View Full Version : I just need some kind words right now..
Wahl 136
05-31-2007, 02:22 PM
I'm very anti personal matters and advise online as far as that goes. But my cousin just called me and told my my uncle committed suicide today. I'm all alone and none of my family is around to talk to and I'm just freakin out.
All the religious folks say a prayer for me and any encouraging words of advise would be appeciated.
mRclARK1
05-31-2007, 02:29 PM
I'm sorry to hear that. That's tough.
I've lost people I've been close to that way. You just have to remember that you didn't do anything wrong, it's in NO WAY your fault. You say you're all alone right now. It would probably be a good idea to find someone, a friend who is nearby etc... and just hang out to keep your mind occupied right now. Just sitting alone, and thinking about it, will only make things harder.
My condolences, and I'll remember to say a prayer for you. :bow:
TheSquidd
05-31-2007, 02:30 PM
o_o
I think you need to get off the computer, go out side, go visit all your friends and just really appreciate life right now. Be happy you have never suffered such a weakness, and be happy you still get to see tomorrow. Nothing else helps.
Well... booze, but I don't recommend that either.
I'd pray for you but I'm agnostic, who the hell do I pray to?
But, I do hope you see through this without much suffering. Can't even imagine what that shits like.
tacotacotaco
05-31-2007, 02:30 PM
Damn my condolences.... Take this event and use it to make yourself stronger and better.
MURPHY
05-31-2007, 02:31 PM
^agreed. call someone go find something to keep your mind from constant sad thoughts.
i know its hard having someone close take their own life
TOMKAIRA93
05-31-2007, 02:32 PM
All I can say dude, is hang in there and sorry to hear about your uncle. Although this is tragic, it will only make you stronger in the long run. Again, very sorry man.
God bless you and your family during this tragice moment and always.
Peace!
89dc240
05-31-2007, 02:38 PM
: prayer said:
Don't drink. Especially not alone. Sorry to hear about that man. My advice is to take the car out for a little enthusiastic romping.
deadpirate
05-31-2007, 03:03 PM
damn bro. im terribly sorry for this tragic loss. i agree with everyone else. dont drink right now. go outside. be with friends. and enjoy life knowing that you are strong
s13poop
05-31-2007, 03:06 PM
I'm sorry to hear the news about your uncle
im sure he is in a better place where he will feel no more pain..
i suggest you go outside and find someone close to talk to, clear your mind of the negativity
my prayers go to you and your family my fellow zilvian
be well.. :bow:
azndoc
05-31-2007, 04:45 PM
Damn dude sucks to hear.
When situations like that happens it really affects the friends and families alot because their wondering what went wrong and how they could've changed the situation. But there's nothing you can do except to grieve and move on.
Hope you'll feel better.
C. Senor
05-31-2007, 05:43 PM
very sorry to hear that. but like everyone has said so far. call some friends, even a pet or someone you can talk to face to face. remember that all life is to celebrated, even when that life is no longer here on earth. there will be another prayer said for you and your family tonight.
ImporteXBUILT
05-31-2007, 06:51 PM
Hey bro, I lost a family member recently too, so I kinda know what you're going through. It's tough and believe me it's not easy to get over. All you're gonna have the option to do is go on with your life and make it the best that you can. If it doesn't kill you, it will only make you stronger. God bless and I hope you feel better soon.
EvilRB
05-31-2007, 06:58 PM
Damn man, Sorry to hear about your loss. Been there myself, so get outside, don't drink and visit friends. Take care of yourself.
koukikat180sx
05-31-2007, 07:56 PM
Sorry to hear. Find someone to talk to so you can keep your mind off of things. Be strong and take care!
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
xblack240x
05-31-2007, 07:59 PM
My condolences. I can't pray for you (agnostic) but you are in my head and I hope you can move forward from this sooner rather than later.
Dorifto89
05-31-2007, 08:12 PM
deep breaths my friend. slow deeep breaths.
Zetto*
05-31-2007, 08:57 PM
Do anything to keep your mind off of it man. I've been through tough times but nothing like this. Best of luck mate.
Wahl 136
05-31-2007, 09:04 PM
Hey fella's I just stopped in long enough to say thank you to all of you who were kind enough to post some encouraging words when I was all alone. I just got back from spending some quality time with my close family and we are all taking things in stride. As I'm sure most family members say this caught us all of gaurd and nobody had any indication or clues that he was having problems with depression or suicidial thoughts.
That being said I am going to go spend time with my family again and return to Zilvia a bit more resilient, stronger, and maybe even a little wiser about the things we all seem to take advantage of in life.
Thank you again for no flames and all the condolences and prayers. You are all very kind people. God Bless you.
(forgive my spelling and grammatical errors for this post.)
bamaboy
05-31-2007, 09:13 PM
i will pray for you and your family
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