....my blessings goes out to u and her..hang in there...
Exactly what was said in that quote... I'm hitting the sack as I type but you and your fiancee have a prayer coming from me, God bless :o)


Sent from my HTC EVO

BustedS13
02-14-2011, 03:35 AM
:( i hope things turn out alright.

exitspeed
02-14-2011, 07:48 AM
I can't even imagine what you are going through right now.

My prayers will be with with.

WIKID S4TEEN
02-14-2011, 08:27 AM
Don't give up bro, keep hope and she will get better and marry you in April!
My prayers are with you. God bless you and your girl.

Z33dori
02-14-2011, 09:01 AM
will keep you both in thoughts

Dont give up man, find a way to spend some time with her

ericcastro
02-14-2011, 09:33 AM
My thoughts are with you two.
Its rough, but keep that positive energy going.

tricky_ab
02-14-2011, 10:45 AM
Hey man, dont give up, find different ways to spend as much time with her as possible. My prayers are with you!

blueshark123
02-14-2011, 10:54 AM
All u can do is stay strong for her now. Hope she has a full recovery

lovdrifting52
02-14-2011, 11:09 AM
best of wishes.. stay strong....

Edwin562
02-14-2011, 11:14 AM
everything will turn out good.. just keep a close eye and be there for their needs... best wishes and hope your fiancee will get better soon.. :)

Tantwoforty
02-14-2011, 11:18 AM
I'm sorry to hear that man :(
Just think of positives and you and her will get through it try to act positive around her and support her. nothing helps you get better than will power.
Prayer incoming homeboy

koukikat180sx
02-14-2011, 12:28 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Stay strong.

diamondhatch
02-14-2011, 01:14 PM
Prayers go out to her and whole fam...keep the Faith ad clear happy mind...

mkezzo16
02-14-2011, 01:28 PM
Stay strong for her and your families. Never lose faith/hope..without it were all lost..she'll def be in my prayers

TurboSE
02-14-2011, 02:32 PM
Many more thanks, this means so much to us, we can't thank you enough.

initial_jc
02-14-2011, 11:21 PM
I hope it turns out all right

Ive always felt that god puts people through test because that are supposed to overcome them.

Philippians 4:13

240sxrb25
02-14-2011, 11:32 PM
My gf's favorite verse.

Im praying dude. Look to god

02-14-2011, 11:40 PM
"I assess the power of a will by how much resistance, pain, torture it endures and knows how to turn to its advantage"
— Friedrich Nietzsche

love can be an overwhelming antidote, fight through the pain and show her how unconditional your feelings truly are.

Op, if its possible can you send me your address (via pm), we would like to send your fiancee and yourself some gifts of hope and positivity.

KPNITRL
02-15-2011, 12:08 AM
Best wishes and stay positive

My prayers go out to you

tqstarburst
02-15-2011, 12:13 AM
Hang in there bro. Everything will be ok,next thing you know april will be here and you'll be marrying her! Prayers going out for both of you!

wowitsaboy
02-15-2011, 01:59 AM
You both will be in my prayers

NiSilS14
02-15-2011, 03:40 AM
Stay tough man! Next thing you know, it'll be something of the past. You and your fiancee will see through it all.

S14Driftn4life
02-15-2011, 03:49 AM
giving you thoughts and prayers like i go through tires!! I work in an ER bro ive seen it come and go so stay strong!! have faith!!!

CantSTOP
02-15-2011, 04:23 AM
Like everyone else said, Stay strong, positive, and show her how strong you are! Be there for her even when you're not there with her.

You guys can do this!! April is almost here :)

Silviaracer1988
02-15-2011, 06:46 AM
i hope everything works out for you 2. you got support here

DEEPfrom1
02-15-2011, 07:58 AM
Stay strong for her, any positive vibes will help.

