What do you guys think?

[S14Crossovr]

Do you think that before proposing to someone, you should get the parents blessings? My boyfriend and I were talking about it and he doesnt see the point in asking but I feel it should happen out of respect. What are your opinions?

[Phlip]

In every such situation I have seen, the male asks for the blessings... My father asked my granddaddy, my sister's fiancee asked my mom and I have always seen the male ask the bride to be's father (or mother if that wasn't an option) before proposing, even if the plan was made and the ring was purchased...

... personally, I don't see why people bother committing the fool assed acts of getting married and having children

[zero.counter]

Do you think that before proposing to someone, you should get the parents blessings? My boyfriend and I were talking about it and he doesnt see the point in asking but I feel it should happen out of respect. What are your opinions?
I agree as that is what I did. I thought I was old fashioned, but agreed that it was proper and out of respect as you stated. If he does not see the point, then he does not understand you the way you would like, or so it seems.

[idlafie]

Do you think that before proposing to someone, you should get the parents blessings? My boyfriend and I were talking about it and he doesnt see the point in asking but I feel it should happen out of respect. What are your opinions?

...time for a new boyfriend!!!
ID

[S14Crossovr]

thanx for the input guys! i was just making sure i wasnt making an unreasonable request asking him to get blessings when the time comes. but he said he will so that is good :bigok:

[AKADriver]

It all depends on the family and how traditional they are. Best of luck to you!

[90RS13]

I asked them first.

[MakotoS13]

its more of a courtesy man to man thing than anything. if he does your father will respect him more and your dad might not give a crap.

either way: can't hurt and it ain't hard.

[nocomedown]

that's a definite yes. anyways, if he's a good guy he shouldn't have anything to be afraid of.

[Ghettokracker71]

its more of a courtesy man to man thing than anything. if he does your father will respect him more and your dad might not give a crap.

either way: can't hurt and it ain't hard.


Very much agreed. Pure respect,and coolness points.

















































































Although it definitely would SUCK if your dad said no:ugh:.

[nistech]

kinda depends on ur culture

[AlligatorBling]

... personally, I don't see why people bother committing the fool assed acts of getting married and having children

::applauds::

[ThatGuy]

I asked her Parents before my parents even knew I was planning to get Married. lol

[ICKY]

If it was me who was proposing, I would get the blessings of both parents(if possible) before proposing out of respect. It's not a hard thing to do.

[S14DB]

I would elope

[driftyour40]

I would forgo the process of getting married all together besides that your like what 18, or 19 go have fun wait till after your 21 to get married. If you still feel that way after 21.

[S14Crossovr]

I would forgo the process of getting married all together besides that your like what 18, or 19 go have fun wait till after your 21 to get married. If you still feel that way after 21.

that is kinda the plan and wait till 25. I was just getting opinions

[S14DriftR]

that is kinda the plan and wait till 25. I was just getting opinions

Oh, ok. I was gonna say damn, yous is just kids! haha. Plus, he cant afford a ring now, all his cash goes to his car, lol.

[driftyour40]

cool cool :goyou: