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Bigsyke · 05-25-2009, 03:30 PM

I picked up my girlfriends sister last night, to spend the night at our (gf and I) place. My girlfriend of 2 years' sister has been talking to my 18yr old brother for about 2 months. Well I guess my brother was going to pick my GF's sister up and take her to some party when she got in town, wrongo.

My brother takes her to his buddys place where they try and get her to put out. She declines, so he drives her to some field where he trys to get physical. He drops her off down the street of my apartment and takes off. - the whole time hes callin her some slut and whore, saying she wasnt even on his level if she didnt want to suck his dick etc.

Should I save the ass whoppin for after memorial day weekend or should I bring it up to my parents - who will probably kick him out of the house for this?

There is no excuse for anybody to treat a respectible smokin hot young lady like that, esp to get physical and force her to perform an oral performance, when its my fucking girlfriends sister. How stupid do you have to be?

Im having a hard time deciding on how to deal with this, he was always a Jesus lover, and a gentlemen. I must break it to my parents their son is a rapist. Any tips? Should I ever talk to him again?

Plus he called me about 2 hours ago trying to get into my apartment like some zombie chasing some fresh uninfected meat.

**ThatGuy** · 05-25-2009, 03:31 PM

I would beat his ass, then tell the parents.

Or... Beat his ass in front of your parents, then when they step in to break it up, explain your reasons.

Bigsyke · 05-25-2009, 03:35 PM

I would like to avoid the drama somehow, but I got a phonecall from my GF's mother this morning, saying shes going to drive to my parents house and beat my little brothers ass herself....Great way for our parents to meet....

**ThatGuy** · 05-25-2009, 03:37 PM

You should at least break the news to your parents, before a woman they've never met does it for you.

Bigsyke · 05-25-2009, 03:40 PM

Ill have to break it to my father tonight.......poor kid. Such a short life

punk138 · 05-25-2009, 03:40 PM

+1 on beating the shit outta him.

no girl deserves that...i would disown him too.

BustedS13 · 05-25-2009, 03:42 PM

beat his ass with a sock full of quarters

I LUV MY S13 · 05-25-2009, 03:45 PM

damn dood thats harsh..try talkin to him and find out wtf he was thinkin...no need to make things worst

**ThatGuy** · 05-25-2009, 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by I LUV MY S13

damn dood thats harsh..try talkin to him and find out wtf he was thinkin...no need to make things worst

Because there is a good excuse for attempted rape?

FUCK THAT!

I LUV MY S13 · 05-25-2009, 04:02 PM

yea tru but idk man thas ur brother..ur blood..u cant just disown him cuz of a fucked up decision..ass woopin sure..idk man its tough but good luck

soreballz · 05-25-2009, 04:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by I LUV MY S13

damn dood thats harsh..try talkin to him and find out wtf he was thinkin...no need to make things worst

You're dumb.

Bigsyke, I know he's your brother, but you know what you have to do.
-Assbeating.
-Tell the parents.
-Have the gf's sister press charges.
-Turn his ass over to the cops.

lflkajfj12123 · 05-25-2009, 04:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThatGuy

I would beat his ass, then tell the parents.

Or... Beat his ass in front of your parents, then when they step in to break it up, explain your reasons.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThatGuy

You should at least break the news to your parents, before a woman they've never met does it for you.

quoted for truth

soreballz · 05-25-2009, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by repda916

******************

Are you fucking serious? You do realize this thread is about a rape, right?

I wish computers had a "beatdown" function, so I could hit a button, and a fist would appear from your screen to break your nose.

Sarra · 05-25-2009, 04:18 PM

1st thing first... Make sure that your girlfriend's sister is in a safe place.

2nd thing, take her to a hospital, if she's willing to go.

3rd thing, get the police involved.

Worry about parents, little brother, etc. later. Most likely, the police will deal with that, as well as sort out exactly what happened.

tricky_ab · 05-25-2009, 04:19 PM

I'm late to the party, but what he had done was inexcusable...I'm whoop on him and then tell your parents (and not your girls mother).

