g6civcx

I'll drink to that.

It upsets me when people get in trouble when they ask for clarifications. This goes for children, lawyers, workers, or just about anyone.

The people who make up the rules think that anyone should be able to understand what is written when quite often what is written is not clear and doesn't encompass every possible situation.

I always got in trouble at school for asking why America is the devil. That's just something they taught in school and they just wanted you to accept that America is evil. If you even attempt to ask why, you get your ass beaten.

fckillerbee

what????!!!!! where did you go to school? and who was leading you into hell? lol

SUPERSTAR

Spanking is the best way to raise a child. I do it, I don't beat the crap out of them, cus that won't work later either.

I use a angry face and voice that they do not know from me. I follow through with what I say after the warning and 3 quick smacks where it stings. This seems to do it for my kids.

Wife's family kids are little monsters, cus all they get is threats and time outs. lol

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Csomme

I am completely for spanking, I think that is extremely neccesary in upbringing a child.

However, like everyone else said, there is a line between spanking and abuse. And it's not a fine line either. Just dont beat the shit outta the kid. Spank him on the ass, smack his hands(when he/she is doing something with their hands they aren't supposed to do).

My girlfriend has never been spanked. She's one of those kids that just grew up being quiet and following the rules(all of us know one or two of these kinds of people). She always listened and never really did anything to get into trouble. Her sister on the other hand was whooped to high heaven untill their parents got divorced, now she's just a spoiled little brat. She used to hit Amanda(my girlfriend) whenever Amanda got mad at her or something, but for the past two years we've been dating, Amanda's the one beating the shit out of her sister. lol. I started teaching her a little Muay Thai and that solved the problem. Her sister's only a brat when Amanda's not in the room now.

But seriously, even physical discipline when you're older works(not neccesarily from your parents)

EXAMPLE: In highschool there was a kid(Tyler) who always picked on this kid who was in my grade named Matt who had a learning disorder and was a little on the weird side. Well you know the story, Tyler was poular and everything, and no one liked Matt because he was weird as shit. Everyone knew that they didn't like eachother, and I can remember multiple times after gym when I was a Sophmore when Tyler would yank Matts pants down in front of everyone, or lock him in a stall or something. Come my Senior year this shit was still going on, and that surprised me, especially at the beginning of the year. So one day after weight training I walk out into the parking lot and Tyler literally has this kid picked up by his throat against the kids van. And NO ONE WAS DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT! So I went over there and Tyler put the kid back on the ground, and I beat the shit outta Tyler, bashing his head into van, throwing elbows, kicking his ribs, everything. Broke two of this ribs, cut his eyebrow and his forehead wide fucking open(Thank you MT) and broke his nose. The school decided to suspend me and not do a fucking thing to him though(classic). The rest of the year this Tyler kid was a dream, didn't say a bad thing about anyone, got great grades and is now one of my best friends. lol

Hit them, discipline them. Do not use "psychology" on them. Are you a fucking retard? explain what they did wrong and pop them on the ass. Reward them when they are good, discipline when they are bad.

Mr.350Gt

^^lol thats how you do it pimp,beat their ass teach'em a lesson and they'll be almost perfect angels

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dirtdiggler666

it all depends on the kid but they have to have some fear of you when they do something wrong. or they will run you like a little bitch and it will just get worse.

if you have a kid watch this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZJxYwC1ycQI

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Csomme

That kid needds her ass whooped

That Mom is a fucking bitch and needs to shut the fuck up and stay out of the way

The father is a pussy and needs to learn. lol

Mi Beardo es Loco

it's not the beating that makes the impact on the kid, it's the act. You have to make the kid SCARED to do it again, not from the pain but from your wrath. Yes, maybe a slap here and there is required when they just won't listen but if you do it too much and with little reason then it will desensitize him/her and that's when they don't listen to you and don't have that fear of god anymore.

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wgJoY

Umm, if a child has become desensitized to a slap, it's time to upgrade.

!Zar!

If a child is getting desensitized then most likely the person who is reprimanding them isn't conveying the point properly for the child to associate what they did wrong; I hate long sentences...

Or they just need to beat their ass till the white meat show.

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Phlip

Or the child is already paralyzed and the proper authorities need to be involved.

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DALAZ_68

happy to hear you say this sir...

honestly the downfall of the current generations is the downfall of parenting all together, they sit there kids in front of T.V. sets...and expect them to be proper little people...


or how about when they asked you to go get them, what they were gonna use...i remember that shit, crying as i walked down the hall, picked up the belt and walked back crying and shaking while i handed it to my pops, i deserved that shit though...

or when my grandma would ask me to get the switch of the tree and peel the leaves off...


