Future240

That statement is backwards. Think about it like this. would you rather you friend fuck your sister then deuce out, or actually be committed with her and treat her right?

Dating/fucking your friends sister is risky play anyways. There is alot that could go wrong there. If you arent in to her, pull her to the side and let her know. It would hurt her alot less than just fucking her.

If you really do plan to fuck her, step lightly, because her bro could take this as a personal strike

ALTRNTV

I don't think being in a relationship with your friend's sister is a bad idea.
Well, it just depends how close he is to you I guess, but you won't catch me
with a friend's sister.

stiizy

I agree with you two guys it is tough being involved with your boys sister...


Me personally i am with my best friends sister and i know when shit gets bad, it is very akward for us to be around each other since he will always take his sisters side no matter what..

All you have to do is be true to her this way 3 people don't get fucked over, you, him and her..


but if your looking for someone just to fuck.. that's a nono be prepared to lose your friend..


Like Future said: What would you do if one of ya boys just fucked ya sister and made her feel like shit cause she wanted more than that??


See what she wants before you make any kind of move...

If she wants to be with you give it some thought but if not and she just wants to get down, tell her you can't due to who her brother is to you

origin_s135

great input and good lookin out[stiizy, aka, and future]! you guys get invisible rep!

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ALTRNTV

So what did you do? Plan to do about it?

origin_s135

took some thinking.

i see her more as a friend, to like her never crossed my mind because i always see her as 'my friend's sis'. i will tell her that.

therefore, i am not going to lead her on in anyway and keep my distance. yeah sure, she's a cool person to hang out with, but what throw's me off is that she be calling "BABE".

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BoroDrifter

I stopped reading here. Sounds about right.

WERDdabuilder

Akadem forgot couple major rule....

NEVER SPEND MORE THAN 40$ ON A DATE.
NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOM(she already made one mistake, don't let you be the next. at best she is a booty call)
NEVER TRUST A BITCH IF SHE SAYS SHE IS ON BIRTH CONTROL
NEVER HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM
NEVER LET A BROAD MOVE IN WITH YOU
BITCHES THAT DON'T USE BIRTH CONTROL WANT TO HAVE KIDS

ALTRNTV

Hahahaha Drew, I was gonna add more, but this is the RELATIONSHIP thread.
That belongs in the spit game one.

Future240

Smart decision bro. That shows you are a true friend. Perhaps you could ask her to stop calling you babe, and stop holding your hand.

Or if you dont want to verbally tell her no, you could just brush off the babe, and find reasons not to hold her hand. Most women are good at pickin up body language

1989rps13

Heres my situation.. I recently broke up with my gf because i just wasnt feeling it anymore. We had been dating for years like 4yrs. A lot of drama and what not but i just didnt feel the connection anymore. There is this one chick at my old job and she wanted to go out and stuff like obviously she invited me to a hotel party to go with her so ya (that was when i had my girl)

so now im going with either one of these..

1. kick back, more time for myself, more money to be spent on whatever id like

2. persue that hot girl at my old job
+ my gf knows who she is because they had gone to the same HS.

So?
Im leaning more towards just being single though and relax and kickback since i just got otu of a long relatioinship..

deolio

haha i'm in a similar position. i have some family friends(mom, dad, son, and daughter, abbey) that i've known since freshman year of high school and there has always been weird sexual tension between me and abbey. both of us were in long-ass relationships throughout high school and into college. i thought the sexual tension was kinda disappearing, but it just so happened that we both broke up with our bf/gf's right before thanksgiving and of course our families had to have thanksgiving together. after dinner, we accidently kissed, which led to even more confusion when i took her to my room to tell her i didn't want to "ruin our friendship" and ended up making out with her instead. when she started touching the happy spot i made up an excuse and bounced out and pretty much avoided her the rest of the night.

so this sucks because we both like each other and we would be great together, but we're also family friends, so if we have a shitty break up, it will be weird and now she probably thinks that i think she's ugly or something... so idk what to do...

got another problem too:

so my ex that i just broke up with is still acting like we're still going out or something. i explained when she broke up with me that i would still like to be friends, not because i want to get back with her, but because i value her friendship(she's one of those really cool girls who you can talk about anything with, when she's not psycho) and she was ok with that. yet every time we've gone out for food, i've paid just because she doesn't even offer to pay her share. then today i was going to help her with a paper she had to write on a film. i set aside two hours to help her with it. she was two hours late when she called me and asked me to go out and rent the movie and then pick her up on my way back. i wouldn't even have done that shit when i was going out with her and when i pointed out that she was supposed to be at my house two hours ago with the movie, she flipped out as if i was being the asshole. how do i get it through to her that being a friend doesn't include being her bitch, without pissing her off more?

there, have fun with those scenarios...

