ALTRNTV

Compliment her and go from there. Conversation is easy once you get it going. Again, CONFIDENCE is key.

stiizy

Totally agreed....

Ak always beats me to the right responses...

Bored at work on a Saturday..........

makoman11

Just to completely clear, confidence is key in the approach, convo, and number close? Is the direct approach the best way to go up to a girl? You guys don't know how much this helps, I have game but this is definitely helping me sharpen it!

makoman11

Ok, yeah, I went to Walmart tonight and there were several hot girls there. I did not approach them though,becasue I was really unsure what to do because they were with their families. Any advice on how to approach them when that happens or when the girl is listening to her iPod or whatever!?

BrokenWhite240

If she's listening to an ipod or not paying attention, then say something to make her stop listening to it or put the attention on you. Say she's listening to the ipod you could say "Excuse, me my phone is dead do you have the time." or fake like she dropped money "excuse me I just found this i think you might have lost it." And if she takes your money give her a quick jab and

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makoman11

Do you mean like a nudge for the quikie jab? And any advice on how to approach a girl with her family, even if it is just her mom or something?

ESmorz

No, like jab your meat spear in her fun burger.

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makoman11

Dude, totally not what I meant.

ESmorz

You never know till you ask, right?

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BrokenWhite240

lol Dude that part was a joke jab aka punch then the faces meant kiss, hump then run while she was knocked out lol.

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DRavenS13

This is what I don't understand.

Men sit and question and whine that girls are only attracted to the assholes, the guys who berate them and belittle them and don't appreciate them and don't want them; who use them for sex and think of little else than where their next conquest will be made.

Men complain that they never meet nice girls, girls who are genuinely interested and compelling, who are intelligent and sweet and smart and beautiful; men despair that no good women want to share in their lives, that girls play mind games, that girls love to keep them hanging.

Yet, men, I ask you: were you to meet one of these genuinely interested, thrillingly compelling, interesting and intelligent and sweet and beautiful and smart girls, were you to give her your number and wait for her to call... and if you were to receive a call from her the next day and she, in her truthful, loyal, intelligent and straightforward nice girl fashion, were to tell you that she finds you intriguing and attractive and interesting and worth her time and perhaps material from which she could fashion a boyfriend, would you or would you not immediately call your friends to tell them of the "stalker chick" you'd met the night prior, who called you and wore her heart on her sleeve and told the truth?

And would you, or would you not, refuse to make plans with her, speak with her, see her again, and once again return to the bar or club or party scene and search once more for this "nice girl" who you just cannot seem to find?

Because therein lies the truth, guys: we nice girls are everywhere. But you're not looking for a nice girl. You're not looking for someone genuinely interested in your basketball game, or your life, or that argument you keep having with your Mother.

You're looking for a quick fix, a night when you can pretend to have a connection with another human being which is just as disposable as the condom you were using during it.

So don't say you're on the lookout for nice girls, guys, when you pass us up on every step you take.

Sometimes we go undercover; sometimes we go in disguise: sometimes when that girl in the low cut shirt or the too tight miniskirt won't answer your catcalls, sometimes you're looking at a nice girl in hoochie clothing - we might say we like the attention, we might blush and giggle and turn back to our friends, but we're all thinking the same thing:

"This isn't me. Tomorrow morning, I'll be wearing a teeshirt and flannel shorts, I'll have slept alone and I'll be making my hungover best friend breakfast. See through the disguise. See me."

You never do. Why? Because you only see the exterior, you only see the slutty girl who welcomes those advances. You don't want the nice girl.. so don't say you're looking for a relationship: relationships take time and energy and intent, three things we're willing to extend - but in return, we're looking for compassion and loyalty and trust, three things you never seem willing to express.

Maybe nice guys finish last, but in the race they're running they're chasing after the bad girls and the sluts and the easy-targets... the nice girls are waiting at the finish line with water and towels and a congratulatory hug (and yes, if she's a nice girl and she likes you, the sweatiness probably won't matter), hoping against hope that maybe you'll realize that they're the ones that you want at the end of that silly race.

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Hm, I kinda just rambled on there, didn't I? LOL

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ESmorz

Such is the plight of man.

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theronin

very well put.

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theronin

but you also have to remember. all we ever seem to see are the nice girls hangin around with the assholes.

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DRavenS13

I'll tell you from experience, the "assholes" don't present themselves as such at the onset of the "relationship."

