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MaD1337M3DRiV3r · 04-09-2008, 12:00 AM

Argue over everthing. Show up realllly late for everything, act very cheap, dress like a bum, take her out only in your 240, only talk about your 240 and school, and try to spend as little time as possible with her.

So as a result you will find out that she is A) retarded enough to stay B) leaves you stating that your a slob that shows no interest (your goal)

ESmorz · 04-09-2008, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by MaD1337M3DRiV3r

Argue over everthing. Show up realllly late for everything, act very cheap, dress like a bum, take her out only in your 240, only talk about your 240 and school, and try to spend as little time as possible with her.

So as a result you will find out that she is A) retarded enough to stay B) leaves you stating that your a slob that shows no interest (your goal)

I do that anyways hahahaha

wrapmeup2005 · 04-09-2008, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by MaD1337M3DRiV3r

Argue over everthing. Show up realllly late for everything, act very cheap, dress like a bum, take her out only in your 240, only talk about your 240 and school, and try to spend as little time as possible with her.

So as a result you will find out that she is A) retarded enough to stay B) leaves you stating that your a slob that shows no interest (your goal)

Ive had it end up in A which sucked

an_orange_s2k · 04-09-2008, 12:07 AM

sounds like friends with benefits??? always something good...if u really wanna ditch her that bad jus do it, aint no point draggin it out.

edit: being blunt is the best/easiest way....dont sugarcoat shit or she'll think u guys are just going on a "break" and thats more trouble

sillyvia13 · 04-09-2008, 12:21 AM

she did it for me...
I called her phone no answer...so I call her at office...
they tell me she was fired 2-3 weeks ago...she has been playing hide and seek from me and lost my trust!
later bish!

ESmorz · 04-09-2008, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by sillyvia13

she did it for me...
I called her phone no answer...so I call her at office...
they tell me she was fired 2-3 weeks ago...she has been playing hide and seek from me and lost my trust!
later bish!

Well I know it sounds shitty but I wish something definitive would happen to sway me in the right direction. ha

240love^_^ · 04-09-2008, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by wrapmeup2005

Tell her the truth man, itll probably be the hardest to do but in the end when you both look back there wont be any hard feelings. Things didn't work out this time around, if something is meant to be then it is meant to be. Honestly if it is really like you are saying your both wasting time except for the sex I guess but Im sure you would like the sex more with someone your into and with someone that is into you.

Just tell her the truth, don't bring up the fact that she is leaving because that shouldn't have anything to do with it...long distance relationships can work. Let her know whats up, that your not feelin it and you don't feel that she is in to it either. If things are meant to be then maybe you will come back together with real love later on down the road, until then, free her and free yourself. Do it before you do anything with the hot chick too, nobody likes cheats.

I agree. Just tell her the truth. I'd rather have a guy tell me the truth than make up an excuse. Its never easy when somebody breaks up with you or you break up with somebody else but obviously things aren't working out for you guys. DON'T let sex be the only thing that is keeping you in a relationship.

Oh and definitely don't bring up the long distance relationship thing when breaking it off because long distance relationships do work. If you told a girl that it would just seem like their partner doesn't want to put in any effort into the relationship.

Just try to do it sooner rather than later.

Good luck.

ESmorz · 04-09-2008, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by 240love^_^

I agree. Just tell her the truth. I'd rather have a guy tell me the truth than make up an excuse. Its never easy when somebody breaks up with you or you break up with somebody else but obviously things aren't working out for you guys. DON'T let sex be the only thing that is keeping you in a relationship.

Oh and definitely don't bring up the long distance relationship thing when breaking it off because long distance relationships do work. If you told a girl that it would just seem like their partner doesn't want to put in any effort into the relationship.

Just try to do it sooner rather than later.

Good luck.

Haha a womans perspective. Something I didn't expect here.