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who says you need to spend money to sleep with the new girl? kick it with her and play your cards right and use her as a booty call. don't wine and dine her.

DUFFM4N

drew has been traumatized

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1989rps13

bro i dont wine and dine them hoes
like i said i never give em enough to catch the bus...

I just dont know whether to make a sudden move so fast like i know that chick wanted me and maybe still does or has moved on lol.

or just go play around

SC_S13

Alotta the advice about high school relationships and long term ones are totally right, but the fact is life can throw you a million different curve balls. You got to be open minded about relationships. Listen to what you really feel and not let preset ideas rule the way you deal with them. Advice certainly helps, but sometimes, if you feel like you gotta do it, you gotta do it. I personally have been through 3 long relationships, with a little bit of play on the side.
I just got out of a relationship and personally, I still miss my ex, whos in high school. I know the stereotypes, but honestly, she is one of the most amazing girls i've ever met. It's taken awhile to get to the point where I'm not flipping shit anymore, but I still care/love/worry and wish it was me there instead of other guys sometimes. It's not gonna rule me but deep down i'd be stoked if it got better. She still wants to be close friends, and sometimes throws signals, but otherwise, doesn't want to be pushed. It's hard as shit to sort it all out.

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Well first and foremost in order to be friends with the ex, you two are going to need serious time apart. Because if you get up with the girl from ya job and ya ex finds out, best believe she isnt going to be happy. And why should she be, if yall just broke off that short ago, then feelings are still going to be fresh. And if she has any contact with that girl, she might try to cock block

Now on to work girl, you can actually have both, you could just sleep with her and then be single, but only do that if she is just wanting dick. (if thats the case see hookup thread)

If she wants to date you, I would say no right now, give yourself some time to breathe. Unless you are the type of person who needs commitment to survive, which you shouldnt be seein as you have a penis n all

Okkkk.....first off the new girl, that is a sticky situation, but riddle me this. Why do you feel yall would be great together? Better yet, riddle yourself that. Often times people feel they will be great with someone until they actually date them. That sweet understanding girl, may very well turn into a psycho bitch once you start dating her. Not saying she will, but its possible.

Secondly at least you know what you have to lose by dating this girl but dont let that be a deterrent by itself. You may very well have a girl that you are really good with and be really happy with and with the family connects it would be a blessed event, yet at the same tim if yall do break up bad and yall families are close, you gone see her alot, and you can't expect yall families to not talk just cuz yall fuck up so, tread with caution there.

You should sit her down and talk with her rationally about this, explain what happened before so the air is clear then sit down and find out what she wants too. Then make the decision together. So yall are not guessin what one another wants.

If yall talk and both of you want two different things, then you have yet another issue. If that happens try your hardest to reach a mutal decison, defend your point with examples that dont have to do with yall's families.

Aight now on ex, what you speak is to be expected. Look at it like this, if you went to bed at 10 pm and woke up at 6 am for a job every night for two years, then on the third year your schedule changed and you didnt have to wake up till 8. I gurantee you that your body would wake up close to 6 simply cuz its used to it.

Humans are creatures of habit, when we get used to doing somethin our bodies keep trying to do it. So its no surprise that you two are acting as if you are together. The best way to deal with that is another sit down. Yall need time apart. That is the way to break yall's habits with one another.

Plus if you do get with new girl, there is no way in hell you could continue to treat the ex like you currently do. If she is cool as you say she is, then she should understand that time apart will only do yall good.

stiizy

Damn who fucked you over bro??




I agree with Future on what he's saying and too lazy to read all of it too....


Origin good move on what you are doing alot of cats think with their dicks not their head good move man..

ALTRNTV

If you just got out of a 4 year relationship, I highly suggest you need time alone to recover from your past relationship.
If you're the relationship type of guy and is the type looking for "love", then you need time to let go of your ex first and foremost,
because it wouldn't be fair to the new girl if you still have feelings for your ex (that's if both you and her want a true relationship).
"In order to be able to fully love again, you first need to fully let go of the one you loved before." Sounds corny, but that's the idea.

