OT: jus alot of drama for me

[One-Eighty SX]

Well last week on a wednesday i took him to the hospital cuz his skin was turning yellow like bright yellow. when i got their they said it was yellow jaundice which is from liver damage. He was in CCU for the time until yesterday he was moved to VMCH for a liver transplant. Cuz most of his liver is diseased; Lasnite the surgeons called me asked for my concent to remove the muscle and a possible amputation as well. I was hoping lastnite while sleeping it would gone good. But his leg is now gone from the knee. I'm pretty strong bout this but i feel bad right now cuz im not even sure if he is gonna live anymore.... <img src="http://www.zilvia.net/f/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'> . MY mom doesnt work she is a kidney dialysis patient so she only bring like 500 from SSC checks. ahhhh im like sorta depressed and shiet cuz i noe we gonna sell the house that i been living in for 14 years now.... I hope he comes out alive; also i should mention he is only 55 years old!! Now his mom(my grandma) and his brother(my uncle) is coming up friday to be wid him in his last days of survival which i hope he comes back... Sorrie i am venting out my sadness to ya'll but i have nothing on my mind but my dad coming back home.... <img src="http://www.zilvia.net/f/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'> &nbsp;http://publish.hometown.aol.com/ubettarecognize5/images/zilviasig2.jpg

[Annoying Eric]

Yo man, im really sorry to hear that stuff, i hope everything turns out ok for your father and your whole family...Just stay strong, don't think negative thoughts, like you were....Once again, im sorry and i hope everything turns out good.

[One-Eighty SX]

well, im not that depress justed worried bout his outcome. Also the cause of all of this was a brown recluse spider bit that spreaded into a unhealed wound that jus keeps eating the flesh away so. If u get bit and it starts to itch and sores start to spread out take it to the hospital fast. Cuz this is what happened to my dad and now one leg is gone but the other might be saved.

[kanekz]

Sorry to hear the bad news. &nbsp;I hope everything works out for you.

[SR20Fastback]

damn James Im sorry to hear that. I just found out today my grandma has about a week to live too. This has definately been the hardest time of my life so far (a whopping 17 1/2 years). I've lived almost all my life with this woman. Shes always taken care of me when my mom was at work, and shes treated me better than any of her kids. Shes always been there when I needed school clothes or food, and has never turned her back on me, but all of a sudden... shes just dieing, and I still havent figured out what Im supposed to be doing. Everyone (mom) tries to talk about it, but its like go away, it just doesnt seem like something to be talked about, or at leats in my oppinion... Well I better get back outta here, just thought Id come to my room for a quick break. Hope you and your dad both feel better dude, IM me later if you want.

peace

[Loren]

it seems to me if someone felt they had to reach out to a group of people on the internet about their hard times, they wouldn't want everyone to post every problem in their lives too to undermine theirs... i could post stuff that wasn't good in my life, but thats not the point of this thread, its to try and offer advice (usually generic), and condolensences to the person in need. and heres my generic advice: life goes on

[One-Eighty SX]

YO LOREN STFU!!! I hardly ever post my problems bout my life in this forum and it is what this for question bout 240sx and technical stuff. Let it happen to ur dad and see what the fawk happens too u and see how u feel bout almost losin someone who has been there for u most of ur life. IF U HAVE NOTHING TO SAY NICE AT ALL ROT IN hell!!! Yea life does go on but ur one sick mofo to post something like that. I am not in need it jus something i feel like fawken ventin out to get if off my damn chest. But to fully understand something like that u would have to take a walk in someone shoes for a day. IF u got a problem dont say shiet no more. I got nothing more to say to asshole like you.. oh yea thanks allan least u noe how it feels unlike some cock suckin freak dont

