Ownage at the coffee shop

[CylonFrakker]

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[azndoc]

What?

I'm lost.

So the guy wasn't her BF who wanted to kick your ass?

I thought that's what was going to happen.

So I guess gl cheating on your wife?

[max2damax]

oh!!!, Im telling on you! .... give me your wife's number.....

[ThatGuy]

Did I miss something?

What did he reply back with?

Why are you getting a girl's phone number if your Married?

Why are you bragging about it on the internet?

What is the point of all this? Proving your an asshole? You could've done that alot easier.

[GSXRJJordan]

Yeah I don't really understand the ownage here... The guy was a current BF (supposedly), maybe just someone she's dating/dated, and you owned him by getting a number? I'm all for guys doing things to make themselves feel like guys after they get married (free time, flirting, etc), but you're the one that'll be owned eventually if you stay in this mindset.

Nice takedown, I guess. Now go sit down and make a list of all the reasons your wife is better than this whore before you think about calling her.

Edit: Did you get your title changed? lol.

[!Zar!]

Yay. The zilvia sodomy and lust thread.

[CylonFrakker]

i typed it really fast sorry. I had to go to a meeting.

[Unholy S14]

wow congrats on being lame.

[!Zar!]

Now go find that number and give it to me.

I'll do a writeup thread on how to perform like Peter North. Ohh yeeeaaahhh.

[azndoc]

Ohhh so you wanted to make sure you still had game.

I get it now.

You better hope your wife doesn't check you zilvia account.

Otherwise it will be a little awkward conversation for sure.

Don't give Zar her number give it to me.

[CylonFrakker]

wow congrats on being lame.



Yeah thanks I try my best.

[CylonFrakker]

fixed this post too.....

[DUFFM4N]

Now go find that number and give it to me.

I'll do a writeup thread on how to perform like Peter North. Ohh yeeeaaahhh.


LOL

u would have to include pictures/video for it to get approved for a proper "HOW TO" lol

[Unholy S14]

yea that would be kinda wrong.

[CylonFrakker]

a howto would be helarious

[drift freaq]

Wow, first you tell us about how you made a guy look bad and then almost cheated on your wife. When someone calls you on it, you make a statement of making sure you still have game and being able to make the play, as long as you don't make completion.

Now I am sitting here thinking damn, this guy thinks its alright because he has not actually done the act but has lead someone to believe he would. You ever stop to think about the other person? You ever stop to think if one of your wifes friends saw this little interaction in its entirety what it would look like? Is it even fair to that girl to say what you said leading her on on two fronts? No. Not only did you come on suggestively but you gave her the idea you could help her on her job. One word for this sleaze manauver. ETHICS which you seem to lack.

Basically you have pretty much cheated in your heart. If you really love your wife you would not even be checking your game. If you think you do love your wife, yet you still ask why your married and check your game, you my friend have serious issues that your ignoring and need to look at.

You have taken the its ok to look but not touch explanation to a whole new level of extrapolation and rationalized it. Albeit on the ethically challenged side at that.

[Dirty Habit]

When I saw your name, I thought this was going to be another thread about homosexual super hero's.

Sadly after reading a few lines, I think the homosexual super heros would have been more enjoyable.

[Unholy S14]

Wow, first you tell us about how you made a guy look bad and then almost cheated on your wife. When someone calls you on it, you make a statement of making sure you still have game and being able to make the play, as long as you don't make completion.
Now I am sitting here thinking damn, this guy thinks its alright because he has not actually done the act but has lead someone to believe he would. You ever stop to think about the other person? You ever stop to think if one of your wifes friends saw this little interaction in its entirety what it would look like? Is it even fair to that girl to say what you said leading her on on two fronts? No. Not only did you come on suggestively but you gave her the idea you could help her on her job. One word for this sleaze manauver. ETHICS which you seem to lack.
Basically you have pretty much cheated in your heart. If you really love your wife you would not even be checking your game. If you think you do love your wife, yet you still ask why your married and check your game, you my friend have serious issues that your ignoring and need to look at.

You have taken the its ok to look but not touch explanation to a whole new level of extrapolation and rationalized it. Albeit on the ethically challenged side at that.


x3545365465477 i dont get how you can be proud of this.

[ALTRNTV]

Why do you even need to check your game? *NEWSFLASH* You lost your game the day you got married.

[azndoc]

Why do you even need to check your game? *NEWSFLASH* You lost your game the day you got married.

ROFL

Now I'm just waiting for Logan to post up a funny The Game photochopped pic.

Seriously OP your married. I don't think you would take kindly if your wife did the same shit to you. There's no more thinking of just yourself when you get married. There's no more "I", there's only "we" and "us."

I hope this is a lesson learned for ya.

I hight doubt it though.

[Z_Spool]

seriously, if you guys don't relate to this, you're obviously not married/in a committed relationship.
Reasons to do what he did:
a)See if you've still got game enough to get a "banging little 5' 2" Latin hotness." (Married folks need to reassure themselves that they're still desirable from time to time)
b)Make a fool of others who fail.
c)Getting numbers doesn't mean anything but an ego boost as long as they get destroyed (not just tossed where some stranger can harass the person) rather than used.


This goes for both men and women. I've actually caught my fiancee doing it before, and it doesn't bother me because I know, 1. I do it too, and 2. it means nothing since she's choosing to marry me. Just cause you've settled down doesn't mean you can't get some 'exercise' every now and again. As long as the intention is simply to see if you've still got it, there's no harm. If you think otherwise I think lay off the Benny Hinn for a while.

[Unholy S14]

Doesnt bother you because you do it as well ????

hahah i can tell your marriage will last a long time.

[drift freaq]

seriously, if you guys don't relate to this, you're obviously not married/in a committed relationship.
Reasons to do what he did:
a)See if you've still got game enough to get a "banging little 5' 2" Latin hotness." (Married folks need to reassure themselves that they're still desirable from time to time)
b)Make a fool of others who fail.
c)Getting numbers doesn't mean anything but an ego boost as long as they get destroyed (not just tossed where some stranger can harass the person) rather than used.


This goes for both men and women. I've actually caught my fiancee doing it before, and it doesn't bother me because I know, 1. I do it too, and 2. it means nothing since she's choosing to marry me. Just cause you've settled down doesn't mean you can't get some 'exercise' every now and again. As long as the intention is simply to see if you've still got it, there's no harm. If you think otherwise I think lay off the Benny Hinn for a while.

LOL, never had relationships, tell that to the girls that propose to me!. I have been in love and know exactly what's about real love and commitment are about. Do you?.
Ok if you want to have a marriage were the possibility of cheating is closer to to fact more than fiction go right ahead. Dare I say a lack of maturity on both you and your fiance's part? Nothing condones lack of ethics on either side of the fence.
Now you can go right ahead and have a open marriage with swinging but what you and your girl are doing is what eventually leads down the road to suspicion and distrust. Trust me I have seen the kind of shit your engaging in first hand. You will lose.

[azndoc]

WTF?

No no sweetie technically I didn't cheat on you.

I used a condom, so there was no ACTUAL skin to skin contact.

So it's okay.

[CylonFrakker]

Good luck being infallible

[Unholy S14]

your eyes didnt just wonder lol.

[ALTRNTV]

Drift Freaq I guess you never looked at a girl and thought damn she is fine.That is completely different than actually going up to her and "spitting game." You and I and everyone else on here know that difference.

[drift freaq]

^^^ditto. Get married and see how it is. I was not cheating i was just having fun. I don't plan on cheating never have and never will. Damn didn't think some of you were so perfect that your eyes have never wandered. Seems to me some of you are angels. Well I guess i am just human. Drift Freaq I guess you never looked at a girl and thought damn she is fine. Nobody is perfect but i guess you are, good luck on being infallible.

