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This thread is intended to help those out there that have no game. I know many of you like cars, and computers...and honestly..I think about 60% of you cats. Either have no lifes/Boring lifes/and no game whatsoever (no disrespect) However take in any opinions given in this thread and apply it to your own lifes. I hope you can learn something outta this.

Now there are rules for this thread however:
#1 You can only post questions. No stupid opinions or this thread will be closed. We will awnser every question posted. Give us time however. We are both busy bee's.
#2 If you have an opinion. Please PM me or Lisa (DRavens13)
#3 Learn something!


So here we go; HOW TO SPIT GAME 101.

I personally believe that you have to sit back and watch your target before engaging in a conversation or any kind of interaction. You have to have a good fast thinking mind and you have to be smoooooth during the approach.

Now you can tell a lot about a woman by simply looking at her swag/style or however you wanna call it. I know most of us guys look up and down girls when passing by (at least I hope so) So take in mind everything about her. And NOTICE THE SMALL DETAILS. Such as Eyes, hair color, dimples etc. You also need to play it smart and use the environment around you aswell. Meaning if your in a music store...approach with a music conversation..etc.etc.etc.

BUT to get to this step first. You must feel confident and expect the worse. Everyone gets shot down. I've been shot down hundred of times cold blooded but that's never stopped me...just don't dwell on it, and move to the next one.

Now obviously you can't get to know a lady without an approach/pick up line...So you need to say something that INTERESTS her. Or something that will make her LAUGH and feel abit more comfortable.(usually this breaks the ice) If she's not feeling comfortable at all..then most likely she's not going to even look at you and walk away.

Girls like BOLD guys that STAND out I would imagine. Meaning if you have the balls to go up to a GROUP of ladies..and talk to one in particular then that sets you aside than all the hundreds of guys that are in the area, but I'll admit they are more harsh in packs. So keep your "A" game on.

(Try not to ask any questions that use a "yes" or a "no" response only because it shortens the time span with quick awnsers, and she walks away)

Some people like to use pickup lines. I LOVE TO. Pickup lines are a broken record, but I know for a fact it catches a bit of laughter deep deep deep down inside her awkward look she gives you

Sample Pickup Lines I love to use:

"Hey beautiful? That is your name right??".

(if outside at a bar)"Do you have a cigarrette?(wait for the response..) Because your smoking". -Copyright by Andrew Bohan of Lab17.


"Are you lost? Because heaven's a long way from here".

"Excuse me..do you have the time?". <--and go with it from there. Gotta think smart homies. Because 90% of the time they will respond.

Now once the conversation has begun...I cannot help you out from there. It's all on your own personality to keep the ball rolling. Always look into her eyes when speaking. Don't look down or around, It's very respectful to stay locked on her.

Now I personally use this trick, where I look to the left eye, then to the right eye slowly back and forth while speaking to her. This shows that you are LISTENING to what she has to say, or that you are seriously putting deep concern about this woman.

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DRavenS13

I also will be adding to this as well. You can have all the advice from another guy, there's plenty of them here, but I will be adding my .02 since after all, a female point of view will get you further into the game. If you'll listen to a fat guy on the radio that's been through 4 marriages, then surely you'll take heed to my advice, as it only took one time for me to be married and hate it before I learned my lesson.


While you guys sit and watch us like hungry hyenas surveying the pack, we're just as aware of you guys. Upon walking into the place, we've already sized up the entire area, and pretty much know what we're walking into. The time it takes for you to size one girl up, we've already broken down every single person in the club.



PLEASE don't be creepy about it. While you're studying the target, try to be as ninja-like as possible. You don't wanna come off as a stalker.

Boldness is good, but don't be obnoxious. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than some guy that comes up to you and starts talking loudly, or being all touchy feely. Respect her space.

Also, consider your appearance. Don't come up to a girl if you smell like a barn, really smashed/stoned, or if you're dressed like a bum. Consider her as well. If she looks sick, or if she looks pissed off, you're more than likely gonna get blown off, because she just isn't in the mood. I realize that sometimes you can still talk to her when she's in a mood, but trust me, 9 times out of 10 it doesn't matter what you look like, or what you say, you're not gonna get through to her. Even if you look bomb, she knows that she doesn't, and she's gonna be extremely embarrassed and insecure, and that won't help.

PICK UP LINES

This, seriously, is hit-and-miss. If you use one, and she's put off by it, just keep moving. She obviously doesn't have a sense of humor, and you don't wanna deal with some girl that takes herself so seriously that she won't laugh at what you have to say.