I wouldn't bring up the long distance relationship thing anyhow. It's just something I know in my mind that I'm not committed enough to put all the new people that I'm going to be meeting aside for someone who is 100 miles away. Make sense? Still wondering where to do it ha.

sillyvia13 · 04-09-2008, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by ESmorz

Well I know it sounds shitty but I wish something definitive would happen to sway me in the right direction. ha

call her at work...ya never know...
I found her watching tv at her dads...I was wanting the walk in and she banging a gang of rappers! so I could go apeshit on them..but no...her and people magazine and Maury. sp?

***S14DB*** · 04-09-2008, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by ESmorz

Yeah... that's what I wanna lean towards...

But when I look back on my Prom pictures I don't wanna think damn. That the after party at the condo would have been way more interesting with the other girl. Truth be told at the moment I could have about 3 different cuties go with me, but I just don't know.

I'm usually not stricken by any indecision so it's new to me.

Yeah but it's gonna suck when that other chick thinks your a douche for dumping your GF before prom. Then you have to goto prom stag.

Looking back I think it was better to have steady relationships in HS then go buck wild in college.

ESmorz · 04-09-2008, 12:44 AM

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Originally Posted by S14DB

Yeah but it's gonna suck when that other chick thinks your a douche for dumping your GF before prom. Then you have to goto prom stag.

Looking back I think it was better to have steady relationships in HS then go buck wild in college.

The other girl doesn't even know I'm going out with anyone. I may have forgot to mention that to her...

drftwerks · 04-09-2008, 12:48 AM

bust a nut on her face, take a pic, post on myspace, then link her to pic, on aim.

haha jk jk

i dunno.

RiversideS13 · 04-09-2008, 12:52 AM

just explain to her, the feeling has been die out and this might be the best choice between you two. now you guys are just comfortable with each other but that is not ideal. you need to go find out what you really want and maybe you will find out how to appreciate her value more later.

if you already made up your mind, you should not continue take advantage of her. that is not fair to her and she could try hard to GET IT BACK from you.

at23 · 04-09-2008, 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by ESmorz

The other girl doesn't even know I'm going out with anyone. I may have forgot to mention that to her...

haha,dude I Left high school like two years ago.if I was in your situation,I would be blunt and say"look,we are cool,but we just don't fit together.if you still wanna fuck.cool,but I gotta move on" and move on to the hot chick.haha

ESmorz · 04-09-2008, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by at23

haha,dude I Left high school like two years ago.if I was in your situation,I would be blunt and say"look,we are cool,but we just don't fit together.if you still wanna fuck.cool,but I gotta move on" and move on to the hot chick.haha

Both are hot. But one is getting boring. bleh

at23 · 04-09-2008, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by ESmorz

Both are hot. But one is getting boring. bleh

well you don't have to settle for one.pimpin in high school was like shooting fish in a barrel.haha

BustedS13 · 04-09-2008, 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by ESmorz

Once again our brains seem to be in alignment Busted... get out of my head.

instead of the other chick, you should take me to prom

i wish i knew how to quit you

ayuaddict · 04-09-2008, 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by BustedS13

instead of the other chick, you should take me to prom

i wish i knew how to quit you

are you guys asian?

you guys could hella go in "cosplay" as vin diesel and paul walker yo!

on topic: i will...go ahead and vote for telling her the truth.

BustedS13 · 04-09-2008, 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by ayuaddict

are you guys asian?

you guys could hella go in "cosplay" as vin diesel and paul walker yo!

on topic: i will...go ahead and vote for telling her the truth.

i'm a chunky white guy, and if the internet is telling the truth, i can cosplay too, "otaku"

LB.Motoring · 04-09-2008, 01:26 AM

Better you do it than her.

