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sil80owner, you should just talk to her and ask her straight up how she feels, that will just end all curiousity for the good or bad. I'm in the same position as you are, i know i should be using my own advice but idk why I'm not.

BustedS13

edit: nvm i got this

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slammed04tsx

This will most definatly fix the situation hahahaha

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that line by itself will get you laid


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downshift_sideways

First off you need to smoke some weed.

Secondly. Don't stress too much about it. Second chances always happen. Don't think that you blew your chance...however That WOULD HAVE been the perfect opportunity to reinqaute with her. Just pretend that you were playing the asshole role and blew her off. No sweat.

It seems like you have strong feelings for her. You seem very fragile. Fragile is weakness. So wake your game up.

I'd suggest in maybe changing you're style up to get her to notice you. You guys are both in the same room...trust me she'll notice you. Maybe the way you do your hair...shave or whatever...

lastly...If you can be-friend one of her friends...that's the sneakiest way to get to her. You'll also be able to get information about her. Girls like to talk!

Good Luck!

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downshift_sideways

Here's what happened to me today at the mall:

I was watching this girl walk in front of me...she was gorgeous full figure with a beautiful complexion...She stopped by the surf city stand (frozen drinks) and ordered something...I got behind her in line to order aswell


*She begins ordering her drink, and I'm watching the lady prepare it for her*

Me: "That actually looks really good...what's in that?" (referring to her drink)
Her: "Haha. It's mango and strawberry"
Me: "Awesome! I think I'll try that!"

As I'm ordering my drink I grab 2 straws. I turn around and hand her one.
**Take account that these straws were wrapped...handing an unwrapped straw would be a no no!*

Her: "Thank you"
Me: "No Thank You!" (I smile and she smiles right back)
Me: "I'm Anthony by the way" (stuck my hand out to shake hers)
Her: "Amanda, Nice to meet you Anthony". (shakes my hand...and her hand was so soft I could make love to it! hahhahaha)

Her: "So You like the Giants?" (referring to my baseball shirt and hat)
Me: "Of course...born and raised a giants fan. and yourself?"
Her: "I love the giants too...but it was great meeting you Anthony" (she smiles and turns to walk away
Me: "You too Amanda, I'll see you around".

Did I score a phone number...NOPE.

Did I fail...NOPE.

Did I interact with most likely the hottest chick at the mall...YES.

And that's what it's all about...Building confidence to talk to women!

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allntrlundrgrnd: "you never really appreciate your parents fridge until you look into your own and its full of condiments only"

word sux

Man, I have a problem...

Its not that I can't spit game. This situation has thrown me for a loop..

long story short, new job and the boss's daughter who works up front is soooo sexy. I am not sure if I should try to get with her or not. She seem to like me but I don't want to be too up front because A. she's the boss's daughter and B. I still have to work with her everyday

It's kinda like playing with fire, maybe I should just forget about her but its hard when you see her everyday.... and she is sooo finneeeee great boobs and an ass that white girls should not legally be able to have

downshift_sideways

Major No No.

Look but don't touch! lol

but in all honesty...It depends on your relationship with your boss. If he/she trusts you to the fullest...there wouldn't be a problem. However way too much to risk.

Never jeopardize your financial situation for any person of the opposite sex.

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theronin

if you want to keep your new job, stay away from the boss's daughter. you are there to work, not score trim.

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WanganRunner

Downshift's interaction was good, my only comments are:

1.) Don't give your name, make them ask.

2.) When you shake a hand, hold until they let go. (don't know if he did this or not)

I assume he had strong eye contact, etc.

But yeah, sometimes girls excuse themselves and walk away. Nothing wrong with it, just important that you soldier on until that happens and don't prematurely eject from the interaction because you're nervous or whatever.

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D.Adams

Do not do it. I made that mistake and dating my old boss's daughter and once he found out i was in the shit hole for a while. Ended up good for 8 plus months once he was over it. When we got into the fight that lead up to us breaking up my job was gone. It was a amazing job I wish i would of never hooked up with her because working in sound production for Handa's ASIMO was fucking amazing.

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T chop

If it`s just a shitty job I say why not, if you actually care about it and it pays good then I wouldn`t, unless she comes on strong to you.

1993fdrx7

Approach it real casual.like in a joking manner. If she bites pursue it further but lay down some rules

stiizy

Huh, do not date your bosses daughter, my boss has his daughter working here this summer and she is hot to death but i wouldn't even dream of it ever.