Fortitude
02-15-2011, 08:02 AM
Staying positive is the first step of helping, I wish you goodluck man.

kandyflip445
02-15-2011, 08:05 AM
Praying for you!

joe645733
02-15-2011, 08:11 AM
praying for her.

sw20>>s14
02-15-2011, 01:38 PM
hope she pulls through, my thoughts are with you two...stay strong!

Nicelyphe
02-15-2011, 01:44 PM
Best of luck to her and you my friend.

spooled240
02-15-2011, 02:03 PM
i wish the best for you guys

Fighting illness is a mental game as well as body so stay positive!

rbpwr
02-15-2011, 02:11 PM
i have no clue as to who you are, but through the body of christ were all brothers. my prayers go out to you and youre family.

TurboSE
02-15-2011, 03:04 PM
Many more thanks, the support you've all showed is overwhelming.

There hasn't been much change in her condition. The Dr's told her today that they'd like to operate on what might be abscesses at the point of her surgery. The downside is, they have anesthetize her and with a fever hovering around 104* she might not wake up. The flip side is that they put her on a central line to help get the medicine to her more quickly so her fever doesn't burn it up. However, she is already having heart and kidney issues and depending on the effectiveness of the meds, her condition could continue to worsen.

We're doing a lot of soul searching, trying to figure out which way to go on this decision.

jodett
02-15-2011, 03:15 PM
Don't give up. I'll be praying for the both of you, and that god will give the doctors wisdom in their operation. stay strong.

azndoc
02-15-2011, 03:17 PM
Good luck and my prayer goes out to her and to a fast recovery.

Future240
02-15-2011, 03:23 PM
You are in my prayers as well, I do hope everything turns out ok for both of you.

spinitsidewayz
02-15-2011, 03:25 PM
Stay strong bro. Best wishes to both of you.

Audio Puppet
02-15-2011, 03:26 PM
Dude i wish you and her the best. When she recovers send us invites to your weeding.

cardoza
02-15-2011, 05:28 PM
Wishing the absolute best of luck to you and her. Just encourage her to keep fighting and to be strong and that will mean the world to her. Definitely will keep you and her in my thoughts and prayers.

Tokona-x
02-15-2011, 09:08 PM
Keep your head up man I wish best for both of you and you both will be in my prayers.

Felipe
02-15-2011, 09:27 PM
We're doing a lot of soul searching, trying to figure out which way to go on this decision.


:naw: thats the wost feeling ever. its even making me sad... ill will pray for you guys.

onehundredoctane
02-15-2011, 09:47 PM
Painful news to hear about a loved one. Have they put her on dialysis at all?

You, your fiancée, and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you get to post up some good news soon!

speeddream
02-15-2011, 10:20 PM
I hope your fiance gets better from this point on. Your situation is very unfortunate, but if the sun is not shinning in your area, we will blow all the clouds from the sky so it can shine down upon the both of you. Like other people have mentioned already stay strong and positive brotha. She will get better.

tqstarburst
02-16-2011, 12:00 AM
Don't let anything get to you man. No negative thoughts at all. God will know what's best.. Once april hits here send all zilvians and invitation to your wedding brotha! That be one sick s-chassis wedding!

cesar_240
02-16-2011, 12:16 AM
I'll have you guys in my prayers

itwillboost
02-16-2011, 12:23 AM
I will pray for you guys, I hope for the best.

Teddy
02-16-2011, 12:37 AM
Prayers to both of you, I truly truly hope she recovers quickly.

revat619
02-16-2011, 12:56 AM
i have no clue as to who you are, but through the body of Christ we're all brothers. my prayers go out to you and your family.

QFT.

I'm praying for you two as well!

Isaiah 40:28-31

uraznfriend
02-16-2011, 12:57 AM
My thoughts are with you and your fiancee i cant even imagine what your going through
i hope she recovers from this

Marcus
02-16-2011, 01:11 AM
You have my prayers. best of luck to you two

Devius
02-16-2011, 04:53 AM
Best of luck to you both

Zach-sr
02-16-2011, 08:51 AM
Best of luck to you both. I couldn't imagine going through this myself.

