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Bubbles · 10-31-2009, 12:47 AM

She's fairly common good looking.

She isn't anything you couldn't find at Arizona colleges 100 times over.

Even in the picture there's a near identical girl.

You guys hang out, talk, that's cool.

Me, personally I wouldn't go out of my way.

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Originally Posted by DETT

napaKAliboog · 10-31-2009, 12:51 AM

fuck money

*garagelu* · 10-31-2009, 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Bubbles

She's fairly common good looking.

She isn't anything you couldn't find at Arizona colleges 100 times over.

Even in the picture there's a near identical girl.

You guys hang out, talk, that's cool.

Me, personally I wouldn't go out of my way.

If you're young and don't care, yea looks are everything. Once you get older, you will find that looks are a factor but personality is a much bigger factor.

Bubbles · 10-31-2009, 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by garagelu

If you're young and don't care, yea looks are everything. Once you get older, you will find that looks are a factor but personality is a much bigger factor.

I want the whole package.

FairLady_JDM · 10-31-2009, 01:06 AM

disregard females, acquire currency.

drift freaq · 10-31-2009, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Bubbles

I want the whole package.

Seriously dude, if there is chemistry between them that goes a long fucking way. Until you have had chemistry with a Women, you don't realize what you have been missing. Fact is, the way you talk, I can bet you never have. When you do, you don't turn it down.

DETT · 10-31-2009, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

Seriously dude, if there is chemistry between them that goes a long fucking way. Until you have had chemistry with a Women, you don't realize what you have been missing. Fact is, the way you talk, I can bet you never have. When you do, you don't turn it down.

QFT

Looks definitely aren't the full consideration you should be taking, in all honesty you are right I could probably find another cookie cutter blonde to fill that role, but that isn't what I am doing here now is it? I am going out of my way because I actually have a strong connection with Alex.

You will understand in time, looks fade, but remember that hot chick your waking up to that has a personality of a plank with a nail in it is just going to become older and less attractive as time goes on, but she is still gonna have a sour personality.

And money cannot buy happiness I can tell you that right now, I have plenty of toys, a nice house, pretty much everything someone my age could want. However I work like a dog, I am alone, minus the few friends that I still keep up with that aren't pissed at me for being gone or working all the time. When you find someone that fits with you you'll understand.

And for the record this isn't pointed at what freaq posted but to what every other person that said something about looks, or about money.

If that shit makes you happy so be it, as katt williams said "by all means make your dough boe boe". I don't see the fun in waking up with strangers, or coming home to an empty house.

theicecreamdan · 10-31-2009, 07:33 AM

if you're openly admitting problems with trusting women, maybe you should look into that before you go anywhere with this. Sounds like you need to let the past go.

HAWKKS · 10-31-2009, 11:02 AM

Well I think that's the good part of not being involved in any kind of relationship. Even if some time I feel like I really need a girlfriend.

Dude, don't even bother...If you feel that go for it, if you don't...so DON'T!

PHeller · 10-31-2009, 11:33 AM

Would you feel comfortable going to Europe to live and work? If not, then you shouldn't ask her to come to the U.S. for the same reasons. Personally, no offense to the U.S. (born and raised), but I'd rather go the EU than make "the perfect girl" come here. From what I understand the economy is better over there and even your normal run of the mill job has a base pay that can support cost of living.

On that note, if you went over there would she give you a place to stay until you found a job?

My philosophy after coming out of a 3 year relationship is that I don't want one until I can support one. Once I've got a nice place, my finances and education settled and my career path figured out, then I'll be ready for another "real" relationship. Until then I'm happily single and building the "love resume".

BustedS13 · 10-31-2009, 01:23 PM

you're going to wind up suiciding in a bunker somewhere

don't do it

Slammed180 · 10-31-2009, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by BustedS13

you're going to wind up suiciding in a bunker somewhere

don't do it

I see what you did there......

BustedS13 · 10-31-2009, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Slammed180

I see what you did there......

that's what german women do to powerful men

Slammed180 · 10-31-2009, 01:36 PM

Assuming this guy is powerful, lol.

nismo 240sx · 10-31-2009, 05:57 PM

just make sure she is in it for you and not because she wants to get a visa from you and then ditch and live in the usa because it was one of her dreams in life...just be careful!

she is a cuttie though!

BustedS13 · 10-31-2009, 06:36 PM

DETT · 10-31-2009, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by BustedS13

LMFAO, I hope to god I would never have a hitler stache, wait is it prerequisite if I have a german girlfriend? That may be a problem I cant grow staches very well

Lol and to whomever said something about her using me for a visa, I don't think she would go to that extent considering she is very skilled and educated, she could easily get a work visa if she tried I am sure.

