WTF: disrespect

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[luey02]

No interest.. lol
So did you get your exhause yet?  My exhause is 2months wait, can you believe it?!  

why havn't u talk to your bro in 4 yrs?? We might have some in common here.  Yo, I'll be in Niagra falls for spring break this weekend, you live around there?  I'll kick yo bro's ass for you.

I can't decide who's right here since I dont know every detail.  But  your bro might say reasons you were wrong to your mother so that's why, just talk to your mother too to get her on your side..

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i got my exhaust today and i'll ahve it on by the weekend.

that is the scoop

i can t beleive the kind of disrespect... to ruin my bedroom like that...

yeah e-mail me when your down, i live there but im away at school, i'll meet up i if can

[DSC]

Should'a sat down and had some with them.

Err I mean those bastards!
That sucks tho, why haven't you talked to him in soo long?

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[Ni5mo180SX]

ha, yea I know how it is when things get like that. sucks, but if you get your mom on your side at least you have some slack.

[camppain]

i dont think u where wrong u might have acted outta to much anger but hey thats what i would a done. as far as ur mom kickin u out that is way wrong from what i read based on those details.

and im sorry i always hear bout this from you bing with all sincerity <img src="http://www.zilvia.net/f/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('>

life sucks so does mine in a different way though

[Ni5mo180SX]

Dont think of it as life sucking overall. Just dont let it control you or let it seem to over bearing. Id say beating them within an inch of their life might work wonders on getting that cocky asshole smile off their face. &nbsp;<img src="http://www.zilvia.net/f/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbsup:'>

[AceInHole]

i'd say screw it. &nbsp;narc em if you can't beat em up, or at least tell them you will. &nbsp;if i ever caught one of my cousins doing sh*t like that I'd beat em up, although I already know I can... so it might be different for you....

[mbmbmb23]

Your mom is definately gonna take his side...because she has to live with him..and put up with him after you leave. &nbsp;Maybe you should have just tried to land one "really sweet and unexpected" punch...instead of throwing him around and giving him time to have someone come in and break it up. &nbsp;If I were you, I'd get a nice Master Lock and install it on your door(assuming your mom would let you do that). &nbsp;If you brother is failing school, hes obviously not going to give a crap about you. &nbsp;If he cannot respect himself (by not being a fuck and flunking school..and getting wasted all the time), then he isnt gonna respect you and your stuff. &nbsp;If he views you as being the "successful" sibling, then he's gonna try and tear you down...even when you arent there. &nbsp;He's obviously tried to do that by looking all cool to his buddies by bringing them in there and "marking his territory" with his ashes. &nbsp;

My advice to you, pack up all your cool stuff..and move it to the attic...and triple tape the boxes with duct tape (people will scavenge your Playboys if you dont pack em up tight). &nbsp;Then, turn your room into something thats more of a hang out room.....thats easy to clean. &nbsp;From then on, when you visit home...just sleep on the couch..and forget that room. &nbsp;If your mom realizes that your brother smokes weed ..and she doesnt kick his ass for smoking that stuff in the house....then you are probably out of luck for her to discipline him at all. &nbsp;Sounds to me like your mom is scared to act against your brother.

Hope that helps.


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[Grant]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (mbmbmb23 @ Mar. 11 2002,02:38)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">Your mom is definately gonna take his side...because she has to live with him..and put up with him after you leave. Maybe you should have just tried to land one "really sweet and unexpected" punch...instead of throwing him around and giving him time to have someone come in and break it up. If I were you, I'd get a nice Master Lock and install it on your door(assuming your mom would let you do that). If you brother is failing school, hes obviously not going to give a crap about you. If he cannot respect himself (by not being a fuck and flunking school..and getting wasted all the time), then he isnt gonna respect you and your stuff. If he views you as being the "successful" sibling, then he's gonna try and tear you down...even when you arent there. He's obviously tried to do that by looking all cool to his buddies by bringing them in there and "marking his territory" with his ashes.

My advice to you, pack up all your cool stuff..and move it to the attic...and triple tape the boxes with duct tape (people will scavenge your Playboys if you dont pack em up tight). Then, turn your room into something thats more of a hang out room.....thats easy to clean. From then on, when you visit home...just sleep on the couch..and forget that room. If your mom realizes that your brother smokes weed ..and she doesnt kick his ass for smoking that stuff in the house....then you are probably out of luck for her to discipline him at all. Sounds to me like your mom is scared to act against your brother.

Hope that helps.


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couldnt have said it better myself, I just wonder why your mom doesnt do anything about it or kick your brothers bitchass out of the house.