***Future240*** · 05-25-2009, 04:26 PM

I say rough him up a beat, and while in the midst of it, grab him by the collar drag him to your parents, throw him on the floor, and then make him tell them what he did.

Koopa Troopa · 05-25-2009, 04:28 PM

Yeah, beat his ass before her mom does.

**ThatGuy** · 05-25-2009, 04:35 PM

Repda916, evidently at 17, you aren't mature enough to join this conversation. Your posts have been deleted, move along.

If you attempt to continue this stupidity, you will be Pinked.

surge s14 · 05-25-2009, 04:36 PM

beat his ass take care of it your self no need in getting your parents up set

fuk240sx · 05-25-2009, 04:46 PM

beating his ass isn't gonna do anything.....try and find out what ACTUALLY happen. Something similar happen to my cousin but it turns out that the girl making these accusations was a lil off her rocker......Its hard to believe that a "Jesus lover and Gentleman" all of a sudden is affiliated with rapist friends and is an attempted rapist. If he is then he needs to be turned in to the police because sooner or later its gonna happen again if that's the way he is!

I10cruiser · 05-25-2009, 04:49 PM

wow beat his ass

ronmcdon · 05-25-2009, 04:49 PM

Hope you've gotten both sides of the story before reaching any conclusion and taking any action.
try to clarify the details of the said event.
Your bro seems to be in the wrong no doubt, but there is a difference between hitting on someone and actual attempted assault/rape.

If he's in the wrong, there's a difference between resolving a situation that involves a complete stranger and family member/close friend.
Obviously with a stranger, you'd prob go all the way to exact retribution, but thats not the case here.
I would try to resolve this internally on the smallest scale, if possible.
If you can get your brother to apologize and the chick to accept the apology, then just leave it be.
as far as police action goes, at the very least i'd have the chick put a restraining order against your brother.

if you go all the way and have him kicked out of the house, ruin his relationship with his parents, thrown in prison, your essentially destroying his life.
maybe a better course of action, if he's in the wrong, is to get him therapy.
you also have to think about what your bro means to your parents.
destroying him, is taking something valuable away from them (if they care about him).

is it worth destroying your brother's life?
that's up to you to decide.
I know I'd try to resolve the same situation with as much diplomacy as possible.

also what do you want?
there's a difference between trying to fuck someone up and trying to help them.

'beating him up' is really not going to accomplish anything constructive, and is unbecoming of a 24 yr old.
i seriously hope that is not your ultimate solution.

Matej · 05-25-2009, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by fuk240sx

Its hard to believe that a "Jesus lover and Gentleman" all of a sudden is affiliated with rapist friends and is an attempted rapist.

Not at all, these are normally the types to watch out for. Lots of repressed urges, until one day they just snap.

240SXsaint · 05-25-2009, 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThatGuy

I would beat his ass, then tell the parents.

Or... Beat his ass in front of your parents, then when they step in to break it up, explain your reasons.

i agree with this guy. what ur brodid is disrespectful toyou your gf and her sis. hopefully it doesnt also jeopardize your relationship with you girl. also explain to your girlfriend the situation and ensure her that it will be taken care of properly

lflkajfj12123 · 05-25-2009, 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ronmcdon

Hope you've gotten both sides of the story before reaching any conclusion and taking any action.
Also try to clarify the details.
Your bro seems to be in the wrong no doubt, but there is a difference between hitting on someone and actual attempted assault/rape.

If he's in the wrong, there's a difference between resolving a situation that involves a complete stranger and family member/close friend.
Obviously with a stranger, you'd prob go all the way to exact retribution, but thats not the case here.
I would try to resolve this internally on the smallest scale, if possible.
If you can get your brother to apologize and the chick to accept the apology, then just leave it be.
as far as police action goes, at the very least i'd have the chick put a restraining order against your brother.

if you go all the way and have him kicked out of the house, ruin his relationship with his parents, thrown in prison, your essentially destroying his life.
maybe a better course of action, if he's in the wrong, is to get him therapy.
you also have to think about what your bro means to your parents.
destroying him, is taking something valuable away from them (if they care about him).

is it worth destroying your brother's life?
that's up to you to decide.
I know I'd try to resolve the same situation with as much diplomacy as possible.

