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MakotoS13 · 09-22-2004, 06:51 AM

the worst thing that could happen is her realizing that she doesn't need you. sadly, that's also the most likely thing as well.

S14Speed997 · 09-22-2004, 07:19 AM

It's not worth it....It won't work....take these words to heart. I tried it twice with my g/f of 8 years. Unless you plan on her moving in with you within a year, or you moving to be with her, it wont work......Did i mention it wont work?? lol

I now have a g/f that lives near me, and it is the best thing...

240meowth · 09-22-2004, 02:03 PM

you can buy my cell phone off of me... my plan has 43hrs of roll over minutes on it w/ 600 added every month... that'll keep you till the end of the year =b 'cause like, i was planning to call my g/f, but she like... moved in w/ me...

BSeay · 09-22-2004, 05:10 PM

aight my personal opinion is i would break it off before she goes to college because MOST long distance relationships dont work...

now for the psy reason

it's a proven fact that for relationships to work there has to be some kind of physical contact to facilitate growth in the relationship. Without that physical contact the relationship gets stressful. Also for people to be able to make things like this work there has to be a level of trust, i wouldnt think that after 6 months that level of trust is there... and also it's proven that the more you're exposed to someone you find attractive the closer you grow and the more you want them. Attraction is facilitated by the interaction with someone on a regular basis, usually face to face interaction is better and therefore you become closer in matters like that.

So when distance is thrown in there with life it makes things alot more complicated because you get not seeing someone you care about, them not seeing you and the fact that they can only go without for so long. After that they find your replacement and it's over for you and that other person...

09-22-2004, 07:19 AM	#32
S14Speed997 Zilvia Junkie Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Tampa, FL Age: 41 Posts: 527 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	It's not worth it....It won't work....take these words to heart. I tried it twice with my g/f of 8 years. Unless you plan on her moving in with you within a year, or you moving to be with her, it wont work......Did i mention it wont work?? lol I now have a g/f that lives near me, and it is the best thing... __________________ I love signatures that aren't over 400x200!

09-22-2004, 02:03 PM	#33
240meowth Nissanaholic! Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: torrance, ca Age: 38 Posts: 2,399 Trader Rating: (4) Feedback Score: 4 reviews	you can buy my cell phone off of me... my plan has 43hrs of roll over minutes on it w/ 600 added every month... that'll keep you till the end of the year =b 'cause like, i was planning to call my g/f, but she like... moved in w/ me... __________________

09-22-2004, 05:10 PM	#34
BSeay Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Richmond, VA Age: 38 Posts: 634 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	aight my personal opinion is i would break it off before she goes to college because MOST long distance relationships dont work... now for the psy reason it's a proven fact that for relationships to work there has to be some kind of physical contact to facilitate growth in the relationship. Without that physical contact the relationship gets stressful. Also for people to be able to make things like this work there has to be a level of trust, i wouldnt think that after 6 months that level of trust is there... and also it's proven that the more you're exposed to someone you find attractive the closer you grow and the more you want them. Attraction is facilitated by the interaction with someone on a regular basis, usually face to face interaction is better and therefore you become closer in matters like that. So when distance is thrown in there with life it makes things alot more complicated because you get not seeing someone you care about, them not seeing you and the fact that they can only go without for so long. After that they find your replacement and it's over for you and that other person... __________________ 1995 240SX SE - Sold

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09-22-2004, 06:51 AM	#31
MakotoS13 BANNED Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Texas Age: 38 Posts: 4,205 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	the worst thing that could happen is her realizing that she doesn't need you. sadly, that's also the most likely thing as well.