One_love_silvia

^ yeah thats exactly what i figured. definitely sucks. oh well.

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godrifttoday

just set up a time she can.... and then blow her off

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dsastr_clan

i know this may be an overrated question, but lets say there is a girl that you know but never talked to her before in person, you come across her on Facebook send her an inbox saying whats up then re she replies back to you.

How would you manage to continue the game? what would you say next?

jesse_s13

Sounds like she's either interested or being dumb. Go along with it see where it goes.

Who sends "Whats up" to initiate a conversation? lol

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dsastr_clan

i didnt say just "whats up" literately LOL but that was the idea.

xoxide

Usually their follow up question is "do I know you"... If you play your cards right you can talk your way out of that question and get to know her... Or shit can totally hit the fan and she deletes and blocks you.

crayzwhiteboy

send her pics you cant post on facebook

dsastr_clan

it went pretty good actually, i tried my luck and i said "it is nice to meet you" and went on with a conversation. I dont usually resource to FB but i have been so busy working and studying at home lately, that i my social life has froze for a bit lol

0danxQ

1st a girl can always make time to do what she wants to do she would just rather hang out with other people then you.

2nd the reason she talks to you in class is because shes bored. who else is she going to talk to? shes not asking questions like "do my boobs look bigger today? if it's not flirting its just making conversation so that time goes by faster.

3rd she obviously sees you as someone to socialize with in her class and she may have other people she socializes with in her other classes too. you're still a stranger to her which is why she wont give you her number. hope this helps ya out.
continue talking to her but to expect anything to come out of it. and stop persueing girls like that you scare them away.
if you notice a girl flirting with you and making glances at you smiling it means she's interested. a girl will do just about anything to make you notice her if she's interested you just gotta make you look for the proper signs otherwise you risk looking dumb. :/

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0danxQ

find a common ground between the 2 of you and start the convo from there. facebook makes it easy. music is always a big one! if you want to make it interesting then find out what kind of music she listens to and just post a cool video that shes prolly never seen before.
music can be the key to a girls heart
good luck

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Jennifer Aniston's sexy scene from "Horrible Bosses" (1080p HD) - YouTube
^ this is a good indicator that shes into you lol

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WanganRunner

IMO keep electronic communication to a minimum. You don't want to be the dude she chats up on FB and text all day for entertainment, you want to be the guy she's fucking.

Keep it short. What was her reply to "whats up?". I assume it wasn't "fuck you"

Chat a little then set up an in-person. If she doesn't want to meet you then she isn't that into it, go find some girl that is.

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stiizy

umm i can't get girls to have sex with me, what am i doing wrong?

haha GTFOOH Whats good people.....

downshift_sideways

Blown motor: You've already proven to her that your weak. You most likely said too much or the wrong things. Nothing more less attractive to a woman than someone who comes on too strong. She's obviously has a big ego for herself. Just move on. Don't even try to get a second chance.

One Love Silvia: You're in the friend zone. Talk about something she can relate too. Ask her if she knows of any good movies out? iono. Think of something to get de-friended-zoned LOL

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jesse_s13

Suicide is the only thing left....

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Gizmo_S13

I fucked my ex's sister, do I win?

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Sumslapper

Winning!

The best game is no game. Be yourself. If they don't like that then fuck them and move on to the next.

If your lurking bitches on Facebook look at there info and find a common ground. Oh you like gangster rap? Yo bitch their's a Brotha Lynch show coming up you trying to roll? Oh you like sushi? Ya I know the best place in town and its dollar saki nights on Monday. Lets roll.

Notice small details. Open the fucking door for her. Eye contact. CONFIDENCE NOT COCKINESS. Nothing looks worse to a girl then a wimpy bitch of a man. Act like shes your best friend and she will wonder why your not making a move and why she is not good enough for you.

Let the vaginal juices flow.

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Te37

Had a three some with ex and her sister, winning? Maybe...but alcohol was involved

jamg

fugging sloots man.

brb study abroad and bang some guy over there

chick says i want the guy to love me more than i love him- what does this mean?

ex and her SISTER? being a slut has come to this now?

