So you mean to say you started an “I must URGENTLY find this guy over an item” thread, and you had already communicated with him and arranged a sale, then the sale is apparently not working out and you’ve been granted a refund through Paypal? If you dealt with Paypal, then this thread is a waste of all of our time because YOU have his email address and more importantly they do too and with it the ability to communicate to him that they’re about to lighten up his funds if he does not make you right.
This thread is a waste of time, it’s not like anyone is going to, like, drop by his house and stab him for you or anything.
