Beer or Boobs???

[TheRonTom31]

I have been thinking of dating a waitress from my favorite bar. I ended up taking her around with me to a bunch of bars for her 21st birthday, it was fun. I got along with her pretty well, she was a ttracteive and fit my style. Possibly good girlfriend material rather than just random i need as tonight skeeze. But i am torn... its my favorite bar and i see bars as a place to go to escape the ball and chain and see/interact with other lady friends (no cheating). I fear if things go well my bar wont be the same. If i date this girl all my lady friends at the bar may report to her or i'd have to watch what i say and how i act when im there. It would also mean free rides home from the bar the nights she works which up here when its -8* out would be sweeter than walking 2 blocks. If things go sour it will be awkward to be in my favorite bar, my female friends at said favorite bar may dislike me out of loyalty to said girl.

this is a great dilemna... I am leaning toward keeping my bar, but its slow at work today so I figured a poll would
be fun

picture for reference. Girl on the right is the one i am interested in
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[HyperTek]

well if she works there, then she should already know how you are if she sees you there often right?

[TheRonTom31]

That is a very good point that i never thought about

[LeftNutOfGowd]

Hummm this is a interesting dilemma I say just enjoi the bar

[TheRonTom31]

I am not a fan of loud or crazy bars or clubs.

This is a sports bar. The entire staff is girls, 80% of which i am friends with, all are very attractive. A good number i would say are even out of my league, and i pull some pretty high quality trim without even trying. I am good enough friends with the girls bartending there that i can go with my best friend and we can drink beer and do shots with the girls for a solid 12 hours and have a $18 bar tab. This is mainly cause we'll both drop $30 on the tab, but we easily drink over that in drinks each sitting there and have dinner.

Theres not many bars two block down the street in town from my house. Thats why I'm weighing said situation

[TommyBoy89]

This is very interesting actually. My advice is not needed sadly as I am not legal drinking age in the states. I don't know if I would do it though, it's like dating one of your best friends girlfriends best friends...that sounds so confusing but I hope you get what I'm going for...it may end up awkward no matter how it works out.

I would suggest getting to know her better apart from work though if that is an option.

[SmogSUX]

Keep the bar! Finding a close bar that's good is hard. On top of that even though the chick has seen how you are, shes seen the SINGLE you how you are. If you were with her I doubt she'd be down to have you hanging out with chicks drinking as per usual.

[sub9lulu]

just have some casual sex and see if u like it first

[TheRonTom31]

just have some casual sex and see if u like it first

This was my plan, but i have the feeling this is the kind of girl that will require "work" to get to sex.

[Brian]

Are you sure she isn't jus ttrying to get bigger tips from you?
Maybe she does this with many guys that go to her bar.

[ALTRNTV]

BH is on to something. I voted for to enjoy the bar and the hoars.

[Brian]

Does she laugh at your jokes and lightly touch your leg or arm when you're there?

[ESmorz]

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[stiizy]

Are you sure she isn't jus ttrying to get bigger tips from you?
Maybe she does this with many guys that go to her bar.

I'm with Brian on this one, i know alot of female bartenders who act like this towards all guys for bigger tips...


It's like a stripper she may act interested but at the end of the night it's all bout the Washingtons in her thong .. ya feel me??>>!!

[JRas]

not all relationships end bad.. you can still be friends after, take the chance, least you will be able to say you tried.

[TheRonTom31]

Are you sure she isn't jus ttrying to get bigger tips from you?
Maybe she does this with many guys that go to her bar.


Shes a waitress. I always sit at the bar.

there has never been a situation where she has waited on me, yet she still stops and talks to me while she is waiting tables or standing around.

Trust me I know when a chick is fishing for tips.

Does she laugh at your jokes and lightly touch your leg or arm when you're there?

NO awkward i want money leg touch. When we went out for her birthday she laughed at my joke and did like the shoulder lean in and bump then lean away thing (if anyone knows what im talking about). She sat next to me the entire night rather than my friend i was with and made sure to hug me before i left. It was all good body language. Never awkward....but 21st birthday drunkeness can do that

[Brian]

Oh alright.
That sounds better.

[ALTRNTV]

Well, with that said, go out with her and see where it takes you. Also tell her to get you free drinks. Win.

[TheRonTom31]

Well, with that said, go out with her and see where it takes you. Also tell her to get you free drinks. Win.

I already get many free drinks. Thats why i fear losing my bar

lol

to me Bar>girl.

but thats cause i interact with sloars on a daily basis, and NY sloars love casual sex.

I thought maybe people expiriencing good relationships might shed light on something i am missing cause i have become quite jaded about commitment in recent years

[stiizy]

NY sloars love casual sex.



That's right!!!!!


You know where to post when you have that One Night Stand right??

Bring it back!!!!

[TheRonTom31]

That's right!!!!!


You know where to post when you have that One Night Stand right??

Bring it back!!!!

I have had a few actually. Quality was lacking. I havent had enjoyable sex in a while now actually.

Just boring hum-drum pelvis pounding. Girls who just lay there and moan/scream get boring. its hard to find a sloar who knows what she wants and makes you do it

[stiizy]

I have had a few actually. Quality was lacking. I havent had enjoyable sex in a while now actually.

Just boring hum-drum pelvis pounding. Girls who just lay there and moan/scream get boring. its hard to find a sloar who knows what she wants and makes you do it

Ah i got the Solution for that...

WE gotta hit up New Rochelle Iona area all them Sloars are freaky as shit.. haha

or New Paltz which might be closer for you...

[drftwerks]

MY VOTE IS BOTH.

http://ultimatebeerquest.com/wp-content/gallery/beerboobs2008/tecate.jpg

[TheRonTom31]

Ah i got the Solution for that...

WE gotta hit up New Rochelle Iona area all them Sloars are freaky as shit.. haha

or New Paltz which might be closer for you...

i heard that SUNY New paltz was ranked like #3 in the state for STDs:love:



WTF is Tecate?

[DUFFM4N]

"dont mix business with pleasure"

...even if you just fucked around with her, wouldnt it still be awkward either way considering you'd have to still go back to the bar and see her?

[C. Senor]

haha....tecate is a mexican beer. you would know if you lived in cali. lol

try the gf thing. i mean if you dig the girl enough, you should try it. just dont be the one that fucks up the relationship. and just try, if things were to go sour, to keep it freindly. hopefully that wont mess up things at the bar. because it is tough to find a bar like that.

[BOROSUN]

DOOOOD!!! boobs

mTqXisnMcS8

[azndoc]

I made that mistake before trying to date a girl from my favorite sushi place.

It became too awkward when it didn't work out.

So yeah, don't shit where you eat kind of rule.

[TheRonTom31]

"dont mix business with pleasure"

...even if you just fucked around with her, wouldnt it still be awkward either way considering you'd have to still go back to the bar and see her?

yes. cause i am almost sure it would get out and the news would spread like wild fire.

I mean my birthday is next week and i told on of the girls i was going to the bar for my birthday and now like 6 of them are going to be there for that lol

:blah:

[stiizy]

i heard that SUNY New paltz was ranked like #3 in the state for STDs:love:



WTF is Tecate?

Tecate is a beer bro....

Wouldn't surprise me last time i was there was in 01 and all them broads love dick...

That's right!!!!!


You know where to post when you have that One Night Stand right??

Bring it back!!!!

"dont mix business with pleasure"

...even if you just fucked around with her, wouldnt it still be Awkward either way considering you'd have to still go back to the bar and see her?


Awh the good threads in life hahahahah...............

[EDacIouSX]

don't do it. she aint cute. look at that forehead

[stiizy]

don't do it. she aint cute. look at that forehead

How real...................

[DUFFM4N]

if she swallows and lets you check her oil, then its worth the risk of losing your bar

[EDacIouSX]

if she swallows and lets you check her oil, then its worth the risk of losing your bar

not if she ruins the opportunity to check other girls' oil that go to that bar

[DUFFM4N]

not if she ruins the opportunity to check other girls' oil that go to that bar

says a lot about your "game"....

[TheRonTom31]

I think my problem is i am growing bored of the personality-less sloars that I smash on a weekly basis.

I want someone to cook me food and do thoughtful things for me

16/16 this is a tight race

[ZX88]

do it. what do you have to lose.

[SoSideways]

If you guys can't tell the difference between "I want your nuts" and "I want your moneyz", then it's time to leave that whole mess behind completely.

[TheRonTom31]

If you guys can't tell the difference between "I want your nuts" and "I want your moneyz", then it's time to leave that whole mess behind completely.

Dude...Duuuuuude I totally think that hooker over there on the coner is into you. She's checking you out man.

you should go talk to her....LOLZ:cj:

[SoSideways]

Dude...Duuuuuude I totally think that hooker over there on the coner is into you. She's checking you out man.

you should go talk to her....LOLZ:cj:

I gave her a $20 cause that's all I had, and she was only asking for like $5, of course she's onto me :spank:

[EDacIouSX]

I think my problem is i am growing bored of the personality-less sloars that I smash on a weekly basis.

I want someone to cook me food and do thoughtful things for me

16/16 this is a tight race


well if you really like her then that's a different story.

[soldiaboy]

you should tap that ass and skip on the tab

[!Zar!]

Is THAT what New York has to offer in the way of bartenders?

Damn.

Last time I went to the bar the bartenders were attractive.


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[neverrain]

You could also try taking her out and talking to her about it. Tell her that you enjoy coming to the bar and it's your local spot. Tell her if things go sour between you two, you don't want to lose that spot as your bar of choice. Then let her make the decision. Much easier on your part.

I lost my favorite bar because of a girl too. For a while. Then I said fuck her, I like this bar.

[!Zar!]

Who wants to be a lounge lizard anyways.

She isn't hot enough to even warrant posting a thread.

Don't get caught up in that.

[zylvia213]

Are you sure she isn't jus ttrying to get bigger tips from you?
Maybe she does this with many guys that go to her bar.

true true...

[MadScientist]

What???
Really???

If you like her... do work.

A bar.. big deal... a little drama at your local pub only makes the bar that much more interesting... hell if she drops off you could get drama booty.
I have been a server at several places... all servers, Male and Female are whores... I say this in a good way... and the same netwoking applies to you and your local pub.

The turn over rate in the service industry is higher then any other occupation.
(in context and out... its the truth)

-Drew

[irax]

there's a saying; don't shit where you eat...

this girl is probably not all that into you anyways, theres a fucking bunch of guys hitting on her and she flirts back for more tips.. there's other girls out there and your better off not fucking up your spot.

[TheRonTom31]

this thread got some pretty good debate going.

my friend and i went home with another bartender and watiress from their last night. Man, I had a lot of fun.

Im keeping the bar. Screw being tied down

[Felipe]

go 4 it... just dont get to involved.

p.s. make sure she pounds like crazy when you do.


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[shmiddy]

i dont know about you, but their are very few things in life that will make me pass up pussy


VERY FEW

[mRclARK1]

well if she works there, then she should already know how you are if she sees you there often right?

That's a good point.

IME bar waitresses rarely date regular patrons... Not saying it can't happen, but it seems to be definitely not the norm.

[NotoriouS14]

....dont be interested in a waitress brotha...

pshh...f that..

sweep her off her feet..
then
SHAZAM!!!
drop her and move on......

[Bubba]

If you date her and break-up, oh well. If she acts like a child about it, the women at the bar do the same, etc... They can all go grow the hell up and you will just have to find a more grown-up bar to hang at or let them know how it is one at a time. Group addresses don't work well in this situation. If they cannot live with the facts of life then tell them to go to hell and move on. :cool:

If you couldn't tell... I don't get attached or hung up easy. I DO NOT care what anyone thinks of me unless they are my mother or control my annual income, then it is only a slight concern.

My way may not be the best way, but I damn sure don't have to deal with women pulling this drama garbage after a situation falls thru. I keep EVERYTHING pretty direct.
I don't have the time to entertain a useless arguement.

If it looks like it may fall thru, sit her down and discuss it with her.
/\ /\ /\ /\ /\ /\
That one action alone has allowed me to keep half of my ex's as friends. Some of them seem "friendlier" now than when we dated.

GOOD LUCK!!

[TheRonTom31]

ohh its not the women who bother me. They can all go jump off a bridge. Theres a biliion girls out there. Its the loss of good food and free YES FREE!!!! beer. That not only affects my stomach but my wallet as well.

