Girlfriends...*sigh*

[Ninjabread]

Ok so this is my 1'o clock rant for the night. 2 months ago, I started dating this girl named Jessica (her last name i wont put on here simply for privacy reasons, but no joke, its close to simpson). Everything seemed to be going like a fairytale. We get along perfectly, i love her personality and we always want to be together. I meet her friends and they are cool. Few weeks later she wants me to meet her familly so I go to her house and it turns out her dad and her mom are super chill. Perfect, I'm crazy in love with her and her dad even likes me so thats a good sign. 2 months go by and she writes me this email bitching about how I didnt call her in 3 days and how she ws waiting for me. I get back to her and tell her that im sorry and that I was busy with work. She writes back saying that it's all her and that she's sorry. Guess what she tells me next....

"Matt, I cant keep this relationship going because I dont feel for you the way I did originally, and theres something else I cant tell you..." WTF!!!! Ok, so later on I ask her if she's been cheating on me. Response: hells no. Then i figure out what it is. She has been crushing on this Justin dude who goes to her school and she has been friends with on and off. He get's in trouble with the cops, has a curfew, community hours to do and on top of that, he treats her like crap and makes up to her. So basically this dude messes with her emotions, and on top of that, he told her that he would wait until we break up to make his move on her... And she likes this guy...*sigh*

Point in case, I really like this girl, and im trying to stay friends with her in hope that one day she might come around ( but i'm NOT waiting for her). What should i do, tell her to get her shit together and make some decisions or should i just leave her alone and give her some space?!

Thanks for any opinion guys, and sorry for the long post, i dont feel like making cliff's notes.

Cheers

-Matt-

Pics of my love...
This is her, like 2 weeks after we meet each other... she was brave enough to come and meet my familly for my 17th bday haha...
http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h160/Mathieu1989/DSC01251.jpg

And jess with her crazy friends, mel and briget
http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h160/Mathieu1989/x1pbglk-vqL4BvehaQHPfBRDt_F_Vvm1B9H.jpg

[95zilvia]

You didn't fulfil her inner desire.

[srblacks13]

Girls are messed up. tell her to make up her mind and quit playin ya. treat em like dirt and they'll stick like mud. just a funy qoute ive heard before. good luck

[Ninjabread]

thanks guys

GAYASS MSG LENGHTDONT NEED THIS RIGHT NOW FUCK lol

[downshift_sideways]

damn dude sorry to hear about that shit.

My advice:
Put your gaurd back up.
She fucked up ,and its very hard to forgive someone who fucks u over.
You never know how much you love someone until they are gone.
Her loss man, not yours at all.
Bone her other 2 friends in that pic lols!

[Ninjabread]

Haha actually, her sister is pretty hot, but she's only 13.... to bad for mattey he dont do girls that are underage (not legal until 14 hehe). I never said this!!!! lol the only reason i say this is cos i got a nice look at her ass one day when she was playing soccer and she fell... needless to say her shorts went up and i got a nice view... This is after me and jess broke up though! i was just going to see her as a "friend"

[SiI40sx]

quoting my girlfriend, "dump her" not only that "he's too cute for her" and yea honestly it looks like u can do better, dont trip just leave her u can honestly do way better and i bet u u will and this jessica chick will regret losing u in the future! get ur zilvian pimp on!!

[95zilvia]

high school, such drama

[s14slide]

I say quit whining like a little girl and get over it. Your a year off from college and you'll never look back. Really, you'll get to college and high school and all the little puppy loves that went with it will be forgotten. Get over it.

[Daniel.]

to be very candid with you, if she really wanted to be with you then she would be with you.

just stop seeing her. You don't have to be an ass about it, just be honest and tell her that you like her and that you want to be with her; but if she can't decide on who she wants, then you arn't the one with the problem. She needs to make up her mind.

If she chooses him over you, so what? Move on, there are plenty of other girls out there.

EDIT: I just read the part where you just turned 17. Jesus, you're not even out of highschool yet. You have sooooooooo much more out there. Trust me. Do you really want to be in a relationship right before college? be single for the first few years of college you wont regret it.

[Ninjabread]

haha 95 ur funny, love ur car BTW and thanks SiI40sx...Im just having a hard time getting over her because what we had seemed so perfect. But i guess only time will tell.

Hot pic FTW.

http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h160/Mathieu1989/x1pbglk-vqL4BvehaQHPfBRDt_F_Vvm1-1.jpg

FYI this girl has a fucking nice body lol she plays touch football and soccer so she's in shape.

