FRpilot

agreed with driftfreaq and his 3 stories as good examples. just get the facts straight first before you do anything.

i thought at first, why not get the full story. girls tend to exaggerate at times. for all you know, her little sister could be mad at her sister for something stupid, or jealous of you both for having a good relationship and made this whole story up to cause tension in your family/relationship.

but if you talk to your brother and find out that it is true, then do what you must to make things right whether it be an asswhopping or getting parties together to straighten things out. i would be pissed too if it was true and a brother did this. i mean, if your relationship is serious and you end up marrying the girl, it will be always awkward for your brother and the sister at family gatherings and other events.

unfortunately for the guy, the girl will always get the benefit of the doubt in situations like this. although i hear it is pretty hard to plead a case of rape in court for the victim, unless there is clear evidence.

besides, i don't know why people are calling this attempted rape. he may have acted like a "pig" and a "jerk" for not getting the girl to put out, but unless he used force and tried to force her, i don't consider it attempted rape even if he drove the girl out to a field or to some frat party. maybe verbal abuse or being too vulgar.

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Ask your brother what the fuck he was thinking, then when he explains it, beat his ass.

Then tell your parents.

!Zar!

Tried to do it once, he'll try to do it again.

First I'd beat his ass.

Then I'd call the cops.

Then I'd tell the parents once the cops are on the way.

The girl didn't tell anyone or what?

I'm gathering if you found out, so did your gf.

Her parents don't know?

Guess I should read all the posts aside from the first, but meh.

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whyrun?

thatguy nails it on the head. i would beat the ever living fuck out of him then tell your parents. no cops.

sock and soap and then a final beating down. i wouldnt let a fuck up mess around with my girls family or potentially strain your relationship with her having her parents breathing down you guys.

FRpilot

hahaha

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ryguy

Don't just ask like, "hey, broski, did you try to rape her. What happened?" Confront him like you know he did, like "what the fuck were you thinking trying to rape her." You'll get a better reaction to judge.

Still, I don't see the actual "attempted rape," as has been said already, although he still needs to be set straight.

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4DOOR_LIFE

one way or another he needs to realize how badly me fucked up. what ever method/methods you use make sure he learns. beat the crap out of him, tell the rents, call the cops. he needs to learn now, and he needs to pay for his mistakes. its disrespectful on so many levels, i cant believe you didnt lose it the moment you found out. you should also ask his friend that was in on it, wtf happened as well. good luck dude, hope he learns.

i know several girls that have either been sexually harrassed or assaulted. how i wish i can find all the guys that did that shit to them. i would be jigsaw for a day and make a new Saw movie. fucking scum

ronmcdon

ppl here are 'assuming' a lot of things.
how someone reacts to ambiguous situations tells you a lot about them.

soreballz

You know, this is very very true.

Let us know what your brother says. I'm sure everyone following this thread is very interested.

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325irollin

Sounds like a dickhead, no offense. I'd punch him in the face at least.

drift freaq

This is actually a good way to go at it , because you can actually gauge real well by his reaction. I don't think I have to repeat what I already wrote.

I will say this though, a lot of you are jumping to knee jerk reactions that shows possibly poor judgment on your part. I suggest some of you step back and take your own emotions out of this for a second.

1. We have a one sided story here.

2. There is always possibilities for falsehoods, as I don' know of a single person who has not lied at least once or more in their lives.

3. Until the OP has the full story, just beating someone down is a immature reaction.

I am sorry Barry(Thatguy) I respect you and your being a father, but you of all people being who you are, should know. A explanation from both parties is the first order at hand.

If an ass whooping is warranted then by all means bring it on. Though sorry and terrible the OP who feel if he was to beat his brothers ass only to find out later that it was bullshit and the guy did nothing.

The problem with this country today is to many people want theirs. To many people want to meet out justice without getting the full story.

Everyone complains when the cops do this and it gets on the news.

Though shit happens in private and people are like beat his ass. Fuck that is vigilantism and it lead to hangings of innocent people in the 1800's.

Gee shall we receed to the wild wild west or the lynchings in the deep south?

Should we just through all civility out the the window? A lot of punks on this forum would like nothing more than to do that.

Its fucking sad.

Now before any of your over reacting asses, get an idea that I am against proper discipline. You misjudge, if that even enters your head.
What I am for is proper justice and decisions based on truth and not emotional reaction.

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Late as hell.

If I was to talk to my little brother I would say it like I knew what happen, and see how he answers from there. You should be able to see his reaction and tell from there. If anything just beat his ass for the drug usage idiot!

When beating his ass I would agree with the sock full of quarters cause that comment made me laugh SOOO damn hard!

ThatGuy

I can agree there. But I thought sure I read more then just the possible sexual assualt as reasons for his brother to catch a beating. He can explain himself while he's getting beat as well. If he's not guilty of attacking her, well then just count it as "bonding time" with his sibling.