Ant, i'm sure you rufied that chicks smoothie lol that's the part you left out fool.

so anyways finally single again after 7 years!! game spitting has begun in all forms.
i'm also back on the board to stay!!

trsilvias13

Date bosses daughter? Ask yourself this question first. Is the job your career? If yes, don't do it. If not, go for it.

chuki.s13.coupe.

Dating the bosses daughter?

Date her + Get her pregnant = Job security

Win.

downshift_sideways

Welcome back homie! Long time no see





Sadly that's semi true. You just end up being the boss's bitch after that.

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godrifttoday

Bravo!!!!!! Amen to that! U don't have to get every girls number! Just learn to talk to different girls

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chuki.s13.coupe.

Does 'full figure' mean she was fat?

stiizy

I'm gonna say she was nicely proportioned or Hour glass shaped?

downshift_sideways

She was "thick". Nice curves in just the right places. Carmel skin. Green Eyes. Made me follow her in awe for a bit LMAO!

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collegekid

Gonna bump this shit for a useless post, save your keyboard commando instinct everyone

Theres a girl in my spanish class I have sat next to since January. She's cute but never really was into her. I guess you can say she playfully flirts with me (It's what I assumed but it didn't end the way I hoped it would). Last week I randomly became super infatuated with her. We are like class buddies, I dont have her on facebook or have her number or even her last name. The only downside is that she's a smoker ( I understand that after a few years of smoking, all girls tend to look like shit)

She's 19, I'm 21. I tried talking to her like after class on Friday ( We have class on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays) and it was confusing to me. I thought she showed interest but we awkwardly parted ways. Monday comes around and I tried talking to her again. In our conversation (just asking basic background shit) she asked me questions and I gave responses that I later realized made me sound like a total douche rich spoiled kid (I'm not, my house really does have a huge ass pool and I do have some good ass get togethers)

So today I talked to her again after class, I apologized for sounding like a douche and said that I suck with talking to girls and I was just nervous around her. She asked why she made people nervous and I said the biggest reason for me is that I like her. I proceeded to ask what she was doing this weekend and asked if she wanted to come over since I wanted to grill and she told me she might go visit her parents (In Jersey, my college is in Philadelphia and she lives on campus). She also continued to tell me that her parents buy her good food. (Alright, got the message already) The rest of our conversation was just nonsense so we parted ways.

Meh, this just happened like 2 hours ago so my heart is still like "I want her" and my brain is like "Bro there are more flowers in the garden, fish in the sea, and different rides at Sixx Flags!"

TLR

The point of the story is that regardless of the fact that I am irrationally shy around females, I still managed to find out how the other person feels about me and not sound bitter or get depressed in any way. What I've learned is that
1- you should not worry about rejection (it's a part of life, stop being a little bitch)
2- Body language and playful flirting doesn't mean shit, you still won't get a solid answer until you actually ask a person out in person (cell phones and other technology leaves so much for you to interpret )
3- Do everything in person. Remember, in a relationship you are still going to have to see the person in reality and you won't always be hiding behind your cell phone or computer, show them you can talk to them in person (even if you are fucking shy like me and say dumb shit)
4- Asking for a phone number, sending a facebook/myspace/twitter/asking for their social security number etc should be one of the last things you do in the beginning when you are asking them to come spend time with you. Worry about them wanting to spend time with you before thinking that just because you got her number that it means she wants to spend the rest of their life with you.
5- Be yourself (even though its been said a million times). If he/she might not like one or two things about you don't worry. If they like you enough they won't care too much. If it's a huge issue for them then you should cut your losses and find another person to be interested in.
6- Go to places with a lot of people and just practice interacting with people just like DOWNSHIFT_SIDEWAYS mentioned. He's fucking right. Bars and nightclubs are not the only place where people go to meet each other. The mall is definitely a great place. The food court, different clothing stores, bookstores especially etc etc
7- Stay well dressed as much as you can. You don't have to look like you are headed to a black tie party and don't dress like a trendy hipster either. I'm sure you can find more info about clothing in the fucking Fashion thread that we have here


I'm sure most of this has been mentioned already but I haven't read anything before this page yet so "my bad" before you go all apeshit on me. I'm just trying to help out some other irrationally shy people like myself.

Young Sileighty Kev

LMAO! Never knew there was a thread like this but im not laughing cuz im a douche bag but many stories i can relate too so ill contribute....

