theicecreamdan

He's not looking for a psychologist to make shit up for him, he's wondering what the process is like. He's in a rush to do it.

Just get the ball rolling, you might have to suck it up and play nice at school for a little while, but if you think your needs are legit then there's no reason not to use the system to your advantage, as the system will try to do the same to you.

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Pank

besides, you know, the millions of people whos parents have divorced and they dont get to see one of them often.

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C. Senor

^ but that's two consenting adults making a decision. instead of a an adult being forced to make a decision for the betterment of their family. divorce and deportation are kinda different.

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Pank

how so? theres a ton of people that I know, their parents split, and they never talked to their father again. From the persepective of the child, which is what we're talking about, its the exact same. "Dads gone"

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theicecreamdan

Not really, dad left vs dad taken away.

Its different, I guess you don't know.

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jskateborders

IMO dad leaving voluntarily will have a more negative effect on a child than dad having to go. In the case of dad leaving, children are going to be considering the fact that dad left them.

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SexPanda

shit my parents got divorced. I think it was a good thing. I have 2 houses, 2 hometowns, essentially 3 different cars to drive, if i want a big back seat (giggity) good fuel economy or the pussy magnet. If I feel stressed here, I visit my mom for a few days, we get drunk, smoke cigarettes, and watch soap operas. Then I can come back, and enjoy my life here.

But then again, I'm the kind of person who doesnt give a shit.

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flip3d

Go see a counselor at school. Maybe they might understand your problem and refer you to someone.

!Zar!

Too bad you're socal.

If you were in norcal I'd suggest you talk to my mom.

She's a psychiatrist.

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98s14inaz

I think what he is trying to do is get a psychologist note saying that his father's deportation is causing him mental duress (spell check please). He's hoping if he can document it medically ICE will cut his father some slack and give him a visa or bump him up in line for citizenship.

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drift freaq

this is obviously what he is after. Now my parents got divorced when I was 15. It had no adverse effect on me. hehehehehehe I went down the road based on my own choices. Honestly people lose their parents all the time and manage to survive. So this is going to be a tough case to get some kind of leniency on. I.E. you stand a better chance of proving economic hardship.

The other question that comes to mind though i, If your dad was here legally and he knew his work visa was coming up, why did he not act to renew, or get sponsored by his employer? Just wondering about that.

Truthfully though, your looking for the easy way out to a difficult problem that may not have a easy way out. Also you may go to the doctor and they may say your a perfectly healthy normal teenager going through changes and anxiety. Both of which would not have any effect on immigration giving your dad a break.

I hate to say this but its true. Your dad has been caught up in a immigration crisis. Though he may be doing it the right way and never violated the system is reacting to the major influx of illegal immigration that is unprecedented in the history of this country. The shear numbers of illegals who are here or come here is off the hook and those fucks want to just be made citizens just because they are here already. I am sorry but thats bullshit.

They want to become citizens or work here legally? They should do what your dad did, the right way. Which brings up my earlier question, if your dad was here legally and knew he had to do something about his status, why did he wait till the end and then just leave? unless he did try and was out of work.

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Pank

Except his dad left voluntarily. My parents split when i was 4. it sucked, but i got over it.

i'm just saying its not like he's a super extreme rare case. Parents leave/die all the time.

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