Just do it, shits better than wasting time..........

ronmcdon · 04-09-2008, 01:33 AM

tough scenario. if you end up going to prom with the other chick, you may risk looking bad. i suggest be upfront with the breakup, skip prom, and pursue chick #2. that, or maybe you should hook her up with one of the horndogs here for distractions sake, if nothing else. that would be a win-win situation. difficult to be discreet in this scenario.

otherwise, i would advise not to be rude. nothing gained from burning bridges, esp the way chicks gossip among ea other in high school.

ayuaddict · 04-09-2008, 01:53 AM

aren't high school proms like at the end of the year?

you have like 2 months to "get over her" and hook up with the other chick so you don't look that bad.

all good in the neighborhood.

sunnys14 · 04-09-2008, 02:15 AM

Post pics of her FTW

at23 · 04-09-2008, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by sunnys14

Post pics of her FTW

PICS OR BAN!HAHA

chibo · 04-09-2008, 04:29 AM

Can I fucking bitch? This fucking bitch broke up with me after 2.5 years about 3 weeks or some shit ago... she told me we should see other people. Now she's already fucking another dude, shit fuck. I knew bitches didn't let go of one till they got the next fuck. It is someone she 'has been close to for a long time' and I fuckin know who it is... I asked her not to hang out with the fuck (an ex of hers) and she told me that it was nothing to worry about. Fuck me in the ass.

I need to get laid bad and get over this shit. Awesome to know absolutely no one and have no game. Ahhhhhhh FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. I should note she was my first and I literally found this shit out like 5fuckin mins ago so I'm pissed as shit.

yarou · 04-09-2008, 04:40 AM

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Can I fucking bitch? This fucking bitch broke up with me after 2.5 years about 3 weeks or some shit ago... she told me we should see other people. Now she's already fucking another dude, shit fuck. I knew bitches didn't let go of one till they got the next fuck. It is someone she 'has been close to for a long time' and I fuckin know who it is... I asked her not to hang out with the fuck (an ex of hers) and she told me that it was nothing to worry about. Fuck me in the ass.

I need to get laid bad and get over this shit. Awesome to know absolutely no one and have no game. Ahhhhhhh FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. I should note she was my first and I literally found this shit out like 5fuckin mins ago so I'm pissed as shit.

Man, bitches be crazy.

IIIXziuR · 04-09-2008, 06:45 AM

If you work on shitty cars enough, you smell like oil and grease and girls won't talk to you therefore you will not have a girlfriend nor girl problems.....

you also won't get laid or get your equipment handled.

.....fuck my life.

SimpleS14 · 04-09-2008, 07:41 AM

You really shouldn't have some worries while you're in H.S. I don't even have prom pics....not a big deal to me. Plain and simple, as most people have said, just tell her the truth and that you're not interested in being in a relationship with her. If she doesn't want to be alone, tell her you understand, but a girl like her will be bound to find someone that will treat her like a queen. Also note that if you and her were ever to have relations again...its strictly on a friends with benefits level and no strings attached. If she catches feelings in the mist of it, you ignore her.

ESmorz · 04-09-2008, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by at23

PICS OR BAN!HAHA

haha I always post pics.

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Originally Posted by ayuaddict

are you guys asian?

you guys could hella go in "cosplay" as vin diesel and paul walker yo!

on topic: i will...go ahead and vote for telling her the truth.

Nah, I'm a skinny tall white guy. Woooooew

bloodangels13 · 04-09-2008, 08:50 AM

HOT DAMN! is that the new chicky your eyeing up? if you dont bounce on that im ganna roll all the way there and snatch her up in my whip.... i was in a similar ordeal as you in HS, do whats ganna make you happy... lifes short and theres womens to be conquered ! go for the new chicky esp if thats her!

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chibo Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Tempe and Scottsdale, Arizona Age: 33 Posts: 1,425 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Can I fucking bitch? This fucking bitch broke up with me after 2.5 years about 3 weeks or some shit ago... she told me we should see other people. Now she's already fucking another dude, shit fuck. I knew bitches didn't let go of one till they got the next fuck. It is someone she 'has been close to for a long time' and I fuckin know who it is... I asked her not to hang out with the fuck (an ex of hers) and she told me that it was nothing to worry about. Fuck me in the ass. I need to get laid bad and get over this shit. Awesome to know absolutely no one and have no game. Ahhhhhhh FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. I should note she was my first and I literally found this shit out like 5fuckin mins ago so I'm pissed as shit. __________________ 1989 S13 \| 1996 S14 \| 2001 E46 \| 2009 ZX6R

