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Hey guys, alright so i honestly dont know what to do... Ive read all the install guides what not, read through all the forums, asked irl buddies, did everything ive tried every trouble shoot possible i just dont know what to do... I bought some control arms and also tension rods. So i got the control arms bolted up that works out fine and everything but the tension and sway bar link dont bolt up flush... I need to have the ball joint like turn so i can turn the control arm counter clockwise, thats the only thing i can think of, but the balljoint is so stiff there is no way for me to turn it. I thought maybe if idrop the car down it should turn it or soemthign i dont know i dont want to make anything worse than it alrdy is. Heres the pics please help me out guys, i really really really realllly really dont want to tow it to a shop, maybe there is something im not thinking of?