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ESmorz · 09-01-2008, 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by downshift_sideways

Then I just fucked up then lol.

Damn straight.

Now we're going to have to get you out of the sweat pants and ice cream phase again.

*downshift_sideways* · 09-01-2008, 04:34 AM

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Originally Posted by ESmorz

Damn straight.

Now we're going to have to get you out of the sweat pants and ice cream phase again.

Lmao.

I'ma be real..I know the game but somewhat fuck up in relationships...However shit happens...and thats life.

This 3 some..Ain't nothing.

*Edit* Now staying on topic.

beeracing s14 · 09-01-2008, 03:35 PM

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ok so here's my question...i was like dating/talking to this girl. i fucked her and now she is just annoying and i dont like her at all anymore. how do i let her down easy? and thats the second girl thats happened to me with. she is still a cool chick but i'm just not into her AT ALL anymore.

give her to me.. problem solved.

DRavenS13 · 09-01-2008, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Tearlessj

Aight i'll start, me and my gf have had some issues. Now when we try to spend time with each other, we worry too much about what each other thinks. She says she feels weak, scared to say something wrong. Blah blah

Now how do I get it back to normal?

While I do agree that high school relationships rarely last, that doesn't mean you can't have fun with the one you have now. Think of it as a training ground- the habits you set today will be the ones you will be repeating tomorrow.

Do you criticize each other when one says something the other doesn't agree with? This can build up this kind of insecurity within her. If you want to have a good relationship, you should always hold an open mind when talking to each other. When you scrutinize and dissct the things she says based on what you know, you're not really listening to her point of view, and vise versa.

Talk to her and let her know that even though you might not always have similar viewpoints, you do respect her opinion, and you want the same from her. This will clear up this lil insecurity, and things should be back to normal after that.

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Originally Posted by chrisa

ok so here's my question...i was like dating/talking to this girl. i fucked her and now she is just annoying and i dont like her at all anymore. how do i let her down easy? and thats the second girl thats happened to me with. she is still a cool chick but i'm just not into her AT ALL anymore.

Why are you annoyed by her? What is she doing that she didn't do before you slept with her? Did she become attached after you did the deed? Are you sure it's something wrong with her and not you?

A lot of girls will think that the friendship/relationship is going somewhere after you have sex. If you don't think you want it to go anywhere, even if you just think it, this is a point that MUST be made clear before anything happens. Otherwise, you just hurt the girl's feelings, and she feels used.

If you're really not that interested anymore, then just be straight up with her. Don't leave her in the dark, or avoid her, because that only makes it worse for her, and for you.

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Originally Posted by 90hatchie

dont have a 3 sum with ur gf and her best friend
it will screw everything up

i made that mistake and now im alone

If you have a threesome with random people, or just close friends, it's fine. DO NOT introduce this kind of scenario when you're in a relationship. It only breeds bad results. There will be mistrust, jealousy, anger, resentment- everything that can and will ruin a relationship. It might seem like a good idea at the time, but in the long run, it isn't.

*downshift_sideways* · 09-01-2008, 04:44 PM

Hi Lisa!

DRavenS13 · 09-01-2008, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by downshift_sideways

Hi Lisa!

Hi Anthony!!!

<3

ESmorz · 09-01-2008, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DRavenS13

this is a point that MUST be made clear before anything happens.

Best quote anywhere.

Always be up front with your intentions. If you can't be upfront and get a girl you don't deserve one anyways. Don't be a douche.

stiizy · 09-02-2008, 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Bobafreak

hahahahaaha add stiiz!

Word put me on this i got all sorts of Relationship advice..

I've been single for 6 months put together in the last 11 years...

Been in only 3 relationships since i was 15...

I've got the Knowledge on this down packed!!

Good Looks Boba..

24Ochick<3 · 09-02-2008, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by DRavenS13

Why are you annoyed by her? What is she doing that she didn't do before you slept with her? Did she become attached after you did the deed? Are you sure it's something wrong with her and not you?