[DMCS14]

i understand

[SR20Fastback]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (One-Eighty SX @ Aug. 28 2002,3:55)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">YO LOREN STFU!!! I hardly ever post my problems bout my life in this forum and it is what this for question bout 240sx and technical stuff. Let it happen to ur dad and see what the fawk happens too u and see how u feel bout almost losin someone who has been there for u most of ur life. IF U HAVE NOTHING TO SAY NICE AT ALL ROT IN hell!!! Yea life does go on but ur one sick mofo to post something like that. I am not in need it jus something i feel like fawken ventin out to get if off my damn chest. But to fully understand something like that u would have to take a walk in someone shoes for a day. IF u got a problem dont say shiet no more. I got nothing more to say to asshole like you.. oh yea thanks allan least u noe how it feels unlike some cock suckin freak dont</td></tr></table><span id='postcolor'>
Im not going to try to start a flamewar or anything, but Loren... you should at least try to be a little more understanding for someone who is in emotional distress. James is a really cool guy, and I feel his pain. Im sure you would have a different view of things if something like this happened to someone in your family that you're really close to. Well Im not going to get as mad, because its not gonna help me any, but just for future refrence... you dont have to make a joke or say something smartass at every post. Some things should be taken more seriously than other, and this happens to be one of them.

[Alias]

Best of luck to you and your family. I remeber when my grandfather died of cancer. It was a long long ordeal. Then one day he died. In a way we were relieved, but after 2 years it still makes me cry. My father is the closest person to me. I couldn't imagine what it would be like to lose him.

[BEISSEN]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">it seems to me if someone felt they had to reach out to a group of people on the internet about their hard times, they wouldn't want everyone to post every problem in their lives too to undermine theirs... i could post stuff that wasn't good in my life, but thats not the point of this thread, its to try and offer advice (usually generic), and condolensences to the person in need. and heres my generic advice: life goes on
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&nbsp;Hey loren shut the hell up ok this is a chat section designated to let people share what they feel &nbsp;or want to knowok.Yeah life will go on but when someone is worried or hurting sometimes it is best to vent out somewhere other then the area where everything is at.if you feel he wasted a space here well then just don't reply.I have had problems before and the guys/girls here have helped me out.If you want to be a hard ass well be one but don't drag others with you with your selfish comments.

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">Well last week on a wednesday i took him to the hospital cuz his skin was turning yellow like bright yellow. when i got their they said it was yellow jaundice which is from liver damage. He was in CCU for the time until yesterday he was moved to VMCH for a liver transplant. Cuz most of his liver is diseased; Lasnite the surgeons called me asked for my concent to remove the muscle and a possible amputation as well. I was hoping lastnite while sleeping it would gone good. But his leg is now gone from the knee. I'm pretty strong bout this but i feel bad right now cuz im not even sure if he is gonna live anymore.... &nbsp;. MY mom doesnt work she is a kidney dialysis patient so she only bring like 500 from SSC checks. ahhhh im like sorta depressed and shiet cuz i noe we gonna sell the house that i been living in for 14 years now.... I hope he comes out alive; also i should mention he is only 55 years old!! Now his mom(my grandma) and his brother(my uncle) is coming up friday to be wid him in his last days of survival which i hope he comes back... Sorrie i am venting out my sadness to ya'll but i have nothing on my mind but my dad coming back home.... </td></tr></table><span id='postcolor'> &nbsp;
Hey One Eighty Sx sorry to hear the bad news hope thing work out for ya.If you need to talk im me man ok.

[aqwkmf]

sorry to hear one-eighty. dont let it bring you down to no return. sometimes we have to accept these things. its part of life.

loren, ur an assclown.:angry: &nbsp;if it were u it would be differnent. just hope ur never become in his position.

[S13Grl]

</span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote (Loren @ Aug. 29 2002,4:40)</td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE">it seems to me if someone felt they had to reach out to a group of people on the internet about their hard times, they wouldn't want everyone to post every problem in their lives too to undermine theirs... i could post stuff that wasn't good in my life, but thats not the point of this thread, its to try and offer advice (usually generic), and condolensences to the person in need. and heres my generic advice: life goes on</td></tr></table><span id='postcolor'>
How fucking nice.

