ronmcdon

idk about the maturity of chicks.
think a lot of maturity has to do with having more control of emotional sway.
imo, guys are generally MORE mature.
they keep their emotions more in check, and don't need as much attention.

I've dated girls of diff ages.
teens are the worst.
chicks in their 20's can go either way,
depending if their spoilt w/ attention and/or have some sort of substance abuse issue.
(alcholics are the worst in my experience, avoid like the plague).

based on my experience, maturity consists of:
when a chick is in her thirties or older,
has the determination to get through college.
has some semblance of an established career,
is disciplined about keeping their body in reasonable shape,
genuinely cares about others and isn't rediculously self centered, etc

About the car, if she's desparate to hold on to it,
i'd just say be the better person and let her keep it.
It's not a new car or a house.
I never let something trivial stress me out.
You time and energy should be worth more than a few hundred bucks.

jilo

nah, the car is alllll mine! im gonna get a bill of sale for it today and give her the rest of the money. 600 bucks isnt bad for a 240 vert right? lol. especially when its got my coupe doors, 300zx brakes, heim jointed everything, and my 350whp sr20 in it. maybe il post some pics of the ruit of my labors today!
im really happy to actually give a shit about cars again, for a while i just didnt care about anything becuse of her. she got me really depressed being such a dumbfuck. i cant tell you how much better i feel now that im away.

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jilo

r_G you said it absolutley perfect too, i did act like a father and try to make her better, i also never really loved her but i became waay too attached. that shit is exactly right.

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chiboy002

man i was on the same boat with you. i didnt date a drug-user who cheats but i did date a girl who was crazy. she wouldnt get off my ass, always texting and calling me and being up in my shit. i wasn't really into the relationship so i would spend time at home or with friends rather than talking to her and being with her, which made things worse. i guess she had self-esteem issues and was always tryna get me to say she's pretty and hot and all that, worst part is she was lying to herself about it and telling me she could get any guy at her school but wanted me (i went to a different school anyways... lol) And so eventually i told her to fuck herself and get out my life. She was probing into everythng going on in my life, and at this point in time i didn't want her doing that shit, if any, because i was having big family problems and i couldn't think straight. So she started hinting on what the problem was so i had told her to go. Anyways, after like 3 months i got back with her, she was cool and all but i didnt really like her as a gf both times but i still got back like an idiot, and so she got even more attached. Telling me she loves me all fucking day, and that im the best shes ever had and stupid gay shit like that. Eventually i took the initiative, i made a google voice account and made a 773 area code #. Told her i was getting a new number cause of telemarketers, gave her that one. Broke it off, deleting her from everything, deleted my facebook (didn't want it anyways so it helped) and she texts the false number thinking ill answer.

It was this little bit of satisfaction that she was interested in me and pretty much at my mercy, although it does sound evil and fucked up, i enjoyed messing with her and shit. she was just too cocky, thought too much of herself and thought everyone was below her.

Cut her off man, do what you have to but let her go. Don't seek revenge cause it will always come back to you, if she knows your into cars - its going to be aimed there, or she can go crazy and harm you. Before you think about revenge think of how unstable she is. She does drugs and that shit fucks with you. I know some people who used to gang bang and when i asked how they could kill people and not give a shit they told me it was drugs. Theyd get fucked up and then go out and shoot the person they wanted to, or wait in their house till they went to bed then shot them. I say just leave it as goodbye. If it were me, id do it on a good note cause i always had a problem with having enemies. I cater to everyone but if i can, i like to keep things on a neutral level. I feel you should do the same, you don't want to tell her to fuck off and go die or something that'll piss her off and then SHE seeks revenge on you.

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jilo

weeeelp, i did what i wanted to do yesterday. both things. i did go fuck the lkife out of her and i did tell her that i knew she was bullshitting me and wasnt being true for the 2nd time. but i didnt do it wrong. i talked with her for quite a few hours and let her down gently.
she really needs help, mentally. she was always quiet about her feelings and she knows that was our downfall. she finally told me last night that her family dosent want to talk to her about it, and the only people that do are her dumb ass friends that give bad advice. her family always told her that its wrong to talk about your feelings and your just supposed to be tough about it, which shes not. shes not tough in the slightest.
i told her that i cannot do this type of shit anymore whatsoever. i gave her a 2nd chance and she blew it and thats the end of it. theres no more trust, and after 6 years i can honestly say that theres only like 5% of me that wants to have what we used to have. i know it can never happen again so its completely out of my mind.
basically, i have been a father figure to her and she did need that in her life. i tought her a lot of lessons and a lot of stuff about how to live.
shes telling me that she has such severe anxiety sand depression that she dosent know wtf to do with herself, she dosent have self esteem anymore, and thinks shes worthless. basically she needs professional help and we both agreed on that.

im just glad i did things the right way instead of the wrong way. i really have no reason at all to act like i wanted to, and just play her out. we had waay to many good times and shared way too much of ourselves with each other for me to do that.
i guarantee shell never forget me and i hope shell use this as a lesson and live correctly after the dust settles.

thanks once again for all the insight fellas.

got the bill of sale for the 240 tho!!! werdd!! ill post some pics up sometime soon.

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takeshis13

^^ Lol....

That's cool if you help her get help, but don't get too caught up in that either. It'll be harder for her to move on if she keeps seeing you around.

azndoc

You can't fix people.

They have to fix themselves.

Done and done.

jilo

`thats where im at right now, i want nothing to do with this girl.
shes enough of an asshat that i dont even want to be her friend. shit, shes hot as fuck looks damn close to megan fox in my eyes, and i dont even want to fuck her again. just such an asshole. i cant wait to find someone good that i can marry and have kids with, and not worry.
fucking douchebags. i need to go meet a girl at a fuckin library or somethin.

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