Corbic

Freud does not believe you.

Your reaction indicates that either you want to nail her.... or you want your bro to nail you.

Obviously they are acting weird around you because if you are pissed off enough to vent online they are getting those "vibes" from you. Do you really expect her - or anyone female friend you know to be like "hey mon, I'm totally aching for some hard dick.... so can I let your room mate pound me tomorrow night?"

dkim1985

wowww...you really took that the wrong way. loll
actually..i never said they're acting weird around me..I've actually haven't really seen either of them since he told me.
haven't even heard from her..and i haven't seen him since then because either i'm not home or he's not home. ...so i have no idea where you're getting that from. lol

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ghoti

an hero
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Taniguchi_Is_#1

meh. if you want to throw down, don't ask about it on the internet. if you're mad, be mad. if you don't care, don't care. if you wanna hit it, hit it. if you have to ask on the internet, you don't know how to be alive.

jordaninnovations

Hmmmm Torrance....wanna be friends?

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theronin

Bro code is not banging a friends ex. It has nothing to do with family members. Respect has nothing to do with it. I seriously can't believe this is something you are so heated about.

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Young Sileighty Kev

So you say a friends ex is more of an off limits than your friends own family member?

kandyflip445

Grow the fuck up.

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ESmorz

Family members won't be comparing dicks.

Also, OP is a bundle of sticks.

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Corbic

Exactly.

It should be obvious why an ex is off limits. Family is only "off limits" when the friend is taking advantage of them and it's gonna cause drama or something.

Other "bro code" off limits are when your like "dood, that katie chick rocks, I'm gonna ask her out".... next day "ya know how you said that katie chick was hot? you're right, totally hit that shit this afternoon".

vas13hatch

lol or a cigarette if you're British...

Corbic

I just got that.

89s13sd

Should have joined in.

future

Shout out to your best friend for having the balls to fuck in the same house two room downs with her cousin

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Phlip

They owe you NOTHING.
If they are both consenting adults, and he is properly paying his half of the bills to the place, and did not ply her with drugs or alcohol, then neither owed you the request for your blessing. In fact, it is YOU who lack respect in your broad-sweeping assumption that everyone she dates needs to have your cosign or approval. Furthermore, the fact that you're SO pissed that it was him that did suggests to me that you think that he is some kind of scumbag who you feel is beneath getting involved with a family member and that you do not respect him as much as you claim you do. She is an adult and is free to make her own mistakes unless she is your dependent, and even then you only have so much control if she is over the age of 18.

If the woman in question is not your daughter, ex or sister (in THAT order of importance), the only respect he owes you was to not fuck her in the living room while you were trying to play COD.
As long as your personal space or right to indifference were not violated, then you have been given all of the "respect" you have earned, unless of course there were some rules of engagement put forth before any of this happened and THEN got violated.

Actually, you're the one who is missing the point in your assumption that ADULTS owe it to you to seek your permission to do the things that adults do.




Also, all of the "in for pics" posts in this thread have been deleted.
Grow the fuck up, people.

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SimpleS14

How did it go down? I mean...was alcohol involved? Have they always been on the DL?

Seems like she's probably ashamed to confront you at the moment. You might want to talk to her to break any awkwardness between you two.

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itsjustdaphne

Why the hell would this be posted on Zilvia. This is basically a personal rant and story about something we all don't log on to read. Everyone bothering to voice their opinion must be real bored.

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Juantwo3

OP your coming of creeepy like your jealous your best friend piped down your cuz

the only thing you shouuld be mad about if he hurts her feelings or beats her or somthing of that nature

who she fucks 2 doors down in your house is non of your concern dont matter if its your homie or 5 guys she met at the park.

no go find his cuzin and pee in her butt and call it even

VNG704

Should you be uncomfortable? Sure. Should you be mad? At first, due to being uncomfortable but then let it go because (the reasons posted in this thread.)

JVD

I boned my cousins best friend. My cousin was also my roommate. I also boned her in the next room.

My cousin didn't give a shit.

THANK.

KiLLeR2001

They probably had sex right on your bed when you were away. Better change your sheets.

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ManoNegra

OP you sound like you have 'issues' buried deep down
my advice to you would be to go see a psychologist

dkim1985

Alcohol was involved but they were both coherent enough to think and talk about it, even to his younger brother. I don't think they've been on the DL..I think it was just that one night that he told me about when it started. If theres more, I don't know about it. I don't really care. (i was going to type up why here but i feel like im just repeating myself so..)
I'm assuming she is..I will talk to both of them when the time's right.

I agree. Like I said in my first post..I just have a lot on my mind and wanted to get it down. Never asked for anyone's advice in here and don't really expect anyone here to fully understand the situation.

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!Zar!

He doesn't need to ask you for consent. He isn't asking to marry(fuck) your daughter.

Tywin

Ok before I respond, who the fuck sits around and talks about sexing each other up in front of one's little brother?

dkim1985

lol uhhh yeah..i don't think that's how it went down.
i think it was just something the little brother noticed and decided to bring it up while talking to them individually.
(them three were hanging out previously before being at the house)

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Tywin

Ahh I see.

You should really just let it ride. We don't know the background behind the relationship that they had before having sex. If they were courting each before or they just decided to have random sex. Either or, it should only matter if your cousin gets fucked over by your roommate or not. I can understand why you feel a certain way about the situation, though. They are going to do what they want no matter how you feel. They are adults, it only makes sense. You can't be mad that your cousin decided to get her freak ownnnnnnnnnnn with someone who happens to be roommate. Me personally, family is off limits unless they're seriously attempting to be with my fam.

Tywin

Or fuck his cousin and everyone is happy.

KiLLeR2001

REPARATIONS!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...N4yfuJs#t=151s

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dkim1985

i agree.. and i feel the same way about the last part as well.

yeah...even now, i don't think i can do that. call me old fashioned but a part of me still holds on to values like respect, honor, trust..even if the other person doesn't follow them. ..maybe it's because i'm asian.

...and there isn't really any of his cousins i'd want to smash(from the ones i've met). except maybe one...but that b*tch be crazy! so pass~ ..loll

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