Starter relay needed for SR20

[240S15DETE6K]

Does anybody know where I can get a starter relay for an S15 SR20DET?  Do you think it would be the same as a USDM SR20DE, like a Sentra or 200SX?  I've got it sitting on the bench and it is not the same as the KA relay.  

[240S15DETE6K]

Have ANY of you guys with the DET ever had to change the starter soilnoid?  If so, was it the same as a same year SR20DE car?  I'm getting a little worried here, it runs so good finally, it just sux that now I can't start it.