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SimpleS14 Post Whore! Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Philly Age: 38 Posts: 9,185 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: SimpleS14 Feedback Score: 0 reviews	You really shouldn't have some worries while you're in H.S. I don't even have prom pics....not a big deal to me. Plain and simple, as most people have said, just tell her the truth and that you're not interested in being in a relationship with her. If she doesn't want to be alone, tell her you understand, but a girl like her will be bound to find someone that will treat her like a queen. Also note that if you and her were ever to have relations again...its strictly on a friends with benefits level and no strings attached. If she catches feelings in the mist of it, you ignore her. __________________ *Goals are dreams with a deadline.* L.H.O.O.Q.

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04-09-2008, 12:00 AM	#31
MaD1337M3DRiV3r Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Los Angeles (818) Posts: 303 Trader Rating: (1) Rides Gallery: MaD1337M3DRiV3r Feedback Score: 1 reviews	Argue over everthing. Show up realllly late for everything, act very cheap, dress like a bum, take her out only in your 240, only talk about your 240 and school, and try to spend as little time as possible with her. So as a result you will find out that she is A) retarded enough to stay B) leaves you stating that your a slob that shows no interest (your goal)

04-09-2008, 12:07 AM	#34
an_orange_s2k Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: SF Bay Area - Mile High Denver Posts: 1,555 Trader Rating: (19) Feedback Score: 19 reviews	sounds like friends with benefits??? always something good...if u really wanna ditch her that bad jus do it, aint no point draggin it out. edit: being blunt is the best/easiest way....dont sugarcoat shit or she'll think u guys are just going on a "break" and thats more trouble

04-09-2008, 12:21 AM	#35
sillyvia13 BANNED Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: nh Posts: 1,645 Trader Rating: (1) Feedback Score: 1 reviews	she did it for me... I called her phone no answer...so I call her at office... they tell me she was fired 2-3 weeks ago...she has been playing hide and seek from me and lost my trust! later bish!

04-09-2008, 12:52 AM	#43
RiversideS13 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Diamond Bar, CA Age: 39 Posts: 1,545 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	just explain to her, the feeling has been die out and this might be the best choice between you two. now you guys are just comfortable with each other but that is not ideal. you need to go find out what you really want and maybe you will find out how to appreciate her value more later. if you already made up your mind, you should not continue take advantage of her. that is not fair to her and she could try hard to GET IT BACK from you.

04-09-2008, 01:33 AM	#51
ronmcdon Post Whore! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: beverly hills Age: 86 Posts: 4,254 Trader Rating: (6) Feedback Score: 6 reviews	tough scenario. if you end up going to prom with the other chick, you may risk looking bad. i suggest be upfront with the breakup, skip prom, and pursue chick #2. that, or maybe you should hook her up with one of the horndogs here for distractions sake, if nothing else. that would be a win-win situation. difficult to be discreet in this scenario. otherwise, i would advise not to be rude. nothing gained from burning bridges, esp the way chicks gossip among ea other in high school.

04-09-2008, 01:53 AM	#52
ayuaddict Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Socal Age: 32 Posts: 4,017 Trader Rating: (9) Feedback Score: 9 reviews	aren't high school proms like at the end of the year? you have like 2 months to "get over her" and hook up with the other chick so you don't look that bad. all good in the neighborhood.

04-09-2008, 02:15 AM	#53
sunnys14 Zilvia FREAK! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: a land far far away... Posts: 1,549 Trader Rating: (19) Feedback Score: 19 reviews	Post pics of her FTW

04-09-2008, 06:45 AM	#57
IIIXziuR Post Whore! Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Left Hand Path Posts: 2,652 Trader Rating: (22) Feedback Score: 22 reviews	If you work on shitty cars enough, you smell like oil and grease and girls won't talk to you therefore you will not have a girlfriend nor girl problems..... you also won't get laid or get your equipment handled. .....fuck my life.