ESmorz

So right now I am involved in a dead end relationship.

We have a looong history, but this time around there is just no...love

Basically, we went out for a long time a long time ago and things were good. Then shit happened and that ended. Now we've started going back out again but things are different. We barely every see each other, and when we do it's mostly to have sex haha. We haven't even said I love you to each other and by this time last time we were like all into it.

It's like were both not really into it, but she doesn't want to be alone so it kind of just keeps on going.

Plus, she will be moving in mid-june and we all know long distance things don't work. So shit. I just hate breaking up with people.

I just hate seein the beezies look you in the face crying and go "why" after you've given them all your reasons. I suppose I have to man up sooner or later. fuck

Preferably sooner since Senior Prom is nearing and there's a knockout who wants me to ask her but... ya know.

How would you do it, given the circumstances.

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Thursday

kill her?

just my $.02

jskateborders

haha, I would give you some advice, but im still tied down it seems(WTF) to a chick that I broke up with 2 months ago.
I fucking hate girls.
With that said, Im gonna have to go with Thursday on this one

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HARDCORE

I would just keep screwin the chick...I mean she's moving in a while anyway, and like you said the long distance thing doesn't work...As for the knockout chick...Take her anyway...I mean if you two only meet up to have sex, then make it exciting....Ask her for a threesome

ESmorz

A. I don't think I could take a different chick to prom lol.
B. You don't think I've mentioned it?

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Gnnr

If she hasn't broken up with you because she doesn't want to be alone, when she does leave you it'll be for another guy. She's just waiting for something better to come along and jump ship. You might aswell do it before she does.

Like you said, you're gonna have to just man up and do it. Or you can wait 'till she moves. June is not so far....but there is no guarantee that the other hot girl that wants you now will be single then.

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wrapmeup2005

Tell her the truth man, itll probably be the hardest to do but in the end when you both look back there wont be any hard feelings. Things didn't work out this time around, if something is meant to be then it is meant to be. Honestly if it is really like you are saying your both wasting time except for the sex I guess but Im sure you would like the sex more with someone your into and with someone that is into you.

Just tell her the truth, don't bring up the fact that she is leaving because that shouldn't have anything to do with it...long distance relationships can work. Let her know whats up, that your not feelin it and you don't feel that she is in to it either. If things are meant to be then maybe you will come back together with real love later on down the road, until then, free her and free yourself. Do it before you do anything with the hot chick too, nobody likes cheats.

HARDCORE

At least were on the same page here...LOL...Well my advice would be to just tell her that thing wont work out since she's moving. The sooner you do it the better really. If this chick you speak of is that hot, than i would go for that. The same pair of tits get old after so long.

ESmorz

I don't cheat. That's one thing I don't do.

I have broken up with many a girl so I know the process, I just have a stigma with doing it with her. Dunno why it's just the way it's always been.

So at the moment I am stuck between waiting till she moves and pulling the this isn't going to work since we are both in different colleges and being assaulted by a wave of new people each.

Or do it now and be the asshole.

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wrapmeup2005

Be the asshole, your both being assholes to eachother by beatin around the bush and not doing shit about it

Rnz520

Just do it. Been in the same situation. We still have sex when she comes home form school and at the same time I am free to do watever I want and look for an actual new gf. We broke up last year too...

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Mi Beardo es Loco

just tell her "it's not you, it's me". lol. that shit always works.

I would just let her know that you both know it's not going to work out and instead of dragggggggging it out, break up now and have some fun in hs. If I knew then what I know now about girls, man, I would have had some real fun. I was kinda shy in hs with my grizzly beard dragging on the floor.

But seriously, I went to prom with a girl who we really stretched it out too long and I had some hot fucking latina tell me later that she wanted to go with me so bad only if I would have asked. I would have had some sure ass! But it's all about the fun and if you end up going with this chick it's just going to be dumb and akward. Do it softly and respectfully or just rip it off like a band-aid and do it by text or something and just let her think you're a fucking jerk. Fuck it.

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ESmorz

Yeah especially since we haven't even talked in like a week.

I often think to myself "so this is what a 4th grade relationship would be like if 4th graders fucked".

Maybe I'll just have her come over tomorrow... and lay it out...