[w0nderbr3ad]

thats how girls are. they want the ones who treat em like crap. if she was more mature then she would wouldn't even bother with that other guy. my advice is do what you gotta do and if push comes to shove there are tons of other hot chicks around. you're still young wait till you hit college. you'll meet even more breezies

[downshift_sideways]

Id beat those.:goyou:

[TK]

you're too young to be stressin over having a girl friend bro.. be a man step up and get over her. there is more poon to be had for everyone

[OdessaS13]

dude, just let her go, what are you like 17? do you realize how many more bitches there will be during senior year/ college. belive me ive been in the same shoes as you 2 times already, my mentality is "whatever happens, happens". You cant change how they think and what they will do next, all you can do is enjoy the time, have fun do crazy shit *not stupid shit (yes theres a difference)*. And ya, my "perfect" grl broke it off with me a month or 2 ago, i really didnt give a shit even though i knew something coud've came out off the relationship, why? because life is too short to worry about that shit. Remember relationships are 50/50 so if she not showing you the same respect youre showing her shes not worth the time. anyways cheer up and go have a heiniken (sp :ugh: )
latez

edit: just looked at picture ...you can do better *caugh caugh*...way better

[Ninjabread]

poon? wtv im just mad cos she never gave me any lol! no but ona a serious note, i think ive come to the decision that ill stop talking to her and if she reallly wants this, then she will be the one to call me and beg me, then i will decide.

[downshift_sideways]

Mike was this he girl that was always taking up all your time, so you never came down and kicked it with me? huh!?!?!?! :rant:

[Daniel.]

poon? wtv im just mad cos she never gave me any lol! no but ona a serious note, i think ive come to the decision that ill stop talking to her and if she reallly wants this, then she will be the one to call me and beg me, then i will decide.

if she never gave you any then screw it, go find another girl. :p

also, don't be a punk and get cocky thinking that she is going to beg. then you really wont be able to have a relationship with her even if you wanted one.

[downshift_sideways]

dont be lustful now matt.

Orgy with the 3 breezies!!!

[Brian]

Yeah dude, just don't even bother with it.
She did something messed up, so let her live with that.
Just wait for soemthign better.

[wickdmarz]

Dude you're 17 enough said...plently of fish in the sea. If she plays games this early in a relationship when it's wonderful, exciting and new then she's not gonna last. Just relax and don't stress out over it you're too young.

-Advice from a chicka

[Ninjabread]

Haha well, I know on your nice little forums it's 11pm, but up here in the great ol' north its about 2 am, so mattey's gonna get some sleep for work tomorow...thanks guys i appreciate this

G'night

-Matt-

*EDIT* nvm about the time thing my PC clock is just messed, and nice to see some girls on here :) thanks

[OdessaS13]

Mike was this he girl that was always taking up all your time, so you never came down and kicked it with me? huh!?!?!?!

hmmm...let me see, getting some or going to chill with anthony...damn...hard decision :naughty: ...jkjk hahha maa bad, she wanted to go but i was so not in the mood to drive that far and then pay bridge toll :fawkd: lol btw my fuel pump was bad one of those meets, latez

[mRclARK1]

You're 17...you got alot of growing up to do and so does she. Sorry it didn't work out for ya...but you're still young. Like everyone else said; there are plenty of other girls out there. Besides, if she does something like that; trust me, you're better off without her.

Also, IMHO you're not really in love with somebody after only a couple months. But maybe that's just me? haha.

And we got the same B'day.:wiggle:

[downshift_sideways]

hmmm...let me see, getting some or going to chill with anthony...damn...hard decision :naughty: ...jkjk hahha maa bad, she wanted to go but i was so not in the mood to drive that far and then pay bridge toll :fawkd: lol btw my fuel pump was bad one of those meets, latez

Its okay I still love you.

I remember when we were doing my auto to 5speed manual swap, you always thought me and david were gonna kill you or something hahahahaha

remember remeber??

['90RPS13]

dude, i wouldnt bother or look back. she fucked up. wait til you get out of highschool bro. WAY too much drama and stupid shit like this happem. i wish my car had a gine, she wont talk shit or throw cheap shots. if i take her to a movie, i dont have to buy a ticket, she'll sit outside (just kidding, I aint that cheap). she wont cheat. and best of all when i buy her a GT28RS she will be fucking ecstatic. lol. just messing around for all the ladies. idk though, i have been to Canada and there are some fine women up there. :naughty: just my crazy ass 2:30am response after sanding, painting and intoxication. *a

[kuramaya]

Take it from me a 33 year old. You are TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO young to be in love with only one chick. Use protection and Bone mad bitches. As many as you can man.:2f2f: :2f2f: .

[downshift_sideways]

Take it from me a 33 year old. You are TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO young to be in love with only one chick. Use protection and Bone mad bitches. As many as you can man.:2f2f: :2f2f: .