TurboSE
02-16-2011, 02:10 PM
Well, we decided to wait and see if the new meds made any difference and possibly have the surgery this afternoon. She was informed by the dr. this morning that her kidneys are in bad shape and that combined with her fever makes the surgery too risky. So now we're putting our faith and hopes in the antibiotics. She's having a hard time staying positive with the seemingly endless stream of bad news.

Your thoughts and prayers mean the world to us both...please keep us in them as we push through these dark times.

Tempo
02-16-2011, 02:28 PM
a prayer and best wishes to you man, hope she gets well and you two live a long happy life.

no slide
02-16-2011, 02:45 PM
Painful news to hear about a loved one. Have they put her on dialysis at all?

You, your fiancée, and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you get to post up some good news soon!
Ya I would ask about dialysis. If her kidneys are in bad shape it might help lighten the load on them. Especially since they're pumping her full of meds. Again, keep your head up and stay positive. You will get through this together

highwaystar22
02-16-2011, 02:56 PM
My thoughts and prayers go out to you man. Stay strong and I hope she pulls through. G-d always has a was to sort it, even though we don't see the full plan.

ms!3
02-16-2011, 03:01 PM
prayer goes out to you man. sorry you have to go through this :(

deedilus
02-16-2011, 03:12 PM
All my prayers go out to you and your fiancee. I hope she pulls through this.

TurboSE
02-16-2011, 04:12 PM
I forgot to mention, they are discussing the idea of dialysis...I'm not sure if they have decided to go through with it or not. I think she should be on it as well.

We are both grateful for the thoughts and prayers of all the members of Zilvia and we would like to thank you and wish the best to you and your families as well.

dsastr_clan
02-16-2011, 04:20 PM
GOOD VIBES FROM SLC-UTAH BRO, hope the best for you two

bboyswoosh87
02-16-2011, 04:25 PM
Prayer to you and your wife I hope the best for you both

TurboSE
02-16-2011, 04:41 PM
No dialysis until her fever comes down. The one positive side to this whole series of horrific events is that when she gets home we will share a bond stronger than most people can ever imagine.

sw20>>s14
02-16-2011, 05:15 PM
The one positive side to this whole series of horrific events is that when she gets home we will share a bond stronger than most people can ever imagine.

hang on to that thought! keep your eyes on the prize and never give up!

Taniguchi_Is_#1
02-16-2011, 05:49 PM
my sister is an RN and just from her stories about life in the ER, i've learned to never underestimate the human will. stay strong for each other! she will pull through!

ViciousCesar!
02-16-2011, 06:06 PM
i hope everything turns out ok for you two. if you can find a way to transfer any of my good karma points your way, they are yours. stay positive bro.

TurboSE
02-18-2011, 11:33 PM
Thank you all for the wishes, she's been keeping up with the thread and she is very touched at the outpouring of support from people she's never met. As of Friday morning, her kidney's have gotten worse and her fever has risen higher. The doctor's have started dialysis and they have been giving her periodic ice baths to try and keep her temperature down. The latest plan is to bathe her at 1, 3 and 5am followed by surgery at 6. It is a very risky procedure considering her weakened state, but her options are growing limited. Please, if you're reading this, take a moment out to send her a good thought or two.

jesse_s13
02-18-2011, 11:38 PM
Hope she gets better, stay strong.

Probaholic1
02-19-2011, 02:14 AM
stay strong to both of you, I wish the best.

alesserfate
02-19-2011, 02:23 AM
I wish that it all works out for you guys.

Quail
02-19-2011, 07:45 AM
My thoughts are with you and your fiance. Stay strong, I really hope things improve.

kouki-gymkhana
02-19-2011, 07:54 AM
My prayers go out to you, man. As someone who works in the ICU and in the OR I know what you are dealing with. As risky as it may sound, the surgery is probably the only thing that can get her infection under control. The antibiotics will not work if she has a significant abscess and it must be drained if they are to get things under control. If she is young and otherwise healthy, the need for dialysis should be temporary and her kidneys will likely recover. I take it from your post that she is not intubated (does not have a breathing tube) so all things considered, it could be worse.