Don't try to look smooth when using a pickup line. They're meant to be used as a joke to break the ice, and if you say one with a serious ass look on your face, you will be considered pathetic and useless.

Also, if she doesn't respond to you, just keep moving. But, catch her eye from time to time, to exhibit some interest. Girls like to be chased somewhat. If she blows you off, continue to work the room, but meet eyes with her from time to time when you see her. Showing interest even after you've been blown off might get you a second chance.

THE FRIENDS SITUATION

If you walk up to a girl that's with a group of friends, excuse yourself. The last thing you need is her friends fucking shit up for you which, 85% of the time, they will. Walk up, say excuse me, and look all of the friends in the group in the eye. It shows the target that you are not a pompous, disrespectful bastard. This is your chance to say something funny/witty/charming that will not only calm the basket of blood-sucking tarantulas that are her friends, but it will make her feel all special that you picked her out of the crowd.

Example:

"Hello ladies, how are you all doing [look them all in the eye, then revert back to the target]?
I don't mean to interrupt your good time, but I had to come over here and introduce myself to this [insert compliment here] lady that caught my eye."

Keep eye contact with the target at all times at this point, and really concentrate on whatever she says. Then, if she responds to you, hold out your hand to take hers, and at all costs, lead her away from the pack. You don't need her friends to interview you, they're not doing it because they care, they're doing it because 1- they're nosy as fuck, and 2- they're gonna plot a way to steal you away from her.

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ayuaddict

Thinh should read this.

hahaha.

<3

TiNMAN

me? whyyyy??

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downshift_sideways

Questions only. Please read rules

<3 Yuta.

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allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

athlete

hey im 16 and alot of people at my skool can spit game but im not sure how to do it right. i need help with wut to say with girls i no how to get there number without looking like a dumbass. how to go up to a girl in pe and spit game right and wut to talk about on the fone after i no everything else.

fcdrifter20

you don't ever want to talk to a girl over the phone for more than 5 minutes, after about 3, you already start running out of things to talk about...lol

you have to text them, they like that shit, and don't forget the smiley faces...they like that kinda shit.

DRavenS13

What Anthony forgot to add was, if you have questions about your skills, personal relationships, love life, blah blah, feel free to ask your questions here.

If you're having trouble picking up on girls, and don't know what you're doing, read here, and ask away.

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downshift_sideways

^Exactly.

Thanks for clearing that up mah.

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allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

Boostin on you

were you that guy on mtv with your own show on teaching nerds to get laid by strippers?

if so REP +1

LeftNutOfGowd

It wasn't on MTV it was on VH1 and the show was The Pick Up Artist



YouTube - Mystery Pick Up Artist tips on Opening - PUA VH1 Pickup

YouTube - Great Mystery story & routine to pick up girls! PUA VH1

YouTube - Art Of Seduction

YouTube - Mystery on approaching girls - attraction seduction PUA VH1

Here's my question how do you get rid of or get by The D.U.F.F. (Designated Ugly Fat Friend.)

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HyperTek

what do u look like?

go read the game by neil straus /thread

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Gnnr

Most useful information in the whole thread. Every other book, every thing you think you know will pale in comparison to Mystery Method.

The guys you see getting girls without this method are doing so because they "get lucky" or are getting away on good looks. There is a rare few that have this method already internalized without having ever read the book.

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stiizy

Damn Ant why you aint put me up on this kid......

SimpleS14

If you can't look into someone's eyes, at least look at them between the eyes....then once you're comfortable look them into the eyes. I <3 non-verbal communication (non-text based).

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Dirty Habit

Exactly. Always eye your landing pad before hand. If its too narrow, eyes might be lost, and its time for you to move on.lol.

Anyways, Im back in the game after being with a girl for 4 years and a month away from getting married. Alot has changed. I gotta step up my game now. This is gonna get interesting.

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drift925

One thing I've been told by a bestfriend of mine was that- riding a motorcycle with a extra small size helmet in the back will give you greater opportunity towards human reproduction

downshift_sideways

No that wasn't me.

I look like myself. lol.

I've read lots of "game" books, but I think the best I've ever read was called

"The Art of seduction". This book helps you seduce woman. It's a very awesome book. you should grab it.
lols. <333

Eye communication is one of the main points during the interaction however. I'd recommend looking str8 into your victims eyes and not inbetween.

Well Jay.

Long distance relationships NEVER work out. It's very rarely that you'll catch one holding strong.
However in your situation...if her boy is long distance...all you have to do is hang out with her more...show her the things that her other boyfriend doesn't.
Basically you need to "sweep" her. Compliment her on her beauty, Show her new things that she's never experienced etc.
Just play your cards right and you'll get her man. The awesome part is that YOU are HERE at the moment with her, while he's out there.
I'm sure you'll know what to do Lets hope she's one of the dependent on another type chick.