LOL, there is a difference between looking at a girl noticing how fine she is and actually hitting on her and leading her on. Which the latter is exactly what you did. Now your just trying to find a way to rationalize your inappropiate behavior into excusable behavior. Its not.

I am not perfect, but I try to be ethical and honest. Relationships are built and maintained on trust. You broke your wife's trust in you by what you did.
You may not think you did because you did not do anything beyond being a sleazebag though the fact is if she found out she would be hurt. If she would not be hurt she either loves you more than you deserve or does not love you at all.

P.S. Sarcasm seems to be lost on you. AznDocs post was Sarcastic! :rofl:

[ixfxi]

my wife doesn't get on my zilvia account.

dont worry about your wife getting on zilvia

worry about old_s13, getting on your wife

[ALTRNTV]

Supraflame, bring your wife around me. We'll see how far I go into spitting my game into her and we'll see if it's harmless.

[azndoc]

Yeah we don't have "officially married" under our screenname

Then go on a forum to post a thread about getting a chick's number. Oh and to make some other guy look bad. Then say you were just testing to see if you still had your game.

We're not all angels I'm sure, but I can say for myself that I have never ever cheated on any of my girlfriends. Yeah the opportunities were there, but I have enough respect for the person that I'm with not to do something so disrespectful. Especially to your wife dude. You signed on the dotted line and you took your vows and swore to be with each other for the rest of your lives. That doesn't mean that you get to "test to see if you still have it." You shouldn't have to do that if your fully happy with the person that you've married.

So instead of replying back and saying that we're all just bashing on you for no reason, take a step back and realize that your the one in the wrong for posting this shit up in the first place.

GL

[CylonFrakker]

Too bad so sad.

[ALTRNTV]

Actually, you're the dumbass in this situation. Hold on, I'm gonna go post a thread on NICO about how I owned you.

[Farzam]

What I would have said was "I clearly saw this female feeling trapped in an uncomfortable conversation, and I feared it escalading. I stepped in and acted as if I was interested in a partnership to a) protect her b) intimidate the male in order to steer him away from the girl who was clearly nauseated by his tackiness. Once contact information was exchanged, I walked out and immediately threw it away."

[rainier]

you're gonna get owned when your wife finds this thread.

[Baka Sama]

Zilvia has strange morals indeed! Seriously I was reading the OP and wondering which way it would go. Would he get flamed for trying to be cool or praised for getting the number. Zilvia is crazy like that, I never thought he would be flamed for semi cheating on his wife hahaha. :wackit:

If I were in your shoes and been married I probably would have just ended it at gawking at her ass. Maybe snapping a picture of it on my cell phone to show the guys or post on zilvia!

[wrapmeup2005]

If you got married and actually realize that you are in it for the long haul then maybe you would figure that you don't need game anymore. Your wife is going to be your partner till death do you part, to me thats like 'job security.' I don't think its too much different being married but in any type of relationship status I don't think thats okay to do... maybe you've never been cheated on to know the feeling but if your wife knew she would be feeling pretty shitty right now. Its not how far you went, its the fact that you did it! And to boast about crushing some dudes chances, thats just rude man.

[WilloW]

you're gonna get owned when your wife finds this thread.
Yup, you're going to sleep on the couch for a while.

[ThatGuy]

My wife and I have been together 10 years now. I think that qualifies me to say...

SupraFlame, if you think you've done nothing wrong, you're a piece of shit. Anyone standing up to defend your actions, is a piece of shit.

If I could remove someone's Premium Membership and ban them, strictly based on Ethics, you'd be gone already.

Grow up.

[A Spec Products]

Granted you didnt "do" anything

But still, it disappoints me that there is very little loyalty these days in relationships, and divorce rates are something at like 50%?