The fever doesn´t ¨burn up¨the antibiotics, as you mentioned. Rather, they want to place a central line because they can give stronger, more potent antibiotics through a central line than through a regular IV. Also, she may be experiencing such a high fever from a reaction to one of the meds she´s receiving. This could also contribute to her renal failure. Ask the MDs what they think about this possibility. It won´t hurt!

Also, depending upon where the abcesses are, it is possible for an Interventional Radiologist to place drains in them without her having to receive a general anesthetic. You can ask them that too!

Good luck and I hope she pulls through!

initial_jc
02-19-2011, 10:58 AM
I hope you get better. You have people rooting for you, Stay Strong!

TurboSE
02-19-2011, 11:19 AM
kouki-gymkhana, thank you for the insight, very informative.

She had the surgery this morning and is currently in recovery. I'm very happy she made it...the down side is that the Dr.s failed to find any obvious sourceof infection, so now I'm not sure what our options are. Relying on the meds has become a scary and unnerving idea due to their lack of success thus far. Thank you to all of our friends on Zilviafor the uplifting messages and thoughts, I believe that part of the reason she pulled through the operation is because of all the people in her corner. Thank you all from the bottoms of our hearts.

Kouki_Love
02-19-2011, 11:39 AM
Stay strong and keep thinking positive. She will pull through and you two will have an amazing life. Ill keep you guys in my prayers.

Gnnr
02-19-2011, 02:42 PM
kouki-gymkhana, thank you for the insight, very informative.

She had the surgery this morning and is currently in recovery. I'm very happy she made it...the down side is that the Dr.s failed to find any obvious sourceof infection, so now I'm not sure what our options are. Relying on the meds has become a scary and unnerving idea due to their lack of success thus far. Thank you to all of our friends on Zilviafor the uplifting messages and thoughts, I believe that part of the reason she pulled through the operation is because of all the people in her corner. Thank you all from the bottoms of our hearts.

Glad she made it well out of surgery. Don't ever rule out getting a second opinion from another unaffiliated hospital/doctor if they are unable to properly diagnose her.

TurboSE
02-19-2011, 02:46 PM
Glad she made it well out of surgery. Don't ever rule out getting a second opinion from another unaffiliated hospital/doctor if they are unable to properly diagnose her.

We talked about that, would she just tell her Dr. that she wants a second diagnosis?


As of now, she's back in the ICU...still out of it because of the sedatives. They're trying to wake her slowly as to not cause shock to her weakened body. While they didn't find any obvious signs of infection, they removed a lot of bones chips from her back and are going to start her on antibiotics again soon.

Gnnr
02-19-2011, 02:49 PM
I have no idea how you would go about that. Maybe a more knowledgeable Zilvian can chime on that one. Best wishes to you and your fiancee!

TurboSE
02-20-2011, 09:27 AM
I have no idea how you would go about that. Maybe a more knowledgeable Zilvian can chime on that one. Best wishes to you and your fiancee!


As of this morning, she's still very sick from the anesthesia. It looks like we're on a "wait and see" plan with the antibiotics. I hate feeling so helpless.

2402NV
02-20-2011, 09:53 AM
Keep faith up! Thats the strongest medication for anybody. As long as you show her your positive and strong, she will feed off you. Good luck.

k.man
02-20-2011, 10:19 AM
dont worry too much, she will get better. my prayers goes out to you guys

ericcastro
02-20-2011, 05:31 PM
Yeah, that anestetic is gnarly stuff.
But sounds like the surgery went well.

Still sending the good thoughts your way.
Hopin for a speedy recovery from the surgery.