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S14DB

wait, you're in HS?

Fuck her till graduation then find another chick in College.

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bardabe

that's what I did. good man good advice TAKE IT!

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ESmorz

Yeah... that's what I wanna lean towards...

But when I look back on my Prom pictures I don't wanna think damn. That the after party at the condo would have been way more interesting with the other girl. Truth be told at the moment I could have about 3 different cuties go with me, but I just don't know.

I'm usually not stricken by any indecision so it's new to me.

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wrapmeup2005

Break up with her, don't do it at your place, meet up with her at a neutral place so you guys don't get all horny and have sex before you break up with her. Sex ain't everything man. I never look at my prom pictures, don't give a shit and I wish I never went with that girl. Call up Tom Leykis and ask him how to do it lol. If you haven't talked for a week its seriously time to jump ship, its probably making you both misserable and I guarentee the sex isn't that great to make up for that feeling. And to say that its weird to break up with her, don't you think later on in life you would think better of her this way instead of...oh yah that girl that i fucked once a week that dragged on till she left and the other three hotties that wanted me left too and now im mad at the original girl for ruining my chances with other girls

ESmorz

Yeah, the neutral place thing is what I wanted to do but what is neutral and free? haha

Well the looking back on prom pictures is more metaphorical, like just remembering prom and being like god damn I fuucked up.

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wrapmeup2005

If you think she is "the one" then go to prom with her, if not then go with someone you really want to go with....now im not saying to turn into some manwhore, but if you do then thats up to you lol.

Neutral place....starbucks...you want a coffee? Heres your drink, i don't think its gunna work out, well, i think im gunna head on home (your drink is already in a "to go" cup)

ESmorz

She is definitely not "the one" if that person even exists. I don't think Starbucks would work cause she knows I think coffee tastes like old socks...

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wrapmeup2005

Get a tea? Go somewhere for a drink or to the beach or something or the park, don't go to the mall or out to eat. Or do it at school at the end of the day.

articdragon192

If you're already having thoughts of regrets and you haven't even done it yet, you know you're in a bad spot. Fuck the what ifs. Drop her, take the new girl. Experience something new. it'll be refreshing. Trust me.

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ESmorz

I wish it was that easy, but she goes to a different school.

I know I'm in a bad spot. I just need to come to grips with either decision at this point.

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articdragon192

Easiest place, at her house. That way you can leave whenever you want since it isn't your place. Just say your good byes and walk away. Don't look back. If she asks for any kind of last kiss/ hug/ whatever, just say no and walk away.

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wrapmeup2005

I second that, if shes ask for anything like that just say that you don't think it would be for the best and leave

ESmorz

Once again, I wish it was that easy.

Her parents absolutely loathe me. I'm not the prim and proper boy they see for their daughter. I'm beared, drive a loud little car, and corrupt their daughter.

Which is another reason this just isn't gonna work. Her parents are the only parents I've ever met that don't adore me. I like being adored... haha

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BustedS13

you're in high school? wtf

anyway, just be like
"look, it's senior year, next year's college, although i'm on a car forum so that's up in the air... busteds13 wrote this speech and he doesn't know my plans. at any rate, since i'll be the same age as those people, i'll be chasing college and/or junior college and/or tech school and/or starbucks barista and/or call center ass, of which there will be a great bounty. it's been a good run, but let's not turn this into Friends and go on forever, or Seinfeld and have a shitty end. i wish you the best, *handshake* and Good Day Madam. enjoy your next dong, i will be enjoying a different vagina."

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WagDatto

Ditch her, and be honest about it. "I feel like I don't have enough time for a relationship right now. College is coming up, you're moving away, and I have so many things to do before I'm ready for college, it's unfair to stay together. Lately, the only thing we've made time for is sex, and that's not how I want to remember you..."

Okay, not truth, but it softens the blow, yeah?

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ESmorz

Haha yeah I just figured it better not to tell people how old I am, let them figure it out because it tends to make people think differently of you no matter what you have to say. However, for the topic at hand it was kinda unavoidable.

I will be going to JC, and doing a lot of traveling.

Once again our brains seem to be in alignment Busted... get out of my head.
But...Friends was funny till the end

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