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10-29-2008, 01:35 PM | #304 |
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I'm still under the impression that most people are just brought up with the ability to easily talk to anyone with ease. For others it's a big obstacle and there is no real "advice" you can give except to look good, and get over your fucking self and do something about it.
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10-29-2008, 01:39 PM | #305 |
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Well yea that's true not everyone is confident to spit game some have it and others don't but it's not that hard to develop game..... Honestly i think it's all mental...
I believe that anyone can be with anyone they want to... Even like how us guys see a hot chick with a wack ass man and we be like WTF?? I guess he got game if he pulled her fine ass... |
10-29-2008, 01:43 PM | #307 |
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^^ True that too....
I know a kid who pulls chicks all the time and he's hurtin but he got mad dough so i guess they love it and he spoils them and shit?? why?? I wouldn't but this thread is bout getting some ass so yeah fuck it... Best night... Went to an Asian club saw this one chick i'm already thinking of fucking told her i saw her looking at me, let me get you another drink.... I'm a go smoke...... Needless to say that ended up a happy night.... oooppss wrong thread.... but yea confidence will set you free IMO.... |
10-29-2008, 01:44 PM | #308 | |
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Of course it's all mental, that's why there really is no advice needed. Either you are socially retarded or you are just being a pussy who has this semi-subconscious phobia of women. (I usually find this in friends I have that were brought up by single mothers) This is where I leave it at, grow some balls and talk to a girl. It's only as hard as you make it.
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11-07-2008, 04:08 AM | #310 | |
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"Teases". Because that is what they are. "Smile at her everytime your eyes meet...It's breaking the ice..." "Basically your calling her bluff (as weird as that may seem) Your playing an eye game...testing her to make the first move...if she doesn't make a move...your going to have to. It's tentative interest. |
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11-07-2008, 07:07 PM | #311 | |
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11-13-2008, 10:13 PM | #315 | |
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now that's just harsh
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11-14-2008, 01:45 AM | #316 |
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basically my last date was a train wreck :lol:
I went on a double date with my friend and his girl, they were fighting the whole night. Basically, it was awkward and my date was uncomfortable. we come back from the movies, they decide to take off, I ask if she wants to come inside and watch a movie. She agrees, and and we start watching transformers, which happened to be here favorite movie. I was doing well, considering things went very bad before.. or so I thought than it does another shitty turn my buddy and his gf walk in my house, they sit in the kitchen, watching the movie with us.. she's uncomfortable once again, keeps looking back at them, I look back at my friend like 'wtf, are you doing!' his dumbass of course, doesn't notice shit movie ends, it's like 3AM.. shes tired and kinda complaining about having to drive home so late.. I throw out you can stay here if you want, she agrees my buddy and his girl cuddle on the couch my date lays down on my bed, as I get blankets and pillows for my friend and his gf. I ask if she want to sleep in my bed, and I'll sleep in my sisters bed she says 'I don't know' I'm thinking to myself 'I don't know? wtf, is that supposed to mean or does she want me to sleep with her in my bed?' I feel it's too early and I don't want her to think I'm trying to get with her so I say 'You sleep here and I'll sleep in my sisters room than'. go into my sisters room, to sleep 5min later I hear someone walking down the stairs.. I'm thinking it's my buddy and his girl. I walk downstairs and it's her getting her purse to leave.. I'm like 'what no goodbye?' she says it's late and she has to wake up early, tell her I have an alarm clock, she starts making excuses about my parents seeing her or something... I'm starting to get mad... 'my parents don't care, and if it makes you feel any better lock the door'. she decides to stay, I get her settled again, and go to sleep in my sisters room wake up, everyone's gone I wait about a week, ask my buddies girl if she has her number, she asks her friend if it's okay, I get her number. I wait till next week, call her up ask if she wants to do something again just her and I maybe go see a movie and eat some dinner. she seems excited about it, I'm feeling confident things are going well I'm getting aim messages from my buddies girl non-stop on how things went, I'm like I like her, but I don't know her that well yet. I call her up on the day of the date and ask what time she wants to go and where she lives... she's acting weird, like she doens't want to go anymore and starts bringing out the excuses something about my buddies girl being too involved... I said something on the lines of 'I'm going to go practice at the golf course, call me back when you decide what you want to do.' no callback... gets near dinner time, I call her, no answer leave a message wait a few days to pass to hear something from my buddies girl or her, herself. nothing, I call her up leave a message, basically telling her I liked her but after attempting to have a good time with her, I was done with the games, and if she wanted to stop playing them, I'd be down to take her out next week' she didn't want to stop playing games.. I guess :P that or she went back with her ex-boyfriend.. who I don't think she was over considering she was talking about him. what I learned: don't go on double dates for first dates, it's bad news trust
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11-14-2008, 01:53 AM | #317 |
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^^^ wow man pretty good story i feel ya on the you didnt want to go ahead and make it seem like u wanted to bang right away but to tell ya the truth girls these day's bang even on first dates
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11-14-2008, 09:47 AM | #318 |
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YES! Man up! She probably didn't wanna take the initiative to suggest the idea, but she wanted you to make a move. It seems to me she did everything she could without coming across as being too forward.
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11-14-2008, 05:02 PM | #319 | ||
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She's a mystery so it keeps me wondering either way I need to get over it and move on, but I have trouble doing so after something like this happens
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11-14-2008, 09:38 PM | #320 |
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She totally wanted ur cock that night. you fucked up. sorry.
She probably felt really weird sleeping in a room in house of person she barely knows all by herself. You could have at least slept on the floor. Next time when your in a situation like that make a move. Sleeping in the same bed doesnt necessarily mean you have/want to fuck. |
11-18-2008, 01:48 AM | #321 |
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wow, superb thread. Im gonna have to apply some of these suggestions at the bar/club
I got a question for ya'll in a different environment. So at my college i chill with a certain group of people. Well, in this building are many fine woman and i swear i see them looking at me but i lack the balls to keep looking or smile. I mean, i know im not ugly and all since my ex was a super fine hybrid flip/danish that i pulled in high school, im not confident either Now the game is different in college. Sometimes a fine girl would sit with us but doing her own thing like listenin to music/study or on the laptop. Its kinda hard to spit cuz of the people i mob with. They're homies and all but its kinda awkward for me, or everyone around ya know? Occasionally the girls would glance at me and what not. Also sometimes i just want to sit with a cutie, and try to spit. but im obligated to sit with these guys How can i change the atmosphere and or start up a casual convo? Another question is when girls are looking and i catch them, it could be a number of things. I will have to smile and get some responses, but are there chances they could be intimidated by me as i am with them?
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11-18-2008, 07:19 AM | #322 | |||
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^ Take a walk with her. Offer to go get some coffee or something like that and when you get her alone, spit ya game.. Hope this helps... I'm the official filler inner for Ant & Romeo... |
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11-18-2008, 09:29 AM | #323 | |
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11-18-2008, 11:14 AM | #325 | |
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11-19-2008, 02:04 PM | #326 | |
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