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KingKong8247
06-09-2003, 11:38 PM
Ok this just happened to a friend of mine. She wrote all these sweet *** poems and put them in her away message on AOL. They were about her ex-boyfriend and I guess he didnt like them. So she gets home and finds all her poems erased, all her email erased and in her "new" away message it said something to the degree of your a, i dont know if I can say it on this board, a very loose woman, and a cokehead that messes around with her dad. WTF is that, very childish I might say. And telling her shes gonna rot in hell and all that good stuff.

It just makes me mad and Im venting. Mostly this post is about how the hell did he get her password for aol? You would think they have been out for how long? They should have good secruity right? I mean she never told him her password so what the hell? Just wondering what should she do? Can aol do anything about it or is she just SOL?? Sorry for wasting anyones time just people make me mad sometimes.
Bill Roberts
06-09-2003, 11:55 PM
Read this (long) you will get the idea.

http://www.zilvia.net/f/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30177
KingKong8247
06-10-2003, 12:15 AM
sorry but I dont get the reason for that link?
Bill Roberts
06-10-2003, 06:54 AM
Hummmm....Just worked for me.
turtlepower240
06-10-2003, 11:18 AM
that guy's a dickhead.... i hate people like that... unfortunately there's not a lot she can do about it... :(
negular
06-10-2003, 11:22 AM
did the guy go into her apartment/house? if so... cant she press charges? what about invasion of privacy?
KingKong8247
06-10-2003, 11:26 AM
no negular he didnt go into her house. he somehow got her password and logged onto her screenname.

But bill the link worked and all i just dont understand how it is relevant.
West
06-10-2003, 11:42 AM
Hmmm. Thats what my ex does. I just wrote her a nasty poem back. I think she is in therapy now.

Id post my and her poem, but they arent suitible for you kids. :p
Bill Roberts
06-10-2003, 11:49 AM
KK, the releventcy as I see it is:

"Immature people play stupid and childish games designed to hurt one another" Immaturity knows no age boundrys either. You have 50 year olds doing the same crap.

It is unfortunant that people cannot stop and think about the consequences of their actions. The essay basically describes what goes on in adolecent minds.
KingKong8247
06-10-2003, 12:02 PM
ohhhh ok i get it now. Yeah its stupid stuff, just get over it and move on.
nokeone
06-10-2003, 12:15 PM
Originally posted by KingKong8247
Yeah its stupid stuff, just get over it and move on.

maybe you should take some of your own advise..:)..were these poems such that she didn't save them anywhere else?..are they lost forever?..can she not rewrite them?..

this is not to say that i don't have simpathy for the situation or for the fact that her ex sounds like a dick...it's just one of those things i think you need to chalk up to some asshole and move on..

he wins if you let it stress you / her out..if you get upset he accomplished his goals..

IMO..
KingKong8247
06-10-2003, 06:06 PM
Yeah nokeone I knew someone was going to eventually say that when I wrote but I was mad about it last night its not really making me stressed out anymore. And she didnt have them saved so they are lost but she can rewrite them but they probably wont be the same ya know.
Bill Roberts
06-10-2003, 07:06 PM
Sacred gifts for sacred people, unfortunantly, she was a poor judge of character. Rescue her from the abuse and show her the love that can happen in the realm. Life is too short for that BS.