The best advice ever, someone give this man some green squares!:bigok:

[bardabe]

look I know I am 16 and all but hey I think I got this dead on. or ateast close. shit flmae me if U want but in a away I guess I get kinda serious think alot when I am emo. :-/

:madfawk: "Philosophy on Girls This is not intended to offend anyone. But I think it is a very accurate portrayal. Girls are hypocrites that screw over guys all the time. I say this with complete confidence and certainty. I have had experiences and know of others that have had similar experiences, and let me tell you it is complete bullshit. Read on.

First off, lets go over what most girls think the ideal guy is. The ideal guy is an intelligent, caring and easy to talk to person, who has a good sense of humor and respect for his family. He is good looking, but not necessarily gorgeous, and an honest guy with goals in his life. He is not an excessive smoker or drinker, and never, ever is arrogant or stuck on himself. He is a pleasure to be around. Wow. That sounds perfect. There is no way there is a guy out there that is all of these things, it would be a dream come true. But the fact is, there are so many guys out there that are exactly like this, and even better. They go beyond this list and further hoist themselves up on the Ideal Guy hierarchy ladder. But these are the guys that are the most shit upon by girls. How much sense does that make? Read on.

Girls are hypocrites. They say that their ideal man, and the one they are currently hoping for, should be very much like what was described in the previous paragraph. What is more, they all probably know at least 3 or more guys that are exactly like that. But instead of noticing and entering into a relationship with them, they totally shun these poor guys.

Ok, so maybe I should not say totally shun; its more like damn them to an eternal life of ..1 Friend or ..1 Listener. While these guys would like nothing more than to be boyfriend/girlfriend with these girls, the girls want nothing of that sort. Because they have been labeled as friends, those damn girls dont even consider these guys as boyfriend material, thus their search goes on. They dont realize that the best guy they could ever hope for is so damn close to them. They are ignorant. They get the assholes instead. Why do girls like assholes? Here is what I think. These guys are temporary boyfriends until the girls can find that perfect man. But once they get involved with these assholes, the girl must put in so much work that the search is put offindefinitely. They pour all that they have into their current relationship. Why do they do this? I am glad you asked that, I believe I have the answer. They are embarrassed. These meat headed guys embarrass these girls so much that all they try to do is change the guy, but she forgets about their asshole ways and arrogance. You cannot change a guy. Dont even try. No matter how sweet or persuasive you THINK you are, it will not work. A temporary behavior change may be noted, but a guy is a guy and will not change permanently. Deep down, the only thing you are doing is pissing him off.

These assholes think that they are perfect already. You trying to teach them how to be the perfect guy only goes against everything he already knows is right, so he pushes you away. When he pushes you away, what do you do? You cry to that ..1 Friend of yours. Then you are extra nice to your boyfriend until he allows you to get closer again, and then you start the process over. I dont know how many times I have been cried to by a girl about her asshole boyfriend, and the next day everything is right again and she is happy as can be. You arent happy. It is a front that you put up and everyone can see through it. Do you honestly expect for it to get better? It wont. The cycle will repeat: he will get mad; you will cry; you will try to make up for it; he will let you back; you think you are happyit doesnt end. It should endend with you dumping his sorry ass and moving on to someone you actually can be happy with. But you are too stubborn and confident in your abilities of persuasion to do anything even remotely correct. Meanwhile, the perfect guy (ok maybe not perfect, but a hell of a lot closer than that ass you already have) sits around wondering what he can do to change. But remember what I said before. You cant change a guy.

This goes for guys, too. You cant change yourself. You will always be the person you are, and you shouldnt want to change that. But it is tough when time after time girls pass on you because You are too good of a friend and I wouldnt want to jeopardize that. Bullshit. Nice excuse. Why dont you just say Sorry, you are actually a nice guy. I am looking for an arrogant asshole that will abuse me emotionally. Thats what you really want, isnt it? Look around and tell me it isnt true. Look at your friends and tell me they are dating the best guy ever. You cannot do that save for maybe one or two couples. Those are the girls that have matured already and realized what they had been missing. They are just lucky that the guy stuck around with her. I admit, there are exceptions to this theory. But me personally, I only know maybe 4 or 5 girls who do not fit this mold. They are genuinely happy with their relationship and everyone knows it. They arent putting up a front. They arent hypocritical. They arent ignorant. But I can guarantee that you cannot find many more than that that are that genuine. At least not now. At least not until they realize how bad they have been and come to their senses. But by then, will it be too late? Girls shape up and look around you. Look at the truly amazing guys around you that would make your lives better just for being with them. Stop hurting those guys. You are hurting yourself, too. Think about it." :cry:

[nrg]

she has a penis.