I did speak with her today, she is planning to come here for 3 weeks when I return, and depending how things go then we are gonna take things from there. I think that I may also be leaving next year for a month or so to spend time with her in germany since she can't afford to take the time away from school seeing as she graduates next year.

silverarrow27 · 10-31-2009, 07:24 PM

Sounds like a plan, just ditch all your car projects when she's visiting. Spend time with the girl and build the relationship...cars are material things.

fightinchunk · 10-31-2009, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by dett

don't have problems finding american girls, believe me, i'm not a player or whatever but they are all the same, may say they are different but they all have the psychopathic tendencies, or maybe i just find the completely messed up bishes

qft!!!!!!!!!!

DETT · 10-31-2009, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by silverarrow27

Sounds like a plan, just ditch all your car projects when she's visiting. Spend time with the girl and build the relationship...cars are material things.

Well I am looking to buy a members car when I return, so that should be taken care of, and the R32 is in shambles waiting for parts anyways in my garage so there is no urgency to finish anything up while she is here.

She is somewhat a car driver herself, her car in germany right now is a caged E30 M3, and she has done the ring a few times. So that is another plus she understands (I use that term loosely as she isn't much into modding her car) my car addiction.

drift freaq · 10-31-2009, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by DETT

She is somewhat a car driver herself, her car in germany right now is a caged E30 M3, and she has done the ring a few times. So that is another plus she understands (I use that term loosely as she isn't much into modding her car) my car addiction.

sounds like a winner to me. LOL

DETT · 10-31-2009, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by drift freaq

sounds like a winner to me. LOL

She definitely knows how to drive, not quite the tuner though, she bought the M3 with the cage and suspension mods already made, it was actually my idea that she get that car. She was looking at either getting that or a modified Audi S4 bi-turbo with K-04s but I advised her she would be better off with the E30.

and Freaq I wanna thank you for your help man, I talked to her pretty much about everything that you advised, and she agreed that she didn't want to just rush this, and that this has been on her mind for a very long time she just didn't know how to tell me because she didn't know how I would react. I am glad though that everything seems to be going forward smoothly now its just a matter of when she gets here if I can get used to coming home with someone in the house.

Alan_s14 · 11-01-2009, 12:24 AM

Love and happines don't come by the hand as often as you think...and this is one of those times... so thats kinda my opinion, you have the last word!

Good Luck!

Bubbles · 11-01-2009, 05:56 PM

A girl that can drive a car?

Holy shit!

You've found true chemistry.

Marry that bitch quick.

DETT · 11-01-2009, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Bubbles

A girl that can drive a car?

Holy shit!

You've found true chemistry.

Marry that bitch quick.

someone loves the sarcasm I see, I meant properly, around a track.

Rick-95ZE · 11-01-2009, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by DETT

Well I am looking to buy a members car when I return, so.....

and the wife and I would be happy to throw some genuine relationship advice your way when you stop by to check out the ride

.. Give me a call when you get back in town..

DETT · 11-02-2009, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Rick-95ZE

and the wife and I would be happy to throw some genuine relationship advice your way when you stop by to check out the ride

.. Give me a call when you get back in town..

Will do man, you have PM by the way

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Bubbles Post Whore! Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Location, Location. Posts: 3,320 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	A girl that can drive a car? Holy shit! You've found true chemistry. Marry that bitch quick. __________________ For all the world knows, my vagina could be moist with desire as we speak.

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napaKAliboog BANNED Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: los angeles Age: 32 Posts: 428 Trader Rating: (3) Feedback Score: 3 reviews	fuck money

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10-31-2009, 11:02 AM	#39
HAWKKS Leaky Injector Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Montreal Posts: 57 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Well I think that's the good part of not being involved in any kind of relationship. Even if some time I feel like I really need a girlfriend. Dude, don't even bother...If you feel that go for it, if you don't...so DON'T!

10-31-2009, 11:33 AM	#40
PHeller Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Lancaster, PA Age: 36 Posts: 26 Trader Rating: (0) Feedback Score: 0 reviews	Would you feel comfortable going to Europe to live and work? If not, then you shouldn't ask her to come to the U.S. for the same reasons. Personally, no offense to the U.S. (born and raised), but I'd rather go the EU than make "the perfect girl" come here. From what I understand the economy is better over there and even your normal run of the mill job has a base pay that can support cost of living. On that note, if you went over there would she give you a place to stay until you found a job? My philosophy after coming out of a 3 year relationship is that I don't want one until I can support one. Once I've got a nice place, my finances and education settled and my career path figured out, then I'll be ready for another "real" relationship. Until then I'm happily single and building the "love resume".

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nismo 240sx Zilvia Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: pomona Posts: 606 Trader Rating: (5) Feedback Score: 5 reviews	just make sure she is in it for you and not because she wants to get a visa from you and then ditch and live in the usa because it was one of her dreams in life...just be careful! she is a cuttie though!

11-01-2009, 12:24 AM	#53
Alan_s14 Leaky Injector Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Chihuahua, Mexico Age: 35 Posts: 125 Trader Rating: (2) Feedback Score: 2 reviews	Love and happines don't come by the hand as often as you think...and this is one of those times... so thats kinda my opinion, you have the last word! Good Luck!

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