I mean yeah if you stare at a chick's booty thats harmless (we all do that, its natural), or if you look at porn, same thing, but if you get a girl's number, even in fun or not, just the principal of it to me is wrong

Granted its a bit overreacting, but if that was your girl getting some dude's digits you'd be on a rampage, so think of her feelings next time

Guys will always be like OHH DUDE YOU SHOULDVE HIT THAT but in reality staying true to whoever you're with (whether bitch made or not) is more critical if the person is important to you

[Matej]

There are many married guys who love their wives and are devoted to them, yet when they see a pretty woman it's natural to look, marriage doesn't make you go blind, and they think, "hey, that's a pretty woman, but I love my wife and to me she's the most amazing person ever," and then there are married men who don't love their wives and don't deserve them, in which case they should consider divorce. Same goes the other way for women. I don't know which category you fall into, and I don't really care, but this is just something that you don't talk about on the internet, like streetracing.

[SimpleS14]

To the OP....I had a good laugh, but you shouldn't have posted this thread...

[mrmephistopheles]

dont worry about your wife getting on zilvia

worry about old_s13, getting on your wife

Better watch out, Mike. I'll call your wife and rat you out!

But still, it disappoints me that there is very little loyalty these days in relationships, and divorce rates are something at like 50%?
I mean yeah if you stare at a chick's booty thats harmless (we all do that, its natural), or if you look at porn, same thing, but if you get a girl's number, even in fun or not, just the principal of it to me is wrong

This sort of behavior isn't conducive to a long-lasting relationship.

In other words, if you're married and you want to stay that way, ACT LIKE IT.
What you're doing is the emotional equivalent of waving around a loaded gun. Everybody who isn't you will think that you're trying to get some ass on the side. Regardless of your intentions, the appearance of your behavior will lead others to believe the worst-case scenario. If you're on the other side of the fence, you'd have no reason to believe otherwise.

[illvialuver]

Did I miss something?

What did he reply back with?

Why are you getting a girl's phone number if your Married?

Why are you bragging about it on the internet?

What is the point of all this? Proving your an asshole? You could've done that alot easier.

exxaaaactttllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
:duh:

[ayuaddict]

that was some weak shit.

cant believe somebody would jeopardize their wife's trust for 5 minutes of fun and possibly a bit of satisfaction at a coffee shop. actually, if this little incident gave you any satisfaction, and it apparently did as you posted a thread about it on an internet forum, do your wife a favor and divorce her, you have have no right to be married to her or any woman for that matter.

i hope you made this all up in an effort to look cool on the internet, and that you are not actually married.

[WERDdabuilder]

dirt bag.

kasjdas

[CylonFrakker]

fixed this post tooo.

[CylonFrakker]

hmmmm........

[DRavenS13]

I've been married, and the guy I used to be married to is a total douchebag. Nonetheless, I never did that whole flirting thing, no matter how much I wanted to, because if you're willing to push that far on one point, what's to say you won't push a little further the next time the opportunity comes along? When you're truly happy and committed to the person you're with, you don't need to "flex your muscles" or whatever because you don't need to anymore. You found who truly makes you happy, and you made a very serious commitment to her to "forsake all others" and to honor and obey her.

Let me call your wife and invite her out to a club full of sharks and let her flirt with guys, and carry on and get numbers, and see how secure you feel when she gets home with a bunch of new numbers on her cell phone.

[s13silvia03]

i typed it really fast sorry. I had to go to a meeting. So this guy was trying to clamp down on this chick and he was one of those OCD type of guys. i just made him look like a fool. I was just making sure i still got my game. I am never gonna cheat on the wifey. She does things to me that i never thought possible. I threw away her number so it was just one of those opportunities that had to be taken advantage of. I can get my appetite anywhere i want as long as I eat at home.

Somehow that makes it hard to believe you did it because she felt uncomfortable. Sure, you didn't cheat, but like most everyone else has stated, what you did was, when it comes down to it, wrong...You're a married man, don't worry about your "game", worry about staying a good husband. Go ahead and look, just because you're married doesn't mean you won't be attracted to the opposite sex anymore, but as long as you're married, thats all you should do is look, not go and try to get numbers to make you feel good...