[HKsilvia]

^ wow thx for 6 paragraphs that pointing out girls are idiots... but for real, i read every word of it.

to Matt...
as far as i read the threads i know that u are 17... and you have this relatioin for 2 months... i feel you, more than u feel urself....its sux, like tear ur heart out with bare hands, u feel like u are dying but u just cant die, u dont feel like stepping on gas in ur car neither in corners or straight way, but all of a sudden u would drive like crazy becoz u dont care u crash and die...am i right?(well..maybe some of them)
your best cure is time, by the time u move on, u will feel better

im 22, a year ago, i broke up with my gf, 4.5 years blown to shit, but worst of all, it only happened in 4 weeks time. that time i was working as a truck driver from dawn to night, i was hella tired when i get home and this become a reason she left me, in this 4 weeks she met another guy and good enough for her to sleep with him!!!! alright, i try to save it, but guess what! she dumped me, she beg me not to bother her again!! imagine you was kissing this girl a month ago and now she treat u like a homeless. i was about to propose to her, i even was choosing the ring and wow i got owned i cant sleep well for at least 9 months and even now i woke up all of a sudden at midnight because i heard her voice in my head. i spent my last birthday, christmas, and valentines day alone!!!
just want to let u know... u are not alone
time will cure u, but the best way to recover depends on yourself. good luck and chill out bro.:)

[silversr]

Stop feeling sorry for urself theres alot of bitches out there , if u really wanted her 13 yr old sister go for it, u know wat they say if theres grass on the field play ball:naughty:

[SiI40sx]

ok thats it im tired of all of u, i have to throw this out for u guys to chew on

TOM LYKES (sp?)

97.1 Free FM!! For the socal area


you guys NEED him, if ur single and not in a serious committed relationship, TAKE HIS ADVICE, LISTEN TO HIM EVERYDAY and I promise u our life WILL be better =)

I just saved, all u single guys out there, ur lives and money!!

[SimpleSexy180]

"i feel you, more than u feel urself....its sux, like tear ur heart out with bare hands, u feel like u are dying but u just cant die, u dont feel like stepping on gas in ur car neither in corners or straight way, but all of a sudden u would drive like crazy becoz u dont care u crash and die...am i right?(well..maybe some of them)
your best cure is time, by the time u move on, u will feel better"

damn i felt that before.

but for advice..your best cure is time seriously.

[WERDdabuilder]

M.O.B.

just got out of a 2 year relationship not to long ago. never doing it again. chicks are fucked and are just drama.

[Kn1ves]

shes not that hot.

iuno if that makes u feel better or worse

[Sean1978]

Highschool girls are stupid.

A lot of the "cool" guys in HS can't get laid by the time they are 22 (like my little brother, he was a "cool" jock in HS now he's a loser)

Whack off more often, don't get hung up on the love shit. You won't really know who you are until you are out of HS for a few years... neither will the girls. Don't fuck up the rest of your life by having kids or getting married before you are AT LEAST 21.

[AdoriPimp]

+1 To That ^^^^^

Iono but its 7 mf am and I haven't gotten any sleep and I didnt read shit but what the original poster said n the one above

Don't even trip, Girls come n go. Fuck that love shit, I had a grl for 2.5 years, droped her and got with a hotter younger one the same week. Dam im a whore, fuck it

[Ninjabread]

Haha, thanks for all the advice guys.... I think right now I just gotta keep myself distracted with work and hopefully end up buying that 240 that i want... I met Mr_240sx at a local car show yesterday and i must say, DAMN his car looks alot better in person than on pictures, and he was truly an inspiration to me. On top of having a nice ass car, he's a really nice guy and hey, guess what, we have the same name lol!

P.S. I know my cam says may 3rd i think but my bday is actually may 4th


-Matt-

[wickdmarz]

look I know I am 16 and all but hey I think I got this dead on. or ateast close. shit flmae me if U want but in a away I guess I get kinda serious think alot when I am emo. :-/

:madfawk: "Philosophy on Girls This is not intended to offend anyone. But I think it is a very accurate portrayal. Girls are hypocrites that screw over guys all the time. I say this with complete confidence and certainty. I have had experiences and know of others that have had similar experiences, and let me tell you it is complete bullshit. Read on.

First off, lets go over what most girls think the ideal guy is. The ideal guy is an intelligent, caring and easy to talk to person, who has a good sense of humor and respect for his family. He is good looking, but not necessarily gorgeous, and an honest guy with goals in his life. He is not an excessive smoker or drinker, and never, ever is arrogant or stuck on himself. He is a pleasure to be around. Wow. That sounds perfect. There is no way there is a guy out there that is all of these things, it would be a dream come true. But the fact is, there are so many guys out there that are exactly like this, and even better. They go beyond this list and further hoist themselves up on the Ideal Guy hierarchy ladder. But these are the guys that are the most shit upon by girls. How much sense does that make? Read on.