They say all the right things, make all the right moves, and they gain the trust of said- "nice girls," then they take from her everything they can, and leave her thinking that the small scraps of attention Assholes give are the only ones they deserve, and they live in the delusion that "he was nice before, he'll change and be that way again," never really seeing that the first impression was a lie, and the truth of his ways appeared once he had her in the place he wanted her in.

These are the scenarios that create the "bad girls-" the girls that weren't strong enough to truly forgive themselves and get over their past hurts and demons, and continue to steamroll their way into the hearts of unsuspecting men, dressing provocatively and acting slutatiously to hurt them in the way they have been hurt.

It's a party that everyone participates in, sometimes you dance with a worthy partner, and the party never ends, sometimes you get your toes stepped on until they bleed, or sometimes you're the person standing in the corner, watching the circus, knowing that you want to join the dance, but too scared to get your toes crushed.

Honestly, I hate the term "spitting game," because it implies that you're initiating something that you don't intend to see through, that you're going to encounter the opposite sex with a game. If you don't want to play the game, then don't start one. Go in with the thought that you might be truly interested in the girl you are trying to meet, and if that is your true intent, then the worry of what to say won't exist. You know what you want in a woman, ask the questions that will lead you to see if she is what your standards demand.

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BrokenWhite240

Well actually in my opinion there are less of the above girls or atleast I think. I am from nj and I go to the bar scene, club scene, parties w/e and alot of girls here are diff. If your actually looking for a down chick that will be there threw anything an everything its hard to find. Chicks here all they care about is appearance, money/how much you make, what car you drive etc. That why when your on the tri-state east coast ppl talk about how easy nj girls are that's because they are shallow that's it asshole or not doesn't matter. As long as you look good or have money your in.

So for guys looking for what you have mentioned some places its harder then others. So until you find a down chick that rocks your world, your world personally then give her your time. To all the fake chicks keep the pimp hand strong.

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ALTRNTV

Anthony made this thread for "spitting game" which ultimately leads to sex, which is the purpose of spitting game in the first place. If you're looking for a long term relationship, this thread isn't for you.

If guys need help finding a life-partner, there's no guide on that. They'll come when people least expect it. You don't go look for it. The ones that you find when you're looking are probably gonna be those one night stands this thread is inclined toward.

BrokenWhite240

Just to get back on subject..Maybe one of the other guys could answer this I never hit on a girl with her mom right there. Maybe if they step away for a sec or something. I picked up a chick picking up my chinese food her mom was waiting in the car and she was behind me. I dont know if your talking about something like that?

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theronin

pickin up a chick with her mom there is easy. used to do it often as a waiter. what you do is start flirting with the mom as you shoot subtle glances at the daughter. get the mother to love u, then its over. she will do the rest of the work for you.

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ALTRNTV

"Are you two sisters?" After that, get in the 3-some with mother and daughter.

unfuxwitable

hahaha nicely said.

theronin

nothing but truth there. you are complimenting them both. tellin the mother she looks young, and the daughter she looks older. man AK, come to roseville, we could do some damage together!

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cc4usmc

hoesville. totally.

theronin

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pxz50EddkOo


we got big douches too dont forget!

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silpena

ha ha ha ^^^^ i never been to the roseville bars but ive seen alot in chico.

repda916

forget roseville

makoman11

I am not looking for a long term relationship right now, but I am looking for a girl. I have been single for two years and pretty much all my friends are in relationships. They have given my advice but everyone has their own way of doing things. Truthfully, I am a teenage guy and I am just not sure how to, excuse the term, "spit game". My guys friends say that and at first I was unsure what they meant, however after observing them with girls, I realized that they are player and I am not. I don't go to clubs and whatever, too young, and I am not in a public school. I wish to become more comfortable talking or just approaching a girl. I am kind of shy,but if I set my mind to something, I do achieve it. DRaven, I would like your opinion on this.

theronin

first off realize that they are just a human being too. talk to them person to person. they are not on any higher level than you are. to quote a great movie, "do not put the pussy on a pedestal."

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ALTRNTV

LOL
My player days are over bro hahahaha. I've had my fun and broke so many hearts. I have a way of making girls fall for me just to get what I want if you know what I mean. Now I'm just here to spread the wealth for the younger poon hunting generation. =P

...that sounded so wrong huh?

makoman11

You know, you're right. I'm just going to have to get over the intimidation factor or whatever. Should I just take the leap and start talking to girls whenever. If I know a girl or have just met her, I can talk just fine but my inhibitor is the direct approach. I don't know what is holding me back, aside from intimidation. Any advice? And that did sound a little wrong. haha