Thats whatsup playa.
I'm back in the game after being locked up for damn near 2 years. and I'm loving every second of it. Stay up homie.

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i8yourfwd

Werd.

She already admitted to having a thing for me not long after she moved back here. (We've also had history) She tried to not chill with me for fear of being unfaithful, but we still chill as much as we used to.

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i8yourfwd

Questions only? haha

How do I get a girl to break up with her bf who lives across the country, when I already know she has a thing for me?

... haha damn, i feel like a jackass..

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lucky7

man. i fail at this subject. i really think i have game, and plenty of it. i just have no idea how to harness it. i need to learn to use it for good, instead of evil.

heres one. howcome when i start a convo with a lady, it doesnt last very long? i just draw up blank. running out of questions and things to say sucks. and it makes me feel like a jackass. im sure it makes me look like a bigger jackass.

another situation ive found myself and others in. ive been out of school for 6 years. i work for my parents, so i have zero interaction with females. the only time im around them, is when i go to the bar. and 9 out of 10 times, its guys night. and im getting plastered and dont give a chit. haha. viscous cycle.

BUT. i have my first class this friday. business admin. we'll see how that goes. atleast ill be in contact with 'em. haha.

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albonig

i have the same exact problem.. i start a convo with a lady and it doesnt last long at all.. it runs blank and i dont know what to say and i feel like a loser.. and when i look around like other guys are like always constantly talking to the girls.. i have game but i dont know how to harness it.. help please? what does a girl want to hear? compliments? funny thingS?

Bmadd

In regards to conversation, I was in your shoes for a long time. I did a personal makeover and here's how I started:
1. I made it a goal to start 10 conversations with total strangers a day. whether it's at the bar, the gas station, in line at the grocery store, you'd be surprised how many people are CRAVING social interaction.
2. Never say anything Negative. ever. no this place sucks, i hate this or that, i don't like such and such. Unless she asks if you don't like something, or asks your opinion. even then, tread lightly and don't dwell on negativity. You want to be positive and happy. not dreary and toxic.
3. Smile. it exudes confidence and shows others you have your shit together. Practice it. Seriously.
4. EYE CONTACT! If you start talking to female, hell anyone, Look them in ONE eye, and dont look away until they do first. every time. never look away first. This is hard. Do not shift back and forth. it makes you look uncertain. play with this one. at the grocery, make eye contact with a woman passerby. lock on and smile. say hi. try not saying hi. just dont be creepy. And if you do start conversing with someone, NEVER leave your shades on!
5. If you have no personality, or struggle with being shy, or whatever learn a gimmick. a magic trick, a joke, carry a funny pic in your wallet. Something. You have to make yourself marketable.

If you are serious about improving yourself, volunteer to DD on your "guys night." That is a conversation point in itself. It also makes you look responsible, and show you don't "need" booze to have a good time. hang with the guys, and run your game from there. excuse yourself, go strike up a conversation, then break contact and continue hanging with the guys. YOU must always be the one to start and stop the conversation. keep it short, and if she's into you, you'll know it. Just don't let it die. And remember, the person who asks the questions is in control of the conversation.

All of these points can be used talking to chicks, or your boss. They are basic fundamentals of a confident, attractive person. You may be confident, but maybe you are not showing it. Take it or leave it.

5pecialist

Should I have to change who I am? 23 pages? Seems like a waste of time to me when y'all could be out drifting. Is "spitting game" really worth this much effort?

The Island

lmao. right, because we ALL drift ALL the time. gtfo.

back on topic:

something to keep in mind - the people you hang with say a lot about you. the better your group looks, the better you look.

5pecialist

That sounds like one must be a poser - change who he is & who his friends are, just to get laid. How do we "spit game" without having to become something we are not, oh wise ones?

g6civcx

After interviewing hundreds of people for jobs, I would like to agree with all points above. How you carry yourself is just as important as your resume.

Just make sure you don't overdo it and come across too slick and slimey. People don't like that either.

ALTRNTV

How do I stop girls from being all over me?

Can I contribute to this thread also? I got mad game,
son.

stiizy

^This guy haha

How do you get outta the friend zone just to hit but after still remain friends??

thejapino

From my experience, it doesn't happen. This one long-time lady friend of mine moved away and came back. She started liking me and once we fucked around, it was a different relationship. You'll start seeing eachother differently. Once you cross that line, things change.

...Unless its FWB...

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