EDacIouSX
02-20-2011, 11:55 PM
I hope I never have to go through what you are going through.... hopefully everything turns out alright. Pretty scary to be in a situation like that.

ecopp1991
02-21-2011, 12:26 AM
I hope everything ends up alright man, and your not helpless you are helping by supporting and praying for her .. and you both have prayers from me

Sent from my DROID2 using Tapatalk

tqstarburst
02-21-2011, 10:05 AM
Im keeping up with this thread man,so far so good. Keep us updated with her condition,and keep the faith. April is almoost here!

Daniel.
02-21-2011, 10:11 AM
Thread is TL;DR but I'm hoping everything turns out ok for the both of you.

D1drifter
02-21-2011, 10:21 PM
My prayers go out to both of you. stay strong, never give up!!

Schassis707
02-22-2011, 12:23 AM
Sorry to hear that. Best wishes for you guys, and don't worry you guys will be happily walking down the aisle together congrats on that

lucas13dourado
02-22-2011, 11:43 AM
positive thoughts go to you and your wife. I know it's really hard but both of you have to do your best to stay positive. good luck!

an_orange_s2k
02-22-2011, 01:26 PM
wishing you guys the best

Jav1997GSX
02-22-2011, 01:33 PM
Hope she gets better, stay strong bro

keistyle
02-22-2011, 08:23 PM
Be her drive. Sometimes a loving touch does more than any medicine can. I sincerely hope she gets better.

TurboSE
02-22-2011, 10:46 PM
keistyle - I believe you are absolutley correct. Keeping our focus on our new life together and our Vegas wedding has really kept us strong throughout. She mentioned joining Zilvia today to share her gratitude for the positive vibes you've sent her way...honestly, I don't know why a girl as gorgeous as her, who just happens to own a 370Z Roadster isn't a member of the greatest Nissan forum on the planet already...but she isn't. Hopefully she'll chime in soon. But if not, know that we're very grateful for your support and good vibes.

tricky_ab
02-23-2011, 11:04 AM
Hey, keep your head up my man! My wife and I are pulling for your both!

Wongger
02-23-2011, 11:52 AM
Prayers go out to both of you! stay strong!

leapyeargirl1984
02-23-2011, 06:22 PM
Hi there....

My name is Megan, and my fiance, Patrick, has been updating you about my illness. I just wanted to say thank you....from the bottom of my heart. Your thoughts and prayers have helped both of us immensely. It's very touching to know that so many people we don't know have been thinking and praying for us. Kinda restores my faith in humanity :)

Thanks again!

Megan

Banana_Cute
02-23-2011, 06:24 PM
Glad you're getting well.

Silviaracer1988
02-23-2011, 06:29 PM
everything is gonna work out. glad to hear your getting better.

no slide
02-23-2011, 06:35 PM
Yay!!! Glad to hear your getting better!!

leapyeargirl1984
02-23-2011, 07:09 PM
I am still pretty sick....still have an infection and a really high fever. But Patrick has been my rock. Him and his family have been really really great. And the thoughts and prayers from all of our friends have really helped us :) Again, thank you all and please, keep sending thoughts our way!

Megan

TurboSE
02-23-2011, 08:04 PM
I am still pretty sick....still have an infection and a really high fever. But Patrick has been my rock. Him and his family have been really really great. And the thoughts and prayers from all of our friends have really helped us :) Again, thank you all and please, keep sending thoughts our way!

Megan


That's my baby. I love you forever and ever and ever!

ViciousCesar!
02-23-2011, 08:53 PM
keep on fighting on you two, once you guys get passed this tough situation, it will only make the bond between you guys that much stronger and meaningful.

-VC!

TurboSE
02-23-2011, 09:41 PM
keep on fighting on you two, once you guys get passed this tough situation, it will only make the bond between you guys that much stronger and meaningful.

-VC!