My $.02

[CylonFrakker]

Interesting......

[ayuaddict]

you put "teaching that guy a lesson" ahead of your wifes trust.

my $0.02.

[drift freaq]

No comment to this. Some of you read into things way too deep than they actually are. This place is extremely fickle. (shakes head). Did i cheat? NO. Did i pursue it any further? NO. Why did i do it? To make OCD guy look stupid and to show him that you don't crowd a girl you like. No point crying over spilled milk.

Oh really? Now we called you on your shit and your trying to change the angle of your story. You clearly stated things in a way that was sleazy and lecherous for a married man. Did you physically cheat? No. Did you cheat in matters of the heart? Yes. You try to hide behind saying all you were trying to do is cock block.
I called it earlier and say it again. Immature! You can lie to us all you want your only really lieing to yourself and you need to look at that closely.

Now you go and post a thread like this on the internet and expect it not to offend and draw comments? Are you really that dense as to not expect people to comment on what appears to be immoral and terrible behavior based on your initial post?

Interesting how you can't take the criticism of your actions. Yet you claim to have done them to protect the girl from other actions you found offensive.
Pot calling the kettle black? I would say judge not lest ye be judged.

P.S. cut the excuse bullshit of trying to cover your ass, you are fucked up,now man up and own it.

[usdm180sx]

Oh I get it...sort of like teasing a chained pit bull. You know it's chained but you're still willing to take stupid chances.

I'm married as well but I'm sure glad that I don't feel the need to take such risks. I also make sure women see my wedding band. I feel weird talking to a female if I don't floss it.

[DRavenS13]

reminds me of what i heard in a movie.... tell me if you've heard this one....

Look, but don't touch.
Touch, but don't taste.
Taste, but don't swallow.

Those were the words from the Devil.

BTW, the fact that you're proud of what you did makes me feel sorry for your wife. I hope she has a good job and has the money to pay for your inevitable divorce.

[CylonFrakker]

Go drift into a wall.

[drift freaq]

i admit to it. Whooptie fucking doo! My intentions were to make the guy look like a jackass. Not to get laid. So tell an amusing story and you people read into it like some psycho babble bullshit. I never crossed any bounds I approached her in a busines manner asking her which segment she works in. Wow i jsut asked her where she works. Oh my god i just committed a sin!!!! Now didn't i tell the OCD guy, "thats how you do it" I was making a point to him for giving me the "what the hell are you looking at look" Now all the little zilvian gang around the OP and lynch him. Yay for the lynch mob. Fuck this is a waste of time. Oh and BTW my wife finds this extremely funny and thinks that there are some people on the internet that really need to just take something as it is, a fucking amusing story. Go drift in a wall.

LOL, now that your owned for your own stupidity all you can is call us names and tells to have accidents. hahahhahahahhahaha
If your wife finds this funny then ya you guys are made for each other two cheats at heart. GL with your marriage and remember you both need to grow up. When you do you will probably wind up getting divorced . Have a nice life and don't waste our time with your idiotic presence here anymore.

[usdm180sx]

So i get in line about 3 people behind her and just can't stop staring at that backside. I was like damn why am i married?!?!?

Damn, your wife didn't get pissed when she read this?

I just started coughing pretending i was choking on something. She turns and looks at me as I am coughing and winks. She looks at me and smiles and I look at her and ask her what her name is, she tells me Melissa.

So you did that to catch her attention and used "cock blocking" as an excuse.

I shake her hand and slip my card to and I ask her which segment she works in. She tells me consumer, I tell her email me and let’s talk about career pathing. She smiles and takes the card and writes her number on it and says call me and we can talk.

Career pathing huh? That's a new one.

[mrmephistopheles]

Way to be butthurt. If you don't like having the bullshit flag raised on you, don't post bullshit.


edit: aww you deleted your post...