A lot of girls will think that the friendship/relationship is going somewhere after you have sex. If you don't think you want it to go anywhere, even if you just think it, this is a point that MUST be made clear before anything happens. Otherwise, you just hurt the girl's feelings, and she feels used.

If you're really not that interested anymore, then just be straight up with her. Don't leave her in the dark, or avoid her, because that only makes it worse for her, and for you..

this my friend, is indeed correct! lol, this goes for the ladies too, not jus the guys

girls can be jus as bad as guys and play the game jus as well.. so careful with the body language ladies and gents. that says a whole lot about a person

nismobro · 09-02-2008, 08:57 PM

i hope someone can answer this one.

alright so my ex and i kind of went off and on after we broke u, well i got tired of it and stopped talking to her. now i realize how stupidand immature that was. my question is how do i salvage it? im not wanting to date her again just be friends. i figured this was a better suited question for this thread then the other one.

WERDdabuilder · 09-02-2008, 09:08 PM

no point in being friend after a break up. ex's are ex's for a reason. you'll only be hurt and emo when she talks to you about a guy she is seeing. stop being a bitch, forget about her and move on.

soreballz · 09-03-2008, 12:32 AM

^Truth.

Different matter...
Learn from the mistake I made tonight: When you walk into the local Chipotle with your girlfriend, and she says, "Wow, look at all the hot girls in here... Why aren't you with a girl like them?"
Do NOT shrug your shoulders and say, "I dunno."

Proper answer should be something along the lines of, "But baby, you're the most beautiful girl in this place."

Live and learn, fellas. Live and learn.

ALTRNTV · 09-03-2008, 12:37 AM

Kyle, Kyle, Kyle...

You should have said "What hot girls?"

I would have said "Yeah, you're right, huh?"

ESmorz · 09-03-2008, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by soreballz

^Truth.

Different matter...
Learn from the mistake I made tonight: When you walk into the local Chipotle with your girlfriend, and she says, "Wow, look at all the hot girls in here... Why aren't you with a girl like them?"
Do NOT shrug your shoulders and say, "I dunno."

Proper answer should be something along the lines of, "But baby, you're the most beautiful girl in this place."

Live and learn, fellas. Live and learn.

oooh I've done that one before...

WERDdabuilder · 09-03-2008, 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by soreballz

Do NOT shrug your shoulders and say, "I dunno."

Proper answer should be something along the lines of, "But baby, you're the most beautiful girl in this place."

Live and learn, fellas. Live and learn.

wrong..wrong...

you had the right/man answer.

or you could have went with.

"i wish, maybe if you looked like them i would give you more attention."

SochBAT · 09-03-2008, 02:38 AM

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Originally Posted by WERDdabuilder

wrong..wrong...

you had the right/man answer.

or you could have went with.

"i wish, maybe if you looked like them i would give you more attention."

Nah. You gotta say it with a better delivery.

"Listen, i'm hungry. I'll compare them all to you in a bit."

Vision Garage · 09-03-2008, 02:43 AM

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Originally Posted by WERDdabuilder

wrong..wrong...

you had the right/man answer.

or you could have went with.

"i wish, maybe if you looked like them i would give you more attention."

Or you could have said. Man i feel like eating some breasts tonight!

*downshift_sideways* · 09-03-2008, 03:06 AM

Correct answer is:

"Those girls are cute, but not as beautiful as you. Your more my type"

-You have to acknowledge the fact that there is other girls in your presence.
-You have to tell her what she wants to hear.

Because when she says that. She's really eagerly waiting for your response...and trust me. She's already thought about it so much...that she asked you about your opinion. Girls like to compare girls to each other to feel more dominating or beautiful. And you have to be smooth with your answer's...or it will be thrown back at you. Or it will be stuck in her mind throughout the day...and possibly week. Girls are very judgemental. Be careful with these traps.

soreballz · 09-03-2008, 03:24 AM

lol. I was sorta only halfway paying attention as we walked in there (I was reading a text message), and I gave the default "I'm not paying attention but want to give some feedback" reply. Hence the shrug... I didn't realize it was a trap til she said "Oh yeah, go figure." I just smiled and ordered my food. lol

Funny thing is... She really WAS the best looking girl in the place. lol

FYI, I didn't post that for advice... I posted that to help the relationship noobs avoid such situations. lol

*downshift_sideways* · 09-03-2008, 03:30 AM

I know...just letting the general pop know how to handle that situation pimpin

Boostin on you · 09-03-2008, 04:26 AM

Im at a stand still right now, currently Ive been seeing this wonderful guy. Hes pretty much perfect yet he doesnt know Im in love with him. What can I do to tell him since I know alot of 240 owners are from the homosexual community. Also do you mind sharing your experiences when you came out to your partner?