If you're just looking for a fuck buddy, go ahead and get with the new girl.

Those are always hard, relationships between family friends, but sometimes, even if you don't see/know it, those family members
(in their minds) have already paired you two up to be together. Talk to the girl about it and discuss those very concerns you
mentioned earlier, than make the decision according to what you two talked about, and if you were willing to risk it.

You need to talk to her and lay the smack down. lol
Just explain to her the rules of what two still can and cannot do. If she can't respect that, just don't hang out with her or talk to her.

Like I said, it depends on what you want, read my reply again.

WERDdabuilder

no one actually. only been in 2 long term relationships both around 2 years. wasn't a bad break up at all.

how do you get the idea that i was fucked over by me saying what i said?

DUFFM4N

cuz you ruthless son! straight cutthroat!

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stiizy

What Duff Said it just seems like you have a hate towards women... ( not calling you gay)

Like a certain bitterness...


But if not it's cool

DataXUnknown

I think I should jump in on this thread, as I just came out of a really nice relationship, but still can't get things the way I want it. I got 2 other of my best buds that are in the exact same position I am in, and the girls are all KOREAN. I love korean's but damn the girls are so fuckin' harsh sometimes.

stiizy

they're fucking ruthless i messed with a few, they really don't seem to give a fuck bout what they do or say

WERDdabuilder

koreans are a no no.

silpena

ok i got a question for you guys. I thought sure why not ask.
ok heres the story:
Gf of 2 1/2 years broke up with me about a month ago. Reason for her is she says she doesnt feel the same about me anymore. Says she's not happy and doesnt want to wait to be happy. Fast forward about a month we got into a stupid arguement i said something stupid to her. She wanted to break up but gave me chance since i realized i was being a idiot. Now, she tells me she feel that she should have broke up that day and ever since she's felt different.

Its been one 1 month now. I've told her i;m not gonna be friends with her. I guess she wants to be friends and for me to not be friends is some how me throwing away our friendship and memories? Idk i said no but she still texts me or ask me stupid stuff when i told her not to call me unless it was very important. She's told me that she has her sad days and her happy days since we split and still thinks till this day if she made the right discision but thinks its for the best. I am confused and tired of her bull crap. I've tried talking to her but she seems stubborn. Idk i think shes scared of being with me becuase she very ambitious and serious about school and she is going to school to be an RD and the odd part is that same weekend when she figured it all out that she was unhappy she was on a trip to a nutrition convention on the requirements and all the work she will have to go through this next following year. She was ok the morning before she left and completely changed the trip after wards. I sensed that something was wrong so something was coming.

so what do you guys think? you think shes just trying to be by her self for awhile due to stress from school and her future or she really is just done. I cant be waiting for her ass but her texting and calling me is not fucking helping and still is trying to tell me she cares about me and tells me how to handle this break up.

no cliffs just read!

ALTRNTV

I'll answer it later. Too busy with the fight. =p

ALTRNTV

Sounds like a typical long-term relationship breakup. Meaning after you break up, you still act and talk as if you
were still together. Both of you need time away from each other for awhile. Both of you need time to think things through
and to get a clear mind and handle on things. Live your own life for now, tell her that both of you need serious time apart
since you just broke up. When you feel like sufficient time has passed, talk to her again if you want and see how you two are
feeling about each other and go from there. I was never a fan of couples getting back together, because if it didn't work out
the first time, what makes you think it'll work out the second time? That's what I think.

superbike81

Here's a question.

How do I get my wife into the car hobby? It'll make it easier to convince her to let me spend money on projects in the future. She doesn't seem that interested now, I've been showing her stuff online. I'm trying to get her to learn to drive 5spd in my S15, but she's scared.

ALTRNTV

Teaching her stick would be a good idea to get her started into the car hobby you enjoy. While you're doing that,
tell her why you like doing what you do. Tell her you spending money on your car makes you happy, just like her
buying expensive bags or shoes, or whatever she likes to spend money on. I was in your situation once, but
with my ex-girlfriend, I taught her how to drive stick and just explained why I'm into the whole car hobby thing.
She understood and then started to get more interested in it.