Exactly! We're already closer than I ever thought I could be to another person, but after fighting and beating something like this together....well, I don't know many couples that share a bond like the one we're developing.

zspeedrft
02-24-2011, 12:30 AM
glad to hear you guys are pulling through!...btw im a leap year baby too 1984! haha

KOUKIboy
02-24-2011, 09:42 AM
I wish your fiancee a quick recovery and she will be in my prayers, best wishes for the both of you, and keep on fighting don't loose hope and have faith!!! :D

Gnnr
02-24-2011, 11:44 AM
Welcome Megan! :wavey: Looks like your doing much better. I wish you a speedy recovery!

axiomatik
02-24-2011, 12:04 PM
Got to keep a positive attitude to work through something as trying as this. Just keep working towards your goal of recovering 100%. Now, go and get better!

sw20>>s14
02-24-2011, 01:06 PM
Hi there....

My name is Megan, and my fiance, Patrick, has been updating you about my illness. I just wanted to say thank you....from the bottom of my heart. Your thoughts and prayers have helped both of us immensely. It's very touching to know that so many people we don't know have been thinking and praying for us. Kinda restores my faith in humanity :)

Thanks again!

Megan

were rooting for you, megan!!!

you two have restored my faith in true love and monogamy :love:

TurboSE
02-24-2011, 06:24 PM
were rooting for you, megan!!!

you two have restored my faith in true love and monogamy :love:

I'll tell ya man, when you find the one...that person who you could ever want and need, it's an amazing feeling. I am so lucky to have my Megan.

leapyeargirl1984
02-24-2011, 07:20 PM
Awwww.....he is so right <3 When you have something like we do, it's a feeling like no other in the world! I am so lucky to have him. He has done more for me then anyone in my whole life <3

Megan

job4ac0wboy
02-24-2011, 08:56 PM
Im definantly pulling for you guys. Keep looking forward to April. Haha. You guys' bond is something you cant find everyday. Keep it going and I hope you get to feeling better Megan!! Im sure after all of this is said and done your wedding will be more than you expected from this experience with eachother.

jay pee
02-24-2011, 09:26 PM
Keep up the good fight Megan. ;)

WanganRunner
02-25-2011, 08:09 AM
Very glad to hear the situation is improving. All the best.

MattRose
02-25-2011, 09:02 AM
My heart goes out to both of you, I'm looking forward to hearing of a swift recovery!

TurboSE
02-27-2011, 06:26 PM
Thank you all again for the get well wishes, as of yesterday, Megan was moved to a better hospital. The new hospital believes the last place missed the cause of infection in their surgery and will be operating again Tuesday. The doctors at the new hospital told her that this is the worst case of Sepsis they've ever seen and she might as well have stayed home until yesterday morning. I'm pretty furious at the previous institution's inadequate treatment. The new Dr.s seem much more optimistic about her treatment and they think I might be able to see her later this week. I'm very excited to see my girl and for her speedy recovery. Once again, thank you for the kind thoughts and prayers, please keep them coming as the upcoming surgery still has a fair amount of risk attached to it.

Future240
02-27-2011, 06:31 PM
That's good to hear. I hope the new doctor can get her back on her feet.

vbgambini
02-27-2011, 06:42 PM
Stay positive and stay strong...get well soon! :)

smellslikecurry
02-27-2011, 07:11 PM
do you know if the doctors have considered protein c treatment??

zero.counter
02-27-2011, 07:31 PM
I'm glad to hear that everything is working out. Been down that road before, and it is a terrible feeling, when you are helpless as a loved one, to do anything but be patient and think positively.

Zachsta
02-27-2011, 07:36 PM
I'm hoping that surgery goes the best it can, and I'm glad this is all turning around for the better! You guys both have my wishes and my prayers.

corbin
02-27-2011, 08:14 PM
Might wanna try natural remedies... I find they often work far better than the typical approach with no side effects.

Garlic is highly effective against bacteria/virus/infection. As long as it doesn't contradict any of your medication, I recommend eating (and chewing well) many cloves of the stuff raw. This is what I do if I ever get sick (usually virus) and I'm usually better within 24 hours. Last time I did it I had a 101 degree fever, took a bunch of garlic (must be raw, fresh, and chewed well) and woke up in the morning with my bed drenched in sweat, no fever, feeling fine. I literally sweated it out.