[DuffMan]

Man, your family sounds fucked up. Why not just stay at school or stay at a friend's house near home? Because now that you don't need them (like you did in HS) they are useless to you. I know this sounds cold and harsh, but it's the truth. Yah, they're family but spending time arround them is only going to be a negative influence on you. Just because they're related to you doesnt give them a right to bring you down.

Maybe some day your brother and mom will realize how they royally fucked up and apologize to you. Until that day, I say fuck em.

[240sxnewbie]

i guess my other message didn't take..anyway, like i said earlier, let your family be. you're going to school so you can have a better life. &nbsp;Your brother is probably jealous..cut them off and totally disown your whole family. When they come begging for your help, don't help them. Tell them that they are on their own. &nbsp;You can't really fight your own blood and since your brother is just a bum, he's not going to care about anything until he matures..by that time, he'll realize (too late) that he screwed up his own life..and by that time, you should be leading your own life without the support of your family...disown them. they'll regret it later.

[Coldsun]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (DuffMan @ Mar. 12 2002,05:19)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">Man, your family sounds fucked up.</td></tr></table><span id='postcolor'>
LOL hahhahh
well i wouldn't go that far!! but it does sound pretty sucky at the moment.. and 240sxnewbie, the hell kind of advice is that, how old are you.. its one thing for him to not talk to his bro, but i think he is gonna need to work shit out with his family... I mean i know your parents have to have something to do with you being in college (paying or helping or something)


Anyway its like this man... I feel ya... Me and my bro have major beef... he is 21 going on 22 and i'm 19..... last thanksgiving he attacked me, we got into a big fistfight, ON THANKSGIVING, and it was mainly becuz he was mad at some girl... basically.. Me and him dont talk...

Alotta shit your bro does reminds me of mine... We are mad different.. i've smoked before, but it was like only at a party and now i dont do it at all, he smokes every day... he is a idiot and was kicked outta college for a semester (poor grades) and all and all we dont have nothing in common , he only was cool with me when he wanted something...So since i have experience with you in all that, i'll say this... I realized, I dont need my brother... I dont ask him for anything, and i dont talk to him.... If he did what your bro did. i would probably act the same way...thats straight up disrespect. and he aint seem like he cares....

So nah you werent wrong.. What you need to do is tell ya mom you love her, let her know wusup... and be cool... next time you see ya bro dont talk to him, dont even look at him look passed him.... If he does something like this again, you dont even gotta fight him, jus tell him "yo cut the shit" and let ya mom see it and have her talk to him...

Basically man... the truth of life is, There has to be more to family then just having the same blood... My brother was never really my brother... I have brothers in close friends of mine.... Work shit out with your mom becuz she probably is still cool with you, and jus dont know why you came home and fucked your brother up...And as for your bro.. dont let him fuck up your life, your on the right path... you'll show them all when you pull up in a New Skyline in 4 years... and your makin real cash, hahah

yo good luck man
-Sun

[whateverjames]

all very good replies but if i would have gotten to it sooner, i would have typed something like duffman's reply. if your brother and mom are going to be like that, you don't need them. i'm not sure how close you are to your other two brothers, but staying away from that one brother and your mom,for good, may be the thing to do, and just go pick up your two little brothers and go somewhere if you want to spend time with them.

[bladen]

well, i guess my family isnt as messed up as some, i'd say, wait till your brother is asleep, Beat his ass, and tell your mother he fucking deserved it, because he did, if that would have happened in my parents house, My dad would have been doing the Beatings, not me, and i would have lost it, and i would have kicked the shit out of him, im glad i only have 2 younger sisters, one is to smart for that shit, and the other is to young to worry about that shit, so its all good for right now, but yeah, if i had problems like that, Blood be damned, i'd be for kickin some ass.

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[240sxnewbie]

Coldsun,

"and 240sxnewbie, the hell kind of advice is that, how old are you.. its one thing for him to not talk to his bro, but i think he is gonna need to work shit out with his family... "

Actually, I'm 25 but that isn't the point. I did what I told bing. I had a huge arguement with my TWIN brother when I was 18. Instead of always arguing with my twin, i decided that I didn't need them. I moved to virginia, lived on my own and paid my own way through school. &nbsp;I'm glad i did that. My brother did need help however, whenever he came to me when he needed help, I told him he had to take care of his own crap. &nbsp;It was hard to do that to my own blood but he finally learned to grow up and take care of his own responsibilities.

Like i said, the only way to make sure your own things don't get messed up is to own your own place to live. Plus it relieves the stress on your parents since there wouldn't be any complaints about who goes into who's room.