also what do you want?
there's a difference between trying to fuck someone up and trying to help them.

simple solution

beat his ass

make him apologize to your gf and her family, you don't have to make your parents know that would be pretty awkward

its the brotherly thing to do

even if the girl lied i'm sure you've wanted to beat his ass for something else before so this will just let you get it out now

i've wanted to beat some sense into my brother a million times and he's older than me

waiting for the right time

ronmcdon · 05-25-2009, 05:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by s0apgun

simple solution

even if the girl lied i'm sure you've wanted to beat his ass for something else before so this will just let you get it out now

i've wanted to beat some sense into my brother a million times and he's older than me

waiting for the right time

well, that's different.
if you wanted to beat his ass regardless, then go for it.

LongGrain · 05-25-2009, 05:10 PM

last time i checked, trying to get physical with a girl, getting shut down, getting pissed and then dropping her off and making her walk home is NOT rape. of course his composure was way out of line and action needs to be taken, but unless i'm getting the story twisted, the kid didnt rape anyone...

Bigsyke · 05-25-2009, 05:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sarra

1st thing first... Make sure that your girlfriend's sister is in a safe place.

2nd thing, take her to a hospital, if she's willing to go.

3rd thing, get the police involved.

Worry about parents, little brother, etc. later. Most likely, the police will deal with that, as well as sort out exactly what happened.

Shes at my apartment, however getting the police involved is a little extreme at the moment since she didnt confirm any physical abuse (grabbing her arm and forcing her) that should wind him up in jail.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ronmcdon

Hope you've gotten both sides of the story before reaching any conclusion and taking any action.
try to clarify the details of the said event.
Your bro seems to be in the wrong no doubt, but there is a difference between hitting on someone and actual attempted assault/rape.

If he's in the wrong, there's a difference between resolving a situation that involves a complete stranger and family member/close friend.
Obviously with a stranger, you'd prob go all the way to exact retribution, but thats not the case here.
I would try to resolve this internally on the smallest scale, if possible.
If you can get your brother to apologize and the chick to accept the apology, then just leave it be.
as far as police action goes, at the very least i'd have the chick put a restraining order against your brother.

if you go all the way and have him kicked out of the house, ruin his relationship with his parents, thrown in prison, your essentially destroying his life.
maybe a better course of action, if he's in the wrong, is to get him therapy.
you also have to think about what your bro means to your parents.
destroying him, is taking something valuable away from them (if they care about him).

is it worth destroying your brother's life?
that's up to you to decide.
I know I'd try to resolve the same situation with as much diplomacy as possible.

also what do you want?
there's a difference between trying to fuck someone up and trying to help them.

'beating him up' is really not going to accomplish anything constructive, and is unbecoming of a 24 yr old.
i seriously hope that is not your ultimate solution.

Well hopefully later ill try and find out his side of the story, however I already know. I was 18 at one time, urges took me over, all I was trying to do was get laid. Im just curious on what kinda shit he was smokin to actually think that my furture wifes sister would be cool with some shit like that. He didnt think that after he dropped her off down the street she wouldnt tell me that my brother is a piece of shit? Like I was going to laugh at this sweet innocent chick getting disrespected, who is soon to be family to me.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Matej

Not at all, these are normally the types to watch out for. Lots of repressed urges, until one day they just snap.

Exactly my friend, I saw it comming when he was blaming me for all the porn my parents would find. Now they are finding bongs and shit in the passenger seat of their minivan.

Quote:

Originally Posted by LongGrain

last time i checked, trying to get physical with a girl, getting shut down, getting pissed and then dropping her off and making her walk home is NOT rape. of course his composure was way out of line and action needs to be taken, but unless i'm getting the story twisted, the kid didnt rape anyone...

Apologies, figure of speach, but non the less the worst thing you can do, bar none..esp the circumstances

**ThatGuy** · 05-25-2009, 05:15 PM

A good ass beating might be just the thing he needs to get his life back in order.

It's worked before.