Te37

Oddly enough they were twins, but if I could go back I wouldn't have done it, they were the coolest girls ever, now they want nothing to do with me

VNG704

Shut up, liar.

/troll



Edit: on topic, get at a girl "indirectly." That takes away the pressure.

Te37

Normally I wouldnt have posted back but I'm not on the Internet to prove to anything to anyone. This thread isn't a dick measuring contest

VNG704

But you did. And it was a joke. Should of used a smiley in there

jesse_s13

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sil80owner

Go to page 31 if you wanna read my story and help me with my situation.

AFTER ADVICE>so since that last post i decided to follow my personal friends advice including you zilvia members. A week later after this post i "ran away" like one of you posted lol anyway i completely ignored her. For my own sake. I never met up with her again. I walked in different directions from where i use to see her a lot.i never really got over the thought of what could have been. This girl was definetly something else.

MY CURRENT SITUATION> so the start of this semester i have this girl in my class again. All my emotions come back full force kicking my ass. I feel exactly the way a felt months ago from when i last saw her. She knew i avoided her months ago on purpose. I have no idea how she feels. anyway im in class early about 4 kids in there she shows up talking on her cell to her BF which i know now she does in fact have. this makes me realize i need to move on. fast foward to TODAY Semester ends is one week. Today she starts trying to get my attention. I get out of class during lecture to make a call. she follows me. once she sees me on the phone she turned right back around and goes right back in class. while im in class she gets up and makes the extra effort to take the long way to the exit and consequently walks infront of me while we stare at each other(not awkward as u may think lol). Im starting to think i dunno maybe she still interested in me. class ends and im at the parking lot. MY miata wnt turn on and she drives up next to me parks next to my car and says "hey ughm your car wont start do you need any help" here is where i fucked up :/. my initial reaction was no thanks because i dunno it just came out since i knew exactly what was wrong with my car and was trying to fix it on the spot. I didnt think about how i should have replied i just did. once i said it i instantly knew shit! i basically ended the conversation or potential conversation. when i said that she said" oh okay" nothing more or less she seemed embarassed and drove off. I dnt usually react this way but what can i say this particular girl gets me nervous after what had happen months ago. thats basically it. Now the part i need help on is WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE OVERALL. IF I DECIDE TO PURSUE HER HOW DO I START? AFTER HOW AWFUL I HANDLED THINGS TODAY WHAT CAN I DO TO START UP A CONVERSATION? IT SEEMS AWKWARD HOW I IGNORED HER FOR MONTHS AND NOW WANT TO TALK TO HER HOW DO I NOT COME OFF AS A CREEP. DOES SHE THINK I WANT TO BE HER FRIEND OR DOES SHE KNOW I STILL WANT HER? HOW DO I GO ABOUT FIGURING THAT OUT WITHOUT MAKING MYSELF SEEM WELL LIKE A FOOL? any and all help very much appreciated. IM just unable to think with this happening and finals next week. MY BRAIN is shut off and incapable of figuring things out at the moment.

sil80owner

^^ LOL you guys got a lot to read

theicecreamdan

Tell her you got your car fixed. See if she wants to go for a drive.

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Te37

BOOOOOOOOM HEADSHOT! This guy knows what's up.
Don't know why you go to zilvia for relationship advice, maybe I should ask a mechanic why my sex life is fading.

Anyways, I didn't read page 31, so from the sounds of it you still like her. She might still like you if she has been going out of her way to have conversation with you (in my past no gf wants to be friends with there ex bf, and I didn't do anything wrong). She might also have her emotions mixed up cause of your age...don't REALLY know what love is. She also might have tried another bf and realized you were the best/nicest guy for her, but she doesnt want to admit it. Go for it talk to her strike conversation, during some part of summer Facebook message/text her your bored and see if she wants to go to the pool, don't be acting like her bf again or hugging and being all over her, just see if she is still comfortable around you.
The worst feeling is not knowing if you could have done something different and have to look back at it all your life. (been there...actually still there) you got nothing to loose

sil80owner

I didn't realize this was a thread about that very nature..."how to spit game 101." Internet or not its a good thing to get outside input on problems you are having. There are a lot of well educated people on this forum that prove to be helpful. Having said that thanks for both your advice...