Now, your situation does sound more serious. I would still look into natural/homeopathic remedies though... they can be very powerful. Most pharmaceutical drugs are actually derived from plant/animal sources. (they just add a bunch of poisonous shit, package it, and sell it for way too much)

Garlic can be used in place of antibiotics... but your situation seems to call for something more drastic. Please, do some internet research.

I don't know what the doctors are saying but you probably want to reintroduce good bacteria after you get better because the antibiotics kill them all. This can be done with probiotic supplements (which can be dangerous if you don't get the right ones) or more simply, bovine colostrum, or live, homemade fermented food like sauerkraut.

*This post is not designed to and does not provide medical advice, professional diagnosis, opinion, treatment or services to you or to any other individual. I am not liable or responsible for any advice, course of treatment, diagnosis or any other information, services or product you obtain through this post. Reliance on this information is at your own risk.*

^Pretty ridiculous that I have to put this, but that's what this world has come to.

PM me if you want, I promise I won't recommend anything expensive. :p That's the problem with natural or homeopathic remedies - they generally can't be profited upon.

Gnnr
02-27-2011, 10:21 PM
Thank you all again for the get well wishes, as of yesterday, Megan was moved to a better hospital. The new hospital believes the last place missed the cause of infection in their surgery and will be operating again Tuesday. The doctors at the new hospital told her that this is the worst case of Sepsis they've ever seen and she might as well have stayed home until yesterday morning. I'm pretty furious at the previous institution's inadequate treatment. The new Dr.s seem much more optimistic about her treatment and they think I might be able to see her later this week. I'm very excited to see my girl and for her speedy recovery. Once again, thank you for the kind thoughts and prayers, please keep them coming as the upcoming surgery still has a fair amount of risk attached to it.

Wow, see what I told you. Sometimes you need another opinion from an outside hospital. Still wishing you and Megan the best!

MisawaJason
02-28-2011, 02:33 AM
good to hear that you guys got a second opinion done. Hopefully the new hospital gets her taken care of with a quickness!!!

smellslikecurry
02-28-2011, 08:50 AM
Might wanna try natural remedies... I find they often work far better than the typical approach with no side effects.

Garlic is highly effective against bacteria/virus/infection. As long as it doesn't contradict any of your medication, I recommend eating (and chewing well) many cloves of the stuff raw. This is what I do if I ever get sick (usually virus) and I'm usually better within 24 hours. Last time I did it I had a 101 degree fever, took a bunch of garlic (must be raw, fresh, and chewed well) and woke up in the morning with my bed drenched in sweat, no fever, feeling fine. I literally sweated it out.

Now, your situation does sound more serious. I would still look into natural/homeopathic remedies though... they can be very powerful. Most pharmaceutical drugs are actually derived from plant/animal sources. (they just add a bunch of poisonous shit, package it, and sell it for way too much)

Garlic can be used in place of antibiotics... but your situation seems to call for something more drastic. Please, do some internet research.

I don't know what the doctors are saying but you probably want to reintroduce good bacteria after you get better because the antibiotics kill them all. This can be done with probiotic supplements (which can be dangerous if you don't get the right ones) or more simply, bovine colostrum, or live, homemade fermented food like sauerkraut.

*This post is not designed to and does not provide medical advice, professional diagnosis, opinion, treatment or services to you or to any other individual. I am not liable or responsible for any advice, course of treatment, diagnosis or any other information, services or product you obtain through this post. Reliance on this information is at your own risk.*

^Pretty ridiculous that I have to put this, but that's what this world has come to.

PM me if you want, I promise I won't recommend anything expensive. :p That's the problem with natural or homeopathic remedies - they generally can't be profited upon.

corbin definitely good advice for when shes back home but i dont think introducing probiotics in a septic patient is safe at this moment.

probiotics are generally safe when theye in the GI tract but i dont think we know enough about disease state and co-morbidities to recommend them.