97nismo · 05-25-2009, 05:16 PM

must have both sides of the story before you open the can of whoop

05-25-2009, 03:30 PM	#1
Bigsyke Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: NA Age: 36 Posts: 1,342 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Brother and GF's sister..... I picked up my girlfriends sister last night, to spend the night at our (gf and I) place. My girlfriend of 2 years' sister has been talking to my 18yr old brother for about 2 months. Well I guess my brother was going to pick my GF's sister up and take her to some party when she got in town, wrongo. My brother takes her to his buddys place where they try and get her to put out. She declines, so he drives her to some field where he trys to get physical. He drops her off down the street of my apartment and takes off. - the whole time hes callin her some slut and whore, saying she wasnt even on his level if she didnt want to suck his dick etc. Should I save the ass whoppin for after memorial day weekend or should I bring it up to my parents - who will probably kick him out of the house for this? There is no excuse for anybody to treat a respectible smokin hot young lady like that, esp to get physical and force her to perform an oral performance, when its my fucking girlfriends sister. How stupid do you have to be? Im having a hard time deciding on how to deal with this, he was always a Jesus lover, and a gentlemen. I must break it to my parents their son is a rapist. Any tips? Should I ever talk to him again? Plus he called me about 2 hours ago trying to get into my apartment like some zombie chasing some fresh uninfected meat.

05-25-2009, 03:31 PM	#2
ThatGuy Admin Asshole Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Retired Age: 41 Posts: 20,394 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: ThatGuy Feedback Score: 0 reviews	I would beat his ass, then tell the parents. Or... Beat his ass in front of your parents, then when they step in to break it up, explain your reasons. __________________ "Speak softly,..." -Pres. Teddy Roosevelt "Be polite, be professional, ..." -Gen. James Mattis

05-25-2009, 03:37 PM	#4
ThatGuy Admin Asshole Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Retired Age: 41 Posts: 20,394 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: ThatGuy Feedback Score: 0 reviews	You should at least break the news to your parents, before a woman they've never met does it for you. __________________ "Speak softly,..." -Pres. Teddy Roosevelt "Be polite, be professional, ..." -Gen. James Mattis

05-25-2009, 03:40 PM	#6
punk138 Zilvia Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: BroCal Posts: 602 Trader Rating: (12) Feedback Score: 12 reviews	+1 on beating the shit outta him. no girl deserves that...i would disown him too. __________________ yes we still roll fenders

05-25-2009, 03:42 PM	#7
BustedS13 Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Phoenix AZ Age: 36 Posts: 10,287 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	beat his ass with a sock full of quarters __________________

05-25-2009, 03:35 PM	#3
Bigsyke Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: NA Age: 36 Posts: 1,342 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	I would like to avoid the drama somehow, but I got a phonecall from my GF's mother this morning, saying shes going to drive to my parents house and beat my little brothers ass herself....Great way for our parents to meet....

05-25-2009, 03:45 PM	#8
I LUV MY S13 Post Whore! Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Norwalk, Los Angeles Age: 32 Posts: 3,349 Trader Rating: (35) Rides Gallery: I LUV MY S13 Feedback Score: 35 reviews	damn dood thats harsh..try talkin to him and find out wtf he was thinkin...no need to make things worst __________________ -Jorge

05-25-2009, 04:02 PM	#10
I LUV MY S13 Post Whore! Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Norwalk, Los Angeles Age: 32 Posts: 3,349 Trader Rating: (35) Rides Gallery: I LUV MY S13 Feedback Score: 35 reviews	yea tru but idk man thas ur brother..ur blood..u cant just disown him cuz of a fucked up decision..ass woopin sure..idk man its tough but good luck __________________ -Jorge

05-25-2009, 04:18 PM	#14
Sarra Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Dreadford, OR Posts: 45 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	1st thing first... Make sure that your girlfriend's sister is in a safe place. 2nd thing, take her to a hospital, if she's willing to go. 3rd thing, get the police involved. Worry about parents, little brother, etc. later. Most likely, the police will deal with that, as well as sort out exactly what happened.

05-25-2009, 04:19 PM	#15
tricky_ab Post Whore! Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: It's dark, and hell is hot! Posts: 9,413 Trader Rating: (23) Feedback Score: 23 reviews	I'm late to the party, but what he had done was inexcusable...I'm whoop on him and then tell your parents (and not your girls mother).