Girls are hypocrites. They say that their ideal man, and the one they are currently hoping for, should be very much like what was described in the previous paragraph. What is more, they all probably know at least 3 or more guys that are exactly like that. But instead of noticing and entering into a relationship with them, they totally shun these poor guys.

Ok, so maybe I should not say totally shun; its more like damn them to an eternal life of ..1 Friend or ..1 Listener. While these guys would like nothing more than to be boyfriend/girlfriend with these girls, the girls want nothing of that sort. Because they have been labeled as friends, those damn girls dont even consider these guys as boyfriend material, thus their search goes on. They dont realize that the best guy they could ever hope for is so damn close to them. They are ignorant. They get the assholes instead. Why do girls like assholes? Here is what I think. These guys are temporary boyfriends until the girls can find that perfect man. But once they get involved with these assholes, the girl must put in so much work that the search is put offindefinitely. They pour all that they have into their current relationship. Why do they do this? I am glad you asked that, I believe I have the answer. They are embarrassed. These meat headed guys embarrass these girls so much that all they try to do is change the guy, but she forgets about their asshole ways and arrogance. You cannot change a guy. Dont even try. No matter how sweet or persuasive you THINK you are, it will not work. A temporary behavior change may be noted, but a guy is a guy and will not change permanently. Deep down, the only thing you are doing is pissing him off.

These assholes think that they are perfect already. You trying to teach them how to be the perfect guy only goes against everything he already knows is right, so he pushes you away. When he pushes you away, what do you do? You cry to that ..1 Friend of yours. Then you are extra nice to your boyfriend until he allows you to get closer again, and then you start the process over. I dont know how many times I have been cried to by a girl about her asshole boyfriend, and the next day everything is right again and she is happy as can be. You arent happy. It is a front that you put up and everyone can see through it. Do you honestly expect for it to get better? It wont. The cycle will repeat: he will get mad; you will cry; you will try to make up for it; he will let you back; you think you are happyit doesnt end. It should endend with you dumping his sorry ass and moving on to someone you actually can be happy with. But you are too stubborn and confident in your abilities of persuasion to do anything even remotely correct. Meanwhile, the perfect guy (ok maybe not perfect, but a hell of a lot closer than that ass you already have) sits around wondering what he can do to change. But remember what I said before. You cant change a guy.

This goes for guys, too. You cant change yourself. You will always be the person you are, and you shouldnt want to change that. But it is tough when time after time girls pass on you because You are too good of a friend and I wouldnt want to jeopardize that. Bullshit. Nice excuse. Why dont you just say Sorry, you are actually a nice guy. I am looking for an arrogant asshole that will abuse me emotionally. Thats what you really want, isnt it? Look around and tell me it isnt true. Look at your friends and tell me they are dating the best guy ever. You cannot do that save for maybe one or two couples. Those are the girls that have matured already and realized what they had been missing. They are just lucky that the guy stuck around with her. I admit, there are exceptions to this theory. But me personally, I only know maybe 4 or 5 girls who do not fit this mold. They are genuinely happy with their relationship and everyone knows it. They arent putting up a front. They arent hypocritical. They arent ignorant. But I can guarantee that you cannot find many more than that that are that genuine. At least not now. At least not until they realize how bad they have been and come to their senses. But by then, will it be too late? Girls shape up and look around you. Look at the truly amazing guys around you that would make your lives better just for being with them. Stop hurting those guys. You are hurting yourself, too. Think about it." :cry:

Damn I'm not gonna read any of this but I imagine there's alot of bitching in it.

...Most women are bitches and most men are assholes, it's all about how much you can tolerate from someone...that's love baby.

[exitspeed]

Since when did Zilvia turn in to DR. Phil forums?


Here's my honest and wise old advice...

HS girls are dumb.

There's more.

You'll live. It's not the end of the world. Don't go all Emo cause of a girl.

It's a life lesson, don't worry there will be more to come. Make sure you take notes.

Be sellfish at your age.

[WilloW]

Highschool girls are stupid.

A lot of the "cool" guys in HS can't get laid by the time they are 22 (like my little brother, he was a "cool" jock in HS now he's a loser)

Whack off more often, don't get hung up on the love shit. You won't really know who you are until you are out of HS for a few years... neither will the girls. Don't fuck up the rest of your life by having kids or getting married before you are AT LEAST 21.
Highschool girls are stupid, they change their mind like they're changing their panties. Go out to the bars and have some fun with your friends. Her behavior is really immature for you to be too concern with anyway. Just think if it like this, if it ain't now then it will be later. Wouldn't you rather that you find out how she is now than years down the road when the dumb cow think that she has found a better guy? Good luck

[SoSideways]

I agree with pretty much what everyone has said already, so I'm not gonna sit here and retype it out.