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^^
That's very immature there. If you do not have anything better to post then just stay out of the thread.

Bigsyke, update us when you have the chance. I would like the know the outcome.

SochBAT

Get story from bro.

Get story from gf's sis.

If everyone strongly believes GF's sis, you can take her to get checked up for any signs of abuse/physical assault. bruising, tenderness of the muscles?

Or just strap em on lie detectors. with added electro-shock therapy diodes. and have them sitting on a spike chair.

That is on fire.

ThatGuy

Evidently you missed the HUGE FUCKING WARNING posted on the last page. Oh well, you're now Banned, forever.

I hope it was worth to ask such a stupid fucking question.

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Bye bye.

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and ur outtahere!!!


to OP... honestly get story from brother...gauge his reactions to what you say...if hes at fault, then let ur parents handle it...if he thought it was funny and a ''joke'' ...well ill leave that for you to decide...


ill say this...im one to never be violent...the only thing that would set me off in a heartbeat is either seeing or the confirmation a woman being beaten by some guy... period

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ronmcdon

there is a weakness to that approach.

IF the supposed rape/assault/sexual advance or whatever took place in the truck, between ONLY the bro and the GF's sis, then that approach is lacking in effect.
The only info that the OP could possibly have, is the chick's testimony.
He has maybe a biased version of the partial truth at best.
Not like OP was secretly hiding in back in the truck somewhere when said incident took place.
The 'Bro' is most likely aware of this, and will know right away the OP is being manipulative.

Further, confronting anyone in any issue like you've already made up your mind that they're in the wrong, is always a gamble.
they're either intimidated by you and fess up or pretend that they are (cops like to do this a lot),
or they're not intimidated at all and shut you out.

The more you know someone, the more you can predict how they react.
OP doesn't know his bro that well.

A more conservative approach would be to be confront the bro on friendly terms.
Try to show that he cares, and that he's on his side (even if his ultimate motive is to screw his bro over).
"I'm on your side, we're family!"
"Let me know what happened so I can help you"

With the actual questioning, be brief & vague to start out with.
When it comes to the events of what happened in the truck, ask him to elaborate on the details.

Do the same for the chick.

When questioning the bro, you can always switch to the hostile interrogative mode AFTER if being warm & friendly doesn't work.
Doubt the the other way around would work so well.

dynamicck

The only pics allowed should be his brother gettin an ass whooping!

But really, I agree with Drift Freaq. It doesnt hurt to get the brother's side of the story. It'll take him like less than 5 minutes to explain, while OP can be stretching during that time.

!Zar!

Thought you were above the law eh? Owned.


Honestly, when a girl is treated that way, they normally don't even talk about it.

And if they do, they would make a HUGE deal out of it.

Just a way it can be seen from the other side.

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Ban everyone who quotes it also.

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SimpleS14

quoting asterisks ?

I can't say what hasn't been said before, but I do find it interesting that there is a huge disconnect between you and your younger bro. I had that too, but it was because we were in different countries and it took YEARS for him to acknowledge me as his older bro.

I wouldn't be the bit surprised if he did something along those lines, because like they say...watch out for the quiet ones.

Do get his side of the story and keep us updated if you want. I'm interested to know the outcome of all this.

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ronmcdon

what do you mean by "make a HUGE deal out of it"?

illvialuver

I actually agree 100% with soapgun on this, if you are the older brother it is your brotherly duty to point him in the right direction and help him be a better person. I am the oldest of 5 and I know first hand, telling your parents is the biggest bitch move of all time. You should help him with his evil sexual habits, by telling him he is wrong, make him apolagize and if he refuses beat his ass. But telling your parents will only make him lose trust in you, and you will lose a friend, especially since your his brother, telling on your sister may be one thing but brothers watch out for each other at all times.

and rape is a huge deal. it is never okay.

It is attempted, I wouldnt call the cops unless he actually raped her. But it is still wrong.

ESmorz

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Is it possible the girl is just a bitch and is embellishing this story a bit?

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drift freaq

that is indeed what I was trying to point out
. Until bigskye can fully asses his brother and his brothers story and tell us we have no idea and it is indeed possible.

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I fully agree that he needs to find out the story. But I still stand by that his little brother probably has a beating coming from something. Now's as good a time as any.

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ESmorz

I mean if your brother is a crazy rapist I think he would have just hit her "said shut the fuck up" and done the deed.

Trying to get a girl to eat your meat and having her decline so you ditch her and tell her off isn't exactly rape.

Have her show you some bruises or cuts or forced anything then you can be worried. Granted it's not acceptable behavior but there is a difference between being a sexually frustrated, socially awkward fuck face, and being a rapist.

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