He mentioned to me before, hes fine having sexual relations with another male as long as the balls dont touch. Is that a sign?

O gosh help me!

ESmorz · 09-03-2008, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Boostin on you

Im at a stand still right now, currently Ive been seeing this wonderful guy. Hes pretty much perfect yet he doesnt know Im in love with him. What can I do to tell him since I know alot of 240 owners are from the homosexual community. Also do you mind sharing your experiences when you came out to your partner?

He mentioned to me before, hes fine having sexual relations with another male as long as the balls dont touch. Is that a sign?

O gosh help me!

Fonix36 · 09-03-2008, 07:29 AM

WOW not to be a dick or anything but wow i cant believe you took these issues under your wing.

soreballz · 09-03-2008, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Boostin on you

Im at a stand still right now, currently Ive been seeing this wonderful guy. Hes pretty much perfect yet he doesnt know Im in love with him. What can I do to tell him since I know alot of 240 owners are from the homosexual community. Also do you mind sharing your experiences when you came out to your partner?

He mentioned to me before, hes fine having sexual relations with another male as long as the balls dont touch. Is that a sign?

O gosh help me!

I smell a troll, and posts like this make me miss the rep system.

ALTRNTV · 09-03-2008, 02:04 PM

He does this cause his stupid drunk girlfriend
hit his car (and he edited his thread also).

LMAO.

stiizy · 09-03-2008, 02:05 PM

So what AK this dude really gay??? or he just fucking around??

*Agamemnon* · 09-03-2008, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by stiizy

So what AK this dude really gay??? or he just fucking around??

I think it's alittle of both.

**Phlip** · 09-03-2008, 02:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boostin on you

Im at a stand still right now, currently Ive been seeing this wonderful guy. Hes pretty much perfect yet he doesnt know Im in love with him. What can I do to tell him since I know alot of 240 owners are from the homosexual community. Also do you mind sharing your experiences when you came out to your partner?

He mentioned to me before, hes fine having sexual relations with another male as long as the balls dont touch. Is that a sign?

O gosh help me!

Last week, I might have -repped you.
Keep this shit up and I will skip right to punitive action.
Watch me

ALTRNTV · 09-03-2008, 02:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stiizy

So what AK this dude really gay??? or he just fucking around??

Pretty sure he's homo.

I got a problem guys. I had a party at my house, and I had my gf move
her car to the driveway. I knew she was drunk, but my dumbass made
her move the car anyways. Well, her stupid drunk ass hit my car, which has
a $45,675 paintjob. I don't know what to do. Zilvia, help my dumbass. What's
the best possible outcome in the long run for a loser such as myself who
let my girlfriend, knowing she was drunk, move her car.

Oh wait, that's not my problem, that's boostin_on_you's problem in this
thread.

Ok, sorry, just had to get that out. One more thing, funny how he said
this in his thread, yet he does the same thing in other threads as
well. Lame.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boostin on you

please stay on topic.

Ok, back on topic!

stiizy · 09-03-2008, 02:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PHLIP

Last week, I might have -repped you.
Keep this shit up and I will skip right to punitive action.
Watch me

Do you Boss!!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by AkademikONE

Pretty sure he's homo.

I got a problem guys. I had a party at my house, and I had my gf move
her car to the driveway. I knew she was drunk, but my dumbass made
her move the car anyways. Well, her stupid drunk ass hit my car, which has
a $45,675 paintjob. I don't know what to do. Zilvia, help my dumbass. What's
the best possible outcome in the long run for a loser such as myself who
let my girlfriend, knowing she was drunk, move her car.

Oh wait, that's not my problem, that's boostin_on_you's problem in this
thread.

Ok, sorry, just had to get that out. One more thing, funny how he said
this in his thread, yet he does the same thing in other threads as
well. Lame.

Ok, back on topic!

Why he gotta front for what a dick.......

Yeah i said it.....

Good Looks for the Background info AK...

Man what losers Damn Phlip these are the Days i want to Neg the fuck outta people....

I thought you were serious for a sec when i read that to AK haha

09-01-2008, 04:44 PM	#35
downshift_sideways No Limit Soldier. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Hayward CA, San Gabriel CA Age: 34 Posts: 5,550 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: downshift_sideways Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Hi Lisa! __________________ allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

09-03-2008, 12:37 AM	#43
ALTRNTV Post Whore! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Western Conference Posts: 9,429 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Kyle, Kyle, Kyle... You should have said "What hot girls?" I would have said "Yeah, you're right, huh?" Last edited by ALTRNTV; 09-03-2008 at 02:47 AM..

09-03-2008, 03:06 AM	#48
downshift_sideways No Limit Soldier. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Hayward CA, San Gabriel CA Age: 34 Posts: 5,550 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: downshift_sideways Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Correct answer is: "Those girls are cute, but not as beautiful as you. Your more my type" -You have to acknowledge the fact that there is other girls in your presence. -You have to tell her what she wants to hear. Because when she says that. She's really eagerly waiting for your response...and trust me. She's already thought about it so much...that she asked you about your opinion. Girls like to compare girls to each other to feel more dominating or beautiful. And you have to be smooth with your answer's...or it will be thrown back at you. Or it will be stuck in her mind throughout the day...and possibly week. Girls are very judgemental. Be careful with these traps. __________________ allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

09-03-2008, 03:30 AM	#50
downshift_sideways No Limit Soldier. Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Hayward CA, San Gabriel CA Age: 34 Posts: 5,550 Trader Rating: (0) Rides Gallery: downshift_sideways Feedback Score: 0 reviews	I know...just letting the general pop know how to handle that situation pimpin __________________ allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

09-03-2008, 07:29 AM	#53
Fonix36 Nissanaholic! Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: southern cali Age: 32 Posts: 2,457 Trader Rating: (34) Feedback Score: 34 reviews	WOW not to be a dick or anything but wow i cant believe you took these issues under your wing. __________________ DRiFT 4 A Cure!

09-02-2008, 08:57 PM	#40
nismobro Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: St Charles Posts: 19 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	i hope someone can answer this one. alright so my ex and i kind of went off and on after we broke u, well i got tired of it and stopped talking to her. now i realize how stupidand immature that was. my question is how do i salvage it? im not wanting to date her again just be friends. i figured this was a better suited question for this thread then the other one.

09-02-2008, 09:08 PM	#41
WERDdabuilder Post Whore! Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: cali Posts: 3,727 Trader Rating: (17) Feedback Score: 17 reviews	no point in being friend after a break up. ex's are ex's for a reason. you'll only be hurt and emo when she talks to you about a guy she is seeing. stop being a bitch, forget about her and move on.

09-03-2008, 04:26 AM	#51
Boostin on you BANNED Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Location Age: 35 Posts: 374 Trader Rating: (4) Feedback Score: 4 reviews	Im at a stand still right now, currently Ive been seeing this wonderful guy. Hes pretty much perfect yet he doesnt know Im in love with him. What can I do to tell him since I know alot of 240 owners are from the homosexual community. Also do you mind sharing your experiences when you came out to your partner? He mentioned to me before, hes fine having sexual relations with another male as long as the balls dont touch. Is that a sign? O gosh help me!

09-03-2008, 02:04 PM	#55
ALTRNTV Post Whore! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Western Conference Posts: 9,429 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	He does this cause his stupid drunk girlfriend hit his car (and he edited his thread also). LMAO.

09-03-2008, 02:05 PM	#56
stiizy Post Whore! Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: NYC Age: 39 Posts: 6,332 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	So what AK this dude really gay??? or he just fucking around??

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