Anyways for all you youngsters that want to go to prom a quick 5 dollar solution:
Go to her car in the school parking lot (might have to ditch a class cuz you have to be there before she gets there)
Buy A neon poster and write down "Will You Go To Prom With Me" and post it on her car,
(Corny i know but you do whatcha gotta do)
Then
Sprinkle Some candy on her car cuz the bishes like that!
Chill next to her car and wait for her to get out of class (6th period)
Boom she will say yes, worked for me
And do not chicken out, there are gonna be a lot of people watching you but just stay there like a boss and wait to hear her beautiful voice say yes!

RB25GUY

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7RIFT0

Everybody just watch this channel lol. The thing is, you just have to go out and do it, straight up. No bs. Simple Pickup - YouTube

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Juantwo3

after reading all of your guys is posts you guys are a bunch of SIMPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EnemyS15

Best way to score a lady, or "spit game", is to just be yourself. Say hi, be polite, don't invade her personal space, joke and laugh! If you can get her to laugh, either at a joke or yourself, you just went from a stranger to a funny guy. If they want to know you any better, she will introduce herself by name and ask you yours. From there just talk about whatever is relevant to the surrounds or events. Compliment, but don't go showering her as if she has the golden vag. Show interest in her and what she likes, does, dislikes, etc. Try to relate. Share info about yourself so she doesn't think you are a potential rapist, but don't give out your entire life story. leave some room for mystery, but don't stay in the "stranger" zone.

The biggest rule of em all, is be realistic about your goals. If you are a slob, who dresses like a bum, go find someone similar to you. If you are a lazy shit, don't try to go after an established and successful woman.


This shit is easy! Spitting game is for boys!

PeaceOnesxWai

Lol never knew there was a thread like this but this just so happens to be one of my favorite subjects and part of my studies.


Being my first post in here, Ill contribute.
This happened last night at a bar (It was $2 tuesday). Im with my friend and he sees a girl that grabbed his attention. Hes not the type of guy that approaches women most of the time. He would have to find the right time and make it a perfect moment. Being a good wingman, I dont think and just approached, even when I dont have sh!t to say. First thing i see, her glasses, complimented that and just chit chatted a little about where were from, boring stuff.. found a common interests that she has with my buddy, introduced, bounced.

Game 101 chapter 1 is approaching. I like to refer to cave maning out: you see what you like, dont think, go for it. The longer you wait, the more anxious you get. Turn off your thoughts, walk up with a smile, and say whatever that comes up in the moment. You dont have to think of a smart pick up line, a simple "Hi" or "your absolutely adorable, i have to meet you". Also girls are aware of their surroundings aswell, if you just stand there and look, they will take notice and find it creepy.

You may get rejected, but so what? you just met this person, what life long effect will it have on you simply by her rejecting you? Take note that you just manned up and went up to talk to this hot girl. Next time you will be more prepared and have something better to say (Practice makes perfect) Lesson learned but its a better feeling then not talking to her and regretting not getting to meet her. Approach with no expectations

Always keep good energy, smile, and eye contact. Be fun and people will be attracted to you. Girls go out to have fun and get away from their boring little lives, if you bring that fun vibe they would want to be around you.

theronin

Oh man forgot this thread still existed. I almost feel like social media has taken over the need to know how to actually pick up chicks. Nowadays all I see is people getting names, parting ways and then facebooking each other/texting. And honestly its 1000x's easier to spit game over text. Kinda sad that the art of "spitting game" has all but been lost imo

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collegekid

Just read the whole thread (except page 1)

So, I still have a little bit of the one-itis feeling still left over but it's all good. My friend also took me out to a bar in the city (I just started coming out of my shell).

Here's some shit that works
-Tell a corny joke. You see a girl or a group of girls walking by, look at them, point and tell them to come to you and use hand motions to get them to come over. Most of them gave out they family guy style "AAAAAHHHH" when they got the joke *something about C shells on a mermaid*

-Have an awesome wingman. I was introduced to atleast 20 girls just because of him, but they were mostly old friends of my wingman

-Firm handshake but don't break the bitch's hand
-mints, no gum so you don't look like a fucking cow
-wear cologne so that they can only smell it when you lean in to talk to them, not as if you hooked up your cologne to your garden hose and sprayed yourself
-have something unique in regards to clothing. Like an awesome belt or something. Dont dress like every other douche in the place

-Drop a subtle negative comment or say something that can be taken both ways, leave em guessing


I'm not a player, I am a complete noob and am in the process of building confidence and getting back in shape. I also can't dance so I am thinking of taking some salsa or other latin dance in the summer to have some kind of rhythm. I assume women go crazy if you can make that ass move in ways they couldnt imagine with clothes on