But there are a few points I do want to point out for you as I've been down the road before as well:

1) Highschool girls ARE stupid/dumb/immature.
2) College is just ahead. Seriously, go to your nearest college, or at least the one you're gonna be attending, and just hang out on campus for a day. Preferrably a day within the first week of a major semester (fall semester's a good start) because quite frankly, nobody goes on campus anymore after the first couple of weeks hahaha But anyways, yeah, spend a day there and just check out the uber amount of uber hot chics that are AVAILABLE and want to PARTY! You won't even remember that bitch that just dumped you's first name :naughty: :coolugh:
3) Use protection! Seriously, nobody's gonna call you an asshole for wrapping it up. And you definitely don't wanna be a baby-daddy at the age of 18 :ugh:
4) Don't be a pussy and go talk to other girls. College chics dig guys that are confident. Just don't be over confident and go up to them and be like "hey, wanna fuck?" The ones that say yes to that probably have the HIV and you need to stay the hell away from those bitches :aw:

That's about all from me.

There are a ton of fun years ahead of you, don't let this stupid hoebag mess you up.

Go out and have fun with your friends, chill, watch movies, work on cars, do whatever, keep yourself busy and you wouldn't even have time to think about this chic that just dumped you.

Keep your head up, and since you're now single, GAME ON!! :bigok:

[s14slide]

My last take on this is to remind yourself every day that there are more fish in the sea than there are mouths to feed. So get your fill before you try and land the big one.

[TougeRacing]

i found this to be plenty of help in times of pain.
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y120/red_eyed_yoshi/Maddox.png

[S13Eye]

I haven't had a girlfriend in like 3 years. Cars are so much cooler - they help me cope with the crushing loneliness.

[Ninjabread]

/insert sarcasm?

[SimpleS14]

bardabe - Have cliffnotes on that post?


Anyways....like most people have said...forget that girl and move on. Your too damn young...trust us when we say there are more (and better) girls out there. Your just going to mess up your game if you're stuck thinking about one girl. I can't believe the legal age is 14 in Canada!!! and now they want to raise it to 16...WTF?!?!


Now granted I'm older than you and have more skills haha....you can try to do what I have right now...and that's a FWB.

[slider2828]

Please please listen to Tom LYCUS

http://www.blowmeuptom.com/

Lycus fans please represent cause what he says is ALL true. He shows you the ropes in the game. For all you son's of Tom out there, TAKE ME OUT KOBE STYLE. !!!

[aznpoopy]

she's dumb.

move on.

[Ninjabread]

Haha simples14.... you think 14 is too young or too old?! and what is FWB

[Irukandji]

Guys are dumb , and girls are bitches

that's why we don't get along. think about it

[trsilvias13]

you have to live the racer's life

smoke weed
bang bitches
race your car


haha

[Irukandji]

you have to live the racer's life

smoke weed
bang bitches
race your car


haha


you forgot to add "rob panasonic dvd delievery trucks to fund your cars"

[d*star180]

she has a penis.

:rofl: :Owned:

[EchoOfSilence]

I'm on a break with mine, don't mind the user-text i'm lazy

3 years of knowing her and it's down to where we need to be on a break, i won't say more. I know it sucks but be yourself and try to handle your own shit and be yourself. You weren't with her long enough

[Ninjabread]

:rofl: :Owned:

:(

msglenghtmsglenghtmsglenghtmsnglesngt

[JDMB0iKT]

she has a penis.

:keke: :rofl:

[Ninjabread]

Bah, wtv nrg, i know that's how you like it too:fawkd:

[SiI40sx]

Please please listen to Tom LYCUS

http://www.blowmeuptom.com/

Lycus fans please represent cause what he says is ALL true. He shows you the ropes in the game. For all you son's of Tom out there, TAKE ME OUT KOBE STYLE. !!!

hahahaaha i soo pictured it in my head!! "u so special, u mean so much to me" hahaha but hey!! i posted lykes 101 first !!!

[ESone3]

you know what I say?

[email protected]!

[Helghast]

wow, reading sucks.

[theicecreamdan]

wow... I'm gonna say something that might make a lot of you people feel somewhat offended. Most of you are not healthy enough mentally to handle a relationship. You really need to be 100% OK by yourself to be able to handle the life of somebody in a relationship. "NEEDing" somebody is a weakness, girls will sense that and that is not something they want in a man. A man might like this girl, and enjoy her company. But if she blows him off he will go hang out with his friends, work on his car, etc.