[BEISSEN]

Whooo hooo the moderator is with us.Loren show some sympothy"sp" for peps here this is not just a car chat but a place to talk and have some fun as well.

[One-Eighty SX]

wow, im shocked myself &nbsp; <img src="http://www.zilvia.net/f/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':0'>

[KiDyNomiTe]

***sympathy***

Sorry to hear about your dad, hope everything turns out ok. Like everyone else said, try not to be too down.

And Loren, in most situations you can talk shit to and it won't matter that much, but in a situation liek this, if you don't have anything nice to say then avoid it. I mean I agree with you when you say don't share EVERY &nbsp;problem you have, but sometimes it is nice to vent, and this board is a good place to do it in. I mean if I have a cold I am not going to be on here saying how many tissues are sitting next tomy comp with snot on em <img src="http://www.zilvia.net/f/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/crazy.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':crazy:'> .


On a lighter not, for the sig I gave you u can put the IMG tag in your sig section under the profile section (in the control panel), then it will stay there automatically.

[Titan]

I am terribly sorry to hear the news about your father. All I can do is offer my condolences and hope that the situation turns out as best as possible. I cannot say I understand how you feel fully, but I can relate somewhat as my uncle (also in his 50's) passed away in March. I won't lie and say it gets any easier, but venting does ease the pressure.

Zilvia is home to many sympathetic and kind people who can aid you in feeling yourself once again... I wish I had been a member in March. One last thing, don't allow the nonsense of other people's opinions to anger you. If you feel like venting, vent. If you feel like crying, cry. Just do what feels right and we shall be here to support you as best as we can.

[One-Eighty SX]

Thanks everyone for least giving some kind thoughts. I do hope he makes it out but like i said he is in really bad shape and to add on to that he doesnt know his leg has been amputated either <img src="http://www.zilvia.net/f/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/eh.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':eh:'> . But like Kid said i dont vent most of my problems on here jus ones that really make me feel like i should. I could vent bout how my gf treats me but she treats me good so i dont worry bout that. I think that loren is a pretty harsh person and i never see him post like the most of us. But anways i am droppin it all together.

[240 2NR]

In Loren's defence, I don't think he was critisizing the original post but subsequent posts that also made claim to touble in their lives and was only saying that if someone came here to vent, that they probably didn't want to hear everyone else try to match their sorrow. &nbsp;

One-Eighty SX- &nbsp;It's a tough break and my sympathy goes out to your and your father. &nbsp;In the end everything works out for a reason even if it isn't clear at the time. &nbsp;But it never makes it easier to deal with at the time.

[One-Eighty SX]

Its not that if he had something shitty to say he should kepted it to his damn self. I see alot of ppl venting their problems like BEISSEN bout his mom choosing her shiety ass no educated bf over flesh and blood. U all helped him even i did as well. But the point was well made by other members how he acted towards someone who is in pain(which is me). I only post if i got some questions to ask or something else if i see something that doesnt appeal to me or if i dunno some facts bout it i dont post. Jus plain and simple... Some of the guys on here noe me and some dont like loren so he doesnt know the shiet i am going thru or even how i feel. Ever since he went into hospital i held myself emotionally strong til yesterday and WHAT. Most ppl would of broken down and cried like little babies. Enough of this jibber jaw jabbering bout my dad. I am say this if someone has something smartass to say keep it to urself for ur own sake that is all i ask of. so peace

[BEISSEN]

Well their is no defense imho for loren cus what was said was not what you are trying to make imo.There are going to be topics and post whre someone fells bad is something wrong is going on and ned some outside emotional support or just some simple guidence"sp".Some topics are going to be related to cars some are not each person has a right to vent or share what they please and would like.

[AutoDestruct]

Loren be Evil.
Truly in sympathy.