I was just playing with the idea of getting to know this chick better cause she seemed pretty cool. Not the normal spzzed out sloars i have been dealing with lately. Laid back, chill a girl you could smoke a j with and just relax and still have a good time, if i smoked anymore that is

this thread was more of a social expirement. Cause i myself kinda want to just keep the bar and maybe have a few random hook ups but i wanted to see if i have become a womanizing asshole or not

[irax]

You don't fuck with good food and free beer!!!!

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[xPhantomSilviax]

As a girl, here's my .02, in a way that most guys hear it anyways...

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Free beer and good food and lots of friends > :blah::blah::blah::blah:

But on the serious... I have found that the best relationships I have been in were ones where we just kinda "hung out" first, with a no pressure kind of situation.. If you enjoy her company, do just that.. enjoy it. Don't act differently than you always do to "impress" her or anything. Girls hate that b/c we see right through it lol. If she likes you, then let her like YOU, not a polished up version of you.

[S14TEENZ]

u better hope she never finds this post.....

[TheRonTom31]

actually if she saw this post it'd me she posts on here.

that'd be kinda hot and just more we'd have in common. I think that would sway my decision towards dating her

[EDacIouSX]

Girls hate that b/c we see right through it lol.

you're a girl? wanna hang out sometime. :cool:

[LongGrain]

i'm going to go with a no on this one, she looks like a guy to me.

[xPhantomSilviax]

you're a girl? wanna hang out sometime. :cool:

depends...

car specs?

[TheRonTom31]

depends...

car specs?

Lexus SC400. Vertex knockoff kit. see sig.

[S13_SideWayz]

BOOBS!!!! u can go get the beer at the bar down the block.. or from another of the chicks!

[OfourTHREEfive]

Depends, are you a good looking guy that can pull girls at the bar or is this the top of your game?

[TheRonTom31]

I could do better looks wise.

personality wise itsa toss up.. Best personality i have seen in a while

[xPhantomSilviax]

Lexus SC400. Vertex knockoff kit. see sig.

Next! ;)

Just kidding I'm not that picky.

[TheRonTom31]

Next! ;)

Just kidding I'm not that picky.

:wtc:. You know you were serious though

[xPhantomSilviax]

lol not even! I've been jonesing after an SC lately... never really liked them and then woke up one morning and decided I did.

I tend to do that lol.

[TheRonTom31]

buy mine $7500:D

[xPhantomSilviax]

lol do you see my sig?! :P

[TheRonTom31]

you obviously dont have too many cars because you dont already own an SC

[OfourTHREEfive]

Then ditch this biotch.

Risk to reward factor. If you think you can do better risk losing this girl.

[xPhantomSilviax]

you obviously dont have too many cars because you dont already own an SC

let me unload a couple of 240s and I'll think about it lol.

[wh1tecoop]

I say it's probably way too hard to find a quality bar where everybody knows your name(Cheers) and go find a better girl elsewhere.

[TeamClockworkPerformance]

Anyway you look at it, its a tough choice.......

[CIutchCollidE]

hahah nice delima man. gl with that one

[TheRonTom31]

Yes the bar won me pver.

Chose the bar

[S14TEENZ]

fuck it......hit it,quit it..the only way to go on this one.

[thesimpleS13]

i would say beer cuz boobs can be found anywhere but a good drinkin spot? priceless
i would love a place where i can relax look at girls and enjoy my drinks thats juss my 2 cents

but if you really got a thing for the girl , i say go for it....better to of tried and failed then not know at all

other than that...CHEERS!!!!

[TheRonTom31]

One more vote and we can have a landslide 2/1 decision.

One more vote.

i can't beleive 212 people voted on this lol.

Oh and i chose the Bar and Beer over the chick. I have barely talked to her since.

[Firestorm]

i, personally, would stick with the bar.

if you really like her, this decision wouldn't be so hard. so i don't think you'll get anywhere with that girl, even if you decide to go for it. and THEN it's time to look for a new bar.

free drinks trumps random waitress ;)

[s13dan]

MY VOTE IS BOTH.

http://ultimatebeerquest.com/wp-content/gallery/beerboobs2008/tecate.jpg

agreed....

[TheRonTom31]

I love how this thread is still going..

Got you guys thinking didnt I

[!Zar!]

Fuck.

I selected the wrong thing.

Didn't know this was that bartender chick again.

ugh.

[s142jzkillav10]

girls +++++

[fl350]

go for the girl
you can always find another local watering hole lol