On to women now... they aren't stupid, they aren't bitches... they are emotional. Men are logical, that's why we don't "understand" them, they don't do what people SHOULD do, they do what they FEEL like they should do.
If you try to make yourself feel better by just thinking that girls are bitches, you are going to end up with a lifetime of relationship issues.

[SimpleS14]

Haha simples14.... you think 14 is too young or too old?! and what is FWB

14 is too young...gawd that's weird

and FWB = Friend with benefits...I have the ideal one....loves to cook for me, actually likes my car, I can sleep with her anytime and on top of that has no problem with me talking or getting with other girls....best friend EVAR :bigok: lol

[Ninjabread]

Well, maybe its young for you because you are older... i'm not saying i would do a 14 year old... but come to think of it...that's eight grade... yucky

[SimpleS14]

wow... I'm gonna say something that might make a lot of you people feel somewhat offended. Most of you are not healthy enough mentally to handle a relationship. You really need to be 100% OK by yourself to be able to handle the life of somebody in a relationship. "NEEDing" somebody is a weakness, girls will sense that and that is not something they want in a man. A man might like this girl, and enjoy her company. But if she blows him off he will go hang out with his friends, work on his car, etc.

On to women now... they aren't stupid, they aren't bitches... they are emotional. Men are logical, that's why we don't "understand" them, they don't do what people SHOULD do, they do what they FEEL like they should do.
If you try to make yourself feel better by just thinking that girls are bitches, you are going to end up with a lifetime of relationship issues.


Best post in the thread (seriously)...and I'm not offended at all.

[downshift_sideways]

Lets all listen to Dashboard Confessional and think about all our EX's.

Then listen to some Atreyu and hate them bitches!

whos down?

[P4rD0nM3]

I just read your first post...didn't bother to read the other replies...

Think of it this way...

It's her lost not yours...if you haven't done anything wrong...it's her fucking lost.

17 yrs old man...gotta have some faith.

Remember this...


GIRLS HAVE EXPIRATION DATES!

MEN DON'T! WUHOO! FTW!

Disclaimer: Just a funny quote...peace! Don't take it personal if you're a girl - I gota be safe ya know...hehe.

[mr_240sx]

hey matt,

well honestly just talk to her and let her know how you feel, then tell her you will give her space for her to think about everything. this way if she comes back to you then its cause she likes you if not, then dont lose sleep over because trust me man, ottawa has lots of broads! :P

the way isee it is, if it doesnt work out, its for a reason, its cause theres another girl for you!

[HKsilvia]

wow... I'm gonna say something that might make a lot of you people feel somewhat offended. Most of you are not healthy enough mentally to handle a relationship. You really need to be 100% OK by yourself to be able to handle the life of somebody in a relationship. "NEEDing" somebody is a weakness, girls will sense that and that is not something they want in a man. A man might like this girl, and enjoy her company. But if she blows him off he will go hang out with his friends, work on his car, etc.

On to women now... they aren't stupid, they aren't bitches... they are emotional. Men are logical, that's why we don't "understand" them, they don't do what people SHOULD do, they do what they FEEL like they should do.
If you try to make yourself feel better by just thinking that girls are bitches, you are going to end up with a lifetime of relationship issues.

very very very very true...u just hit the point and got a 1-up

btw, finding that girl again is not a good idea...she might just think u are annoying and loser

[Ninjabread]

haha it's true there is alot of hot girls here in ottawa... and yea everything is pretty much fine now, and like you said, matt, if she comes back, then it was meant to be, and if not, then it wasn't. In the meantime, I'll have my fun.

peace,

-Matt-

[mr_240sx]

yeah continue living like you never went out with her this way your not stuck waiting around for her.... go have some fun with other girls and if she comes back then super if not then no biggie because youll probably be with another girl anyways eheheh

[trsilvias13]

Just go out with your friends and forget about it. Have fun and enjoy. Enjoy your summer ( you are 17 and still have summers).

I would suggest going out and drinking but you need to be 19 to drink in Canada. If it happen to be, I would be at the bars, clubs, any with my friends just having fun.

[Ninjabread]

Umm yea you dont need to be 19... 18 in quebec, and if u have a fake, any age will do lol.

*Edit* haha suck to you Americans... you have to be 21 lol! And the worse thing is Canada has less accidents caused by drunk driving than in the states.. go figure... its a bit like how the autobahn has no speed limit and allllllot less accidents.. but when they happen, they are fatal.

[theicecreamdan]

Umm yea you dont need to be 19... 18 in quebec, and if u have a fake, any age will do lol.

*Edit* haha suck to you Americans... you have to be 21 lol! And the worse thing is Canada has less accidents caused by drunk driving than in the states.. go figure... its a bit like how the autobahn has no speed limit and allllllot less accidents.. but when they happen, they are fatal.