05-25-2009, 04:28 PM	#17
Koopa Troopa Post Whore! Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: 北谷著, 沖縄県、日本 Posts: 2,565 Trader Rating: (3) Feedback Score: 3 reviews	Yeah, beat his ass before her mom does. __________________ Buy my Stillway shifter!

05-25-2009, 04:35 PM	#18
ThatGuy Admin Asshole Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Retired Age: 41 Posts: 20,394 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: ThatGuy Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Repda916, evidently at 17, you aren't mature enough to join this conversation. Your posts have been deleted, move along. If you attempt to continue this stupidity, you will be Pinked. __________________ "Speak softly,..." -Pres. Teddy Roosevelt "Be polite, be professional, ..." -Gen. James Mattis

05-25-2009, 04:36 PM	#19
surge s14 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Laredo Texas Posts: 1,125 Trader Rating: (12) Feedback Score: 12 reviews	beat his ass take care of it your self no need in getting your parents up set __________________

05-25-2009, 04:46 PM	#20
fuk240sx Zilvia Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Lake Worth Age: 35 Posts: 203 Trader Rating: (3) Feedback Score: 3 reviews	beating his ass isn't gonna do anything.....try and find out what ACTUALLY happen. Something similar happen to my cousin but it turns out that the girl making these accusations was a lil off her rocker......Its hard to believe that a "Jesus lover and Gentleman" all of a sudden is affiliated with rapist friends and is an attempted rapist. If he is then he needs to be turned in to the police because sooner or later its gonna happen again if that's the way he is!

05-25-2009, 04:49 PM	#21
I10cruiser Post Whore! Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: los angeles Age: 32 Posts: 3,053 Trader Rating: (47) Rides Gallery: I10cruiser Feedback Score: 47 reviews	wow beat his ass __________________

05-25-2009, 04:49 PM	#22
ronmcdon Post Whore! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: beverly hills Age: 86 Posts: 4,254 Trader Rating: (6) Feedback Score: 6 reviews	Hope you've gotten both sides of the story before reaching any conclusion and taking any action. try to clarify the details of the said event. Your bro seems to be in the wrong no doubt, but there is a difference between hitting on someone and actual attempted assault/rape. If he's in the wrong, there's a difference between resolving a situation that involves a complete stranger and family member/close friend. Obviously with a stranger, you'd prob go all the way to exact retribution, but thats not the case here. I would try to resolve this internally on the smallest scale, if possible. If you can get your brother to apologize and the chick to accept the apology, then just leave it be. as far as police action goes, at the very least i'd have the chick put a restraining order against your brother. if you go all the way and have him kicked out of the house, ruin his relationship with his parents, thrown in prison, your essentially destroying his life. maybe a better course of action, if he's in the wrong, is to get him therapy. you also have to think about what your bro means to your parents. destroying him, is taking something valuable away from them (if they care about him). is it worth destroying your brother's life? that's up to you to decide. I know I'd try to resolve the same situation with as much diplomacy as possible. also what do you want? there's a difference between trying to fuck someone up and trying to help them. 'beating him up' is really not going to accomplish anything constructive, and is unbecoming of a 24 yr old. i seriously hope that is not your ultimate solution.

05-25-2009, 05:10 PM	#27
LongGrain Post Whore! Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Midwest Posts: 2,741 Trader Rating: (5) Feedback Score: 5 reviews	last time i checked, trying to get physical with a girl, getting shut down, getting pissed and then dropping her off and making her walk home is NOT rape. of course his composure was way out of line and action needs to be taken, but unless i'm getting the story twisted, the kid didnt rape anyone...

05-25-2009, 05:15 PM	#29
ThatGuy Admin Asshole Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Retired Age: 41 Posts: 20,394 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: ThatGuy Feedback Score: 0 reviews	A good ass beating might be just the thing he needs to get his life back in order. It's worked before. __________________ "Speak softly,..." -Pres. Teddy Roosevelt "Be polite, be professional, ..." -Gen. James Mattis

05-25-2009, 05:16 PM	#30
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