TurboSE
02-28-2011, 10:02 PM
do you know if the doctors have considered protein c treatment??

I have read about Protein C online, I'm not sure if it has been considered, but it does show promise in the treatment of Sepsis. I think I'll show Megan some info on it and maybe she can run it by her Dr's.

TurboSE
02-28-2011, 10:17 PM
Wow, see what I told you. Sometimes you need another opinion from an outside hospital. Still wishing you and Megan the best!

good to hear that you guys got a second opinion done. Hopefully the new hospital gets her taken care of with a quickness!!!

I'm really happy she was transferred as well, along with a better plan, the Dr's seem to have a much better bedside manner. My main concern is her getting better and coming home to me...a close second is her feeling comfortable with the people treating her and not being scared. That's the hardest part, knowing that the most important person in my life is scared and all I can offer is words.

TurboSE
02-28-2011, 10:21 PM
corbin definitely good advice for when shes back home but i dont think introducing probiotics in a septic patient is safe at this moment.

probiotics are generally safe when theye in the GI tract but i dont think we know enough about disease state and co-morbidities to recommend them.


I agree. Holisitic methods saved my brother's life, but Megan's condition is better left to Dr's for now IMO. I will keep the suggestions in mind for when she's home and safe, and I appreciate the help.

keistyle
02-28-2011, 10:56 PM
Happy to hear that she was moved to a better hospital. Make sure the RT keeps an eye on her.

How's her Kidney doing?

TurboSE
03-01-2011, 08:08 AM
Happy to hear that she was moved to a better hospital. Make sure the RT keeps an eye on her.

How's her Kidney doing?

Her kidney's are at about 50%

leapyeargirl1984
03-01-2011, 05:40 PM
Thanks again everyone for your kind thoughts and prayers. They mean alot to both of us :) Hopefully things take a turn for the better here soon. Patrick is the best thing about all this...he always makes me feel better <3 I love you baby!

Megan

TurboSE
03-01-2011, 06:50 PM
Thanks again everyone for your kind thoughts and prayers. They mean alot to both of us :) Hopefully things take a turn for the better here soon. Patrick is the best thing about all this...he always makes me feel better <3 I love you baby!

Megan


I love you too baby, I'll see you very very soon!

leapyeargirl1984
03-01-2011, 07:42 PM
Yes you will <3 And it will be the start of the rest of our lives!! Again, thank you to everyone here for all the thoughts and prayers. It really means a lot to us!!

Megan

initial_jc
03-01-2011, 10:30 PM
I dont know what to say but im glad to hear that you guys are getting closer

I want to hear good news

TurboSE
03-04-2011, 02:33 PM
Things are still up in the air, Megan and I have some pretty scary decisions to make in the near future. You've all shown us so much support, please keep her in your thoughts and prayers. She is so strong, but these past few weeks have really been weighing on her heart and mind. Any good vibes you can send her way are still very much appreciated.

DrftKingIII
03-04-2011, 03:15 PM
Damnit, Im tearing up in a public place.


Glad to see that things are looking up. Keep strong and you both will make it through this. +2 on the prayers for you both.

TurboSE
03-09-2011, 12:28 AM
Please everyone, say a special prayer for my girl this morning and keep her in your thoughts today, she's having a very in-depth surgery and she needs all the positive vibes she can get! I love you Megan, you're my everything.

initial_jc
03-09-2011, 09:17 AM
Good luck and stand by her side

dsastr_clan
03-09-2011, 10:02 AM
Megan you are gonna win and kick this surgery's butt! keep it up

ayuaddict
03-09-2011, 02:35 PM
I wish you guys the best of luck!

TurboSE
03-09-2011, 04:55 PM
We thank you all for the support...MODS, please close this.

Phlip
03-09-2011, 07:05 PM
We thank you all for the support...MODS, please close this.

As you wish.
Let me know if you want it back opened at any point.