I think that has a lot more to do with population density than drinking age.

and about getting back with her... no, she messed up. there's no reason she won't "crush" on some other guy next time and the time after that. You're likely to hold feelings from before your break up and from when she broke up with you, and she most likely won't be mature enough any time soon to handle a renewed relationship.

and "its not your loss, its hers" no... If you think that from the beginning it wasn't a relationship in the first place, both of you lost something, and both of you gained something too. Don't lose sleep over it though, it was something you really really do not need at this time of your life.

[bardabe]

bardabe - Have cliffnotes on that post?
uhm actually I didn;t me and my friend where talking about it one day (my girlfriend is like so much drama but I'm a special case I can say I <3 her it's just weird sometimes. and my friend well his relation ship is caca. so one day I was really Emo status and I wrote this. and hey what do you know today I got to click that Notepad file open copy and paste. :bigok:

[JVD]

Gayest thread ever. Dude, you're 17. It's not like this is the only girl you are ever going to meet. You act like you were going to get married or something. 2 months? Come on! Forget about her. Move on. Plenty of other (hotter) ladies out there.

[Ninjabread]

I dont trust people in the red:Ownedd:

[mRclARK1]

Originally posted by: theicecreamdan
and about getting back with her... no, she messed up. there's no reason she won't "crush" on some other guy next time and the time after that. You're likely to hold feelings from before your break up and from when she broke up with you, and she most likely won't be mature enough any time soon to handle a renewed relationship.

and "its not your loss, its hers" no... If you think that from the beginning it wasn't a relationship in the first place, both of you lost something, and both of you gained something too. Don't lose sleep over it though, it was something you really really do not need at this time of your life.

:werd:

He's got it right...IMHO once a person in relationship is disloyal to the other; it should end. It will only happen again sometime in the future. I've seen it many times; and I speak from expierience. Believe it or not...but you may even realize you don't want her back.

My advice...don't even bother dating in high school. You probably won't regret it later. I don't know you; and don't take this the wrong way...but most 17 year olds aren't ready, or mature enough, for any kind of involved relationship...I sure as hell wasn't when I was that age.:rofl:

It'll be all behind you sooner than you think.

[Akiros]

Bro's before Ho's ... nuff said.

[Ninjabread]

^^ At this point I agree... slightly OT but I went to see POTC last night... wasn't so bad, but not as a good as I expected. Also, I'm be going to take a look at porsche 924 today that my dad found... He wants me to buy it, but it's because he really wants it, i'll let you guys know more when I come back. And good news for Matt, he might be getting his 240 sooner than he tought!

peace,

-Matt-

[SimpleSexy180]

I dont trust people in the red:Ownedd:


PWNT!!!111 :)

[95zilvia]

If there's grass on the field playball.

[theicecreamdan]

if not, go around back and play in the mud

[SiI40sx]

haha it's true there is alot of hot girls here in ottawa... and yea everything is pretty much fine now, and like you said, matt, if she comes back, then it was meant to be, and if not, then it wasn't. In the meantime, I'll have my fun.

peace,

-Matt-

omg dude seriously ur 17!!! u are so not going to get married to this girl!! listen to urself u sound pathetic, sorry to be harsh but u need to seriously be more open minded becuz i kno exactly to the very small point how ur thinking about her right now, theres no such thing as ment to be at 17!! everything from 17-25 honestly, take like a learning experience, getting strength from all those relationships youll have becuz when u get married youll need all that to know what your doing in a real "ment to be" relationship. Marriage isnt just about lovey lovey shit, its a partnership, friendship, business partner, you guys want to try to help eachother out and lift eachother up to succeed, seriously dude, your 17, start realizing it

[kY.gordon]

you learned something didnt you? but yea man what dosent kill you will only make you stronger. next relationship will be better if you apply the lesson.

trust me you dont want to get back with her, 2nd time around is different. you miss her and what you 2 had. trust me, even if you get back with her, it wont be the same at all.

girls spend money, your money LOL. good time to enjoy your money with youself and your car! enjoy the single life for a while man. high school and college is all about the parties and meeting girls. you wont be able to do that with a lover at home. you wont be able to do that when your older. enjoy it. love is for old people.

[Ninjabread]

If there's grass on the field playball.

Haha that's twice in this thread... dont think her parents would like me too much after that happens though lol. Come to think of it, her sister has been really anoying since we broke up...bahh screw her.

[Edgar]

Dude you're 17 enough said...plently of fish in the sea. If she plays games this early in a relationship when it's wonderful, exciting and new then she's not gonna last. Just relax and don't stress out over it you're too young.

-Advice from a chicka

I couldnt agree anymore. Just move on bro.

[theicecreamdan]

nobody put in the most important advice ever... PIIDB