LOL

honestly... my moms boss got that for my nephew...2 days later me, my sister and brother (nephews dad) burned that BS...no way is my godson gonna be on a motherfucking leash...


i would of said "si mama"... we grew up very close to our grandmother and call her Mama...its funny that...my mom and her sisters all call her that...her grand babies (me, my siblings and cuzins) call her that...and now, her great grand babies call her the same as well... lol

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TUnity2

I'm going to assume everyone who voted NO is either a silly liberal or doesn't have kids. or if they do they are going to have little brats screaming in a store for a candy bar.

We do the same thing in the South, but with long grain white rice.

!Zar!

hahaha. Exception to the rule~

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Enna

It's the thing to do.

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Walperstyle

I've gotten into beating other peoples kids

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ronmcdon

wish "other kids' parents" was an option

XnTroubleX

I say beat the hell out of them! My girlfriend has a daughter that needs a good asswhoopin here and there but I dont do it, I tell her mother and she wears her ass out!!

HAWAII

kids are spoiled rotten nowadays, I hear people talk back to their parents all the time, WTF? Do that to my mom and your head will roll.

How about verbal abuse towards the parents? How is that different?

mattro

i dont have kids, but just like a lot of you i was a disrespectful lil shit growing up, and my mom spanked me so many damn times. and im going to do the same to my kids. ive actually gone up to ppl and told them to hit there kid, or i would. it makes me sick to see parents do the "warning" thing, go past 3 and start over. are you kidding me? do you think your kids are retarded? im 20 and i know that it dosnt work from watching you just fail at it. hit the mother fuckers!


edit, i told my dad to go fuck himself once. once. (now im older and can whoop his ass tho so i say it all the time as a joke but, i respect him now)

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JDM_jonface

i know its been said already but i was hit with the belt and the wooden spoon and i turned out just fine. only one time did my dad blast me in the face and guess what? i was 17 and i deserved every ounce of that punch. see, i learned!

slowpo

I recently spared the rod when I found out that my 4 year old son was not reading The Holy Bible. I beat his bare buttocks with a senior cane which is a kind of rod. He was caned 24 times and though the blows were hard the bruising only lasted 4 weeks. I love my son which is why I beat him. I do not spank I beat. A spanking is putting him him over my knee and hitting him by hand, I'm afraid this could turn him gay so I don't spank I beat. Paddling is not a suitable punishment as the pain is not severe.
My son is like a model child in our Church.
Praise Jesus.

TURBOMAN

if you don't beat your kids their going to turn out like this little brat. I said we should all go and give him some Discipline.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuBfDZegCEw

Dalton918

Best post of this entire thread!

osrs13

im black so u know my momma hit me...ahahahaa

Dalton918

^ ditto
I got my ass beat and I deserved it 100% of the time and I still have great relationships with both of my parents even though they are divorced now.

dOMEmE

im a true mex...mexi tradition is beat your kids "that way they learn" and i did... i got beat with a "posolera" spoon.....if you dont know what that is, it a big foot and a half wooden spoon to stir big pots of posole (mexican dish) ...i learned to respect my parents and family, i stopped being a little heiven child and to not talk unecessary shit...lol... seriously doubt verbal punishment would have helped...

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dOMEmE

holy fuck....i would have got the sinto pitiado (big leather mexican belts) for that shit!!!! then to knee in the corner on beans for an hour...


when i got up i couldnt feel my legs...but i never made the same mistake twice...i usually got the same punishment for different reasons ...lol...

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udon!

i got my ass beat every day after school from 3rd-8th grade with a concrete stake.

it made me stronger i think.

but on the contrary, i have a terrible relationship with my dad, i hate him, and he is ALWAYS an asshole to me. im afraid to ever talk to him about anything, because he used to beat me.

SochBAT

Its funny, this goes both ways.

I was beat a ton, slave status. Out of all the boys (3 of us total), I was treated like a pinata.

Granted, his reasons for beating me (shoving kids off swings, 2 fights in 1 day, beating up other kids, etc) where spot on. While I did hate my father for doing so, as I grew up, I put 2 and 2 together.

Grown man (50's) taking care of 6 loose cannons, no support from the Mother (she pretty much abandoned us/took off) and he was Asian Military. Its all he knew, its what he taught.

You don't miss what you've got until you're gone. Yea he beat us, but he made us learn, and those lessons will always be with us. "Don't be a dipshit."